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  • I'm married but crazy in love with someone else?

    Okay so I met my husband when I was 18 and got married 2 months later (a rushed decision I now regret). We have been married a little over a year and we have nothing in common. I'm not even sure I was in love with him. But I do know that I'm in love with a guy I've known for almost 7 years. We've always been close friends and there's always been some attraction and flirting but now it's grown into something I've never experienced before. I truly love him. Well me and my husband went through some stuff and almost divorced and I was fine with it until the moment he actually left. All of a sudden I was so hurt and begged him to come back. I decided to cease contact with this other man and focus on my marriage but instead of me missing him less over time it just gets harder and harder. He wants to be with me so badly but I'm married and I want to be with him also although he's not going to wait forever. I know "the grass always seems greener on the other side" but I'm so torn its emotionally tearing me apart. My husband is such a good man but I'm so in love with this other guy it's driving me crazy not being able to talk to him and share my life with him.

    11 AnswersMarriage & Divorce8 years ago
  • My dog all of a sudden has started to potty inside the house?!?

    So I have a 1 yr old german shepard rottweiler mix and she has always been an angel and we have never had a problem with her being house trained. We rescued her and she has been house trained since day 1. Now we are fostering another dog and she has started to potty inside all the time! We take them outside enough to where this should never be an issue, but I'm thinking it might be a jealousy thing. She poops more than anything, usually pees outside. I did change her food but this started a few days before I changed her food, about the day after the other dog arrived. It has gotten to the point where I have to leave her in the kennel all day unless we go outside because I just can't take it anymore!! I punish her and try to use the house training techniques but nothing is working!! If anyone knows what could possibly be wrong please help me out!

    2 AnswersDogs8 years ago
  • How do I know what to do about my marriage?

    I am very confused about my marriage. We are about to have our 1 year anniversary in a few days but I'm not in love with him anymore. I can't do anything with him the way we used to. I want to fall in love with him again but it's just not happening. We've tried marriage counseling and everything. During our marriage I had an affair with someone else and fell in love with him (I have known him much longer than my husband). I felt guilty and told my husband and stopped talking to him. But still, he is all I can think about. Everyday I fantasize about leaving my husband to be with him, but I know the grass always seems greener and I don't want to give up the man I have if it's possible to ever be happy again with my husband

    8 AnswersMarriage & Divorce8 years ago
  • I want to leave my husband for another man?

    My situation is a bit complicated. I got married at 18, and now a year later I don't know what I want. I am still in school and I've moved across the country for this man, which means giving up all I ever knew. Now I am stuck in a state that I don't like with no friends. I feel smothered, even though he works 12 hours a day. Sometimes I am happy, sometimes I'm not. I made a mistake and had an affair with another guy I've known for a very long time, and we have always both had mutual feelings. I shouldn't have acted on them, but I did and my husband forgave me. I fell in love with this other guy and now he's all I can think about. I know "the grass always seems greener", but being so young it makes me question if I should be with my husband. He loves me to death and does everything for me, I feel bad for feeling this way but I can't help it. The other guy lives across the country too, and I can't stop trying to think of ways to see him. Sometimes I think I love my husband, but I'm not "in love" with him. And I don't think this is just a new and exciting feeling with the other guy, I've known him for 6 years. I just feel like this is all bottling up inside my head and I don't know what to do. I want to leave, but I just don't know if I can. Since I am so young, I just don't want to miss the right guy if he comes along (assuming it's not my husband). I know I swore under god "til death do us part" but I just want to be happy again. I don't want to divorce at 19 years old, but I want what is best for me, even though that may sound selfish.

    6 AnswersMarriage & Divorce8 years ago
  • Leaving my marriage for someone else?

    In my situation I am stuck in Florida (because of school). My husband moved to Texas for work and I really like this guy who lives in Ohio. I am moving next semester, but I can't decide where to go. Me and my husband have had plenty of problems. He had lied to me about some really important stuff, but I have also lied. We don't have a very healthy relationship but some days I do want to be with him. It is off and on, sometimes I can't stand him and want out but sometimes I try to think that we can start over and try to make it work. We got married after only knowing each other for 2 months! I know, huge mistake. I am also only 19 years old, another huge mistake to marry so young. On the other hand, I have known the guy in Ohio for 6 years and have always had feelings for him, the timing of our relationships just never worked out and now our feelings are stronger than ever. He treats me like a queen and I even went to visit him a few weeks ago, and had an affair. Me and my husband were "seperated" kinda at the time, so we just went on with our lives. He really does want to be with me more than anything and I want so badly to be able to finally be with him. But now I either have the chance to go with my husband and try to make things work and see if I can be happy or go to Ohio and be with him. The odds are against my marriage, marrying so young. And if we are going to divorce I'd rather it be sooner than later, less heart ache. He is such a good man and loves me so very much but I can't help how I feel, and I just don't know if it's really going to last. Has anyone ever left their marriage to be with someone else, and if so how did it turn out?

    4 AnswersMarriage & Divorce8 years ago
  • I am 19 years old and don't know if I want a divorce?

    First off, I know I made a mistake by getting married at 18 years old. I should have listened to everyone, but I didn't. My husband moved to Texas for work, and I live in Florida because I go to school here. Lately I just don't feel into the relationship. There is also someone else I have feelings for, and I have known him for a very long time. I am not making any quick decisions about being with him though. It just makes me think.. If I really wanted to be with my husband I wouldn't have these feelings. I never wanted to get a divorce this young, I just want to do what's right for me. My husband loves me so much and I hate hurting him, but I can't help the way I feel. Basically, what I'm asking is how do you know when you want a divorce? How do you feel when you know it's over?

    7 AnswersMarriage & Divorce8 years ago
  • Can i finish 3 one semester classes in FLVS in 2 months?

    I'm really smart and i'm motivated to work as hard as possible.

  • Random stomachaches throughout the day and fatigue?

    Is that even a sign of pregnancy at all?

    I'm only 16, so i don't really know much.

    My friend said that it could be.

    I took a prego test but it was a cheap one and it was a few weeks ago.

    I'm a few days late this month too.

    I've been feeling like this for a few weeks now.

    Sometimes it's just an ache and sometimes it's a cramp.

    And they show up randomly throughout the day.


    4 AnswersPregnancy1 decade ago