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  • Am I obsessed with this guy?

    The thing is that I haven’t seen him in 3 years. I’m in college now. I was in love with him in high school I still am in love with him. But I don’t know why I love him. He’s beautiful, but it’s more than lust. I just love him for some reason. We’ve only talked like twice like small talk. I have no idea what kind of person he is, but when I’m angry, the thought of him calms me down. And when I’m anxious, the thought of him calms me down. It’s like magic.

    And it’s been 3 years, but I think about him almost everyday. And so many things remind me of him. Just when I start to forget him, I have a wonderful dream about him, like a thousand times.

    What is happening to me? Has anyone else felt this way? I am obsessed with him? Is this unhealthy?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating6 years ago
  • what do I do when I feel like good things aren't really happening?

    I've been talking to this guy that I really, really like, and he think he likes me too. Things are going really well. He's everything I've always wanted. It just feels right. But lately I've been compulsively obsessing over the question of is this really happening? Like is it too good to be true? I know it seems so stupid that this thought even crossed my mind. Why is it bothering me so much? I keep asking myself, does he really exist? But of course he really exists. What else would he be? This is causing me a lot of stress and depression. I just want to be happy again and enjoy spending time with him. I keep wondering if I'm crazy, but they say that real insane people don't know that they crazy. What is wrong with me? Is this part of OCD? Has anyone else felt this way before, and how do you stop it? How do you let go of the compulsion and just be happy?

    1 AnswerMental Health6 years ago
  • How can I help my friend who was sexually assaulted?

    We are in college. My friend told me that she went to a wild party, got drunk, and went to a guy's room. She didn't know he was expecting sex. She didn't know what to do. So she did some "sexual acts" for him and he gave her many painful hickeys. He called her names when she tried to leave. He threatened her into sex, but she finally left before they could have intercourse.

    I still see this as sexual assault. I think what that guy did was illegal.

    This friend is very important to me. We have a huge connection, and sooooo much in common. I really want to be there for her. I want to say the right thing, and I want her to know that she can rely on me. I want to do everything I can to make everything better for her.

    But I've never been in a situation like that, and I've never had a friend tell me about one. I'm so afraid of saying the wrong things or not knowing how to help. I don't want her to give up on me.

    This is so important! I've said to her already, "You're a good person. Just because you regret it, it doesn't make you a bad person." "i don't think any less of you." "it's gonna be ok." "it will only make you stronger." "these things happen." "i'm here for you if you ever want to talk." i was supportive, i gave her hugs.

    am i doing the right things? did i do anything wrong? how can i help even more? do u think she'll give up on me?

    PLEASE help me.

    1 AnswerFriends7 years ago
  • Are focus catholic missionaries allowed to date the students they are involved with?

    Catholic missionaries. I know they go "dating fasts" their first year of being a missionary, but can they date students after the first year? I am a female student at a university who has a crush on a male missionary at my school. He is NOT a 1st year! and i know he can't date anyone he has to report to. but can i date him? or is he not allowed to date students? Please give me sources and a detailed answer! I need to know!

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • Bisexual girl in love with catholic, straight girl?

    I know that there is such thing as a catholic lesbian, but this girl i like is straight......but the thing with being catholic (i know, i was raised one) is that most catholic girls never question their sexuality. they just only focus on men. i mean, i know, this girl likes guys, but what if she likes girls too, and doesn't know it yet?

    I know i should give up on the whole thing, cuz she'l probly choose a guy over me.... but has anyone else been in this situation? should i give up? or should i try to see how she feels about the whole thing?

  • Which country would you consider the "head" of Europe?

    Like the leader, the strongest, the one the other countries look to for help and protection. In any way?

    8 AnswersHistory8 years ago
  • Poll: What is your sexual orientation?

    Just one simple answer will do. Straight, Gay, Bi, confused, questioning, asexual, etc.

  • Is she just using me? What should I do?

    So I'm a freshman girl at college with a group of four friends, but I am friends with other people who are not in my group. In the beginning of the semester, one of the girls that I am friends with(Rebecca), but wasn't in my group, kept asking me if she could eat with us at the dining hall and hang with us and go where we go. So of course I said yes. I love making friends, and I strive to grow my friend group. But I noticed that she would hardly talk to us, and always ditch us for other people. There's this other group of girls that Rebecca seems to be very interested. She tries to hang out with them, but if they are not around or didn't invite Rebecca, Rebecca asks to hang with us. But she seems so bored with us, and then when those girls come, her face lights up and she leaves us.

    But all this time, I've not been sure what to do about it. I've always been the nice girl that helps people out, understands them, and is a little "too" forgiving (according to some people).

    so I should i keep being nice to Rebecca since she is living in our suite next year? or should I put my foot down? or something in between?

    5 AnswersFriends8 years ago
  • How did you meet the love of your life?

    They say that time stops when you first see the love of your life. Is this true?

    Hello. I am a young, 19 year old college freshman girl, who only had one boyfriend when i was 14. So, I met someone the other day who i think is the one for me, but i seem to think a lot about anyone i fancy.... so i'm wondering: is time supposed to stop or you just know? If YOU know who the love of your life is, all you have to do is tell me what happened the first time you saw him/her. and if you knew or not at that moment if he/she was the one. that's all. so quick.

    Thank you so much!!!! I am so young, and i really want to know what true love is like. :)))

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • What do you think about Cheating?

    Would you cheat on your partner? If you did, would you break with her/him? or would you keep cheating? or would never tell her/him? or do you stick to one person at a time?

    What about being cheated on? How do you feel about that? Would you give a second chance? or would you end it right there? If you weren't sure, would you confront? or maybe you don't even care?

    What about cheating with? Would you date/sleep with someone who is in a relationship? Would you want him/her to break up with his/her partner? Or would not care if they stayed together? Do you want to be the only lover? or you are casual about who he/she dates/sees? If the one you loved was taken, would you walk away from it all and give up? Or would you date/sleep with him anyway? Would you try to break them up?

    Give me all the detail you possibly can think of. CHEATING ON, BEING CHEATED ON, & CHEATING WITH. All three! What do you do, prefer, feel about it all. This also applies to marriage. Open relationships, or exclusive? Your own unique, personal morals, values, and rules. :)

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • What are your personal morals on relationship fidelity?

    Would you cheat on your partner? If you did, would you break with her/him? or would you keep cheating? or would never tell her/him? or do you stick to one person at a time?

    What about being cheated on? How do you feel about that? Would you give a second chance? or would you end it right there? If you weren't sure, would you confront? or maybe you don't even care?

    What about cheating with? Would you date/sleep with someone who is in a relationship? Would you want him/her to break up with his/her partner? Or would not care if they stayed together? Do you want to be the only lover? or you are casual about who he/she dates/sees? If the one you loved was taken, would you walk away from it all and give up? Or would you date/sleep with him anyway? Would you try to break them up?

    Give me all the detail you possibly can think of. CHEATING ON, BEING CHEATED ON, & CHEATING WITH. All three! What do you do, prefer, feel about it all. This also applies to marriage. Open relationships, or exclusive? Your own unique, personal morals, values, and rules. :)

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Do I have a chance with a Senior?

    So, I am a freshman girl at college and he is a senior boy at college. we met in group counseling and i know he has a girlfriend, but they only started dating. plus....he's been flirting we me a lot, helping me out, and just being so nice! i've been trying to ignore him since he is taken....but his charm captured me. so now i've fallen. and i love him. and he's amazing. and he probably likes me too based on his compliments and flirtations. so i don't need any advice, i just wanna know how to deal with loving a senior who is graduating this month? also, is there a chance he will come back for grad school?

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Why do African-Americans tend to be close with Hispanics, and exclude other ethnic groups?

    Just been noticing a pattern at my university and wondering, why?

    11 AnswersOther - Cultures & Groups8 years ago
  • How can we (people) keep a calm and postive attitude no matter what life throws at us?

    Someone once said we must keep an inner peace no matter the actions of others. ok.... but how? and how can we stay positive and calm no matter what happens in life? like tragedies? or even just a lot of stress from school? how do we remain happily stable?

    2 AnswersPsychology8 years ago
  • My lesbian friend has a crush on me?

    So, I am a bisexual girl. and I'm almost certain that my friend (who's a girl) is lesbian. I mean, she doesn't like talking about boys and love, and she's been giving me these weird looks and smiles lately. So, I'm almost certain she has a crush on me. But just because I'm bi, I don't have feelings for her. The problems is that we're gonna be roommates next semester!! She would make a very good roommate, but I don't really want to be living with her if she has a crush on me. But i don't really have any other options :( How do I know if she likes me that way? should i talk to her? and how do i deal with rooming with her? i need all the expertise I can get.

  • How do I make friends when everyone is settled into cliques?

    I'm in my 2nd semester of college, and i have friends. but I don't see the harm in making some more. I kinda need some more just to see what kind of ppl could be better friends to me than the ones I have. But how do i do that when everyone else doesn't want anymore friends? and why the hell do these people reject any chance for a new friend???!!! i really don't understand why some people think they have ENOUGH friends.....

    anyway, i think i can more friends next semester when the new freshmen come in, but how do i start making friends now?

    3 AnswersFriends8 years ago
  • What is your type of love interest?

    All straight and gay gentlemen, and all straight and gay ladies!! here here!! what is your type? of guy or girl? i mean like, appearance: hair color, eye color, skin shade, body shape, ethnicity, nationality, race, personality, characteristics. one type, or multiple types? or no types at all? i'm really interested in what people are attracted to. please proclaim. and please tell me how you look different from them, so that i can determine what types of people attract other types of people. (if this makes any sense.)

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Anyone feel scared when someone loves you?

    Every time a guy really loves me and wants to be with me, I get scared of them and push them away. Even if I love him, if he loves more than i love him, then it's too much for me, and push him away--aggressively if i have to. Is this common with girls? I'm not playing hard to get, I actually wish he would stop loving me. Maybe it's cuz I was molested when I was 4? maybe i am scared of being violated again? but if thats the case, it is subconscious. Just wondering if any other girl has felt this way? and why? and how i should deal with these guys?

    6 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • How to talk to a crush I'm terrified of?

    I'm a bisexual girl in college, in love with this bisexual girl on my floor. And there's no one at all I can tell about this. I tell people all the time about guys I like, but I'm not 'out' yet. It's funny cuz when I first met her, I was scared of her and thought she was annoying. but now I fell in love with her--only because she was giving me flirty looks. But my love goes deeper than that. I can't really explain it, but I've never wanted someone so much. How do I talk to her even when I feel insanely terrified of her. She's pretty intimidating. I think I already know the answer. I just feel like opening up about this to people--even if i don't even know you on the other end.