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  • Why do I keep seeing this guy in my dreams? I've never dreamed about...?

    There is a guy at my university who I always seem to run into, particularly in the library.We make eye contact every once in a while. I would say I am intrigued by him but I feel reluctant to call my interest in him a "crush" because I have never spoken to him.---However one day when I was bored I did some major creeping and found out all about him via social media.

    Anyways, I've had quite a few dreams about him, usually they are somewhat romantic in nature.

    The thing is, I have had crushes on guys in the past that were borderline obsession, I remember wanted to have dreams about them but I never did, and at that time in my life he was all I ever thought about, I was completely infatuated.

    So I dont understand why I keep dreaming about him, could it mean something?

    4 AnswersDream Interpretation5 years ago
  • Why do I keep seeing this guy in my dreams? I've never dreamed about...?

    There is a guy at my university who I always seem to run into, particularly in the library.We make eye contact every once in a while. I would say I am intrigued by him but I feel reluctant to call my interest in him a "crush" because I have never spoken to him.---However one day when I was bored I did some major creeping and found out all about him via social media.

    Anyways, I've had quite a few dreams about him, usually they are somewhat romantic in nature.

    The thing is, I have had crushes on guys in the past that were borderline obsession, I remember wanted to have dreams about them but I never did, and at that time in my life he was all I ever thought about, I was completely infatuated.

    So I dont understand why I keep dreaming about him, could it mean something?

    1 AnswerDream Interpretation5 years ago
  • Is drawing comics of killing people I dont like taking it too far?

    The other day someone I know crossed a line and really insulted me, no one else seemed to care. So to calm down, I drew a comic of him getting killed in various ways, some of them are comical. Since then I've been drawing comics of everyone I can think of who wasnt nice to me, high school bullies, old teachers, etc. Is this taking it too far?, they are just drawings after all, and I'm not publishing them, but I am hanging them up on the wall in my room. A person like me has never and will never receive any form of "justice" for what they did to me, "living well" isnt an option, I dont think I would ever actually do what I draw, but I can't help but feel a little psycho.

    1 AnswerMental Health5 years ago
  • PLEASE HELP! I am very nervous about visiting a psychologist/ councilor tomorrow?

    For the past few year I haven't been doing to well, for various reasons but basically I have always suffered from a low self esteem but it's has gotten profoundly worse in the last couple of years. I loathe myself, I feel sad, I feel alone, I've been having suicidal thoughts. At this point I feel like I've been pushed into a corner and I can't fix this myself, all i can do it get help or die. So I decided to make an appointment with the counseling center at my university. I am really anxious about this I feel like I'll be judged or belittled. At this point I dont know if I can handle another person not taking me seriously saying the way I feel is ridiculous or my own fault.

    1 AnswerMental Health6 years ago
  • Have you ever bullied someone? Or participated in picking on someone?

    when was it?(high school, middle school etc)

    did you ever see them after graduation?

    9 AnswersPolls & Surveys6 years ago
  • I had a "romantic" dream about a guy who used to bully me in high school?

    I had a dream that this guy who used to bully me in high school liked me. In the dream we were in some kind of room, a classroom maybe? He sat next to me, and started talking to me casually, he then mentioned he was an engineering major. The whole time I was just politely nodding. I remember being confused by his behavior, I was being very cautious in case it was a joke or something. He scooted closer to me, our legs and arms were touching, after a moment I scooted away from him. Then he rested his head on my shoulder, asleep, I kept shrugging his head off my shoulder. Then I dont remember how, but I remember him kissing me.

    I remember I wasnt repulsed by his actions, I might have welcomed them if I wasn't so suspicious that it was a joke. Despite everything he did to me, I have to admit he was pretty handsome and charming. I may have had a slight crush on him, he's one of those people, he's hard not to like. I hated myself for that.

    This dream sort of stuck out because it was very vivid, not to mention unusual.

    what could it mean?

    2 AnswersDream Interpretation6 years ago
  • WHAT WOULD YOU SAY If a website magically connected you to your true love?

    you cannot know the identity or location of your true love but you can talk to him/her.

    What would you say?

    4 AnswersPolls & Surveys6 years ago
  • Guys what do you think of girls who dont want kids?

    I dont want kids, I dont want to be a mother. I just want him.

    I'm certain I dont want to be a mother, and be responsible for a family. I just want to explore the world and experience new things.

    I always thought guys would be into this no kids thing, but it looks like a lot are turned off by it.

    What do you think?

    9 AnswersPolls & Surveys7 years ago
  • PLEASE HELP! I am so dumb I wish I was dead?

    My entire life I have been called stupid by everyone around me. My parents included. My dad is very intelligent he had a phd in science. Everyone in my family is very smart and they all do/did well in school. School has always been a struggle for me. I desperately wish I could enjoy school and enjoy learning like my peers but it's so difficult for me. I have been tested for a learning disability, they say I dont really have one (learning disability NOS).

    More than anything I want to be smart. I just want a taste of what it's like to have a brilliant mind. I would rather be smart than be stupid and happy.

    I hate myself because of how dumb I am. I am in college now and in all of my years in school I have never made a straight A report card.

    Everytime I try to study I panic, I think negative thoughts, I doubt myself. It's a nightmare. I just wish I could enjoy it. I dont know how.

    I have thought about killing myself for years ( since elementary school), but some small part of me wants to change and take down all those people who made fun of me.

    I want to change, but I dont know how to believe in myself, I never have, I have always loathed myself.

    I cant go to a psychologist (tried this, they just treated me sarcastically), I cant talk to my parents (they wont help) I dont trust anyone, I need to fix this myself.

    How do I change?

    5 AnswersPsychology7 years ago
  • (please help) I feel like I cant live a normal life because of my mother?

    I mean I do love her, but as I have gotten older and seen her with an adult's point of view the less and less I like her and have respect for her as a person.

    she used to make me feel inadequate, like I was the most worthless human being on the planet.She used to say all of her friends were lucky they got smart kids, and that she's unlucky she got stuck with me. She would say this to me, and in front of me. Whenever her friends insulted my intellect in front of her she would laugh along with them, and wouldnt even make an attempt to defend me. It really made me feel horrible, to this day I still have a very low self esteem. I used to believe her and blame myself, it was only when I got older than I realized she was totally out of line. She blames me for ruining her life. Whenever she buys me something, she holds it against me and uses it to make me feel guilty, everything is conditional

    She's really hurt me, and scarred me, I feel like I cant live a normal life. I mean I know she was wrong to treat me the way she did, but I still hate myself, I'm still working on my self esteem. I'm 21 now, I feel like I'm too damaged to be with anyone. I feel intimidated by everyone. I have no friends. I want to be happy, I want to do well in school, I want friends. I dont know how to like myself, I never have.

    I dont know what to do, I dont know how to change. I'm in college, but I find myself intimidated by everyone and everything. Is there any way I can change and feel normal?

    3 AnswersPsychology7 years ago
  • GUYS If you ask a girl out and she declines but offers to be friends with benefits, would you do it?

    Suppose she says she doesnt want to be in a relationship at the moment but she's down to be friends with benefits, would you do it?

    Is there an instance where you wouldnt do it?

    3 AnswersPolls & Surveys7 years ago
  • How can I be fine being alone?

    My whole life I have been alone, I have nobody to talk to, no one who really cares how I feel. I have parents, but I feel like an accessory. They dont love each other(arranged marriage), they didnt have me out of love, they just had me because they thought they ought to have a kid. They hate each other, and fight all the time. They care about me but dont care about how I feel. My mother resents me. They dont care much for spending time with me. Anytime I try to talk about my pain they brush it off or ignore me.

    I dont have any siblings, or cousins.

    I have no real friends I can talk to. All the friends I have ever had made me feel worse about myself, or use me, or both. This happens every time with every friend I have ever made. No guy has ever shown any interest in me.

    I have never fit in anywhere, I desperately wish I did. I have given up on people, I need to learn how to be okay with being alone. Even though that's essentially how I lived my life, I am always hoping I'll meet a good person to be my friend.

    How can I learn to be fine with being alone?

    4 AnswersPsychology7 years ago
  • PLEASE HELP How to I come to terms with the fact that I am an only child?

    I am an only child, I have no brothers or sisters.

    I have always wanted one. When I was little, I made up a fake sister named Daniel and told everyone in my class I has a cool older sister, and I would make up stories about me and her.

    As I get older it gets worse, now I see my friends and their siblings get along beautifully. I wish more than anything that I could have that.

    I feel so alone. Every time I hear a funny sibling story, I cry. I grew up alone, with no one to play with, no one to keep me company except myself. Even to this day, I have no one I an that close to.

    I dont have any close cousins. All of my friends have siblings, so they dont understand my desire to have a relationship like that. My parents are old and they wont be around much longer. When they die, I will be all alone.

    I have never been good with interacting with other people. hopes of making a close friend, or having a relationship with somebody is very very slim. I need to accept I am alone. I have always been alone, I dont know why it's so hard to accept it. I dont know what to do, I feel so much pain I just want it to stop.

    2 AnswersMental Health7 years ago
  • PLEASE HELP How to I come to terms with the fact that I am an only child?

    I am an only child, I have no brothers or sisters.

    I have always wanted one. When I was little, I made up a fake sister named Daniel and told everyone in my class I has a cool older sister, and I would make up stories about me and her.

    As I get older it gets worse, now I see my friends and their siblings get along beautifully. I wish more than anything that I could have that.

    I feel so alone. Every time I hear a funny sibling story, I cry. I grew up alone, with no one to play with, no one to keep me company except myself. Even to this day, I have no one I an that close to.

    I dont have any close cousins. All of my friends have siblings, so they dont understand my desire to have a relationship like that. My parents are old and they wont be around much longer. When they die, I will be all alone.

    I have never been good with interacting with other people. hopes of making a close friend, or having a relationship with somebody is very very slim. I need to accept I am alone. I have always been alone, I dont know why it's so hard to accept it. I dont know what to do, I feel so much pain I just want it to stop.

    1 AnswerPsychology7 years ago
  • PLEASE HELP How to I come to terms with the fact that I am an only child?

    I am an only child, I have no brothers or sisters.

    I have always wanted one. When I was little, I made up a fake sister named Daniel and told everyone in my class I has a cool older sister, and I would make up stories about me and her.

    As I get older it gets worse, now I see my friends and their siblings get along beautifully. I wish more than anything that I could have that.

    I feel so alone. Every time I hear a funny sibling story, I cry. I grew up alone, with no one to play with, no one to keep me company except myself. Even to this day, I have no one I an that close to.

    I dont have any close cousins. All of my friends have siblings, so they dont understand my desire to have a relationship like that. My parents are old and they wont be around much longer. When they die, I will be all alone.

    I have never been good with interacting with other people. hopes of making a close friend, or having a relationship with somebody is very very slim. I need to accept I am alone. I have always been alone, I dont know why it's so hard to accept it. I dont know what to do, I feel so much pain I just want it to stop.

    2 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships7 years ago
  • where/how did you meet your boyfriend/girlfriend?

    so I'm 21, I'm in college. I have never been in a relationship. I dont know where or how to meet guys.

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years ago