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Mandy Dubois

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Im mandy ...

  • What should I do about my ex boyfriend?

    We broke up like a month and a half ago..and all he's been doing was texting my phone, calling my house phone and calling my cell phone..and I cannot stand it! When he calls my house to much my kookum (grandma) gets mad, when he calls constuntly. And when I was watching my nephew and the guy I liked he wanted to visit, and my ex will go to my house, unexpectedly and wait there till I get back, or he'l come to my sisters..he'll keep looking for me, until he finds me! My ex is like a damn stalker. 25notifications on Facebook from him. And we broke up because he abused me. He hit me, pulled my hair, chocked me, bit me, and cheated on me, showed his privet part to a miner, shes 13, now 14, and he signed up for datings sites while he had me . And now he's begging me to take him back, trying to take me to the movies, tries to offer me stuff, you know..I cannot st and it. and I really like this guy, we hang out, we hold hands..and he told me that he'd never treat me the way my ex treated me. But I feel like im cheating on the one guy I like, well we started dating not to long ago, but when my ex bothers me or finds me, I feel like I'm damn cheating on the new guy. Bu I do NOT hug , or kiss, etc with my ex anymore, but he tries too. He WON'T LEAVE ME ALONE! WHAT ELSE can I DO???? He doesnt understand that I don't wanna be with him, he says he wants to be my boyfriend agian, but I cannnot keep running back to that women beater..what should I do? Is he obbsessed with me? And when I wanna go to bed, he tries to talk to me late and he gets mad when I dont talk to him (my ex) I dont know what to do!! I feel like im such a bad person! He will NOT leave me ALONE!

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • My tongue hurts !! What should I do now?? Does anyone have their tonge pierced?

    I got my tongue pierced on Thursday, so that was like 5 days ago and like a day later, I started to get a cold, my throat was sore, and now today and yesterday I was sneezing and caughing none stop ..and when I sneez, that lil stud ball its the top of my mouth and when I sneez it pushes my stud/bar forward and it pushes it forward and it kinda ......teared ...and I dont know wh at to do now..it hurts where it teared..like the bar went farward..you know what I mean?? And ever sinse I got my tongue done ...my tongue became white at the back of my piercing. But does anyone one else know what to do about this..Im kinda worred, I rince my mouth out was salt water, and listerine and I brush my tongue and my teeth . Will the teared part heal????

    2 AnswersOther - Skin & Body9 years ago
  • My ABUSIVE EX boyfriend wll NOT leave me alone..what should I do? Need more answers please!?

    Well I'm gonna be honest about everyone..even though I told my ex that I don't wanna be with him, I keep telling him to stop texting my phone, calling, coming here, etc..he will not listen to me. He keeps calling me "babe, my girl" and he tells me that he loves me, and no matter how much I tell him we arn't together, and he tells me to dummy up and I just sa 'Im not your gf, we're just friends, I don't wanna be with you, because you always abuse me, and you say you will change but you never will change" And he says "Well, you cant get rid of me i love you and I always will my girl" thats what my ex always SAYS! And He gets annoying. But now..like..I have feelings for another guy..we always talk, he calls me, and makes me happy when he calls, and at times we hang out, but we dont hug or kiss or anything. We started dating last month, and hes so sweet, and caring and honest to me . But for some reason..I feel like I'm cheating even though, me and my abusive ex broke up :( And I don't kow why I'm feeling like this. Like my ex doesnt deserve me because he pulled my hair, hit me really hard, he hit me like 8 times on my leg one time. And I dont know..I feel like I'm cheating even though we broke up..am I a bad person for dating someone who I reallly like????? Like he isnt the kind of guy who abusives girls he told me that guys who girls are just stupid and he said he'd never treat me the way my ex treated me :( Should I go back with my ex, or should I just stay with the one I'm with?? And honestly...I LOVE talking to the guy I'm with now, and he makes me so damn happy . But I dont kow what to do..my ex wont leave me alone no matter how much I tell him . What should I do????? Like my ex did bad things behind my back. He signed up for 2 dating sites before, he was sexting a 13 year old girl, hes 19, and he took a pic of his privet part and sent it to her..he did that stuff behind my back, and he also jerked it on cam. Im behing honest guys, sorry, but I dont wanna lie. thats what my ex did behind my back, and he abused me alot, bites me, pulles my hair, hits me, tries to tell me to stop talking to the guy I really really like, and the guy likes me alot too . But I dont know what to do I feel like im a bad person for dating the new guy. am I a bad person??

    11 AnswersMarriage & Divorce9 years ago
  • How come my abusive ex wont leave me alone?

    Well I'm gonna be honest about everyone..even though I told my ex that I don't wanna be with him, I keep telling him to stop texting my phone, calling, coming here, etc..he will not listen to me. He keeps calling me "babe, my girl" and he tells me that he loves me, and no matter how much I tell him we arn't together, and he tells me to dummy up and I just sa 'Im not your gf, we're just friends, I don't wanna be with you, because you always abuse me, and you say you will change but you never will change" And he says "Well, you cant get rid of me i love you and I always will my girl" thats what my ex always SAYS! And He gets annoying. But now..like..I have feelings for another guy..we always talk, he calls me, and makes me happy when he calls, and at times we hang out, but we dont hug or kiss or anything. We started dating last month, and hes so sweet, and caring and honest to me . But for some reason..I feel like I'm cheating even though, me and my abusive ex broke up :( And I don't kow why I'm feeling like this. Like my ex doesnt deserve me because he pulled my hair, hit me really hard, he hit me like 8 times on my leg one time. And I dont know..I feel like I'm cheating even though we broke up..am I a bad person for dating someone who I reallly like????? Like he isnt the kind of guy who abusives girls he told me that guys who girls are just stupid and he said he'd never treat me the way my ex treated me :( Should I go back with my ex, or should I just stay with the one I'm with?? And honestly...I LOVE talking to the guy I'm with now, and he makes me so damn happy . But I dont kow what to do..my ex wont leave me alone no matter how much I tell him . What should I do????? Like my ex did bad things behind my back. He signed up for 2 dating sites before, he was sexting a 13 year old girl, hes 19, and he took a pic of his privet part and sent it to her..he did that stuff behind my back, and he also jerked it on cam. Im behing honest guys, sorry, but I dont wanna lie. thats what my ex did behind my back, and he abused me alot, bites me, pulles my hair, hits me, tries to tell me to stop talking to the guy I really really like, and the guy likes me alot too . But I dont know what to do I feel like im a bad person for dating the new guy. am I a bad person??

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Why is my tongue all white?

    I got my tongue pierced 3 days ago, but before that my tongue was pretty normal, normal pink color, and but then I decided to get my tongue pierced, and its been hurting for 3 days, my tongue is a little swollen, I have a hard time eating, and the first few days I had a hard time talking too. But I talk a bit better, and eat a little faster, I mostly eat soft foods like, puddings, yogurts, soup, etc. But today I finally ate a sandwich but Id have to take piece by piece , and chew it on the side of my mouth and swallow it and today I had a normal dinner, chicken, corn, and mashed potatoes, but it didn't take me that long to eat that either. But ever since I got my tongue pierced my tongues been white?? Why?? And I rinse my mouth out with listerine a few times, after I eat, I brush my teeth, twice a day, and I rinse my mouth out with water sometimes after I eat too. But why is my tongue white???? Is it cause its swollen or what??

    4 AnswersOther - Skin & Body9 years ago
  • Why is iTunes telling me to fix my billing info?

    K well my friend wanted to buy a game so he did from my iPod touch he used a visa card. So now I tried to buy some more songs and now it won't download or buy them it'll say something edit my billing information but before he brought this game with that visa I had money on my iTunes from an iTunes card. So now I can't download or buy cause of this! I tried putting the security code from that visa and the numbers in front Of that visa and it sAys the security code is invalid that's what it says. ! What else can I do??? Any one know?

    3 AnswersSoftware9 years ago
  • Why is my ex stil trying to be with me?

    Ok that last question wasnt from me it was from my ex ..asking if he was getting used or played. If I were using him then I would of just left him right after he gave me money. We r just friends but no matter how much I tell him to stop kissing me or touching me in my privet parts. And when he tries to get down my pants he gets all angry if I don't let him! So he goes and asked a question if he's getting played or used! I'm not playing him we ARNT even together, you know why. Cause he treats like s h i t . He hits me pulls my hair! So the. I started having feelings for another guy that's why! It's so hard to get away from this women beater. I don t know what to do. go back to my abusing ex. Should I go back with him or no?

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Am I being used Or played?

    Okay so I'm with my girlfriend okay and I just gotten payed 650 dollars and she wanted to get her toung done (60 bucks) and we did and then I gave money to go shopping (100 bucks) and the mall was closing and she got out I asked her what she got and it was a iPod case and skin for the ipod and sum make up and me sum earphones and she spent 95 bucks On stuff that she doest even need and so I spent like 350 on my self and then I found her she was liking sum guy and I saw her messed " I know and I undtstand....I really like you and I think your cute" and I called her and I told her I found her and she says i don't know what your talkin about? And I'm like wtf so later on that night there talking and I asked if she can stop talking to him and she said its hard not to, and other stuff so I'm here feeling borthered so anyways I go see after work and I saw one of his status saying " wishing I can see Mandy Dubois miss my girl" I asked what's this about she says it's about another girl' I say your tagged in it and then I check her messages and she said " aww **** Tory found Out about your status! And he puts a ":( Awww bbe" so anyways am I getting played or what?

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Does my nephew have a head cold or just a cold?

    My nephew is 12 months old, just turned 12 months yesterday, but yesterday he had a runny nose al day, and a little bit of caughing.this morning he woke up with his nose all dried mucus where is nostrills are, Cleaned his face off with a warm cloth. I give him water and juice, and for lunch i'll probably give him some soup, chicken soup ..and I felt his head doesn't feel to warm, but his cheecks were red earlier, but hes sleeping now. But I can't tell what he has..a head cold or ..I dont know. His mom is only 17 years old, and I'm 20 years old. His mom took off on him lastnight, so Im looking after him. Even when he was new born I looked after him most of all, and he is just attached to me. His name is Jaden. But we don't have his health card, otherwide i'd take him to the docters.

    3 AnswersToddler & Preschooler9 years ago
  • Am I a bad girlfriend to my boyfriend?

    Just to let you know, I'm not Mandy, I'm her twin sister, and she said I can use her Yahoo Answers to ask any questions I want. Anyways, I have a boyfriend we been together for 3 years at first he was so sweet, caring, nice, because he had huge crush on me. So we starated dating, and till we are still together. And now he at times hits me, like on the side of my head and says to me "Want you to slap you upside your head?" and I told him "YOU CANT HIT GIRLS YOU SUPPOST TO BE TREATING ME WITH RESPECT IM A GIRL, TREAT ME LIKE ONE " then he just said "HOW ABOUT SHUT UP AND DON'T TALK TO ME?" so hes like that to me and when I wanna get a kiss or hug from him hes like "Not right now im tired " hes like that. And hes signed up for dating sites behind my back last month. But now..Im falling for this other guy we talk to each other alot, I think about it, and when I talk to him we talk for hours! and he told me he likes me and I told him Im starting to like him, and he asked me out, and I said I dont know, maybe we should get to know each other first he said ok. And I feel bad..like I feel like I'm a bad girlfriend to my boyfriend :( What should I do??? Even though he hits me and treats me like ****..I STILL feel horrible!!! I dont know what to do! Can someone help me! :( And I keep thinking about the guy I like and..omg I dont know what to do!!! Am I a horible gf to my boyfriend???

    10 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Do I have feelings for him?

    Theres this guy who is on Facebook on my friends list. We havent met before, but we started talking a few times not that much, but that time I didnt really care that we didnt really talk. And now we been talking ALOt like a few hours, and hes interesting to talk to. And every time hes online I get excited like in happy. And Im always going onto his profile and looking at his pictures and all I do is just think about him and he told me that he likes me too, but he just broke up with his gf or I think his gf broke up with him..but I kinda have a feeling hes a player..like cheat, Im not sure if he does, but he calls me beautiful, and now..like i think about him and that song called "We found love" by Rihanna when that song plays it reminds me of him..am I falling for this guy already?? We haven't even met before, but he lives in the same city I live in. And the last boyfriend I had treated me like **** like he hit me pulled my hair and he'd useally lie to me. No rude answers please...

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Am I starting to like this guy?

    I well I added this guy his name is Lousis we started talking and made plans to hang out and I was looking at this picture of him ..and when I went to work all I think about was him in that picture but we haven't met but he lives in the same city but I even had a dream of that pic..sounds weird but.. I don't know.. And when he messages me I feel a bit excited as in happy and he's fun to talk to...and even when I listen to this song forgot what it's called but reminds me of him..but am I falling for him?????? And we keep sending each other messages back and forth I been talking to him for an hour!!! And I'm don't even feel feel bored talking to him.

    5 AnswersFriends9 years ago
  • My sister found out shes pregnant ..what should she do?

    Ok, well these last few weeks..my sister told me she hasn't had her period for 2 months now..and she went to planned perenthood and found out she's pregnant..and she called crying and she said 'Im really scared..I don't know what to do, me and my boyfriend are gonna talk about it" she told me. and yet..she already has a son, and hes 11 months old, soon to be a year old this month on the 23 ..she told me she doesnt use condoms (which she should of done) and shes only 17 years old ! Im 20, and I still didnt get pregnant . Im not ready yet. SHe told me she MIGHt have an abortion, she might keep him/her, or give it up for adotion, Her and her boyfriend are gonna talk about it. and her boyfriend treats her like ****. But I dont know what she could do.

    7 AnswersPregnancy9 years ago
  • Can diet Pepsi make you feel sick?

    Well for some reason..like I ate earlier, and I felt sick, and now for supper my friend ordered pizza and I just had 2 slices, and they got our order wrong, they gave us Diet Pepsi instead of Pepsi..and I ate, and drank some Diet pepsi, and like half hour later, I start to feel a little nauseous , not bad, though just a little bit. But it happend earlier when I ate around 2 PM, and I felt a bit sick, and now again we ate pizza not long ago, and I feel a little sick again not bad though..and I drank some of that diet pepsi..what could be causing me to feel a little sick to my stomach?? I dont normally eat junk food like that, I useally eat regular meals, like homemade soup, with vegetables etc.

    4 AnswersNon-Alcoholic Drinks9 years ago
  • I couldn't tell if I got sick or not ..?? No cheeky questions please ..?

    Ok well, last night..I was feeling a little sick to my stomach, not much, so then I drank a few sips of water, and I fell asleep, then a few hours later, I woke up real fast, and..I don't know if I just spit out water, or vomited, but I didn't feel sick at all when I woke up, or felt like I was gonna throw up ..but I just drank water, and right after that and layed down and fell asleep, then that happened, but the vomit or spit was clear and there was kind of lots of it on the floor ..I couldn't go to the bathroom cause it happened out of no where. Or was it cause I drank water, then layed down ? Because I heard that if you drink something it'll come right back up? What that it, or just I threw up? But why?

    2 AnswersOther - General Health Care9 years ago
  • Why did this happen last night?

    Ok well, last night..I was feeling a little sick to my stomach, not much, so then I drank a few sips of water, and I fell asleep, then a few hours later, I woke up real fast, and..I don't know if I just spit out water, or vomited, but I didn't feel sick at all when I woke up, or felt like I was gonna throw up ..but I just drank water, and right after that and layed down and fell asleep, then that happened, but the vomit or spit was clear and there was kind of lots of it on the floor ..I couldn't go to the bathroom cause it happened out of no where. Or was it cause I drank water, then layed down ? Because I heard that if you drink something it'll come right back up? What that it, or just I threw up? But why?

    2 AnswersWomen's Health9 years ago
  • Why is my breast itchy?

    K, well my right boob is itchy, not in pain or anything, just it kinda itches at the top above the niplle and a little at the bottom of the nipple and it doesnt hurt..I've been using those soap called zest, could that be it?? Or..is this serious? Kinda scared :( And when I put lotion on it, it doesnt itch after wards. It only itched a few nights go, then only now again it itchy a bit . And Im also wearing a sports bra. Why is it itchy? Its not in pain though.

    3 AnswersWomen's Health9 years ago
  • Why is my breast itchy?

    Well, a few days ago, my right boob was itchy, and I kept scratching it, but it doesnt hurt, it just itch's its above the nipple area. And it wasn't itchy till that day, until now. Its itching in the same spot, but doesnt hurt. I am wearing one of those sports bras, because the bras I got wires broke . And I dont know..why..I put lotion on it, and that seems to help. But why? But my other boob, is fine .

    4 AnswersSkin Conditions9 years ago
  • Why do I feel angry when I talk to him? But when I don't talk to him, I feel happy and and my self.?

    Well, evertime he talks to me, or texts me, for some odd reason..I start to feel angry, you know that feelin where you feel mad, at times, and that you just wanna cry? Well when we talk together, and for some reason I feel so MAD when I talk to him, so I delete him off Facbeook, and I don't text him, because he blocked on my phone. But when I don't talk to him..why do I feel normal and happy???? And when I talk to my other friends, or siblings, I feel normal, But just him..he likes me and I like him, but we got into a fight, but when we talk, I feel so angry, but then when I don't talk to him at all.I feel so normal, my self and happy :) Why????? And it doesn't bother me that he doesn't send me messages, or texts, when he can. But I like him, and he likes me, but he's a big jerk at times, and I dont like it. But why? He tries to put my down by saying things to me. If I told him I was on my..time, H'ed make fun of him . But I feel normal now, because I'm not bothering him, and he isnt bothering me, but once he starts..I just ger angry over nothing .I have no idea why. But DOnt bother on saying anything mean to him. But why does this happen ?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Why do I always seem normal and happy, when I don't talk to him?

    Well, evertime he talks to me, or texts me, for some odd reason..I start to feel angry, you know that feelin where you feel mad, at times, and that you just wanna cry? Well when we talk together, and for some reason I feel so MAD when I talk to him, so I delete him off Facbeook, and I don't text him, because he blocked on my phone. But when I don't talk to him..why do I feel normal and happy???? And when I talk to my other friends, or siblings, I feel normal, But just him..he likes me and I like him, but we got into a fight, but when we talk, I feel so angry, but then when I don't talk to him at all.I feel so normal, my self and happy :) Why????? And it doesn't bother me that he doesn't send me messages, or texts, when he can. But I like him, and he likes me, but he's a big jerk at times, and I dont like it. But why?

    1 AnswerFriends9 years ago