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Well... obviously I'm crazy. I'm playing truth or dare with all of you and there hasn't been a single dare yet. :)

  • Bad House Guest/Roommate?? What would you do?

    Bad House Guest/Roommate?? What would you do?

    A friend of mine moved back to the area (VT) after living in NC for a couple of years. He had nowhere to go and was staying with another friend before moving in at my house.

    I told him when he moved in that he could stay for a couple months and that he didn't need to pay rent, but that he needed to kick in for food and help out around the house. Specifically, I asked him to be responsible for trash and dishes, which I felt was very fair considering I emptied out my office and helped him financially get a bed and a vehicle so he could get back and forth to work.

    I should add I am a single mother and I'm on a very limited budget, as I'm also going to school full time. He does have a job and he works full time.

    Here are the issues:

    1. He has lived here for more than 3 months, and instead of saving up to move out, he has been buying performance car parts for his truck, which get stored in my house, because it's too cold here to put them on.

    2. He has never kicked in for groceries.

    3. When I ask him to do something like dishes, he always says yes, but then doesn't do them until I have no choice but to do them. (no glasses, no bowls, no plates)...

    4. He's taken the trash out 3 times in the 3 months he's lived here.

    5. His room/my office smelled so bad of feet, sweat and garbage that I actually said something to him and told him he needed to clean. His response was to tack up strawberry scented car fresheners.

    6. He comes and goes as he pleases, which is fine except when we have plans and he blows them off.

    I hate confrontation, so I've only spoken to him about these things bothering me once. Yesterday. He promised he would help out more. But then he slept all day and the dishes didn't get done and he left for work knowing there weren't dishes for me to cook dinner for my son.

    I did most of the dishes. I did everything except the large bowls and pots and pans. Then I left a note on his door saying:

    I did the majority of the dishes, but I need you to finish them and take out the trash before you crash, so I can cook tomorrow.

    This morning, I woke up and went downstairs and the trash had been taken out but the dishes still weren't done. Now keep in mind I did the glasses, silverware, plates and bowls last night. I just didn't get to the pots and pans.

    He's sleeping away in his room right now and I can't cook breakfast because we have no pots and pans.

    What would you do?

    3 AnswersFriends10 years ago
  • Bad House Guest/Roommate?? What would you do?

    A friend of mine moved back to the area (VT) after living in NC for a couple of years. He had nowhere to go and was staying with another friend before moving in at my house.

    I told him when he moved in that he could stay for a couple months and that he didn't need to pay rent, but that he needed to kick in for food and help out around the house. Specifically, I asked him to be responsible for trash and dishes, which I felt was very fair considering I emptied out my office and helped him financially get a bed and a vehicle so he could get back and forth to work.

    I should add I am a single mother and I'm on a very limited budget, as I'm also going to school full time. He does have a job and he works full time.

    Here are the issues:

    1. He has lived here for more than 3 months, and instead of saving up to move out, he has been buying performance car parts for his truck, which get stored in my house, because it's too cold here to put them on.

    2. He has never kicked in for groceries.

    3. When I ask him to do something like dishes, he always says yes, but then doesn't do them until I have no choice but to do them. (no glasses, no bowls, no plates)...

    4. He's taken the trash out 3 times in the 3 months he's lived here.

    5. His room/my office smelled so bad of feet, sweat and garbage that I actually said something to him and told him he needed to clean. His response was to tack up strawberry scented car fresheners.

    6. He comes and goes as he pleases, which is fine except when we have plans and he blows them off.

    I hate confrontation, so I've only spoken to him about these things bothering me once. Yesterday. He promised he would help out more. But then he slept all day and the dishes didn't get done and he left for work knowing there weren't dishes for me to cook dinner for my son.

    I did most of the dishes. I did everything except the large bowls and pots and pans. Then I left a note on his door saying:

    I did the majority of the dishes, but I need you to finish them and take out the trash before you crash, so I can cook tomorrow.

    This morning, I woke up and went downstairs and the trash had been taken out but the dishes still weren't done. Now keep in mind I did the glasses, silverware, plates and bowls last night. I just didn't get to the pots and pans.

    He's sleeping away in his room right now and I can't cook breakfast because we have no pots and pans.

    What would you do?

    6 AnswersOther - Society & Culture10 years ago
  • Ideas For Get Well Present for a 9 year old boy?

    My son, who's 9, is undergoing surgery on his ear in about a week. I'm looking for ideas to keep him entertained during his week of recovery at home. Please keep in mind that he won't be able to hear very well or move around a lot.

    The most creative ideas will win the 10 points! Thanks!!

    4 AnswersGrade-Schooler10 years ago
  • Who likes my new Avatar (including background?)?

    I'm trying it on. I think I like it, what do you guys think?

    --Lee Ann

    1 AnswerPolls & Surveys1 decade ago
  • Need Help With Songs Containing The Words... Bulletin or Board or Park?

    I'm making a game for my friends. It starts with a clue. Every clue when solved leads to a location, which will have another clue.

    So here's the location that I'm working on the clue on: City Hall Park Bulletin Board. What I want to do is have pop songs missing specific words to be the clue. The absent words are the location.

    That sounds complicated, here's a for instance:

    For City I have "We built this ________ on Rock and Roll"

    For Hall I have "Deck the _______s with Boughs of Holly"

    and for Board I have the lyrics from the Love Boat.

    ("come a________, we're expecting you... ")

    What I'm looking for are songs that have the words: Bulletin or Board or Park in them. Ten points if you can come up with all three!

    Thanks in advance,

    --Lee Ann

    2 AnswersLyrics1 decade ago
  • Where Is The Speedometer Cable/Speed Sensor On A 92 Honda Civic LX???

    So here's the problem: My '92 Honda Civic LX has a speedometer with a mind of its own.

    Sometimes it works great, sometimes it'll be doing the hula, sometimes it's steady but most definitely reading at the wrong speed (120mph when I'm doing 40mph).

    The Odometer and tripometer (the one with the button to reset) work Great!

    I know the problem is either the speedometer cable or the speed sensor, but where on the car are they located?

    I'm fairly handy with cars, but this is a new one for me, so please help me out with it.

    Thanks,

    --Lee Ann

    6 AnswersHonda1 decade ago
  • What Would You Do About This Drama Queen?

    Okay, so for the last year or so there's been a group of us 12 friends (ages between 21 - 36) who get together at our local bar and hang out and have a blast together. About 3 months ago, this girl got herself included into our group because one of the guys felt sorry for her sitting all by herself all the time.

    Since then our group hasn't been the same. Slowly over time our group has separated to the point where even when we're all at the same place we don't sit together.

    But it was when all the girls in our group of 12 (8 girls and 4 guys) started comparing notes that we realized that this Drama Queen had been saying nasty stuff and making up stuff about each and every girl in our group. Now we have 8 angry frustrated chicks and a girl who sits with 2 of the four boys from our group by themselves. What should we do about it?

    None of us want to lose the two guys to her darkside. I need serious suggestions! Thanks

    3 AnswersFriends1 decade ago
  • What Would You Do About This Drama Queen???

    Okay, so for the last year or so there's been a group of us 12 friends (ages between 21 - 36) who get together at our local bar and hang out and have a blast together. About 3 months ago, this girl got herself included into our group because one of the guys felt sorry for her sitting all by herself all the time.

    Since then our group hasn't been the same. Slowly over time our group has separated to the point where even when we're all at the same place we don't sit together.

    But it was when all the girls in our group of 12 (8 girls and 4 guys) started comparing notes that we realized that this Drama Queen had been saying nasty stuff and making up stuff about each and every girl in our group. Now we have 8 angry frustrated chicks and a girl who sits with 2 of the four boys from our group by themselves. What should we do about it?

    None of us want to lose the two guys to her darkside. I need serious suggestions! Thanks

    3 AnswersFriends1 decade ago
  • How would you feel if this happened to you?

    It was my birthday earlier this week. A bunch of my friends and my boyfriend all went out to our regular club. FYI I'm in my early thirties...

    My Boyfriend actually ran out and bought cupcakes for the party, but then a while later I realized I couldn't find him, so I went looking for him.

    He was out on the deck with a buddies cell phone talking to his ex girlfriend who had apparently been dumped by her boyfriend. The kicker: His Mom Asked Him To Call Her, and he did.

    In speaking with him after he said that he didn't tell me, because he didn't want to upset me, and that he was on the deck so as not to disturb the party.

    Am I wrong to be upset by this? I mean, obviously he cares about me, he bent over backwards to make my party a good one; but then he turned around and did that.

    I'm confused.

    6 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • It's my birthday... how will you help me celebrate it?

    I'm a whopping 32 today... whatcha going do?

    --Lee Ann

    17 AnswersPolls & Surveys1 decade ago
  • Got A Movie Trivia To Stump You With!!!?

    Pretty sure this movie was made in the late 80's early 90's. In English but probably not American made.

    This poor bedraggled girl stumbles across a walking empty suit of armor that attacks her. She defeats it and ends up in the armor. it gives her magically abilities to become a great warrior. She ends up falling for one of her fellow knights... (they end up together).

    THIS IS NOT JOAN OF ARC!!!!!

    3 AnswersMovies1 decade ago
  • Scrotum Development Question...?

    Okay, so no I'm not referring to myself with this question.

    I've noticed that my boyfriend, (who's in his 30's), has a very small and tight testicle sack that sits very high in relation to others I've seen. I know there can be some variation, but other parts of that area also seem under-developed.

    It almost seems as though his body skipped that part of maturing that occurs when the scrotum elongates and has sag to it.

    I'm just wondering if there is a cause for that and if anything can or should be done about that.

    I hesitate to bring this straight up with him because he is very sensitive about that area of his anatomy all ready and I don't want to make it worse if it's normal.

    Please Serious answers only.

    2 AnswersMen's Health1 decade ago
  • What's Your Favorite Movie?

    I'm an avid movie fan, and am always curious to see what movies I might be missing.

    I will be choosing a best answer :)

    21 AnswersMovies1 decade ago