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  • What the heck??? Please read!?

    Husband wants to leave me alone on Christmas and take our daughter to Guatrmala for 1 month!

    I just got a new job that requires me to work the holidays and my husband wants me to either quit to to with him there (and he still wants me to take care of my bills after we come back) or he just wants to leave me here alone for for Christmas. He also wants to take our daughter and she only has two weeks out of school...but he wants to take her a whole month. So I keep telling him that we should all go on Easter but he is just set on Christmas and even has gone as far as telling me that I can leave him (divorce) and he won't care. He is going to go anyways wether I quit my job and come or not. He's also gone as far as telling me to pay him $2,000 dollars and he will stay here do Christmas with me. Seriously??? What the hell......I feel sick to my stomach.

    8 AnswersMarriage & Divorce5 years ago
  • I want a nose job but my husband doesn t support it.?

    I ve wanted one for as long as I can remember! My nose makes me feel worthless. Literally! I always put myself last because I feel so ugly. It affects my work, my social life, how I dress, I won t even put my hair up... I feel miserable. I m 28 now. My husband is all about money and saving it and what not and he couldn t even care less how I feel. He s even been one to poke fun of my nose sometimes but when I tell him how sensitive I am about my nose he just tells me I m over reacting! He tells me if I get a nose job and if he doesn t like how I look after it he ll leave me. He keeps telling me it s too much money and I look fine. (I really think that s all he cares about $$) The thing is, is that I ve saved this money and it s mine! He s never supported me on this no matter how many times I ve asked. I m pretty but my nose ruins all my features and my confidence. My husband treats me bad sometimes and a lot of times I think he s happy with my low confidence because it makes him feel better about himself. He will constantly talk about other women in front of me but he never compliments me. So should I do this or should I listen to my husband and continue to be miserable?

    15 AnswersMarriage & Divorce5 years ago
  • I'm married and just made out with another man...?

    I don't know why I made out with him. He's married. I'm married. I've never wanted to cheat on my husband.... Even though my husband can't stand me most of the time and hits me.. Threatens to kill me and whatever else you can imagine. I love my husband and feel so bad that I just kissed another married man. I've never done that in my whole entire life. He wanted more but I told him no. I would need time to think about it. I just can't do this to my husband. How do I get out of this situation?? I feel I've already done enough harm to his family let alone my husband. :( someone please help??? Ugh.

    6 AnswersMarriage & Divorce6 years ago
  • How can I deal with losing my family?

    They're gone. I'm left alone with no family what so ever. My husband and daughter are in Guatemala and I'm fighting to be with them but in the process losing everything here. If I'm with them there, then there will not be a chance for them to come here. I'm so heartbroken and weak from not being able to eat. I just want to die. I miss them terribly and feel as if I'm slowly dying inside not to be able to see them. They're all I have. How can I deal with this? I also am moving as I write this and it is hurting me so much to see my husband's stuff and daughter's toys.

    2 AnswersFamily6 years ago
  • The difference in upper body strength. Men vs. Women?

    What is it? Even a woman that is taller than men... Let's say the woman is 6'1" and 200 lbs and the guy is 5'6", 165 would she be stronger or would he be stronger? I'm supposed to ask 100 people what their view on the opposite's sex psychical strength is. If I could get at least 10 that would be great. Thanks in advance. Also 10 pts :)

    4 AnswersGender Studies7 years ago
  • How are short guys so strong?

    My best friend who is a girl is 6'1" no joke. She's SO tall! Anyways her husband is only 5'6" he's muscular but not huge. He's very fit and so is she. I was telling her to arm wrestle him because I thought she would kick his butt no problem. I was in for a shock because she was trying with all the strength she had but couldn't beat him. He was sitting there effortlessly laughing at her. How is this??? She's 7 inches taller than him. They both go to the gym, they're both fit... Doesn't height give you more strength especially if you're fit and work out??

    1 AnswerDiet & Fitness7 years ago
  • Mirena IUD making me fat? Ladies what's your experience?

    I have had the Mireana for 3 years now. I've gained at least 40 pounds and hit the 210 mark. I'm very tall for a girl but I've never weighed more than 185 in my life! My usual is 160 to 175. I've always been able to lose weight easily and now my weight will not even budge. It'll go up but not down. I feel very tired and I checked my blood pressure today which was surprisingly high!!! This really scares me. I've always been very healthy, I eat well and I always exercise. I even do workout videos! but now I feel completely disgusting. I tell my husband and he just ignores me. Have you had any experience like this?? I'm almost positive it's the mirena.

    8 AnswersWomen's Health7 years ago
  • OMG what is wrong with my computer?!?

    So I just signed on and like every single button is erased... ie: internet explorer, ebay, etc... and I never did that! now it comes to critical error... or something and I can't get the page to go away. Do I have a virus or something? I signed on to another account and it has one more button that I can push but it erased every other one on this account as well... but at least I can get on the internet. What's wrong? can someone help?

    2 AnswersSecurity10 years ago
  • How can I get credit when...?

    I'm 23 years old and have no credit. I have no one to sign for me for anything.. like a car or phone whatever... I grew up for the a few years in a foster home. No one will give me a credit card!! I'm NOT stupid with money.... I really don't even want a credit card just want credit. How do I get one?

    2 AnswersCredit10 years ago
  • Controlling boyfriend??? or Normal?

    Boyfriend says to me= I will leave you if you go to a party w/o me.

    Boyfriend asks me= Would you like to go to a party with me?

    Me: No thanks I don't feel well.

    Boyfriend says= Okay see you later, going to the party.

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    Boyfriend= (mad at me) takes my keys, and cell phone. (Countless times)

    Me= (mad at him) takes his keys. (1 time)

    Boyfriend says= When you are mad at me, do not take my things ever.

    Me=You as well. Never again.

    Boyfriend says= Don't make me mad or I will.....

    Me= Me too!!

    Boyfriend= LOOK, if we cannot get along, I don't want to be with you.

    Me= I only said that if you will not take my keys or phone, I will not do the same to you.

    Sister calls= .. (I love this girl and give her and her 2 year old daughter a ride every day)

    Boyfriend= Hey whats up?

    Sister on speaker phone= are you guys fighting?? then she calls me a ***** in spanish basically.

    Me= nothing............................ really shocked that she would call me that because I've never done anything to her and I do everything for her.

    What would you guys think of him?? I think that he is so controlling... and crazy. He hits me, and calls me crazy, everything you can imagine. I'm sooooo sweet, and he is filling my head with bad things, should I leave him? Oh and btw this isn't even the half of it.

    6 AnswersMental Health1 decade ago
  • What would you call this kind of boyfriend?

    My boyfriend is extremely jealous and I literally cannot go anywhere with him. If I go somewhere with him and a guy even says hello to me he freaks out on me. It wouldn't even matter if the guy was 80 years old and in a wheel chair. He sends $200 to his family every time he gets his paycheck from work a lot of times more. He doesn't have a car or licence and I give him a ride to work just about every day and pick him up. His sister lives with us as well and has a 3 year old little girl. I give her a ride to work every day..... I have to wake up at 7:00am to get her girl to the baby sitters and her to work by 7:30.... she does not pay a penny for gas. Let alone if I am sick she doesn't care, she still knocks on the door. I am 8 months pregnant. My boyfriend barley pays me for gas sometimes he will.... now for his sister's birthday which is 8 days before mine he took her to a NICE resturant, got wine, gave her $100. I bought her a huge cookie, and a gift card and a birthday card. For mine.... I had to take him all the way to Los Angelas because he had a meeting there and we went to a resturant only because I said I was hungry. We spent all day driving came home went to bed. His sister only said happy birthday. For his friends birthday which was yesterday he texted him Happy Birthday, his sister bought a cake and wine, and they went out to eat and then to his house to hang out until 1:00 in the morning. For his birthday I bought him a very expensive perfume.. 2 gift cards, a cake, a card and told him how much I love him. His sister's daughter same... except no perfume. I feel like I'm trash to them. I love my boyfriend very much and he always tells me he loves me but I feel like they are only using me. I now pay $25 extra each month to help his sister with rent... and they both make more money than I do. I pay for gas and insurance and everything. I am kinda tore apart. If I try to leave him he literally would not let me go. Also I could never go anywhere without him or he tells me I love living the crazy life. He tells me that my friends are more important than him..... I am with him always. If I text a girl he calls me a lesbian.

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • COPS PLEASE ANSWER!!!!! Thank you so much!?

    My boyfriend does not have a drivers licence in the United States but he has one in his country. If he was to drive here in the US with another country's licence would they take his car???? Could they take his car and ticket him for driving without a licence???? Techinacally he has one.... anyone know??

    8 AnswersLaw Enforcement & Police1 decade ago
  • My sister is a theif and sooo jealous of me!!! HELP!!?

    My sister has been so jealous of me since we were little kids. She is almost two years older than I am. I'm so completely oppisit of my sister.... I would never steal from her or be mean to her just because I feel like it. I've tried everything to be a great sister and give her no reason to be jealous but nothing works. When she was little she would take everything from me, yell at me, chase me with a knife, corner me, and steal absolutely everything. At 24 years old she still steals from people everywhere... including me. She even took 5 dollars in a birthday card that my mom sent me one time. She is still so jealous.... she absolutely hates my husband and is so racist towards him... and his sister. They've done nothing to her but be nice, his sister can't even speak ENGLISH!!! His sister is so sweet it's insane. Anyways I'm writing this because I just went to see my best friend for a week and I bought these $100 pair of jeans and accidently left them in the bathroom..... she stole them from me!!!!!! I have not confronted her about them yet but WTF?? I don't know if I can deal with her anymore? I work so hard.... and she doesn't even have a job or her boyfriend. I just want to give up on her. I'm 6 months pregnant and she has no idea... I think she might be extra jealous when she finds out... maybe she will be mean to my baby? I don't know... I just need some advice. I really want to move but I can't at the moment. I honestly don't even want to ever see her again.

    2 AnswersFamily1 decade ago
  • My boyfriend.... I need opinions. PLEASE.?

    My boyfriend is always jealous... I swear sometimes he is crazy. He gets mad at me if I even look at another guy. He gets mad at me when I talk about another guy. He gets jealous when I play with my sister's dog. He gets mad when I'm watching TV and I talk about a guy that's on the TV. He got mad at me because I was making fun of these two guys walking down the street and I honked at them to scare them [which I admit was very childish of me] he told me that I "like them" .. he doesn't like it when I joke around with him. He told me to not kid with him. Every time someone texts for me he says "oh there's your boyfriend" .. he gets mad if I talk to my friends. He doesn't like me even hanging out with my friends that are girls, he told me that I was lesbian before. And he hates it when I'm on the computer. I'm on the computer right now because he's mad at me for going to the store by myself to talk to a manager about a job interview. He doesn't like it that I'm a nice person... he says that I should only be nice for him. I'm one of the most nicest kick back relaxed girls that you will ever meet... I don't understand. Hmm?? what is your opinion?

    4 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships1 decade ago
  • My boyfriend.... I need opinions. PLEASE.?

    My boyfriend is always jealous... I swear sometimes he is crazy. He gets mad at me if I even look at another guy. He gets mad at me when I talk about another guy. He gets jealous when I play with my sister's dog. He gets mad when I'm watching TV and I talk about a guy that's on the TV. He got mad at me because I was making fun of these two guys walking down the street and I honked at them to scare them [which I admit was very childish of me] he told me that I "like them" .. he doesn't like it when I joke around with him. He told me to not kid with him. Every time someone texts for me he says "oh there's your boyfriend" .. he gets mad if I talk to my friends. He doesn't like me even hanging out with my friends that are girls, he told me that I was lesbian before. And he hates it when I'm on the computer. I'm on the computer right now because he's mad at me for going to the store by myself to talk to a manager about a job interview. He doesn't like it that I'm a nice person... he says that I should only be nice for him. I'm one of the most nicest kick back relaxed girls that you will ever meet... I don't understand. Hmm?? what is your opinion?

    4 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships1 decade ago
  • Has anyone ever used VISA PRO?? US Citizenship?

    I just wanted to know if anyone has used Visa Pro and if they would recommend it? I don't know if I can just trust any internet site out there. Please if you have any info on this site let me know.

    3 AnswersImmigration1 decade ago
  • JEN JOHNSON BACK ON BIG BROTHER!! [11]?

    WHY??? uggggggggggggggghhhhhh... this makes me not want to watch it now. Why did they let her back on the show?

    1 AnswerCelebrities1 decade ago
  • JEN JOHNSON BACK ON BIG BROTHER!! [11]?

    WHY??? uggggggggggggggghhhhhh... this makes me not want to watch it now. Why did they let her back on the show?

    1 AnswerMedia & Journalism1 decade ago
  • If I wrote the Dr. Phil show...?

    What is the possibility of him or the producers writing me back?? Would it be hard to get them to write me back? Yes or no? What do you think?

    2 AnswersSoap Operas1 decade ago
  • My car starter.... PLEASEEE HELP!?

    Okay so my two roomates replaced it for me and it was fine for the first week... yesterday I drove a few blocks away and then parked my car... the engin off and everything... I get out and I hear this noise like a huge fan and it was coming from my car.. it stayed on for a while and then went off.. so today I went driving and came home and it happend so I opened the hood and where the starter is it was smoking and it wouldn't stop making that noise.. then all of the sudden it went off then came back on and there was a snap sound. I tried to start my car and it will not start at all now. What is wrong??

    2 AnswersMaintenance & Repairs1 decade ago