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  • My best guy friend is getting married and he did not tell me. Am I wrong for being mad at him and ready to end our friendship?

    So me and my guy friend has been friends since I was a teenager for 13 years. We have gotten very close over the years. We have even started a fwb, that we have been doing for almost 4 years. So recently, he comes over and we had sex, after that we start talking and we get on the subject of marriage, and that s when I found out he s engaged to his baby mama. So later on I found out that he has been engage for 4 months and he did not tell me. When I confronted him about it, he said that he didn t know why I would be upset, an that he had the right to tell me whenever he was ready to. I feel so hurt because we are suppose to be good friends and he kept this from me, and we ve been sleeping together for years. I don t know what to do. I feel like he damaged our friendship. But he has no remorse for what he has done. Am I overreacting? Should I end my friendship with him?

    3 AnswersFriends3 years ago
  • Am I on the rebound or can this be real love?

    So I am 33 years old and I am a career woman. Me and my husband of 11 years just split up. We has a lot of issues, and he even cheated on me. But we've only been separated for a few months. But just a few months into my separation, I met this guy who is 7 years younger then me, 26 years old. I have moved him into my apartment so now we live together. He is so amazing, and gives me lots of attention. He ask me to marry him and I said yes. I feel like maybe he was the one I was suppose to marry from the beginning. But everyone says I am rushing into it. They say I am only with him because I am use to be in a relationship. But I think its love. I need honest feedback.

    10 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years ago
  • Am I wrong to ask my ex if she would come to my wedding?

    So me and my ex broke up not too long ago and after her I got into a relationship with this woman who is 7 yrs older than me. I'm 26 she's 33. But she's still married to someone else but they are supposed to be getting divorced. But me and her wants to get married after she divorces. Me and my ex was still seeing each other until I got with this other woman. We were together for a long time and once upon a time I wanted to marry her but things didn't work out. But she still loves me and is very upset that I'm marrying this woman instead of her. I've been contemplating if I should invite her or not. Me and my future wife have only been talking for about 4 or 5 months. Everyone thinks I'm rushing things with her. What do u guys think?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating4 years ago
  • Am I wrong for moving in with a married, but separated woman?

    So I met this woman and she is married but separated. I'm 26 and she is 32. At first me and her was just having sex all the time but the more I got to know her, the more I started to like her. So now we are in a relationship, but everyone keeps telling me that I am wrong to date her cuz she is still married. I have recently moved in with her. We've been seeing each other for about four months now. We've kinda been keeping our relationship a secret cuz she is a Dean of students at a middle school and I don't want to ruin her reputation. I mean she is successful and beautiful. I just want to know what are y'alls opinion about my situation. Is it wrong to be with her or do you think maybe she is with me to fill a void that she is missing from her husband?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years ago
  • Am I wrong to be mad because my friend doesn't want to spend the night with me?............................................................?

    So me and my guy friend has known each other since we were teenagers; we are in our 20's now. So me and him have been having a casual sexual relationship. I still stay at my mom's house but I stay in an isolated part of the house, the basement. So just a week ago my friend came over and we chilled and had sex and everything and then he left. So today I ask him to spend the night with me and his exact words were "How. WTF. You stay at ya mom house." So I text him back and I tell him that me and my mom already had a discussion about me having guys spend the night with me and she says its ok since I'm staying in the basement. I also tell him that I am in this big area by myself and that no one really has to know that he's the one spending the night with me because he can just come through the back entrance and so I asked him what was the big deal about. And he never texted me back, now he is ignoring me. I've been trying to talk to him but he won't answer me. My thing is just a week ago he was over my house downstairs in the basement with me screwing me but now that I have asked him to spend the night with me then its a problem. What do y'all think. Am I taking this all wrong? Does he have the right to feel the way he feels? Should I be upset? I know that we not a couple and we are not committing to each other but my thing is he doesn't want spend the night with me because I stay at my moms but he didn't have a problem screwing me in her house in the basement where I'm staying

    6 AnswersSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • Am I wrong to be mad because my friend doesn't want to spend the night with me?

    So me and my guy friend has known each other since we were teenagers; we are in our 20's now. So me and him have been having a casual sexual relationship. I still stay at my mom's house but I stay in an isolated part of the house, the basement. It's made like an apartment and there is a downstairs entrance to the basement so I won't have to go through the front door. So just a week ago my friend came over and we chilled and had sex and everything and then he left. So today I ask him to spend the night with me and his exact words were "How. WTF. You stay at ya mom house." So I text him back and I tell him that me and my mom already had a discussion about me having guys spend the night with me and she says its ok since I'm staying in the basement. I also tell him that I am in this big area by myself and that no one really has to know that he's the one spending the night with me because he can just come through the back entrance and so I asked him what was the big deal about. And he never texted me back, now he is ignoring me. I've been trying to talk to him but he won't answer me. My thing is just a week ago he was over my house downstairs in the basement with me screwing me but now that I have asked him to spend the night with me then its a problem. What do y'all think. Am I taking this all wrong? Does he have the right to feel the way he feels? Should I be upset?

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • Do I have the right to be mad at my ex?

    Me and my ex we 2gether for a year. After we broke up he begged me stay in his life. So we became cool again eventually we started sleeping together again. After that I asked him where do we stand and he said we should jus see where things go. He didn't wanna rush into anything. The deal was if either of us decided to get wit someone else we would tell each other to prevent anyone from getting hurt. There was times when I would get made cuz he would neglect me but reassure me that i was special & that everyone else is just temporary. So just a couple of days ago I was over his house and we had sex. Lately he has been so distant with me. So while he was sleep I went through his phone. I found messages between him and this girl bout how he's going to show her how a real man treats his woman. He's giving her flowers, whining and dining her. So I woke him up and asked him does he have a gf and told me it was none of my business. And then he took his phone and when I tried to get it back he body slammed me on the bed. So i walked out and we ended up having a fight outside and he was trying to leave and I was standing in his way from getting in his car and I told him he wasn't going anywhere until he told me the truth and that's when he told me he does have a gf and I asked him why didn't he tell me and he said again it was none of my business. So we haven't spoken since. I feel so dirty, cheap, and used. I really thought I meant more to him. Am I wrong for being mad?

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • should I feel bad for almost hitting a pedestrian?

    Today I was coming from work. I was going 45mph. But anyway I had the green light and theses to people , a man and a woman and their dogs were running across the street. The man got across the street but the woman stopped in the middle of the street. So I slowed down to let her cross but she still didn't move. And then when I completely stopped she was yelling at me and so was the guy that she was with her. I mean I thought it was unnecessary because I saw them crossing the street and I wasn't going to hit her. And on top of that they wasn't in the crosswalk, they was running across incoming traffic. But I still feel bad. I'm a new driver and have only been driving for 6 months. It really shook me up. Should I feel bad about this?

    4 AnswersLaw Enforcement & Police6 years ago
  • Is my boyfriend's ex lying about being pregnan?

    Here is the back story. So me and my boyfriend had been going out for a year but we ended up breaking up and he started dating this girl and they dated for three months. Wow they were in a relationship she was claiminy that she was pregnant but they decided together to get an abortion because they weren't ready. So now him and her are broken up now and me and him are back together. Now me and him have only been together for a couple of weeks now and just last week she contacted him and told him that she was pregnant again its only been about 3 to 4 weeks that she had the abortion supposedly. He broke up with her and she has been calling and basically begging him to take her back, but he doesn't want to be with her. She also sent a positive pregnancy test picture to his phone to prove to him that she was pregnant and that it is his baby. I don't know what to think about this situation. From what he tells me that they did sleep together after she had the abortion. Actually he said they slept together on the same day or the day after something like that but he claims to have used a condom so he thinks that even if she is pregnant then he don't think it's his. I really don't know and I'm starting to think maybe she is only telling him that she preggo cuz she wants him back. This is really putting a damper on my relationship. & if she really is preggo & it turns out to be his then I don't know what I would do. Do it sound like she playing games or could she really be preggo again?

    2 AnswersPregnancy6 years ago
  • Is my ex-boyfriend still in love with me even though he's with someone else?

    So me and ex broke up about 4 months ago. It was a tough break up but now we have gotten past things and now we are friends. I will admit that i still love him. But he has a new gf who he has been seeing for about 3 mo. now, and supposedly she's suppose to be pregnant with his baby. Me & him talk about every other day. We have to hide the fact that we are talking cuz his gf is very jealous. She even goes through his phone. Some times when we talk he talks about her and complains about how much she gets on his nerves and that things were better with me. So the other week, my phone pocket dialed his number & when she looked through his phone she saw my number and decided to text me a very rude message telling me to stop calling him and delete his number. I responded back telling her to take it up with him and to never text me again. Now all me and him do is talk. I have not made any sexual advantages towards him. A couple of days later he calls to apologize for her, he claims he didnt know she did it. He even came by my house to apologize in person. Now we havent seen each other in 2 months so seeing each other again was like meeting again for the 1st time. He kept complimenting me and telling me how good i looked, and he was hugging me. While we were talking he kissed me. I pushed back and asked him what was he doing and he said that he felt his adrenaline rushing and that he couldnt help himself. Is he still in love with me or is he just tryna have his cake & eat it too?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating6 years ago
  • Am i wrong for wanting a dna on my boyfriend's alleged unborn child with his ex gf?

    So about a month and a half ago my then ex bf had cut me off for this new girl that he started seeing. From what he tells me him and the girl wasnt even together for a week before they started sleeping together. They slept togetha 3 days after they met. Smh. So i was hurt but let him go. Me and him didnt speak for over a month. So he called me recently to see how i was doing even though he is still in a relationship with that girl. But he tells me that she is now pregnant and it is believed that the baby is his. Later he ends up breaking up wit her and now we are trying to work things out. I want him to get a paternity test because they were only together for 8 weeks and now she is pregnant. And I know it only takes one time but she seems as if she bed hop a lot. I mean she did sleep with him after 3 days who to say that she hasn't done it before. She could have not been pregnant before she got with him. She is claiming it is his but I need proof. Am I wrong for wanting this paternity test? I just have a bad feeling about this something tells me that it may not be his

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating6 years ago
  • My Ex-BF Is Sleeping With Someone Else. Am I Wrong For Being Mad?

    So me and my ex broke up about 2 mos. ago. He broke up with me saying that he was no ready to be committed to just one person, and that we were moving too fast. We were together for a year. But he still wanted us to be friends cuz he says that he does not want to lose me out of his life completely. I was unsure about this, but after a month, I decided to try to see if I could do the friendship thing. So a couple weeks later we get caught up in old feelings and starts sleeping together again. Of course my feelings get caught up in and I start having high hopes for us thinking that we were going to get back together. He tells that he still loves me and he wants us to be together, but he is just trying to get himself together first. So today I decided to ask him if he was seeing anybody. I mean I think I have the right to know cuz we are still sleeping together and I don't want to catch anything from him. So at first he hesitates and then he says that he is not in a relationship but that he just slept with someone else. I am very hurt over this.I literally feel sick. I know I put myself in this situation, but I guess I was blinded cuz I still love him. Should I be mad or I don't have the right to be mad cuz we are not in a relationship anymore?

    6 AnswersSingles & Dating6 years ago
  • Ex-Boyfriend is mad at me for no reason, am I wrong or is he right?

    So me & my ex broke up almost 2 months ago. l was a very painful break up. He broke up with me cuz he wasn't ready for a commitment. While he was breaking up with me, he told me that he wanted us 2 be friends cuz he did not wanna lose me. He wanted me 2 still be in his life. So after a month goes by I decide 2 give this friendsh thing a try. I knew that it was going 2 b hard for me , but try was willing 2 try. Just recently an extended family member died. I am saddened by his death, even though we're not blood related. But anywho, I called him for 2 days str8 and no answer. On the 1st day he claimed that he was smoking with his friends and that he was going to call back, but he never did. So on the 2nd day I didn't here anything from him until late that night. So I told him that what happened about my famm. member, and he says, "Oh, sorry to hear that, well, im about 2 go 2 sleep, I'll talk to u tomorrow". So I was like "What, is that all u have to say?" and he says "Yes, I am tired, I've been at work all day, I will talk to u tomorrow". So this conversation ended with me saying what ever. So the next day, I called him, he sounded pissed off. I asked him what's wrong with him and he said i was the problem. So of course I asked why, and tells me that I was so inconsiderate the other night night and that was one of the reasons why he wanted to break up and is glad that he is single, and saying we not 2getha so stop acting like it. Who is right? We r still sleeping 2geth

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating6 years ago
  • Am I wrong for being angry that my bf hangs out with his cousin more than me?

    Okay here is the deal. My boyfriend of a year is always with his cousin, who is a female and she is older than him, and they call each other cousins but they don't know how they're related. Suspicious right? But anyway, they do work together, so I know that they spend a lot of time together anyway, so I understand that part. But they are together far more than we are. They already are together about 5 or 6 times a week, even when they aren't working, he's always over her house. The thing that gets me is that he don't ever come over my house and Im his woman. When I asked him about it he just said because he feels more comfortable over her house. And they go out more than me and him do. They go out to eat and other places almost everyday. Me and him go out maybe once every couple of months, in which I have to usually beg him to take me out. Also when he's with her, he makes me wait, but when he's with me and she needs him, he goes running, and when I get on him for making me wait, he gets an attitude and tells me that I am acting like a spoiled brat who is mad that I don't get my way all the time. I feel like I come 2nd to his cousin, and I tried to explain these feelings to him, but when I tried he cut me off and told me that he didn't want to hear it and that he doesn't care how I felt about it. What should I do? Should I just pretend that everything is okay? Is there a better way to make him understand? I need help.

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • Why isn't my boyfriend interested in sex with me anymore?

    So, me and my bf have been on shaky grounds lately. We have been fighting over little things. So just yesterday I told my bf that I've been feeling undesirable, but that it has nothing to do with him, and that I still love him. But today he tells me he feels the same way, but the only difference is that he has the desire to have sex with other females but just not me. I don't have a desire to screw anyone, but him. I just don't want to have sex now, but what he is telling me he has thoughs desires but just not for me. He says that the reason why he is turned off from me is because of us fighting, and he blames me for them. I need some really good advice please help.

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • How long should I wait before getting engaged?

    So, me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year. Lately, I have been thinking a lot about our future, and I have asked him to do the same. I love him and I do want to marry him one day. I feel in my heart that he is the one. But whenever we get on the subject of marriage, my boyfriend is always saying that he does not know when he will be ready, which is understandable, but then he said that we should wait until we've been together for about 5 years or more before he would even propose. But I'm not for that. I don't want to be in a relationship for a decade for he decides he wants to marry me. My thing is if he loves me the way he says he do then what is he waiting for? I'm and he's 23, and I know we still young and we still got time, but women on my side of the family have a habit of dating men who don't want to get married or carries on a 20 year relationship before they decide to propose. What do y'all think?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • Am I wrong for being mad at my boyfriend for spending too much time with his cousin?

    So, my boyfriend has been spending a lot of time with his female cousin who is about 20+ years older than him. So, they work together, I can understand that, so they're already spending a lot of time together. But even on days that they're not working he's always over her house. Whenever i call him to come chill together, he is over at his cousin's house, who I am sure that is not his real cousin, because they don't even know how they are related. But he spend nights over her house and she influences him in the biggest way. He always talks about her, he blows me or makes me wait until he finishes stuff with her. The other day, they spent the day together. They went to the mall, I've been dating him for a year, and not once have me and him been to the mall together, they went to some other stores, and then they went and sat in a restaurant and ate lunch together, which is funny because I have to beg him to take me out sometimes. He spends all day talking and laughing with her, but when we get together he acts like he don't have anything to talk about. We chilled yesterday at his house, which was cool, but I found out that she told him that he could go and spend some time with me like she's giving him permission or something. He jumps whenever she asks him to. Like he's my boyfriend and they act more bf and gf than we do. Do anybody else out there see this as a problem or am I wrong?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • Do my boyfriend have the right to be mad at me?

    Okay, this is the situation. So, my boyfriend has a BIG habit of making promises that he can't keep, and when I get on him about it, he gets mad at me. For example, he was out with his cousin and he said that he was going to come pick me up within two hours. So three hours has past and I did not hear anything from him. So I call him to ask him where he at, he said that he was still with his cousin, but he swear up and down that I had an attitude with him which I didn't. He said that I was acting like a child and that I always through a fit whenever I don't get my way. But my thing is, don't just leave me hanging. If he was gonna be late, then he should of called or text me to let me know that he was gonna be late. I feel like he is being inconsiderate and irresponsible. I need honest feedback about how to deal with this situation. Thanks!

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years ago