I need some advice. You see, right now I can't find a job recently and my aunt is giving money to babysitting her kid "J" .But It's been getting bad. My aunt is getting a divorce from her husband and it's been long time coming. He doesn't take care of his kids ( had one before married her.) he wants to be fun dad. And his eldest son "L" is trouble. trouble like been in juvenile jail and "L" doesn't like his brother "J". you see my aunt told her husband not to leave "L" with me because he causes problems for me and "J". But he did anyway yesterday. "L" was on the phone for about a good 10 min and and needed to use it. So I said 'I need to use phone so please don't be too long.' He doesn't respond, so "J" repeats what I said and he flips out not him about can't tell him what to do but I said if you had responded it would be okay. he goes out on the front porch to finish the call. about 5 min later he still on. " J" ask I needed the phone and that when it started. "L" called his little brother some words that made him want to fight. I'm try to defuse the mess, he keep going tell "J" to the kitchen to grab the weapon. I got it away from "J" and told him to go upstairs and relax . Then "L" comes at back to the house and throws the phone at my feet and says I'm done with it. But then he's like I'm sorry, that's wrong of me and pick the phone and hand hands me it. When my aunt got home, as you guess she was pissed. she yell at her husband about you shouldn't have left him there, be adult stop being a kid. so this morning when I got there to work He wanted to talk to me about what happen. But here's the kicker, he really just talk around it saying "L" digging a ditch, he's too much work. but didn't take responsibility for his kid. so i'm trying to figure out what to do.
Should I just give her a weeks notices so she find another babysitter? or should I keep going because her husband and "L" are move by the 1st next month?3 AnswersFamily9 years ago
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