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  • Would numbing cream make sex not hurt? please HELP ME I'm ready?

    I'm ready. Please don't ask me to list the factors , I've already thought this though. I'm dating the guy I wanna lose it too, I'm almost 23, so you can tell I've been saving it and not rushing into it. We already love each other . On an emotional level , I'm ready ... but I'm terrified of sexing only because I know it hurts ! I'm tight, never even used a tampon. He stuck his finger up there only a little bit last night and it HURT LIKE HELL when he pulled it out. Idk what I'm gonna do. and yes I already do get wet like crrazy....I just can't bear pain.

    Any tips? I've heard of numbing cream, but would it help down there. Idc if I won't feel anything, it's just for the first time.

    7 AnswersWomen's Health7 years ago
  • Is it normal to say things you don't mean when you're in bed?

    You can't hold anything a person says against them if you're horny and things get heated up with someone?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • My boyfriend worded this funny about how much he likes me?

    He basically said ''I like you a lot. If you keep it up I'll use the other L word, I'm just not ready for it yet.''

    Am I wrong in thinking it was weird to say this? Something about the way he worded it just didn't seem right. No one needs to say something like that.

    Another thing that I let slide. I didn't even know what to say because I wasn't sure how I felt.

    Just tell me your opinion. We've been dating for 2 months, we're both 23.

    3 AnswersMarriage & Divorce7 years ago
  • Is it normal to make boyfriend wait for sex if I'm a virgin?

    We've been dating for almost 2 months, and we're both 22. I've never had sex (he's been with 3 girls). He's been patient thus far, and I'm pretty sure he's the guy I wanna lose it to, and also he's been getting all other kinds of play from me. I just haven't felt like I was ready and the moment was there.

    He's been patient, caring, and understanding, but he is a 22 year old guy, and I sense his frustration. Am I being a normal girlfriend by making him wait? I want my first to be memorable not because I'm giving in. Someone said to me ''What you won't give to him, someone else will.''

    He's a good, faithful guy, but I'm worried. is 2 months too long to make a guy wait, as me being a virgin? And he's been with 3 other girls.

    6 AnswersWomen's Health7 years ago
  • Please help immediately, what it mean if my boyfriend said this?

    Ok the first time he said it 2 weeks ago I genuinely thought he was joking. Then he said it in conversation last night, in such a casual way but he made sure to make it clear he was not joking.

    '' I like a woman who does what I tell her no questions asked. You're lucky I like you so much.''

    We've been dating almost 2 months now. He got me through the holiday season. He has shown absolutely NO sign of being controlling or aggressive. Maybe a little jealous but I think that's normal. He's been a good guy so far, great actually.

    So idk since this is the second time he said it, it's a red flag. I questioned him and he said ''Idk it's kinda hot when the woman is submissive'' and he didn't mean just in bed.

    I'm 22, he's 23. Can you help me? He said we'll talk about in person (may see him today). who's been through this.

    6 AnswersMarriage & Divorce7 years ago
  • If I don't feel like I'll ever be ready to have sex, what can I do? I have a boyfriend now?

    I'm a 22 year old girl. Physically, I want it, and sometimes I feel like I need it. Then I masturbate and I'm just fine.

    But I have a real boyfriend for the first time . . . and well, of course he's gonna want it. Considering he's already been with 3 girls in comparison to me having 0 sexual partners, it's kinda hard on him. He is gentle and patient, but he is a typical man who wants it badly.

    I'm tight, never even had a tampon down there. He tries to stretch it with his fingers but it's an odd pressure so I make him stop. Not in a rude way,but I can tell he's let down. These other 3 girl he slept with I assume were so easy, I'm his first virgin.

    What do I do? Also Im a super anxious person. he doesn't like the fact that in bed when we get close to doing it I tense up. He is getting oral play, in the meantime, but idk what to do.

    People say do it when right, but idk if it'll EVER feel right. I know myself, sometimes I kinda have to dive in things to get used to it in my life.

    I'm scared but I'll never NOT be scared. Any tips AT ALL would help. I get very wet enough so no lube or toys needed.

    5 AnswersWomen's Health7 years ago
  • What's it mean if the guy I'm seeing says he likes a girl who does what she is told?

    And before you start throwing out ''Oh, he's abusive'' or ''he's controlling'' get a grip and a life. He's not.

    I guess he meant he likes being the dominant one in the relationship, which makes sense. He did kinda word it funny, is all. I've been with him for almost 2 months but in no way is he controlling or manipulative. He does call me ''good girl'' when I do something of his approval, but that's because it's a kinda sexual thing between us, I get turned on when he says it in bed.

    I'm 22 and he's 23 . . . . this is okay, right, or is it pre-warning signs? All I know about his ex-girlfriend is that he speaks of her in disgust and they only tolerate each other.

    7 AnswersMarriage & Divorce7 years ago
  • Does saying this sound better than ''Have a good day''?

    I like to say ''Enjoy the rest of your day''.

    Which one sounds better and more genuine, and why?

    8 AnswersPolls & Surveys7 years ago
  • How often do you switch cell phone cases?

    I got a new one in August and now it's November and I'm going to the same place to get another one. I just get tired of looking at it lol. Will the people there judge me?

    6 AnswersPolls & Surveys7 years ago
  • If you're good at body language can you analyze this photo?

    Have fun with it. Analyze the body language, the relations between these two people, what you can get. Have fun and i'll pick the most accurate answer.

    http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=ayx53d&s=5#.UoB9ry...

    3 AnswersPsychology7 years ago
  • If someone were to send you this in a text, is this considered respond able?

    Me basically confessing: '' I really like you and hanging out with you, you're a good friend.''

    that was me telling him I have a crush on him...he didn't respond. It's not like he is ignoring me, he just never wrote back.

    Also don't jump to the conclusion ''he's not interested.'' We've been going out on dates. I just want to know if it's one of those texts that don't require a response...

    Etiquette7 years ago
  • What can I do if I feel like I do good to people but nothing good happens to me?

    Seriously? I'm sweet and well-mannered. This week alone I did two things for 2 different friends' birthdays. I am always so kind and looking after people.

    They say if you do good, good happens to you. In what way, I don't know. I just want to feel good in my life reciprocated, all I feel is emptiness and depression. I need help; is this normal?

    Because on my birthday this year, I sat in my room alone. I've been feeling this a lot more lately now than ever.

    I don't have sh*tty friends, this is just how my life is...

    2 AnswersPsychology7 years ago
  • What can I do if I like a guy but I feel like he's too smart for me?

    He is incredibly smart but I feel like I'm not on his level. By no means am I dumb, but . . . I don't know. .I'm just extremely insecure. We've been hanging out, and I don't know what he thinks about me...Tips? anyone ever been in the same boat? I want him, but I don't want to feel inferior.

    1 AnswerPsychology7 years ago
  • Do you think these two people are cute together?

    Or ARE they together? What can you get based off this photo. 10 pts best answer.

    http://i42.tinypic.com/ayx53d.jpg

    10 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • If you're good at body language can you please analyze this picture?

    Based off body langauage, can you please describe the relationship of these two people/how they're feeling, etc. Basically anything you can get off of looking at it. I want to see how accurate the answers can get. 10 points to best answer.

    http://i42.tinypic.com/ayx53d.jpg

    1 AnswerPsychology7 years ago
  • I met a guy who actually likes me back and I'm terrified of ruining things?

    I'm 22, and I'm used to being the girl who guys use and throw away for sex and forget my existence. But this guy is different, I'm 100% sure. Also, he's 27 and never had a girlfriend. He is calm and really shy and into me, but I am paranoid I'll do one little thing and ruin things between us. I don't wanna come off as too strong , but I don't wanna appear uninterested. I don't wanna play games like people who are into each other do, but I don't want all the effort to be one-sided.

    See all my paranoia ^ lol? And if I keep this mindset, I KNOW I will just screw up. Idk how to change it. Any tips?? I need all the help I can get. I don't want the day the come where I come on here crying asking what I did wrong because he's not into me anymore.

    3 AnswersEtiquette7 years ago
  • I met a guy who actually likes me back and I'm terrified of ruining things?

    I'm 22, and I'm used to being the girl who guys use and throw away for sex and forget my existence. But this guy is different, I'm 100% sure. Also, he's 27 and never had a girlfriend. He is calm and really shy and into me, but I am paranoid I'll do one little thing and ruin things between us. I don't wanna come off as too strong , but I don't wanna appear uninterested. I don't wanna play games like people who are into each other do, but I don't want all the effort to be one-sided.

    See all my paranoia ^ lol? And if I keep this mindset, I KNOW I will just screw up. Idk how to change it. Any tips?? I need all the help I can get. I don't want the day the come where I come on here crying asking what I did wrong because he's not into me anymore.

    1 AnswerPsychology7 years ago
  • Is this a good birthday message to send to the guy I like?

    ''Happy Birthday Jeff. You are an awesome person therefore I hope your day is equally as awesome.''

    Would a guy like that, or is it lame???

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • How long after not receiving a text back can I assume I'm being ignored?

    Maybe I'm being oversensitive, but someone not writing back to a respondable text really gets under my skin. No matter where I am, even at work, it takes 30 seconds to quickly read a text, 30 seconds to write one back...I feel like these excuses people make are lame. You don't even have to be a person I like, I'll still write back pretty quick.

    But anyways...how many hours?

    8 AnswersPolls & Surveys7 years ago
  • How do I figure out if a guy is asexual?

    And please don't tell me to seduce him. I'm being serious. I kind of suspect it, but I highly doubt he is, but I'd love to satisfy my curiosity. Are there any ways, and no, I won't ask him. he is a 27 year old man and I'm just about positive he's never done anything sexual with anyone.

    2 AnswersPsychology7 years ago