I'm 22, LDS and I'm married and I have an awesome cute little man named Christian living at my house now. :D He was born with a bilateral cleft lip and palate, but is just generally danged cute. He had his lip repaired at 6 months, and a palate repair at 9 months old. Now he's 18 months old and ready to be sold to the circus! :D (not really.-_-) I'm pro-choice in all things parenting, cause no one can parent your baby better than you, no matter what they say about your methods. Do what you have to do, mama, and I'll do the same. My son was formula fed (not by my choice), sleeps in his own crib (at my insistence), isn't circumcised, and I sleep train with the Ferber method. Oh noes!