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  • NEED ADVICE ON A PETTY HUSBAND/WIFE FIGHT!!!! EASY POINTS?

    Thanks for choosing to read. I will try my best to explain in a short fast way!! Im 7 months pregnant and me and my husband both have a car each. My husband work with his vehicle 7 days a week and lets just say he hasn't been very lucky with cars (went thru 5 cars in one year.. due to buying lots of lemons) I have a luxury car that my husband gave me as a gift in April I care for my own car and it's in well condition. anyway lastnight my husbands friend who cannot drive and dont have a license, cut my husbands car on just to get the heat running because its cold and "mistakenly" ran my husbands car into the side of a building that my husband was in and the car is Done, no fixing it. Now he wants to use my car to work and leave me home in my 3rd trimester of pregnancy without a car!! why do I have to pay for his friends F-ups? and his friend isnt offering to pay a dime!!! (he think he get an "its okay card" because he's old) Helpppppp me pleaseeee.. also money is very tight!! and if he call the insurance company his friend is goint to jail for driving without a license. Am I wrong for telling my husband No you cannot use my car because you alllllllwaaaays find some way to mess cars up????

    6 AnswersMarriage & Divorce8 years ago
  • My Husband Dont Support Me In Our Pregnancy?

    Me and My King has been married for almost a year im 5 months pregnant with my 2nd child but his first child. The pregnancy wasnt planned and was a complete in uter shock. However we both was over joyed with the new ... in the begining.. i found out i was pregnant @ 6 weeks. im currently 5 months and my husband haven't been to one prenatal visit. He works 7 days a week (food business) 12 hrs a day. He REFUSE to take a day off to stay with his family. I have an income and help with bills but he is the main income. I had to beg him to take off for my birthday. I cried to him and showed him how important it is to me that he come to my appointments but he never comes. i dont no where to go from here or what to do. His job and money is #1 in his life PERIOD

    5 AnswersMarriage & Divorce8 years ago
  • My dirty crack recovered mom wants to stay with me for " a couple of days" please read!!!!?

    Okay, you might not believe this but I love my mom, she left me and my brother when I was just 9 years old and I was raised by my dad. she beggin using crack an then suddenly stop when i was about 17 or 18 years old. I never fully forgave her. anyway, she lives in an abondoned house with 2 crack head men, her brother and her cousin who is also a registered sex offender and also her younger boyfriend who is a SERIOUS alcoholic.. she let these types of people live in her home, they have there lights cut on illegally and living basically on welfare and disability checks. her hygiene is TERRIBLE. She don't wear underwears or shower or bathe.. she dont even have a tub in her house!! I have a clean decent home thats clean and now that the gas and electric company caught her and cut her lights and water off she wants to come stay with me for a couple of days. im so mad by the way she lived her live. i really dont want her coming to my homemaking it smell bad! she is huge almost 400 pounds and my furniture cant take that kind of weight.. she has no class sticks her fingers up her nose .. burps everything help! my husband wont say anything out of respect but i no he dont want her here as well, advise please!

    1 AnswerFriends9 years ago
  • Disabled woman married F1 student advice please!?

    Im 23 years old leukemia survivor, im on social security income and very weak and unable to maintain a job. I met and fell deeply in love with an f1 student, we married and now im expecting a child soon. He has been an acting caregiver and very important to me and my familys life. After marriage when my husband and I went to speak to an immigration lawyer about him obtaining his citizenship (im maryland) we were told that because I havent filed taxes I wouldnt be able to get my husband his citizenship. I have no one who could sponsor us. I feel like thats not fair because im sick unable to work and pay taxes I cant help my husband obtain his citizenship? Im stressed and crying all the time. My husband and I both don't have any criminal background.. and his status is good. somebody please tell me something that no a thing or two about the immigration Law. please help us. God Bless

    5 AnswersImmigration9 years ago
  • Help My husband told me he's moving out tonight!!!?

    im pregnant, we have been married for almost a year. We got into an argument yesterday and he was drinking some juice ignoring me.. i tried to take his juice and he he threw juice in my face and i went crazy... throwing things hitting him in his face hit him with a lamp, pulled a knife out the kitchen draw. I went crazy he threw me into the window ceil and I hit my head VERY hard. i have brusies on my arm ,my pinky is swollen and i have bad heaches. I dont want him to leave but he shouldnt disespect me and through things in my face... please give me advice

    5 AnswersMarriage & Divorce9 years ago
  • MY HUSBAND LEFT LASTNIGHT AND NEVER CAME BACK HOME.. WHAT TO DO?

    We have been married for less than a year, im pregnant with his first child (my second). Im having a really hard pregnancy, im in the hospital every other day due to stomach pains, and I need lots of help and attention. I have became somewhat a baby myself. My husband works 7 days a week and is becoming very irritated with me. Lastnight he came home mad, when he heard me moaning in bed (because of pain), he became even more mad he then had the nerve to ask me to please go to the couch so he can sleep. I was so mad, I told him "no you go to the couch to sleep", after about 5 mintues he then got up and took a bag of clothes and left! with out saying a word. I tried calling him numerous times, then he shut his phone off. I went to bed and woke up this morning i was expecting him to be on the couch sleep.. but he never came back home. im so sad that he is treating me this way. i don't no what to do. i need him to be here for me. im only 7 weeks pregnant but so far it has been a rough pregnancy. I dont no what to do. any advice??

    11 AnswersMarriage & Divorce9 years ago
  • Can My Husband Get The "Mood Swings" When I'm the one Pregnant?

    . We are newlyweds (married in Nov.) Im 6 weeks pregnant and this will be his first child, my 2nd. My husband is so excited. But now when I think back I see that him and I have been having these awful adnormal fights for a little over a month. about the same time as my pregnancy. He has been acting extremly odd, having explosive outburst when we argue.. So im wondering can men have there wives moodswings??

    2 AnswersTrying to Conceive9 years ago
  • SOMEONE TRIED TO KILL MY HUSBAND YESTERDAY!!?

    My husband got this spanish guy to fix his car like 4 days ago, the guy said he see the problems and will fix it, So my husband gave him only 30 dollars to start and the spanish guy was happy with it and he wouls receive more after the work was done. So for 2 days the guy had the car and brought it back only to tell my husband sorry i cant fix it ... b ut can i have 20 dollars? My husband was furious because he found ut the guy was only driving around and stealing **** out his car, he refused to pay the guy 20 dollars. The spanish guy called alot making threats to my husband. then yesterday while my husband was working the spanish guy and his sisters came to my husbands job they were fighting, the woman tried to stab him they slit al of his tires and busted the front windshield of the car. When the police were located one of the woman the spanish man brought started to remove her clothes to expose all of these bruises and said they came from my husband!!! all this **** over 20 dollars! I cant believe it, so my husband went to the police to press charges. the woman refused to press charges. I dont no what to do. And yesterday someone was knocking on my door (we Never have visitors) but i didnt go to see who it was. No one was arrested and im afriad for me and my husbands life please advice pleasee!

    8 AnswersMarriage & Divorce9 years ago
  • DO I HAVE A GOOD CHANCE AT GETTING HIRED IF I WAS ASKED TO COMPLETE A BACKROUND CHECK?

    I went for a group. Interview today, everything went fine. When I got home i see that The manager sent me an email to a link to complete an electronic background check. So does that mean that I got the job? My record is as clean as a preachers sheets.. So im not worried about that, Im more concerned about being hired, do this email for background check usually means i got the job??

    1 AnswerMarketing & Sales9 years ago
  • I need advice about My marriage, Easy points?

    Marriage to me, is relationship Goal.. I've reached that goal..... What now? Im 23 he's 27.. I have one child who's 6 years old from a previous relationship. what now? I feel stuck

    5 AnswersMarriage & Divorce9 years ago
  • Whitney Houston's death is freaking me out HELP!!?

    Okay, I was always a fan of Whitney's but not to the extreme as Im acting now. Im obsessed with the story of her death, I keep looking up the story and doing research on the hotel and looking at pictures. In the mean time I'm scaring the hell out of myself. Im a 23 year old married mom. Im scared to go to the bathroom at night because i will look at my tub and try to imagine Whitney laying in the tub!! I don't know whats wrong with me. Everynight since her death i have slept with the lights on. I keep hearing banging(I live in a apartment complex so that normal) Things keep falling all of a sudden. I feel like whitney is is my house. Im so scared I sound like a Freak! But i don't know what to do.Every day since her death Ive been reading up none stop or trying to find new pics or information about last saturday event. I told my friend about how i was feeling she looked at me as if I was crazy and she was freaked out about it. I react the same way about scary movies. If i go see a scary movie... Im no longer the same for about atleast 2 weeks. Help me please because Im tired of living in fear!! Please give me some advice!!

    4 AnswersR&B & Soul9 years ago
  • What are your feelings on same sex marriage?

    I Secretly and strongly disagree on Same sex marriage, The reason why it's secretly is because I have lots of gay friends who would be hurt by my decision, The reason why I strongly disagree is because of many reasons. First of all I'm a christian, It's Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve. (cheesey I know.. but also true) Don't get it twisted, If your gay, be gay. But don't make it legal, Because it's not of God... it's an abomination as stated in the Bible. Our money reads " IN GOD WE TRUST", but yet your not following his words. Maryland is next to make an decision on whether to leagilze Gay marriage or not. What's your opinion on Gay marriage.. agree or not agree why or why not?

  • My Husband didn't get me anything for valentines day!! advice?

    We are newlyweds, Just married november 8 2011. We didn't have a honeymoon what-so-ever. He works 7 days a week, He's never home he just work constantly.. our marriage consist of talking on the phone.. the entire time he's at work he wants to chat on the phone which eventually brings on arguments. Im very Lonely. Im a cancer survivor of Leukemia and Im on temporary Disability. I get 600.0 a month and 400.00 goes to bills. My husband works 7 days a week and is ALWAYS BROKE!! I never understood that. The way he works i shouldn't have to pay a dime for bills! Also, whenever he gets off (around 1am or 2am) he goes to his friends house eat and drink and talk and comes home drunk wanting sex! I don't no what to do! Im 23 he's 27. Anyhow today is valentines day and I got Absolutely nothing. Even with my little money after bills I managed to buy him under clothes boxers and tee-shirts and a gift set with men's fragrance. He was happy, but gave me Nothing! I woke up did my makeup and hair lashes new clothes everything only to be let down. He claimed he don't have money but i can't understand why. I'm hurt and embarrassed to even answer the phones to have to lie to friends and family about my Valentines Day. advice please.

    9 AnswersValentine's Day9 years ago
  • How do you guys feel about the Death of Whitney Houston?

    Just got the news that Whitney died... Feeling a little down. They are not saying the cause of death.. how are you guys feeling and what do you think was the cause of death?

    11 AnswersR&B & Soul9 years ago
  • Im taking my drivers test tomorrow and Im extremely nervous, Last mintues tips please!!?

    Im a late bloomer 23 year old mom, ready for the road test, im so nervous I cant even sleep. There so much pressure because i made the mistake of telling everbody, so now if I fail everyone would no! smh I not confident at all about the test. Im seriously getting last mintue jitters and need last mintue tips and advice on how to ace my road test. The test is in Maryland and I know the steps to passing varies from state to state help pls

    3 AnswersStandards & Testing9 years ago
  • IM 100% SURE I MET THE DEVIL TODAY! HELP?

    To day started out sort of normal... fight with husband .. made up. Went shopping, then grocery store because there was a storm coming and i didnt have enough food home. also, I don't have a car now so.. i had to pay for a ride from some random guy outside the market. He was an old man about 65, short, black balled guy with thick glasses on his face. He asked if i needed a ride, i said yes. He pulled my shopping cart to his car in the paking lot and told me to get in... i normally help pack my grocerys in the car but he didn't want my help, which was odd because its my food . So normally during the rides i try to make"small talk" being as though were complete strangers, just to get a feel of this guys behaviour..I got slim to no response at all. The vibes I was getting were so bad. I thought.."maybe he don't want to talk because i haven't paid yet'.. so despite not being close to my destination I paid upfront to let him know i wasn't trying to pull a stiffy and leave without paying. But even after i paid it was little response. My phone ring and it was my husband.. I forgot exactly what i said but before i hung up i mention something like God is good or something like that. when i hung up the man started speaking of Jermiah (biblical name i think) and how jermiah is phony and lies and how some balck woman was in charge and some men had big long hard penis and everyone was Fu##king.. so I kind've interupted and said who? he looked at me with NO SOUL IN HIS EYES and said "can i speak please without being interupted", i was so scared. As he began to speak again I realize he was taking me the wrong way from my house.. I was so scared to even speak and have him react badly. He started goin on and on as if he was schooling me about who Fu%ked who and who stupid and whos ugly, He was talking compelete nonsense. about biblical people having sex with horses, and pigs his language was so file. his voice was is a very calm manner.. there was no radio playing,just him speaking. he would occassionally look over at me and i looked him straight in the eyes to show no fear, although i was extremely terrified. to make a long story short.. i finally got some balls and said "sir, your going the wrong way" he turned in the right direction and continued to talk crazy, extremely adnormal nonsense. So when we finally got to my apartment complex i was relieved to see the maintience crew out there visible to yell for help in case he tryed anything. before i got a chance to get out he grab a picture hanging from around the rear view mirror, a photo of some thick dark skin (unattractive) young girl (maybe grand daughter around 14 or 13) and asked me do you think she's divine? I had no idea what divine meant... but i said yes she's very beautiful as well. He got mad and looked at me and said your not worth insulting. Got out to give my bags out the trunk and returned to his car smiling. he pulled off slowly to see what apartment i went into. My heart still was racing out of fear. That was early today.. he's still on my mind and I truly believe that he was pure devil 100%. Im nervous and very sound i hear i think it's him returning. help me please!! I will never get into a strangers car again! lesson learned!!

    11 AnswersReligion & Spirituality9 years ago
  • How to deal with jealousy from my brother (adults)?

    My older brother is 24 years old and his marriage is over, he got put out the military basically his life is over ad hes a drunk who refuses to go to AA meetings, Im a 23 year old woman, just recently got married. Im very happy, my husband is truly more of a man than my brother could ever be. And he's really jealous of us. when me and my husband is together around my brother he sit there an just stare and get so red. Any way last night was at my moms and he was there(drunk again of course) and he intentionally started an argument and threaten to kill me and my husband and called me some terrible terrible names. He brought up things from my past that are so sensitive to me and he knows that. I don't know what to do he acted as if he wanted to fight me, he was screaming, veins coming out his neck and face and he balled his fist up to fight but my mom got between us.. So i left.He use to always beat me up as a child. So i was very scared. I don't know what to do about this situation, He's very jealous he's not the "IT" sibling anymore. I don't know what to do. Im scared for my family life, jealousy can make you do some file unforgivable things.. somebody help

    4 AnswersFamily9 years ago
  • Everyone pls advice,Adult Sibiling rivalry!?

    Okay, Please follow me, Im going to try to shorten this story as best as I can without cutting out important details. Im the baby of the family (only girl) and I have 2 older brothers. We all have different fathers, But were just finding that out, actually the man who raised us turned out to be only my biological father.. which added to the jealousy among us.. Im 23,i have one6 year old daughter. I just got married 3 months ago. next is my brother who's 24 separated from his wife no kids, and the oldest is 27 no kids never married. About 5 years ago The 24 year old brother Got married, joined the military and had a great future ahead of him. From out of us 3 he was the "it" kid and i was happy for him although there were a few things i didn't like about his wife but i never voiced it to her, I didn't like her because she lied about her age, she lied about how many kids she had in another state, and last but not least she didn't tell him her tubes were tied before marriage. But that was his problem and not mines! so i didn't like her, but still respected her, 5 years later my 24 year old brother has a huge alcohol problem and basically ruined everything. His marriage is over and the military kicked him out. He's now living with my mom and he's basically a piece of S*%t now. One thing i did recently i admit was wrong is i posted on facebook when i realized his wife blocked me was "ha ha my brothers wife blocked me , i don't like you either whore ha ha " I admit i was wrong but there marriage was already over and she couldn't see it anyway because i was blocked.Any who, So now im married to an amazing man, he love me and my daughter from a previous relationship unconditionally and now my life is blossoming Im the "it" girl now, all of my family is talking about me and my awesome new life. The last couple of times I seen my brother, he was at my amazing new house my husband got for hosting my christmas party and jealousy was all over his face, it was clear as day he was jealous. He could NEVER gotten this type of house for his wife, I tried to be understanding of his situation and talk to him random convo but I felt more distant then usual. But i never spoke on it. LaLast night went to visit my mom and he was there drunk. he mentioned my facebook comment then threaten to kill me and my husband. he had veins popping out of his neck and face he was so red acting like a mad man. My daughter was there and was crying and very scared and so was I. He stood over me with his fist balled up like he was going to swing but he didn't hit me. He was he was so close to doing it and I know I can't beat him fighting. he was screaming calling me horrible names he never talked to me this way before Everyone at my moms house was so scared to even get him out my face. My husband DoDon'teally know my brothers that well but the little he does no he love! so i was shy to tell him everything that happened lalast nightI told him some of it but not all. I don't know what to do. Im crying writing this now. Advice please. Its to the point I think my brother will kill us out of jealousy. He has struggled with anger all his life. HELP ME PLEASE im serious

    3 AnswersFamily9 years ago
  • Everyone pls advice,Adult Sibiling rivalry!?

    Okay, Please follow me, Im going to try to shorten this story as best as I can without cutting out important details. Im the baby of the family (only girl) and I have 2 older brothers. We all have different fathers, But were just finding that out, actually the man who raised us turned out to be only my biological father.. which added to the jealousy among us.. Im 23,i have one6 year old daughter. I just got married 3 months ago. next is my brother who's 24 separated from his wife no kids, and the oldest is 27 no kids never married. About 5 years ago The 24 year old brother Got married, joined the military and had a great future ahead of him. From out of us 3 he was the "it" kid and i was happy for him although there were a few things i didn't like about his wife but i never voiced it to her, I didn't like her because she lied about her age, she lied about how many kids she had in another state, and last but not least she didn't tell him her tubes were tied before marriage. But that was his problem and not mines! so i didn't like her, but still respected her, 5 years later my 24 year old brother has a huge alcohol problem and basically ruined everything. His marriage is over and the military kicked him out. He's now living with my mom and he's basically a piece of S*%t now. One thing i did recently i admit was wrong is i posted on facebook when i realized his wife blocked me was "ha ha my brothers wife blocked me , i don't like you either whore ha ha " I admit i was wrong but there marriage was already over and she couldn't see it anyway because i was blocked.Any who, So now im married to an amazing man, he love me and my daughter from a previous relationship unconditionally and now my life is blossoming Im the "it" girl now, all of my family is talking about me and my awesome new life. The last couple of times I seen my brother, he was at my amazing new house my husband got for hosting my christmas party and jealousy was all over his face, it was clear as day he was jealous. He could NEVER gotten this type of house for his wife, I tried to be understanding of his situation and talk to him random convo but I felt more distant then usual. But i never spoke on it. LaLast night went to visit my mom and he was there drunk. he mentioned my facebook comment then threaten to kill me and my husband. he had veins popping out of his neck and face he was so red acting like a mad man. My daughter was there and was crying and very scared and so was I. He stood over me with his fist balled up like he was going to swing but he didn't hit me. He was he was so close to doing it and I know I can't beat him fighting. he was screaming calling me horrible names he never talked to me this way before Everyone at my moms house was so scared to even get him out my face. My husband DoDon'teally know my brothers that well but the little he does no he love! so i was shy to tell him everything that happened lalast nightI told him some of it but not all. I don't know what to do. Im crying writing this now. Advice please. Its to the point I think my brother will kill us out of jealousy. He has struggled with anger all his life. HELP ME PLEASE im serious

    3 AnswersGrade-Schooler9 years ago
  • Does anyone know how to cure my PCOS?? newly dx?

    Im 23 years old, my menstrual cycle is very irregular, only 4 periods last year and so far this month nothing. Im just married about 2 months ago and now we want a baby. But this PCOS news knocked us to our feet. any advice on how to cure PCOS? what kind of diets? My doc also mentioned that i might be a diabetic... that was so hard to hear! Im over weight i've been over weight almost my whole entire life. I carry my weight well and it's never strike a health issue until now! help advice please! any fast? home remedies? Thanks in advance for your responses

    2 AnswersWomen's Health9 years ago