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Im 42 married and enjoy meeting new people ,and learning new stuff every day .And sharing things with someone outside the picture .

  • Teen age son seems angery all the time?Help?

    My son is 15 and he has been going Thu alot in his life his mom my sister was murdered at age 2 and I adopted him age 5 he was tested for cancer of the bones ,this was on going until age 7 then find he has a bone disease and right now it is not a huge problem it causes holes in the bone but thank God it is not growing.At age 13 he was kicked and lost a testicle this was very hard for him.Then his step dad the only dad he knew left us for another woman after a marriage of 17 years and he has had alot of problems from his x dad ,He was abusive to me and had anger issues all the time .Well my son has issues in school he hates it he refuses to try harder and he can just wont.He has problems being late for school it is a constant battle here with school.I know this stresses him .But as his mother I get very stressed trying to deal with somethings he is doing ,He seems only happy when he is getting his way.Whatever it may be.I have had to ground him lately over school tardies etc and now he is acting out in anger ,tonite he busted a hole in the wall and slams stuff and even cursed for the first time.I need advise I give in alot to keep the peace but I know this is doing him no good and this time I have stuck to it and his behaviors are worse.I don't know if he is depressed or just plan wants his way about everything.I have 2 grown son's and never had these problems.He said today he wishes he would die because I caught him in anger slamming the truck door over and over.I have taking him tocounselingg and it did not help because he refused to talk.Ok now please help me to know what istrulyy best and please my question don't need rude answers.Only answer if you can offer help.

    4 AnswersAdolescent8 years ago
  • Please help me understand why?

    How would you feel if your husband had a habit of staying up all nite watching tv in the living room and then you try to go to bed at a ok time and you are wakened by him turning the bedroom light on and messing with his cell phone after you have only been asleep maybe 4 hours?I have let him know to do his phone stuff before coming into the bedroom and he just don't get it.I said to him how would you like to be disrespected like that he said I had to fix something on my phone and it was dark,I said I would never while you are asleep flip the light on and start making noise and he said I thought it would not bother you,Now I tell him every nite to play on his phone before coming to bed .Sorry I am alittle angery

    4 AnswersMarriage & Divorce8 years ago
  • Please Men try to help me with this I have posted this before?

    Please help me with understanding these thing's and I really don't want no rude remarks as this is a very serious question to me.Ok I will try not to make this sound gross,My husband is 61 and I am 48 when we got together a year ago he said he takes pills sometimes to help him perform and I told him that was not a issue with me that a relationship is so much more than sex ,Well he spoke of all the thing's he did with the past women and it sounded as tho he did not have much problem in bed.Well I know I am a attractive woman not bragging but there is a reason why I say this,I have never been with a man before that did not want sex or to touch and cuddle with me ,even my last marriage he was a train wreck but was attracted to me.Well to get to one question and that is why would my husband look at naked women on tv and on his phone and porn so much and never touch me in any way.He says he is old and dead that way but yet he constantly is busted looking at porn or naked women?What is going on here?Because Of this I have lost all desire for him in the sexual way and am finding myself very bitter and wanting the touch of another man ,Only because I am lonley for affection.We sleep in same bed but it is like being roommates we have only been married one year and have had sex 3 times and it was bad.He could not stay erect even with pills for long enough to please either of us ,But yet he could do with his own hand.Ok now question 2 and this I have never seen before in any man I have been with.My husband calls it drulling down the leg yea gross but in fact he has alot of what seems to be kinda like precume ,even when he is not excited in any way and it runs out he thinks it is precume ,But this is not what I have ever seen when a man precumes ,it always happened as he became hard.and it was not huge enough to run down the leg meaning the amount of fluid.So I am having real problems understanding all this he is doing and he see's no wrong in him looking or watching others have sex on tv or porn.I see alot wrong when he has no relationship with me.?Any advise will be helpful ,I need to try to understand because all this is effecting how I feel as well about him,Help!

    2 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships8 years ago
  • Shortened for men to help answer,Pls be nice I need advise?

    Is it normal for a man to watch and look at naked women and ect..and never touch the wife and only had sex 3 times in over a year ,he has problems with ed and meds don't help alot.But it hurts as his wife that he can watch porn and never show any interest in sex with me his wife He says he loves me and finds me attractive but he claims it is his age and problem is why he don't If that is the case why watch porn ?.

    3 AnswersMarriage & Divorce8 years ago
  • Men Please help me understand?

    Please Men try to help me with this I have posted this before?

    Please help me with understanding these thing's and I really don't want no rude remarks as this is a very serious question to me.Ok I will try not to make this sound gross,My husband is 61 and I am 48 when we got together a year ago he said he takes pills sometimes to help him perform and I told him that was not a issue with me that a relationship is so much more than sex ,Well he spoke of all the thing's he did with the past women and it sounded as tho he did not have much problem in bed.Well I know I am a attractive woman not bragging but there is a reason why I say this,I have never been with a man before that did not want sex or to touch and cuddle with me ,even my last marriage he was a train wreck but was attracted to me.Well to get to one question and that is why would my husband look at naked women on tv and on his phone and porn so much and never touch me in any way.He says he is old and dead that way but yet he constantly is busted looking at porn or naked women?What is going on here?Because Of this I have lost all desire for him in the sexual way and am finding myself very bitter and wanting the touch of another man ,Only because I am lonley for affection.We sleep in same bed but it is like being roommates we have only been married one year and have had sex 3 times and it was bad.He could not stay erect even with pills for long enough to please either of us ,But yet he could do with his own hand.Ok now question 2 and this I have never seen before in any man I have been with.My husband calls it drulling down the leg yea gross but in fact he has alot of what seems to be kinda like precume ,even when he is not excited in any way and it runs out he thinks it is precume ,But this is not what I have ever seen when a man precumes ,it always happened as he became hard.and it was not huge enough to run down the leg meaning the amount of fluid.So I am having real problems understanding all this he is doing and he see's no wrong in him looking or watching others have sex on tv or porn.I see alot wrong when he has no relationship with me.?Any advise will be helpful ,I need to try to understand because all this is effecting how I feel as well about him,Help!

    2 AnswersMen's Health8 years ago
  • Please Men try to help me with this I have posted this before?

    Please help me with understanding these thing's and I really don't want no rude remarks as this is a very serious question to me.Ok I will try not to make this sound gross,My husband is 61 and I am 48 when we got together a year ago he said he takes pills sometimes to help him perform and I told him that was not a issue with me that a relationship is so much more than sex ,Well he spoke of all the thing's he did with the past women and it sounded as tho he did not have much problem in bed.Well I know I am a attractive woman not bragging but there is a reason why I say this,I have never been with a man before that did not want sex or to touch and cuddle with me ,even my last marriage he was a train wreck but was attracted to me.Well to get to one question and that is why would my husband look at naked women on tv and on his phone and porn so much and never touch me in any way.He says he is old and dead that way but yet he constantly is busted looking at porn or naked women?What is going on here?Because Of this I have lost all desire for him in the sexual way and am finding myself very bitter and wanting the touch of another man ,Only because I am lonley for affection.We sleep in same bed but it is like being roommates we have only been married one year and have had sex 3 times and it was bad.He could not stay erect even with pills for long enough to please either of us ,But yet he could do with his own hand.Ok now question 2 and this I have never seen before in any man I have been with.My husband calls it drulling down the leg yea gross but in fact he has alot of what seems to be kinda like precume ,even when he is not excited in any way and it runs out he thinks it is precume ,But this is not what I have ever seen when a man precumes ,it always happened as he became hard.and it was not huge enough to run down the leg meaning the amount of fluid.So I am having real problems understanding all this he is doing and he see's no wrong in him looking or watching others have sex on tv or porn.I see alot wrong when he has no relationship with me.?Any advise will be helpful ,I need to try to understand because all this is effecting how I feel as well about him,Help!

  • Men can help me better with this question?

    Is it normal for a man to for no real reason to have sperm run down his leg or precume not trying to be silly nor gross but my husband of a year is 60 with erection problems and can not perform even with pills has this to happen ,it is a good amount that drains Is this normal I have never seen it before ?

  • Question for men need advise please don't be rude?

    Men most likely can help answer this best?

    Ok first let me say this is not very easy to ask without it sounding gross ,So I will just ask.My husband has major issues with erections and he is 60 and he trys the Viagra pills and many others and none seem to help.My question is that is it normal to loose alot of precume ,really for no reason ?Enough that it runs down his leg?Is this normal or a sign something is wrong?Sorry if it sounds gross but I need to know?We have been together over a year and have had sex maybe 3 times and he wont see a dr about this.Need advise

    4 AnswersMen's Health8 years ago
  • Men most likely can help answer this best?

    Ok first let me say this is not very easy to ask without it sounding gross ,So I will just ask.My husband has major issues with erections and he is 60 and he trys the Viagra pills and many others and none seem to help.My question is that is it normal to loose alot of precume ,really for no reason ?Enough that it runs down his leg?Is this normal or a sign something is wrong?Sorry if it sounds gross but I need to know?We have been together over a year and have had sex maybe 3 times and he wont see a dr about this.Need advise

  • Weight loss help please?

    I am about 50 lbs more than I want to be and I need motivation to start and I have began to try to eat better than I was less junk more veggies.Does anyone know of a quick way to loose a few pounds fast I think that would motivate me to push harder,And please don't be rude that is not nice ty

    45 AnswersDiet & Fitness8 years ago
  • Married and so confused?Help"Men please read as well need help understanding?

    I have now been married over a year and my husband is older than me he is now 61 and I am 48 In the begining of us dating he acted so full of energy he looked to be 50 and he said so many things that I was looking for in a man.Then we married to fast I know this now and he has totally changed ,while dating he did tell me he has some problems sometimes with erection's But he still knew how to please his woman.And sex is not everything to me,I love to cuddle ,hold hands ,lay beside eachother and watch tv.And dance well he said he was all this But we have been together over a year had sex 3 times and he has touched me there once and never touched my boobs and I am a attractive lady Not bragging but I know this and I have never been with a man that was like this .I have been married before and dated plenty and never had a man that did not touch me at all.But he says he has problems with his man hood and he dont want to start something with me he cant do so he just don't touch me at all.Now he loves to watch dirty movies when I am not around and he always looks at naked women on his phone but say's he don't get turned on by it !Can you imagine how I feel knowing I could go out there and a man would love to be with me and make love to me even if it was not sex.I have talked to him so much about this and now it makes me sick to thing it would happen if I had to beg for it and I have lost my desire for him now because of him looking at porn and stuff but can't touch me.I need advise I am so tired of trusting men with my heart.My last marriage he was abusive and a druggie after 17 years we divorced.Now I am still hurting.Please nothing rude I don't deserve it.

    4 AnswersMarriage & Divorce8 years ago
  • Help !!!Need Advise please?

    How does a wife get past this?Am I weird?

    I was raised with alot of respect for others and this is going to sound silly,But i have real problems with my husband letting gas off anytime any were at the dinner table constantly in bed and he sleeps nude.Plus every time I look at him he has his finger up his nose picking and I am so very grossed by this and to be honest it hurts how I feel about him.We have only had sex 3 times in a year we have been married?He says he cant and the times we did he took pills and rushed it and was selfish with attention I never get any attention in the intimacy way ay all .I need advise pls I feel like I am just a roomate he is older than I he is 60.

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    Please tell me why people read your question and then call you a bad name?.Grow up! My question is serious and I am 48 not a child and I don't think only of myself I respect others by taking my personal things were they belong and that is in the bathroom!Yes It is true only had sex 3 times in a year he has some issues and took pills the three times and I am not at all Saying I am beautiful but I am a pretty woman.Like I said I have never been with a man that would turn down attention in that way but yet watches dirty movies on his phone and on tv. and porn, I just don't get it?He is 60 and I am 48 .He even said he played me to get me he told my sister this because I have questioned him about how much he changed now has no energy and wont do anything we did while dating.So it is not even all about sex it is intimacy at all in any way.

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    4 AnswersMarriage & Divorce8 years ago
  • How does a wife get past this?Am I weird?

    I was raised with alot of respect for others and this is going to sound silly,But i have real problems with my husband letting gas off anytime any were at the dinner table constantly in bed and he sleeps nude.Plus every time I look at him he has his finger up his nose picking and I am so very grossed by this and to be honest it hurts how I feel about him.We have only had sex 3 times in a year we have been married?He says he cant and the times we did he took pills and rushed it and was selfish with attention I never get any attention in the intimacy way ay all .I need advise pls I feel like I am just a roomate he is older than I he is 60.

    7 AnswersMarriage & Divorce8 years ago
  • How to become a happier person?

    Ok first no rude answer's please !I am 48 years old I have had a very hard life and been hurt allot .I just need some tips on things that might help me to learn how to be happy and have happy thoughts and how to love me and be happy with me,I have been told I cant find happiness in my husband I have to find my own happiness.So any thing you can say to help will be appreciated.

    3 AnswersPsychology8 years ago
  • Married But not happy:{?

    I have been married for one year and this is not my first marriage my ex husband of 17 years cheated and was a drug addict on and off .We divorced I was heart broken really hurting,So I started dating and it was just so hard to meet men that wanted anything more than sex.And I met this man I am now married to he charmed me and was totally awesome ,He is older but acted as young as I .He is a good man but the image he gave me that attracted me to him ,was nothing more than that.He has changed he acts like he is ready for a nursing home now and I am like what the crap is going on here.I try to except him for just who he is but the Truth is he did not share with me before marriage Alto of thing's like addiction to porn and he can't or wont have sex with me.We have been married a year and have had sex or any kind of intimacy maybe 3 time's.And to be honest I do care for him Alto but I am the kind of woman and he knew this upfront I believe in honesty all the way.And when I try to tell him I need attention and I said what has happened? He said I charmed you didn't I....Well No I am not in it for just sex but any woman deserves to be held and touched and cuddled sometimes.So my question is Am I wrong to expect this from him?He is great to me and my kid's as far as being here and saying he loves us .He is not mean he is gentle but shows no emotion sexually at all in any form but does look at naked women and porn when not around me at first when he started this he did not care if I seen it on his phone now I am sure he hides it,So advise PLUS

    5 AnswersMarriage & Divorce8 years ago
  • Is it normal for Husband not to have sex?

    My husband is 60 and he had told me he had some issues keep a erection we have only been married a year .The only sex he has is with his private porn addiction.I have told him the wrong in this is he has no need for me and that I don't understand I am very pretty and younger than him I have needs to ?Help?

    10 AnswersMarriage & Divorce8 years ago
  • 14 year old son??What do I do?

    I have gotten some awsome answer's but want to go on with the advise as I need the support and advise.My son has a bone diease and seems to have alot of health issues.But he refusses to do his work in school and does not seem to care to fail and I take his stuff he is very angery,I just don't know what I am doing wrong I have tried being very gentle and talking to him to see what is wrong and he just get's rude .His dad left us for another woman last year but he gets to visit him.I can not let him continue to get pitty because of his life.I just don't know what to do about school he will not try and he is so smart it is he hates it and don't care.I have talked and I also have set him up to see a conseler .But now I am angery most all the time because of his behaviors.

    1 AnswerToddler & Preschooler9 years ago
  • My 14 year old son is really driving me nuts?

    He is failing 3 classes in school and is showing anger and rage Alto ,for example if he don't get his way he will become very disrespectful to me raising his voice etc.I am so tired of the constant fight with him.I have taken all his things from him and it still is not working ,Any help pls ?

    5 AnswersGrade-Schooler9 years ago
  • 20. Determine the vertex of the graph of the quadratic function:?

    f(x) = x2 + 3x +13/4.

    a. (3/4,5/4)

    b. (-3/2,11/2)

    c. (3/2,13/4)

    d. (3,13/4)

    e. (-3/2,1)

    4 AnswersMathematics1 decade ago
  • 19. Find the slope intercept form of:?

    the equation of the line that passes through the given point and has the indicated slope: (-3,5) and m = 5.

    a. y = 5x - 3

    b. y = 5x + 5

    c. y = 5x - 8

    d. y = 5x + 20

    e. y = 5x - 20

    2 AnswersMathematics1 decade ago