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  • For Jews: How do you view your relationship with your parents after your marriage?

    Do you deem yourself under your parents' authority, or do you view yourself (and your new family) as independent entity?

    What do your custom and your religious teachers say?

    1 AnswerMarriage & Divorce2 months ago
  • For Jews: Do you still give tithes?

    If you do, how do you calculate it, and how do you give it?

    If you do not give tithe, what is your  reason?

    Thank you.

    3 AnswersReligion & Spirituality2 months ago
  • How to deal with very negative person?

    I know a seemingly nice girl. However, her boyfriend once told me that she was very negative. Every day she talks about dark side of at least 1 person: either her friend, her cousin, her sister, her parent or her boss. Sometimes she also complains about her boyfriend. If she cannot find anything to complain, she talks about someone's past mistakes (even though the person has said sorry and has settled the matter already). Is this normal? What advice can I offer him?

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating2 years ago
  • How to distinguish conditions which cause mood swings (BD, BPD, schizophrenia, PMS, high sensitivity personality, etc.)?

    Some people seem to change mood quickly and deeply, e.g. feeling happy then 5 minutes later feeling very angry or crying for minor trigger, e.g. slightly unpleasant words or slightly unfavorable situation.

    I researched there are some possible cause of mood swings, e.g. bipolar disorder, borderline personality disorder, schizophrenia, premenstrual syndrome, highly sensitive personality. How to know which one causes the mood swings? Is there any other possible cause?

    Thanks.

    2 AnswersMental Health5 years ago
  • Adakah tempat makan yang cozy (enak dipakai untuk tempat ngobrol), harganya terjangkau, dan tidak terlalu ramai di Jakarta Utara?

    Kalau ada, di mana? Berapa kira-kira biaya untuk 1 kali makan & minum?

    Terima kasih.

    2 AnswersLain-lain - Kuliner5 years ago
  • Do you think a guy who do not want to be in a relationship with a girl who is not physically attractive for him is shallow?

    Please explain your view about importance of physical attraction in romantic relationship (particularly courtship and marriage) and your gender.

    Thanks.

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • Is it fair for a guy to leave a girl for another girl?

    My sister is quite close to a guy. They often chat and hang out together (sometimes alone, sometimes with their friends) and look quite compatible to each other. But this guy never says that he loves her or he wants her to be his SO. Now he is wooing another girl. My sister is a kind person and rarely gets angry or bursts into tears, but she may be sad. Do you think this is fair?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • Is it fair for a guy to leave a girl for another girl?

    My sister is quite close to a guy. They often chat and hang out together (sometimes alone, sometimes with their friends) and look quite compatible to each other. But this guy never says that he loves her or he wants her to be his SO. Now he is wooing another girl. My sister is a kind person and rarely gets angry or bursts into tears, but she may be sad. Do you think this is fair?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • For INTJs who have been married or in a relationship: how did you start your relationship?

    According to MBTI description, INTJ is the most independent type who relies on logic rather than warm-fuzzy feeling, calculating almost every step. This causes great difficulty in making relationship. However, there are many INTJs who are successful in relationship.

    Do you remember how that happened to you? What makes decide to settle down and forsake some parts of your independent bachelor life?

    2 AnswersPsychology5 years ago
  • Do you have work experience in Business Intelligence/ Data Warehousing/ Data Mining field?

    If you do, would you please share your experience, e.g. work environment, working hours, overtime, remuneration (salary, bonus, etc), pros and cons, etc?

    Thanks.

    1 AnswerTechnology5 years ago
  • Apakah ada kebudayaan yang benar-benar asli Indonesia, tidak ada pengaruh dari budaya luar?

    Saya amati beberapa budaya yang disebut "asli Indonesia" ternyata banyak dipengaruhi budaya luar. Misalnya wayang kulit, ceritanya diambil dari kisah-kisah Mahabharata dan Ramayana ("impor" dari India).Budaya Minang punya banyak kemirip dengan budaya Melayu (Malaysia/ Brunei). Budaya Betawi mengadopsi unsur-unsur budaya Arab dan China. Budaya Dayak Indonesia punya kemiripan dengan budaya Dayak Malaysia. Apakah ada budaya yang benar-benar asli dan khas Indonesia, yang tidak ada kemiripannya dengan budaya dari luar Indonesia? Kalau ada, tolong sebutkan contoh-contohnya. Terima kasih.

    3 AnswersAntropologi5 years ago
  • Untuk teman-teman Muslim: Belakangan ini ada banyak polemik mengenai kehidupan sosial-politik kaum muslimin. Apa yang sebenarnya terjadi?

    Misalnya: menegakkan hukum syariah dalam kehidupan berbangsa dan bernegara, penggerebekan tempat-tempat yang dianggap tidak sesuai dengan hukum agama oleh golongan tertentu, penolakan terhadap pejabat pemerintah non-muslim, larangan untuk mengucapkan selamat Natal, penggunaan cadar di kampus saat ujian, bersikap curiga/defensif terhadap agama lain atau suku tertentu (padahal di suku itu ada orang-orang muslim juga), sampai pemberangkatan beberapa orang ke negara asing untuk "berjihad". Padahal isu-isu ini sebelumnya tidak muncul. Kadang-kadang ha ini menimbulkan kesan bagi pihak luar bahwa Islam mengajarkan untuk selalu berusaha menguasai pemerintahan (entah benar atau tidak).

    Jangan salah sangka, saya punya teman-teman baik dari berbagai agama, termasuk

    Islam, jadi saya tidak bermaksud memojokkan siapapun. Saya cuma ingin tahu apakah ada sesuatu yang sedang terjadi di kalangan umat muslim saat ini.

    CATATAN:

    1. Mohon fokus pada inti permasalahan, jangan menyimpang. Kalau mau berdakwah di pertanyaan lain atau media lain silakan, tapi jangan di pertanyaan ini.

    2. No SARA!!! Jangan memojokkan atau menyebarkan kebencian terhadap suku, agama, atau kelompok-kelompok apapun. Bagi yang berbuat demikian, saya tidak segan-segan mengambil tindakan tegas.

    3. No conspiracy theory. Dalam menyampaikan sesuatu mohon didukung fakta/data dan analisis yang kuat, bukan hanya kabar angin.

    Terima kasih sebelumnya atas jawaban-jawaban yang masuk.

    6 AnswersAgama & Kepercayaan5 years ago
  • Is "employee sense of belonging" just an illusion preached by HR experts?

    It is very good to have an engaging job and workplace. However, (generally speaking) companies are established for a main purpose: owners' profit. Furthermore, company is just a concept plus some legal documents kept in government's office (unlike a community like church or other social groups). Despite your best effort and great loyalty, one day you will cease to be part of the company. If you work well and lucky enough, you will retire with quite nice amount of pension. Otherwise, you will get fired or get forced to resign. Isn't it better to see workplace as a market: you sell your service and you get money for it? You don't cry when one of your customer do not come to your shop anymore. Find other customers, life goes on. Less emotional attachment, no hard feeling. What do you think?

    6 AnswersLaw & Ethics5 years ago
  • Dari segi penghasilan dan fasilitas, apakah lebih baik bekerja di perusahaan spesialis IT (konsultan, software house, dsb) atau end user?

    Banyak yang bilang bahwa kalau kita bekerja di perusahaan konsultan IT atau semacamnya, kita akan lebih cepat berkembang secara profesional dan lebih banyak pengalaman, tapi tingkat stress lebih tinggi. Apakah gaji, bonus, komisi, fasilitas, dsb yang diberikan perusahaan IT umumnya lebih baik daripada perusahaan non-IT untuk profesional IT? Dan apakah perbedaannya sepadan dengan waktu, usaha, dan tenaga ekstra yang dikeluarkan? Mohon pencerahannya,terutama dari para master yang sudah berpengalaman.

    Terima kasih.

    2 AnswersLain-lain - Komputer6 years ago
  • If one should be happy when single, why should one be in a special relationship?

    Some experts advise singles to live their lives to the fullest, and not to be desperate for special ones. But if that is the case, is there any reason to find a boy/girlfriend, fiancee, spouse, etc?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • Untuk teman-teman Kristiani: Bagaimana sebaiknya berinvestasi pada reksadana tanpa melupakan etika Kristen?

    Reksadana merupakan wahana investasi yang memudahkan kita untuk berinvestasi pada perusahaan-perusahaan yang sudah go public. Akan tetapi sebagian dari perusahaan itu bisnisnya lebih banyak membawa kerugian bagi masyarakat, misalnya perusahaan rokok yang belakangan ini mendapat sorotan berbagai kalangan karena tingginya biaya kesehatan dan risiko yang ditanggung seorang perokok.

    Saat ini ada cukup banyak produk reksadana. Manajer Investasi-lah yang sepenuhnya menentukan saham-saham mana yang akan dikelola. Teman-teman Muslim bisa membeli reksadana syariah yang sesuai dengan nilai-nilai dan keyakinan mereka. Sayangnya di Indonesia sepertinya belum ada reksadana yang bisa mengekspresikan keyakinan Kristiani (di luar negeri misalnya Amerika Serikat sudah ada reksadana semacam ini). Apakah ada solusi bagi orang-orang Kristiani yang berniat untuk berinvestasi dengan membeli reksadana?

    Terima kasih atas jawabannya.

    3 AnswersAgama & Kepercayaan8 years ago
  • Why can't my SSRS (SQL Server Reporting Service) send emails?

    I am trying to move all SQL Databases and services to a new [physical] server. Everything seems OK until I try to move the SSRS. I extracted .rdl files etc & installed them to the new server using RSScripter. When I see in my web browser, the reports look fine. But the reports are never sent. The status is "The email address in one or more recipients is not valid". I made sure I typed the email addresses correctly.

    I have configured Reporting Service in new server as well.

    I don't know how to solve this. Could this have anything to do with mail server?

    Note: I use SQL 2005 and Windows Server 2003 SP 2

    2 AnswersOther - Computers9 years ago
  • Do you agree this statement: "men [and women] are source of most problems in this world"?

    Nowadays we hear a lot of problems in the world: global warming, declining genetic diversity, discrimination, pollution, misguided capitalism & democracy, corruption, money laundering, illnesses (AIDS & HIV, H1N1), economic crises, natural disasters, etc etc. Some of these problems are by nature, and we can do nothing to prevent it. But most of these problems are caused by men.

    Men are basically lazy & greedy. Human being is weak, slow, & unreliable (although human being is creative, flexible, & versatile).

    What do you think?

    8 AnswersPhilosophy10 years ago
  • Ada yang tahu info & referensi/ sumber2 mengenai software2 berikut?

    Database engine: PostgreSQL v.8.2.6

    OS: SuSE Linux Pro 10.2 (Open SuSE 10.2) atau lebih baru

    Application Server: JBoss Application Server v.3.0.8

    Web Server: Apache Tomcat v.5.0.28

    Java SDK: Java 2 SDK 1.4.2_06

    Berapa lama yang diperlukan untuk belajar dari awal?

    Terima kasih.

    1 AnswerPerangkat Lunak1 decade ago