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  • whats does (0) mean????????????

    what does this mean when someone sends you a text?

    1 AnswerWords & Wordplay7 years ago
  • How do I answer this text?

    I asked a guy if he wanted to go out and have some fun together at a shooting range.

    His response was I will let you know?

    My question is his response a good sign or a bad one.

    and how should I reply to his text?

    Please advise and thank you everyone for your help.

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Dating Advice, space and ect?

    So this guy where dating for about 3 weeks. We talked for hours. texted. Talked some more. hung out. watch a movie, kissed and then when I thought everything was going well my world fell apart. I am still trying to figure out what I did? Or why this happend and thats why I am here to get some advice.

    After the night we kissed and man did we have chemistry...Lets just say if It wasent for my morals about one nights stands. We both would of been in the bedroom.

    When he left. Everything seemed good. He never called that night nor the next day until I texted him and asked him what was wrong? He told me that he would call me later that night but we ended up talking on the phone and thats when he said yes that there was something wrong that after he left and started driving home. He started to have all these mixed emotions and felt guilty. He was in a relationship for 5 years and broke up 8 months ago. He told me he felt like he was cheating on his ex. My initial reaction was I hung up... Then he called back and I answered. I asked him to come over and talk to me face to face.

    He said that this made hims realize he is not ready for a relationship. I asked him if he still loved his ex. He said no. That he has all these angry emotions towards her. I had pointed that out to him previously in a conversation. I was hurt. Tears in my eyes he hugged and console me. and then he started to get emotional and said he felt terrible for hurting me. That was never his intention and wanted to be honest because the both of us respect and value honesty. During the conversation there where many times we both came close or almost kissed but pulled away because it was not right.

    Then he goes home two days go by. Mind you we are still talking and I had not heard from him so I left a couple of messages. He calls me back that night yelling at me because his friends father just passed away. He told me that he was with his friend of 25 years and that I picked the worst time to call. He said you are making me feel like we are in a relationship. Like i have to report to you and continued yelling at me. I didnt say a word. He said he had to go and hung up. I didnt call back I didnt text. I actually went to bed early. Thats night at 3 am in the morning I get a text from him. This is what they said;

    Please read the text I am about to send you and please listen to the. I want you to please stay on track with your goals and I beleive you will get where you want to be. You truely are an awesome person. I just really need space right now. I am sorry I blew up at your today. I am just in a dark place at this time in my life but you will see me again one day if you want to. I just need to work on myself first and I truely hope you continue to also. If you agree just reply with an ok.

    15 mintues later I answered OKAY!!!

    I would like to no what you think and if you think this I have lost this man for good. I am continuing with working on myself and my goals.

    I just dont no what to do.

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • How long do I wait for him to call. Review this meet and greet?

    So right now. I am tripping and need your help. I went out on Saturday for a meet and greet with a guy at Starbucks. We talked for an hour and half. Great conversation. He walked me to my car. He laughed and joked for a few minutes. And while he was at my car he took my number down and asked if I would like to go out for dinner this week. I said yes but he didn’t say a specific day. So I assume he will be in touch. We hugged one another and he asked if he could kiss me. I said no but you can on the cheek. I told him I was a city girl with old fashion values and he said he could respect that because I don’t know who he is. He then said I like you and I do hope you know how cute you are. Which was a really nice compliment. I sent a little text that night saying Thank s for the tea, and great conversation and how it was a pleasure to meet him  but he never responded back. I meet this guy from online and I no when you are online of course you are going to continue looking because that what dating is. I get its dating multiple people but 6 o’clock tonight will be day 2. How long should I give this guy to call me for the dinner date. I really liked him and just want some advice, what I should do. Did I blow it by not kissing him? Why hasn’t he called. I am tripping over this guy when he said all these nice things and was such a gentlemen. Was I conned? I need some insight. Please help, as I am new to the dating scene after 12 years you kind of forget.

    And he is still online looking for other people, Is that a sign he is not interested?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Dating ? advice? ????????????

    So right now. I am tripping and need your help. I went out on Saturday for a meet and greet with a guy at Starbucks. We talked for an hour and half. Great conversation. He walked me to my car. He laughed and joked for a few minutes. And while he was at my car he took my number down and asked if I would like to go out for dinner this week. I said yes but he didn’t say a specific day. So I assume he will be in touch. We hugged one another and he asked if he could kiss me. I said no but you can on the cheek. I told him I was a city girl with old fashion values and he said he could respect that because I don’t know who he is. He then said I like you and I do hope you know how cute you are. Which was a really nice compliment. I sent a little text that night saying Thank s for the tea, and great conversation and how it was a pleasure to meet him  but he never responded back. I meet this guy from online and I no when you are online of course you are going to continue looking because that what dating is. I get its dating multiple people but 6 o’clock tonight will be day 2. How long should I give this guy to call me for the dinner date. I really liked him and just want some advice, what I should do. Did I blow it by not kissing him? Why hasn’t he called. I am tripping over this guy when he said all these nice things and was such a gentlemen. Was I conned? I need some insight. Please help, as I am new to the dating scene after 12 years you kind of forget.

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Please review this date and let me no what you think?

    So right now. I am tripping and need your help. I went out on Saturday for a meet and greet with a guy at Starbucks. We talked for an hour and half. Great conversation. He walked me to my car. He laughed and joked for a few minutes. And while he was at my car he took my number down and asked if I would like to go out for dinner this week. I said yes but he didn’t say a specific day. So I assume he will be in touch. We hugged one another and he asked if he could kiss me. I said no but you can on the cheek. I told him I was a city girl with old fashion values and he said he could respect that because I don’t know who he is. He then said I like you and I do hope you know how cute you are. Which was a really nice compliment. I sent a little text that night saying Thank s for the tea, and great conversation and how it was a pleasure to meet him  but he never responded back. I meet this guy from online and I no when you are online of course you are going to continue looking because that what dating is. I get its dating multiple people but 6 o’clock tonight will be day 2. How long should I give this guy to call me for the dinner date. I really liked him and just want some advice, what I should do. Did I blow it by not kissing him? Why hasn’t he called. I am tripping over this guy when he said all these nice things and was such a gentlemen. Was I conned? I need some insight. Please help, as I am new to the dating scene after 12 years you kind of forget.

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Need advice about date?

    went on a Coffee meet and great with a guy I met online. He was perfect. Smart, intelligent, good head on his shoulders. I think the meet and great went well for both us. So that same night I sent him a text saying. I just wanted to say thanks again for the tea and most important the great conversation tonight. It was really a pleasure to meet you. He never response back. (I am thinking that is a bad sign) Then I go online and he has been online looking every day but the thing is he asked me out for dinner this week took my number but he didn’t specify what day. This is day 1.5 and I still have not heard from him. Should I send another text? Call him? I don’t want to seem desperate but I kind of don’t want to lose him either. I am new to the dating again as it has been a while and I really don’t want to screw this up. I really want to text him but should I continue to wait to see if he calls and what about him going online does that mean he isn’t interested? Any insight?

    1 AnswerMarriage & Divorce9 years ago
  • First date Is my weight an issue?

    So I did something really bad. I met this guy online and we talked all week, sent messages and I really felt this conntection with him and so did he. accept for one things. I was lying about the way I looked. He asked me out on to dinner on Saturday and we where suspose to meet up at 3pm and he called at 1pm. Thats when I told him the truth that I was overweight.

    He was upset that I lied about it but wanted to meet me anyway.

    So we went to dinner. I told him I was very nervous and hoped he could see past my weight that I am working on and remember the person he fell for over the phone.

    When I got there we hugged at the doors and went in for dinner.

    We talked, laughed and seem to have an alright time.

    When we went outside. He said asked for a hug. and then told me that he would call me.

    Havent heard from him yet. Its now been 1 day.

    Do you think my weight scared him away. He was very good looking, fit goes to the gym and probably gets all kinds of nice looking women but I just cant stop thinking about the connection we shared. We both just felt so comfortable.

    How long should I wait for him to contact me? He didnt even text. I really like him alot but fear my weight will be the deciding factor in his decsion.

    Any advice on what I should do. I did apoligize to him for lying but he understood. I hope at least. I am a great women on the inside. I just have a weight issue.

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • First date? now what?

    I went out on a date last night with someone. I was extremely but I think the date went pretty well. We laughed we talked a little but there where a few things that bothered me. I kind of hoped for a little more eye contact, plus his cell rang 3 times and all three times he looked at his phone.

    When the dinner date was over. He asked for a hug. Is this a bad sign?

    He walked me to my car and we hugged and he said he would call.

    Guess i get home. No call no text. I never contacted him. I want him to be the first person to.

    My question is these signs bad and when does a guy usually call when he is interested? do I give him until tomorrow or today?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • What would you do? If this was your friend?

    My Best friend of 12 years said to me last Friday he had to let me go and move on with his life because he met a girl who doesnt like that he is friends. Best Friends with his EX? We where together for 5 and half of those years. We where able after we broke up to be friends. He was my go to person and I do feel very sad without him by my side. He told me to make him proud and life my life and to remember to always beleive in myself that I am one of the strongest women he has ever known. He told me that this was the hardest thing he has ever did. We are very close and have a bond like no other. He cried when he told me. I cried with him.

    Its been a week and the girl he has met is from a online dating site. He took his profile down and she didnt

    So my question is.

    IS it right to protect my best friend behind his back.?

    so I logges into match signed up and starting writing this chick. She answered. She hasent stop answering and emailing and she has been lying to him to me and now I dont no what I should. Should I let hihim find out for himself? If i do tell him i could risk him hating me and plus he is going to hurt because after 3 weeks he is totally into this girl.

    I want my friend back. I knew this girl was no good. Just by some of the conversation he had said to me. I can read people really well.

    So I need some advise.

    Complete honestly is appreciated.

    3 AnswersFriends9 years ago
  • Need advise about friends ver new girlfriend?

    My best friend of 12 years has decided to let our friendship go because a women who he has been seeing for two weeks and a bit doesnt like the fact that I was once his ex. There is no feelings between us sexual we just hang out. She told him that if he doesnt let me go she can not be with him. He told me that he has to pick her because he would always wonder what could of been and decided to let me go and end out friendship. Even though it brought him to tears and really didnt want to.

    Any insight on this. I feel sick. I miss him so much. Does anyone think this realtionship will last?

    1 AnswerFriends9 years ago
  • Space or No space what to do?

    My best friend of 12 years. Just recently met someone online and have been talking to them for about a 2 weeks now. We use to hang out before he meet her on a regular basis. She doesn’t like the fact that we are friends because out of that 12 year relationship we dated for 5 and half years and have been broken up for 2 years now. When we hang out we just go shopping, watch some tv shows and eat some food. Nothing sexual at all. I assume he wants to make this work between her and him and she is making it very difficult on our friendship. He has asked for some space to figure this hole situation out and I told him because I care about him and don’t want to lose his friendship I will grant his request for some space. I miss is terribly. I feel so alone. He doesn’t call or text or even email. I feel like I have dropped off the list and he is just consumed with talking to this girl. It really hurts. My question is how much time should I give him. I no he is trying to advise her that we are only friends. I guess she doesn’t believe it but I am suffering because of this. I don’t know what to do and need some advice on the situation. Its killing me not to have him a part of my life. I feel alone, abandoned and was wondering if I should continue to wait for him to reach out to me or contact him for an answer. Please help

    1 AnswerMarriage & Divorce9 years ago
  • need advice regarding Best friend...?

    My best friend of 12 years. Just recently met someone online and have been talking to them for about a 2 weeks now. We use to hang out before he meet her on a regular basis. She doesn’t like the fact that we are friends because out of that 12 year relationship we dated for 5 and half years and have been broken up for 2 years now. When we hang out we just go shopping, watch some tv shows and eat some food. Nothing sexual at all. I assume he wants to make this work between her and him and she is making it very difficult on our friendship. He has asked for some space to figure this hole situation out and I told him because I care about him and don’t want to lose his friendship I will grant his request for some space. I miss is terribly. I feel so alone. He doesn’t call or text or even email. I feel like I have dropped off the list and he is just consumed with talking to this girl. It really hurts. My question is how much time should I give him. I no he is trying to advise her that we are only friends. I guess she doesn’t believe it but I am suffering because of this. I don’t know what to do and need some advice on the situation. Its killing me not to have him a part of my life. I feel alone, abandoned and was wondering if I should continue to wait for him to reach out to me or contact him for an answer. Please help

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Best friend needs space what shoudl i do?

    My best friend of 12 years. Just recently met someone online and have been talking to them for about a 2 weeks now. We use to hang out before he meet her on a regular basis. She doesn’t like the fact that we are friends because out of that 12 year relationship we dated for 5 and half years and have been broken up for 2 years now. When we hang out we just go shopping, watch some tv shows and eat some food. Nothing sexual at all. I assume he wants to make this work between her and him and she is making it very difficult on our friendship. He has asked for some space to figure this hole situation out and I told him because I care about him and don’t want to lose his friendship I will grant his request for some space. I miss is terribly. I feel so alone. He doesn’t call or text or even email. I feel like I have dropped off the list and he is just consumed with talking to this girl. It really hurts. My question is how much time should I give him. I no he is trying to advise her that we are only friends. I guess she doesn’t believe it but I am suffering because of this. I don’t know what to do and need some advice on the situation. Its killing me not to have him a part of my life. I feel alone, abandoned and was wondering if I should continue to wait for him to reach out to me or contact him for an answer. Please help.

    3 AnswersFriends9 years ago
  • Best friend needs space because of new girl please help?

    My best friend of over 12 years. Who was a previous ex 2 years ago recently started dating this girl for about a week now. She has an issue with us being friends and hanging out. We are about each other but there are no feelings, well at least on his part. He knows how I feel and has told me numerous times to move on. but we forget that and just enjoy eachothers company.

    Last night he went on his first date. He likes her alot. I can tell. He told me that he cared for me alot but he wasent in love with me anymore. He has moved on. He said he didnt no if this relationship would work out because she really has a problem with me being friends with him.

    Thats when he said he needed some space to figure this out.

    He said it was killing him inside because No matter who he meets they are probably are not going to like that we are friends. I could tell he was quite upset about it. So was I. He has been a person in my everyday life. I miss him already. He hasent called. I did text him and told him that As much as I care about him. I will give him the space he needs to figure this out. His response was. Thank you. This means the world to me.

    So I am left here. with this emptyness. How long should i give him? 1 week, 1 day. I really dont no. I dont want to push him but I dont no how to handle this emptiness that i feel.

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Best friend needs space what to do?

    My best friend of over 12 years. Who was a previous ex 2 years ago recently started dating this girl for about a week now. She has an issue with us being friends and hanging out. We are about each other but there are no feelings, well at least on his part. He knows how I feel and has told me numerous times to move on. but we forget that and just enjoy eachothers company.

    Last night he went on his first date. He likes her alot. I can tell. He told me that he cared for me alot but he wasent in love with me anymore. He has moved on. He said he didnt no if this relationship would work out because she really has a problem with me being friends with him.

    Thats when he said he needed some space to figure this out.

    He said it was killing him inside because No matter who he meets they are probably are not going to like that we are friends. I could tell he was quite upset about it. So was I. He has been a person in my everyday life. I miss him already. He hasent called. I did text him and told him that As much as I care about him. I will give him the space he needs to figure this out. His response was. Thank you. This means the world to me.

    So I am left here. with this emptyness. How long should i give him? 1 week, 1 day. I really dont no. I dont want to push him but I dont no how to handle this emptiness that i feel.

    3 AnswersFriends9 years ago
  • When you get fired. I have a question?

    When you get fired qafter 2 weeks being employeed. And that manager says the team feels its not a fit. What does it really mean? Just tryng to understand. As I was doing a good job with the work load. I just dont get it.

    1 AnswerOther - Careers & Employment10 years ago
  • now what?...............?

    I applied for a position with a great company. I had a telephone interview, then I got called in to meet with the VP and HR, Then I got a call to come in and do a test, Then I got another call to come into the office for team interview, Now HR calls and says She would like a copy of my references to call them. Is there any stages after this or if the references check out. Will I get the position?

    This as been a long process but so worth it if i get the postion.

    2 AnswersOther - Careers & Employment1 decade ago
  • what type of questions?

    What type of questions can i expect a team interview to ask me and what kind of questions should i prepare myself to ask them? Any help would be much appreciated. Thanks.

    2 AnswersOther - Careers & Employment1 decade ago
  • what to expect in a team interview? what is the purpose?

    I had a interview with a great company. First was on the telephone. Second was in person. Then they sent me a assessment test and now they want me to come in and meet the team. The vp said because we all have to work together and we want to make sure I am a perfect fit for the company.

    What can I expect and how can I prepare for that type of interview. SInce I have never experienced or had one like that. Any advice would be much appreciated.

    Thank you.

    1 AnswerOther - Careers & Employment1 decade ago