I had known a girl for close to 2 years. We were good friends. Overall she was very shy but a number of times she had made comments to me like "u are in such good shape I bet u could go all night", "a woman has needs", and "something about play toys." At that time I thought she was joking around but looking back I think she was not joking and I did not catch her true meaning.
We had an argument (about 1 and 1/2 years ago). I tried to apologize a number of times but she was very cold to me. It was too hard for me to see her at the health club and not be able to talk with her so I joined a new health club. Now, looking back I think I also over reacted. I should have told her I liked her as more than friends.
My problem is I really do miss her. I realize I made a mistake not more actively pursuing her. We were very good together.
Guys, or girls, what can I do now to patch things up? Is it too late. Everyone has regrets... this was a big one on my part. Thanks.
I had known a girl for over 2 years. At the time I never expressed to her how much I liked her even though we were very good friends. One day we got into an argument which I later apologized for. This was over 6 months ago. I have only seen her once since then. We talked for over and hour then and things seemed to go well. I now realize how much she means to me and would like to get back together with her. I am not sure the best way to approach her after 6 months. Looking back I think she really liked me but I did not pick up on her signs. At that time I think she gave up on me because I did not show any physical attention. Ladies, what could a guy say or do for you to win you back? What could a guy say to win your heart?
Guys, also. Any good responses that worked for u in the past?
I had known a girl for quite awhile. We were best of friends with a little physical contact. About 6 months ago we had an argument and hadn't spoken since. About 2 weeks ago I saw her, went up to her and gave another heartfelt apology. We talked for over an hour that day. About a week ago I ran into her again and talked this time for over 2 hours.I then decided to send her a text and e-mail last Friday telling her she was welcome anytime to sit by the pool with me (we used to all the time before the argument) and have a few drinks. I never got a response. I don't know why.
Then today I ran into her again. She took her head sets off, came over to me and we again talked for over an hour. She was laughing, smiling, touching me and overall seemed happy to be with me. She never mentioned the text nor e-mail.
Gus or gals, why would this girl ignore my e-mail and text but yet next time she sees me approach me and talk for over an hour. I can't explain her actions. Is she playing hard to get? Does she want me to chase? As I said, our talk today was great. She did not at all appear bothered by the past. She was again constantly laughing, joking and touching me.
One last thing...and girls please don't be offended with this. While we were talking she made numerous glances at my crotch area. I am not joking. Sort of embarrassing to say but everyone needs to know the entire story. Any opinions on what she is thinking? Why ignore my text and e-mail but then approach me, touch me and stare at my crotch. Guys...ladies...help!!!
Is there a manner in which a guy can tell whether a girl wants him sexually as compared to just being friends? Is there a diplomatic way a guy can ask a girl whether she is attracted to him and wants more than friendship? Ladies, what could I guy do or say to make you attracted to him?
There is a girl I have known for quite a long time. Whenever we talk I always have to be the one to approach her. Today I saw her at our health club. I know she saw me but would not approach me. So as usual, I took the initiative to approach her. To make a long story short, as usual we talked for over 2 1/2 hours. Talked about her family life and I got her to laugh a lot. When we talk we are both very very comfortable with each other and talk non-stop. What I don't understand is why she will never approach me first. Why do I always have to make the first move? She enjoys being with me so I am confused her by her actions. Any ideas?
I have known a girl for over 2 years now. We have been good friends over this time. I am not sure whether she thinks of me now as more than just a friend. Are there some hints a girl gives to tell a guy she is interested in being more than just friends?2 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years ago
I have known a girl for quite awhile. Almost 2 years. What is odd is every time I talk with her she'll bring up the topic of girls. Two quick examples: a few days ago I told her I was taking a summer school class. First thing she said to me was, "I bet there are a lot of pretty girls in the class. Are you going to ask one out?" Then yesterday I told her a friend of mine was moving to a downtown big city. Her immediate response was, "There is a beach close by there. Are you going to the beach to look at a lot of pretty women?" She does not say these things in a nasty way but always talks about girls.
Why does she keep questioning me about women? Is there some hidden agenda on her part. She had in the past told me she thought I was very attractive. She had also told me she has a hard time relating to men.
She had also told me today she was going to Columbia this coming August for 3 weeks to visit family. She did not appear happy at all to be going. I was happy for her but she did not seem to care much to go.
Is she trying to infer something from her questions and actions? I don't know how to take her? Any opinions?
What is the easiest, most effective manner to get a girl to forgive a guy for a mistake he has made? Flowers, apology, compliments,etc. I recently saw a girl I hadn't seen in over six months. Last time we talked we had an argument. Have not talked since. Can I get some good advice, on what I can do for her to like me again? It was an argument a truly wish I could take back. HELP!!!