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  • Rough break up, what do I do?

    I am recently single as of 2 weeks. About 5 days ago I'm catching up with an old friend to find that he and my ex have been sleeping with each other since the day after the break up. My ex texts me and gets pissed off when I vent to a mutual friend who then tells her I am in pain. This friend she is sleeping with now told her he thinks I'm creepy because I tell people good night before I sleep, my ex then relays this to me to put me down or something. I tell a mutual friend this and he tells them it's not cool and that doesn't make sense. My ex is furious and texts me saying I'm not telling you things anymore, you're just trying to make drama and I'm tired of your s***. To which I replied I'm sorry and your right (not because she was but because I'm tired of her kicking me while I'm down) I don't know what to do. She's turned nearly all of my fiends against me that I was once close to, told them things to make me look like I'm a psycho and an a**hole. Slept with two of my friends since the break up which was only 2 weeks ago. Whenever I'm out she questions me about everything (what I'm doing/who I'm with) but when I ask her anything it's because I'm "stalking her" and none of my business, what is the most logical thing to do?

    3 AnswersMarriage & Divorce8 years ago
  • I feel empty, lonely, and useless?

    It's been two weeks since my previous girlfriend broke things off with me. While I've been throwing myself into school and volunteer work as well as my job mutual friends have told me my ex has been speaking with other guys already, getting drunk, and hooking up with a few guys. I have been going out with friends every night or so but I can't help thinking about her and it bothers and depresses me. May I please have some advice? What can I do to get over this and help myself?

    3 AnswersMarriage & Divorce8 years ago
  • I feel empty, lonely, and useless?

    It's been two weeks since my previous girlfriend broke things off with me. While I've been throwing myself into school and volunteer work as well as my job mutual friends have told me my ex has been speaking with other guys already, getting drunk, and hooking up with a few guys. I have been going out with friends every night or so but I can't help thinking about her and it bothers and depresses me. May I please have some advice? What can I do to get over this and help myself?

    3 AnswersPsychology8 years ago
  • What do I do? I still love my ex?

    My ex girlfriend and I were together for 6 months, it may sound like a short time but I know I truly loved her. We've been separated a week and she has been talking to a few guys that I know of, says she wants to be friends but rubs in the fact she's been talking to other people. Going out getting drunk and messing around, telling others about it right in front of me. I am so deeply in love with her still and don't know what to do. What do I do? Help please.

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • What do I do? I still love my ex?

    My ex girlfriend and I were together for 6 months, it may sound like a short time but I know I truly loved her. We've been separated a week and she has been talking to a few guys that I know of, says she wants to be friends but rubs in the fact she's been talking to other people. Going out getting drunk and messing around, telling others about it right in front of me. I am so deeply in love with her still and don't know what to do. What do I do? Help please.

    3 AnswersPsychology8 years ago
  • How can I get over my ex?

    My ex girlfriend and I were together for 6 months, it may sound like a short time but I know I truly loved her. We've been separated a week and she has been talking to a few guys that I know of, says she wants to be friends but rubs in the fact she's been talking to other people. Going out getting drunk and messing around, telling others about it right in front of me. I am so deeply in love with her still and don't know what to do. What do I do? Help please.

    4 AnswersGender Studies8 years ago
  • How do I handle this? I still love my ex?

    My ex girlfriend and I were together for 6 months, it may sound like a short time but I know I truly loved her. We've been separated a week and she has been talking to a few guys that I know of, says she wants to be friends but rubs in the fact she's been talking to other people. Going out getting drunk and messing around, telling others about it right in front of me. I am so deeply in love with her still and don't know what to do. What do I do? Help please.

    2 AnswersMarriage & Divorce8 years ago
  • Can I get my ex back somehow?

    Is there a fool proof way to get my ex back? She was my everything and she broke up with me because of my jealousy, a new guy friend of hers she had been hanging out with all day was flirting with her in front of me and she was flirting back which got me extremely jealous and angry which in turn got her angry. I was acting like a jerk for the rest of the night, I apologized when the two of us were alone because I cooled down and felt bad. She asked for time away so I have yet to talk to her for 4 days. Though, I find out the day after our break up she started talking to another guy. What can I do to win her back? What steps need to be taken to get her back to me? Help please, I've never felt so strong about anyone.

    5 AnswersGender Studies8 years ago
  • Can I get my ex back somehow?

    Is there a fool proof way to get my ex back? She was my everything and she broke up with me because of my jealousy, a new guy friend of hers she had been hanging out with all day was flirting with her in front of me and she was flirting back which got me extremely jealous and angry which in turn got her angry. I was acting like a jerk for the rest of the night, I apologized when the two of us were alone because I cooled down and felt bad. She asked for time away so I have yet to talk to her for 4 days. Though, I find out the day after our break up she started talking to another guy. What can I do to win her back? What steps need to be taken to get her back to me? Help please, I've never felt so strong about anyone.

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Can I get my ex back somehow?

    Is there a fool proof way to get my ex back? She was my everything and she broke up with me because of my jealousy, a new guy friend of hers she had been hanging out with all day was flirting with her in front of me and she was flirting back which got me extremely jealous and angry which in turn got her angry. I was acting like a jerk for the rest of the night, I apologized when the two of us were alone because I cooled down and felt bad. She asked for time away so I have yet to talk to her for 4 days. Though, I find out the day after our break up she started talking to another guy. What can I do to win her back? What steps need to be taken to get her back to me? Help please, I've never felt so strong about anyone.

    3 AnswersMarriage & Divorce8 years ago
  • I want my ex back in my life?

    My ex girlfriend of 6 months dumped me for being jealous, I was admittedly acting like an a**hole all night because her new guy friend was flirting with her in front of me and she was going along with it. It made me so angry and jealous which in turn got her extremely PO'd at me. This wasn't the first time this had happened but I guess she had enough of it. I am ashamed of my actions and want her back, come to find she started talking to another guy a day after the break up. I want her back so much but I don't know what to do, I've already apologized and she has requested I give her space so I have not spoken to her for about 4 days. Am I taking the right steps to get her back? What comes next? What can I do? Help please!

    2 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships8 years ago
  • I want my ex back in my life?

    My ex girlfriend of 6 months dumped me for being jealous, I was admittedly acting like an a**hole all night because her new guy friend was flirting with her in front of me and she was going along with it. It made me so angry and jealous which in turn got her extremely PO'd at me. This wasn't the first time this had happened but I guess she had enough of it. I am ashamed of my actions and want her back, come to find she started talking to another guy a day after the break up. I want her back so much but I don't know what to do, I've already apologized and she has requested I give her space so I have not spoken to her for about 4 days. Am I taking the right steps to get her back? What comes next? What can I do? Help please!

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • How do I get my ex back?

    My ex girlfriend of 6 months dumped me for being jealous, I was admittedly acting like an a**hole all night because her new guy friend was flirting with her in front of me and she was going along with it. It made me so angry and jealous which in turn got her extremely PO'd at me. This wasn't the first time this had happened but I guess she had enough of it. I am ashamed of my actions and want her back, come to find she started talking to another guy a day after the break up. I want her back so much but I don't know what to do, I've already apologized and she has requested I give her space so I have not spoken to her for about 4 days. Am I taking the right steps to get her back? What comes next? What can I do? Help please!

    2 AnswersMarriage & Divorce8 years ago
  • What to do? I just got dumped.?

    I became so use to a life with my girlfriend. She is 30, I'm 21. During our time together she told me I was her soul mate and she wanted a future with me more than anything. After we had sex for the first time nothing was the same, she distanced herself from me gradually until finally it was over. We were together 8 months and the day after our break up she is already talking to other guys. I want her back but I don't know what to do, any suggestions? Did she ever really love me or did she just want to have "fun"? Help please. Should I maybe just move on?

    3 AnswersMarriage & Divorce8 years ago
  • She dumped me and I don't know what to do anymore?

    I became so use to a life with my girlfriend. She is 30, I'm 21. During our time together she told me I was her soul mate and she wanted a future with me more than anything. After we had sex for the first time nothing was the same, she distanced herself from me gradually until finally it was over. We were together 8 months and the day after our break up she is already talking to other guys. I want her back but I don't know what to do, any suggestions? Did she ever really love me or did she just want to have "fun"? Help please. Should I maybe just move on?

    8 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Question about proposal ideas?

    If you could pick any way to be proposed to how would it happen? Does it matter greatly to you or is the fact you've been proposed to enough in itself?

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Ladies, proposal ideas?

    If you could pick any way to be proposed to how would it happen? Does it matter greatly to you or is the fact you've been proposed to enough in itself?

    4 AnswersWeddings8 years ago
  • Was she trying to make amends?

    My girlfriend and I just recently had an argument because I became jealous and it pissed her off. Anyway, she said she didn't want to see me for a while. Later that night I get a text from her telling me one of my friends wants me to hang out with them (we have many mutual friends and she was with them) I said I can't because I'm still doing work and then I'm going to bed because I'm tired. Her response was "ok fine" and I asked "are you mad because I'm not coming?" She then says "I don't care. My car is already filled up anyway." She hadn't talked to me at all earlier that day. Did she want me to come or was it really our friend? Was this her way of trying to make amends? What should I do since I turned it away?

    2 AnswersMarriage & Divorce8 years ago
  • Why did my girlfriend ask this?

    My girlfriend and I just recently had an argument because I became jealous and it pissed her off. Anyway, she said she didn't want to see me for a while. Later that night I get a text from her telling me one of my friends wants me to hang out with them (we have many mutual friends and she was with them) I said I can't because I'm still doing work and then I'm going to bed because I'm tired. Her response was "ok fine" and I asked "are you mad because I'm not coming?" She then says "I don't care. My car is already filled up anyway." She hadn't talked to me at all earlier that day. Did she want me to come or was it really our friend? Was this her way of trying to make amends? What should I do since I turned it away?

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • What can I do? I feel such jealousy at times?

    Most of the time I'm perfectly fine but my girlfriend made some new friends, one is a stand up comedian and the other is a real estate agent. She spent an entire day with the both of them and was telling me she had a great time, they made her laugh a bunch and they're her new best friends even though they just met that day. My girlfriend is much more friendly and open to new people compared to the average woman. I considered what she said and suddenly it occurred that they have a better job and can make her laugh a ton. She never laughs at anything I say to her like she use to and she gets angry when I openly express feelings for her (example: tell her "I love you") because she felt it needed to stop though it was only once a day. I got extremely angry and jealous towards these new guys in her life and didn't talk for the most part when she invited me to go hang out with them. She asked me what my problem was and I said I didn't like them because to me they seemed to be flirting with one another right in front of me. They added me on Facebook and I accepted. My girlfriend gets angry and tells me my mood is pissing her off and that it pisses her off I accepted them as friends because they're HER friends and I don't like them. I know I was acting childish and I've apologized. Feel free to call me a psycho all you want but I'd appreciate some advice. I've already apologized several times. How can I allow her to forgive me? How can I overcome this jealousy and sense that I'm constantly competing for her?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago