and has come home for the summer when she tells you that being here at home for more than an hour or two stresses her out so much she can't stand to be here? She would rather go sit outside in her car sometimes than be inside with her mother. I try to leave her alone, per her request, I don't ask anything about what she's doing, where she's going, I try not to be intrusive or inquisitive at all, but still...she will go sit outside in her car for quite some time and barely speaks to me when she's here. She says she's not intentionally hurting me, and part of me wants to believe that, but still, ouch. What do I do?