• Did I do anything wrong?

    It sucks to be breaking up on Halloween, but things happen when you least want them to and we broke up just 2 hours ago. We've been together for exactly 9 months now. We've been discussing what to do for tonight since it's Halloween. She ask me what I want to do for Halloween and I told her I just want to do something relaxing... show more
    It sucks to be breaking up on Halloween, but things happen when you least want them to and we broke up just 2 hours ago. We've been together for exactly 9 months now. We've been discussing what to do for tonight since it's Halloween. She ask me what I want to do for Halloween and I told her I just want to do something relaxing (movie, cooking a nice meal, mixing a drink, etc.) between just the two of us. She says that's too boring and that she wants to go clubbing. I don't know why she even bothered asking me if she's already made up her mind. So I said sure, and I told her I'd pick her up. I didn't know she was going to dress up like a total joke until I made it to her house. I didn't want to hurt her feelings, so I just told her she looks different and I love it. It took me 30 mins to get there and when we reached the club parking lot, she saw how slutty sexy everyone else is and she's like I don't wanna stay anymore. I was like, but that's what all clubs are like at Halloween and I am sorry if I hurt her feelings... Then she goes like don't talk to me. You embarrass me. Next thing you know, we broke up.
    59 answers · Singles & Dating · 8 years ago
  • Is it my fault we broke up?

    It sucks to be breaking up on Halloween, but things happen when you least want them to and we broke up just 2 hours ago. We've been together for exactly 9 months now. We've been discussing what to do for tonight since it's Halloween. She ask me what I want to do for Halloween and I told her I just want to do something relaxing... show more
    It sucks to be breaking up on Halloween, but things happen when you least want them to and we broke up just 2 hours ago. We've been together for exactly 9 months now. We've been discussing what to do for tonight since it's Halloween. She ask me what I want to do for Halloween and I told her I just want to do something relaxing (movie, cooking a nice meal, mixing a drink, etc.) between just the two of us. She says that's too boring and that she wants to go clubbing. I don't know why she even bothered asking me if she's already made up her mind. So I said sure, and I told her I'd pick her up. I didn't know she was going to dress up like a total joke until I made it to her house. I didn't want to hurt her feelings, so I just told her she looks different and I love it. It took me 30 mins to get there and when we reached the club parking lot, she saw how slutty sexy everyone else is and she's like I don't wanna stay anymore. I was like, but that's what all clubs are like at Halloween and I am sorry if I hurt her feelings... Then she goes like don't talk to me. You embarrass me. Next thing you know, we broke up.
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 8 years ago
  • I feel that my girlfriend is using me?

    A little background information. We been together for 8 months. We are like couples. She lives at her place and I live at mine. Recently, she has decided to move because her current studio is molding rapidly. Her new place will cost about $200 extra per month. She said that I should help her out with the monthly payments because we are like... show more
    A little background information. We been together for 8 months. We are like couples. She lives at her place and I live at mine. Recently, she has decided to move because her current studio is molding rapidly. Her new place will cost about $200 extra per month. She said that I should help her out with the monthly payments because we are like couples now and I will be sleeping over on occasion. I acted hesitant when she told me that and then she said that of course a guy like me wouldn't pay for the cow when I can squeeze the milk for free. I went like Wtf, it felt like she was after my money all along after I treated her so well. Believe me, I do above and beyond what you would expect from a bf. So my question is, do you think she is just after me for money? should I or should I not help her?
    18 answers · Singles & Dating · 8 years ago
  • Is She just using me?

    A little background information. We been together for 8 months. We are like couples. She lives at her place and I live at mine. Recently, she has decided to move because her current studio is molding rapidly. Her new place will cost about $200 extra per month. She said that I should help her out with the monthly payments because we are like... show more
    A little background information. We been together for 8 months. We are like couples. She lives at her place and I live at mine. Recently, she has decided to move because her current studio is molding rapidly. Her new place will cost about $200 extra per month. She said that I should help her out with the monthly payments because we are like couples now and I will be sleeping over on occasion. I acted hesitant when she told me that and then she said that of course a guy like me wouldn't pay for the cow when I can squeeze the milk for free. I went like Wtf, it felt like she was after my money all along after I treated her so well. Believe me, I do above and beyond what you would expect from a bf. So my question is, do you think she is just after me for money? should I or should I not help her?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 8 years ago
  • Deeply offended by girlfriend?

    A little background information. We been together for 8 months. We are like couples. She lives at her place and I live at mine. Recently, she has decided to move because her current studio is molding rapidly. Her new place will cost about $200 extra per month. She said that I should help her out with the monthly payments because we are like... show more
    A little background information. We been together for 8 months. We are like couples. She lives at her place and I live at mine. Recently, she has decided to move because her current studio is molding rapidly. Her new place will cost about $200 extra per month. She said that I should help her out with the monthly payments because we are like couples now and I will be sleeping over on occasion. I acted hesitant when she told me that and then she said that of course a guy like me wouldn't pay for the cow when I can squeeze the milk for free. I went like Wtf, it felt like she was after my money all along after I treated her so well. Believe me, I do above and beyond what you would expect from a bf. So my question is, do you think she is just after me for money? should I or should I not help her?
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 8 years ago
  • My girlfriend wants to go clubbing with another guy?

    All kinds of things can go wrong when a girl goes out with a guy to a club. The atmosphere just encourages these things, but I trust my girlfriend enough to let her go clubbing with some other guy. I don't like clubbing so I'd rather be doing something else. Would you say it's fair if I take a girl out to a movie and a dinner if she goes... show more
    All kinds of things can go wrong when a girl goes out with a guy to a club. The atmosphere just encourages these things, but I trust my girlfriend enough to let her go clubbing with some other guy. I don't like clubbing so I'd rather be doing something else. Would you say it's fair if I take a girl out to a movie and a dinner if she goes clubbing with someone else since we trust each other so much?
    6 answers · Singles & Dating · 8 years ago
  • My girlfriend wants me to pay her back for grocery?

    I've been telling my girlfriend that I want to spend our future together and that we need to start saving for our future. I told her I am the kind of person that wants to save money for a nice house and a nice car instead of wasting all our money on $60 dinners and $30 breakfasts. I was telling her to just cook for me sometimes. We don't... show more
    I've been telling my girlfriend that I want to spend our future together and that we need to start saving for our future. I told her I am the kind of person that wants to save money for a nice house and a nice car instead of wasting all our money on $60 dinners and $30 breakfasts. I was telling her to just cook for me sometimes. We don't live together yet, so we don't help each other with the bills. She tells me she wants to cook for me, but I need to pay her back for grocery. Under normal circumstances, I would have no problem chipping in for grocery, but I pay for almost EVERYTHING OUTSIDE (Entertainment, car gas, hotel fees, eating out, movies.) I even spent $800 on her new HDTV and laptop. All I am asking is she cook me a meal for free. That 2 much to ask for?
    6 answers · Singles & Dating · 8 years ago
  • My girlfriend asked me to pay her money back for grocery?

    I've been telling my girlfriend that I want to spend our future together and that we need to start saving for our future. I told her I am the kind of person that wants to save money for a nice house and a nice car instead of wasting all our money on $60 dinners and $30 breakfasts. I was telling her to just cook for me sometimes. We don't... show more
    I've been telling my girlfriend that I want to spend our future together and that we need to start saving for our future. I told her I am the kind of person that wants to save money for a nice house and a nice car instead of wasting all our money on $60 dinners and $30 breakfasts. I was telling her to just cook for me sometimes. We don't live together yet, so we don't help each other with the bills. She tells me she wants to cook for me, but I need to pay her back for grocery. Under normal circumstances, I would have no problem chipping in for grocery, but I pay for almost EVERYTHING OUTSIDE (Entertainment, car gas, hotel fees, eating out, movies.) I even spent $800 on her new HDTV and laptop. All I am asking is she cook me a meal for free. That 2 much to ask for?
    6 answers · Singles & Dating · 8 years ago
  • Do I qualify for Cash for Clunks Program?

    I just purchased an old 1999 Ford that qualifies for the MPG requirement 1 month ago. Since it's only been 1 month since I've had ownership, would I still qualify?
    I just purchased an old 1999 Ford that qualifies for the MPG requirement 1 month ago. Since it's only been 1 month since I've had ownership, would I still qualify?
    2 answers · Buying & Selling · 8 years ago
  • My girlfriend accused me of wanting her for sex only?

    Can't believe she said that after being together for almost 6 months now and being friends for 6 months before that. I asked her why she would say something like that and she said she let it out by accident. Apparently, she's feeling that way or else she wouldn't have said something like that. It's been 3 days now and I still... show more
    Can't believe she said that after being together for almost 6 months now and being friends for 6 months before that. I asked her why she would say something like that and she said she let it out by accident. Apparently, she's feeling that way or else she wouldn't have said something like that. It's been 3 days now and I still couldn't get over that. Every time she tells me she loves me, I would think she's faking it and I just don't feel that the love is there if she thinks all I want is sex. What should I do? I don't know how to get over this.
    19 answers · Singles & Dating · 8 years ago
  • What would you do if you have so much money?

    You have a job that makes well over $1000+ a day, and all you need for this job is a laptop and internet access and work 7 hrs a day. You are your own boss and you make your own hours.
    You have a job that makes well over $1000+ a day, and all you need for this job is a laptop and internet access and work 7 hrs a day. You are your own boss and you make your own hours.
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 9 years ago
  • What's wrong with me?

    I personally think I am fine the way I am, but my girlfriend prefers that I join my friends at the strip club and go night clubbing with her. I keep telling her that I don't want to be tempted to meet girls at those places, but she keeps saying that it's okay to go to those places as long as I resist those temptations. Should I be going to... show more
    I personally think I am fine the way I am, but my girlfriend prefers that I join my friends at the strip club and go night clubbing with her. I keep telling her that I don't want to be tempted to meet girls at those places, but she keeps saying that it's okay to go to those places as long as I resist those temptations. Should I be going to those places more often or is something just wrong with me?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 9 years ago
  • My girlfriend thinks I am spending too much time with friends?

    We usually hang out 1 - 2 days a week and spend quality time between just me and her. I would take her to places we've never been to, buy her presents on special occasions and celebrations, and give her my undivided attention whenever I hang out with her. This week I told her I want to spend time with her, but she tells me she has to work and I... show more
    We usually hang out 1 - 2 days a week and spend quality time between just me and her. I would take her to places we've never been to, buy her presents on special occasions and celebrations, and give her my undivided attention whenever I hang out with her. This week I told her I want to spend time with her, but she tells me she has to work and I told her it's ok. I wasn't angry with her or anything, instead we made plans to have breakfast and then tennis this weekend. She called me yesterday. I was with friends so I told her I would call her back. Turns out I was with my friends the whole day, so I texted her telling her that it's getting late and I will call her in the morning instead. Then she texts me in the middle of the night saying that I value more friends more than I value her. I don't know what to tell her. Yes... I do care about my friends, but she's equally important if not more. A guy just needs time to do things with his friends. That's not something a girl can understand.
    7 answers · Singles & Dating · 9 years ago
  • My girlfriend thinks I am spending too much time with my friends?

    We usually hang out 1 - 2 days a week and spend quality time between just me and her. I would take her to places we've never been to, buy her presents on special occasions and celebrations, and give her my undivided attention whenever I hang out with her. This week I told her I want to spend time with her, but she tells me she has to work and I... show more
    We usually hang out 1 - 2 days a week and spend quality time between just me and her. I would take her to places we've never been to, buy her presents on special occasions and celebrations, and give her my undivided attention whenever I hang out with her. This week I told her I want to spend time with her, but she tells me she has to work and I told her it's ok. I wasn't angry with her or anything, instead we made plans to have breakfast and then tennis this weekend. She called me yesterday. I was with friends so I told her I would call her back. Turns out I was with my friends the whole day, so I texted her telling her that it's getting late and I will call her in the morning instead. Then she texts me in the middle of the night saying that I value more friends more than I value her. I don't know what to tell her. Yes... I do care about my friends, but she's equally important if not more. A guy just needs time to do things with his friends. That's not something a girl can understand.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 9 years ago
  • What does she mean?? (Spanish)?

    She was going to say something in english, but she doesn't know how to translate that word. She said I am "rrattle..". That's what she said in spanish. What she mean by that?
    She was going to say something in english, but she doesn't know how to translate that word. She said I am "rrattle..". That's what she said in spanish. What she mean by that?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 9 years ago
  • Would you want a job like this?

    Job Title: Fake Girlfriend/Actress Job salary: 30k after tax Job Requirements: Girls only. Must be age 18+. Willing to travel. Job Description: You will be required to act as your boss's girlfriend for up to 20 hours/week. You will have to go partying, shopping, and dining with your boss and keep him entertained. All small expenses will be... show more
    Job Title: Fake Girlfriend/Actress Job salary: 30k after tax Job Requirements: Girls only. Must be age 18+. Willing to travel. Job Description: You will be required to act as your boss's girlfriend for up to 20 hours/week. You will have to go partying, shopping, and dining with your boss and keep him entertained. All small expenses will be paid for by the company. You will not be required to partake in anything intimate with your boss however you must play your part as his date at all times. You must know how to have a good time. Not that there's any jobs like this out there unless you marry a rich man, but I'm just curious if anyone would want this position. lol.
    7 answers · Singles & Dating · 9 years ago
  • What should I do? Strip Club or no?

    I promised my girl I would not go to the strip club, but I also promised one of my best buddies that I'd join him to strip clubbing, because he just broke up with his 5 year girlfriend. If you ask me do I want to go? heck yea, but a promise is a promise. I'm conflicted now. I don't think it's a big deal to go and chill there... show more
    I promised my girl I would not go to the strip club, but I also promised one of my best buddies that I'd join him to strip clubbing, because he just broke up with his 5 year girlfriend. If you ask me do I want to go? heck yea, but a promise is a promise. I'm conflicted now. I don't think it's a big deal to go and chill there for an hour or two. It's just like watching porn, but w/ a little more feeling. But I do love my gf, so I wouldn't want to do anything that makes her think otherwise.
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 9 years ago
  • Is this a good date idea?

    I want to take my girl to another state/city possibly Las Vegas, NY, or California in the morning and then come back later that same evening. Yall think that's a good idea? Any recommendations for where to go?
    I want to take my girl to another state/city possibly Las Vegas, NY, or California in the morning and then come back later that same evening. Yall think that's a good idea? Any recommendations for where to go?
    7 answers · Singles & Dating · 9 years ago
  • I feel like I will end up cheating?

    I absolutely love my girlfriend. She's the nicest girl I can imagine myself with. She's my first real relationship and I want her to be my last one. I've never had an intimate relationship with other girls besides her, and for that reason, I'm really curious what it's like to touch a girl with bigger boobs or tighter ***.... show more
    I absolutely love my girlfriend. She's the nicest girl I can imagine myself with. She's my first real relationship and I want her to be my last one. I've never had an intimate relationship with other girls besides her, and for that reason, I'm really curious what it's like to touch a girl with bigger boobs or tighter ***. Don't take me for a cheater, because cheaters don't care about their other half's feeling. I care about her, but I don't want to live the rest of my life not knowing what that's like! What can I do?? My friends are telling me to go strip club with them? If I do go, is that cheating?
    11 answers · Singles & Dating · 9 years ago