My oldest sibling was an accident. Our parents were young and unprepared, though they tell her they love her and they don t regret anything. However they had to give up a lot of dreams because they had a baby to care for. She says that had she not been born they could have taken more opportunities and achieved greater heights, that her existence set them back in life.
I d like to know your thoughts on this; do planned babies have life easier than the ones who were not and are they more appreciated by their parents? Do you regret aborting an accidental, unwanted baby or is it the best decision?