• Is my boyfriend still into his ex or am i being paranoid?

    My boyfriend and I have almost been with each other for a year. He's 20 and Im 19. He dated (we'll call her May) for about 9 months until he found out he was cheating on him with multiple men. About 4 months after they broke up we started talking. He's attractive and a charmer so there have been plenty of women in his life before me, but... show more
    My boyfriend and I have almost been with each other for a year. He's 20 and Im 19. He dated (we'll call her May) for about 9 months until he found out he was cheating on him with multiple men. About 4 months after they broke up we started talking. He's attractive and a charmer so there have been plenty of women in his life before me, but he's always talked about her. At the beginning of our relationship he'd talk about her frequently, good and bad. Then i could tell we were starting to fall in love. He was head over heels for me and i was also for him. He'd bring her up rarely and i would never put a second thought into it. He made it clear he only wanted me. I then stumbled upon her Facebook page. They were still friends and i saw he liked her most recent picture. It was a slap in the face. It shouldn't have been, but who wants to see the face of someone that hurt them so bad. And then he liked a picture of her cat on a different media app. He loves me, I know he does but I cant help wonder if he'd go back to her. He cheated on his previous girlfriend with her before, why wouldn't he with me. Ive talked to him about it, and he said he cant stand her and they don't talk and the next day he likes her picture. Im not trying to seem crazy, I'm trying not to be paranoid, but i cant help it. He's liked other girls photos but the only one I'm concerned with is her.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 10 months ago
  • Is my boyfriend still into his ex or am i being paranoid?

    My boyfriend and I have almost been with each other for a year. He's 20 and Im 19. He dated (we'll call her May) for about 9 months until he found out he was cheating on him with multiple men. About 4 months after they broke up we started talking. He's attractive and a charmer so there have been plenty of women in his life before me, but... show more
    My boyfriend and I have almost been with each other for a year. He's 20 and Im 19. He dated (we'll call her May) for about 9 months until he found out he was cheating on him with multiple men. About 4 months after they broke up we started talking. He's attractive and a charmer so there have been plenty of women in his life before me, but he's always talked about her. At the beginning of our relationship he'd talk about her frequently, good and bad. Then i could tell we were starting to fall in love. He was head over heels for me and i was also for him. He'd bring her up rarely and i would never put a second thought into it. He made it clear he only wanted me. I then stumbled upon her Facebook page. They were still friends and i saw he liked her most recent picture. It was a slap in the face. It shouldn't have been, but who wants to see the face of someone that hurt them so bad. And then he liked a picture of her cat on a different media app. He loves me, I know he does but I cant help wonder if he'd go back to her. He cheated on his previous girlfriend with her before, why wouldn't he with me. Ive talked to him about it, and he said he cant stand her and they don't talk and the next day he likes her picture. Im not trying to seem crazy, I'm trying not to be paranoid, but i cant help it. He's liked other girls photos but the only one I'm concerned with is her.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 10 months ago
  • I want kids but my boyfriend doesn't?

    Ever since I was a kid myself, I knew i wanted children. Im 19 now and am not planning on having children any time soon, but I am in a relationship with a guy i have been with for a while, and do intend to be with for a long time, and he does not want kids. We talk about it sometimes and he said maybe someday we could have some or we could have... show more
    Ever since I was a kid myself, I knew i wanted children. Im 19 now and am not planning on having children any time soon, but I am in a relationship with a guy i have been with for a while, and do intend to be with for a long time, and he does not want kids. We talk about it sometimes and he said maybe someday we could have some or we could have "just one" but it never sounds very convincing. I do love him with all my heart, we're young but very mature and like i said, i do expect to be with him for a long time. It bothers me more than it should, especially since i won't be wanting kids in the flesh for another 7-8 years. What should i do?
    5 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 year ago
  • I'm scared my boyfriend will find someone else?

    We've been dating for about 6 months. Everything great, i know he loves me and I love him very much. But yesterday, he started reciting what went wrong with his exes, and with one really long term girlfriend, he cheated on her. The girl he cheated on with her cheated on him a couple months before we started dating. And i know they were very... show more
    We've been dating for about 6 months. Everything great, i know he loves me and I love him very much. But yesterday, he started reciting what went wrong with his exes, and with one really long term girlfriend, he cheated on her. The girl he cheated on with her cheated on him a couple months before we started dating. And i know they were very close. She lived with him, he's talked about how pretty she is etc. He's amazing to me, he tells me how much he loves me and how beautiful i am constantly but now I'm just paranoid that he'll find someone better.
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 year ago
  • My boyfriends mom found a condom?

    I consider myself to be a little more classy than that. Me and my boyfriend had sex in his room and he threw it in his bedroom garbage can. I guess his mom went into his room and found it. My boyfriend was more upset she went into his room then that she found a condom. Im 18 and he's 19 btw. His mom does like me and we make jokes together and... show more
    I consider myself to be a little more classy than that. Me and my boyfriend had sex in his room and he threw it in his bedroom garbage can. I guess his mom went into his room and found it. My boyfriend was more upset she went into his room then that she found a condom. Im 18 and he's 19 btw. His mom does like me and we make jokes together and she's called me pretty but now I feel like I have to hide from her like she's a plague or something. Im mature but when things like this come up i feel awkward and just want to disappear. Im getting bad anxiety about it. What should i do?
    6 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 year ago
  • My boyfriend is not attractive at all?

    I spent years looking for a good looking guy. They would treat me awful but I was so focused on appearance that I didn't realize i deserved better. Recently i found a guy that i genuinely like. We can talk for hours and he makes me laugh. Im quite tall and he's a little smaller than me and he has piercings all over his face. There are some... show more
    I spent years looking for a good looking guy. They would treat me awful but I was so focused on appearance that I didn't realize i deserved better. Recently i found a guy that i genuinely like. We can talk for hours and he makes me laugh. Im quite tall and he's a little smaller than me and he has piercings all over his face. There are some moments when i feel complete and utter attraction for him but I cant help wondering what others must think. I almost feel embarrassed. How do I get over this?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • Is he using me?

    Im a senior in high school and i met a guy at the beginning of the first semster. He was just so normal. All the guys I've dated have resulted in a crazy soap opera type deal and i just needed a normal person. It was him. In February he broke up with his girlfriend and also dropped out. Shortly after he started talking to me much more and... show more
    Im a senior in high school and i met a guy at the beginning of the first semster. He was just so normal. All the guys I've dated have resulted in a crazy soap opera type deal and i just needed a normal person. It was him. In February he broke up with his girlfriend and also dropped out. Shortly after he started talking to me much more and confessed how much he liked me. Im not dumb and i wasn't about to be this rebound. So we low-key talked romantically for a few months. We went on dates and everything was just so NORMAL. A couple weeks ago I found out he never officially broke up with his girlfriend. I confronted him about it and told him that it was really shitty. He just told me to not label us and keep going. But now he's very distant and i put in a lot of the effort now. Its like he's keeping me as some sort of backup. But our relationship is really special and I'm not sure what to do.
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • Am i getting played?

    We’re both juniors in high school. Im that “vibey” teenage girl and he’s the star on the baseball team. He’s well known and all over the place with his academics and sports and I’m just there. Im average and definitely nothing special but everyone i seem to talk to is preppy and they all set me up with him. At first he always texted me and was... show more
    We’re both juniors in high school. Im that “vibey” teenage girl and he’s the star on the baseball team. He’s well known and all over the place with his academics and sports and I’m just there. Im average and definitely nothing special but everyone i seem to talk to is preppy and they all set me up with him. At first he always texted me and was clearly making simple small talk to talk to me. This is about 2 weeks ago. After about a week he became a little distant but he would start complimenting me and asking me when id be able to go on a date with him. And literally the day after he stopped talking to me. He had senate and baseball all that weekend and i was kinda bummed. Then he doesn’t reply to any of my text messages and I thought he lost interest. Well that Monday he got really worked up about saying hi to me in the hallway. He’s never really talked to me in person before and the fact he turned fire engine red was a good sign. But he continues to be short with me with replying and I get he’s busy but I don’t just want me to be a convenience for him and thats it.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • Im interested in my childhood best friend?

    We grew up in the same little elementary school and were inseparable until he transferred out in the 3rd grade. I always had him on social media but i haven't seen him until recently. We're both now juniors in high school and i switched out of my previous high school to my current one for my junior year and he was in one of my classes. We... show more
    We grew up in the same little elementary school and were inseparable until he transferred out in the 3rd grade. I always had him on social media but i haven't seen him until recently. We're both now juniors in high school and i switched out of my previous high school to my current one for my junior year and he was in one of my classes. We immediately were tight again. We are now one semester in and he's still my brother but I'm oddly attracted to him. Its like he's the guy version of me if that makes sense we have everything in common. He's called me cute and wants to see me outside of school but then he goes off and treats me like a sister. Almost everyone in my class, the one i have with him, says he's interested but he just likes to talk to me a lot. We can talk to each other about everything at any time. I want him to pursue me because we're best friends but I'm wildly attracted to everything about him. I don't know how? Help!
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • Im interested in my childhood best friend?

    I grew up in a really small town. I went to one of the few private elementary schools and i was really close to this boy. We always bonded because he was the tallest boy in the class and I was the tallest girl and it just went from there. We were inseparable until he moved schools in 3rd grade and i just had him on social media up until this point.... show more
    I grew up in a really small town. I went to one of the few private elementary schools and i was really close to this boy. We always bonded because he was the tallest boy in the class and I was the tallest girl and it just went from there. We were inseparable until he moved schools in 3rd grade and i just had him on social media up until this point. I moved high schools for my junior year and i walk into one of my classes, and there he was. Still taller than me and we immediately catch up. But I'm attracted to him and I no longer see him as a brother. He's compliments me and calls me "cute" and wants to go on a date type thing but he also resorts back to treating me like a sister. Im torn and I don't know how to pursue him because i genuinely really like him.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • He treats me like ****. Should I just end it?

    To sum up a very long story, I've been talking to a guy for almost two years. He's my dream guy honestly. He's a vocalist in a band, has nice hair, (I'm fairly tall) and he's taller than me, he's got the heart of a saint. He's just the most awesome person. He's 18 I'm 17. Our connection is very strong but he has... show more
    To sum up a very long story, I've been talking to a guy for almost two years. He's my dream guy honestly. He's a vocalist in a band, has nice hair, (I'm fairly tall) and he's taller than me, he's got the heart of a saint. He's just the most awesome person. He's 18 I'm 17. Our connection is very strong but he has the tendency to just disappear. We'll be going good and boom, he's gone for months. I really really like him and i know he feels for me to because he's done many things in the past to prove it, but he also will ignore me and blow me off. Just 2 days ago we were planning to see each other and he was so very sweet then he doesn't talk to me at all the next two days and literally an hour after we planned to see each other he said he had an interview and that he still wants to see me some other time. he hasn't talked to me since. Its been a day. My feelings for him are incredible and all my friends and family members hate him because he does not make me a priority. Should i give him another chance, just one more, or should i just bail
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • Im all alone?

    Im pathetic. Im needy and clingy. I know. I have friends. I have family that loves me but i feel alone all the time. The only person that makes me happy isn't talking to me right now because he's too busy with his life and I fell for him and idk if I'm just some emotional teenage girl but for the longest time I have felt lonely and... show more
    Im pathetic. Im needy and clingy. I know. I have friends. I have family that loves me but i feel alone all the time. The only person that makes me happy isn't talking to me right now because he's too busy with his life and I fell for him and idk if I'm just some emotional teenage girl but for the longest time I have felt lonely and unwanted and all i want to do is talk to this person but its taking a while and i feel isolated and what can I do to make myself happy?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • Am i friendzoned?

    No matter what i do, no matter who I'm with, i cant distract myself away from the thought of this guy who throws mixed signals at me left and right. He's completely and utterly dreamy. When you are asked to describe your dream person, he fits all context to mine. Its amazing i found him in the small town i live in. He's musical, and... show more
    No matter what i do, no matter who I'm with, i cant distract myself away from the thought of this guy who throws mixed signals at me left and right. He's completely and utterly dreamy. When you are asked to describe your dream person, he fits all context to mine. Its amazing i found him in the small town i live in. He's musical, and extremely nice. Even if he despised you he would treat you fairly and kind. His mixed signals include him always trying to initiate plans with me. Ive completely embarrassed myself around him and he still plans on seeing me. "hey can you hangout" He compliments how smart i am and has responded to me calling him cute "vice versa"We talk about the universe and everything in it. Im comfortable in telling him anything and he listens. But he is a horrible responder on the phone and claims to be very busy making it bad timing. He is also known to get along better with women and be friends with them. Does it sound like I'm sort of pal to him? Does a guy that wants to be friends with a girl treat them like how he treats me?
    3 answers · Ramadan · 3 years ago
  • Guy trouble?

    I really like him. He cares to know a lot about me and its never hard to talk to him. The thing that kills me is i cant just be friends with him and he gives me good and bad signs. The good signs are that he always tells me how smart i am and how fascinating my mind his. I told him he was cute and told great stories and he said vice versa. He never... show more
    I really like him. He cares to know a lot about me and its never hard to talk to him. The thing that kills me is i cant just be friends with him and he gives me good and bad signs. The good signs are that he always tells me how smart i am and how fascinating my mind his. I told him he was cute and told great stories and he said vice versa. He never fails to laugh at almost everything i say and always initiates us getting together. But he is horrible at replying to text messages either because of his very busy schedule or just not being by his phone all the time. He used to tell my friends we "hit it off" but now he tells them he's "really busy" and now he's been wanting to see me for a while but I got into some trouble and I'm forbidden from seeing anyone. He also tends to be friends with a lot of girls and since he was in a band he iis quite appealing and has groupies of girls. Its frustrating. He's all i think about but what if I'm just this pal to him. Please help?!
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • Ive been falling for this guy for a year now?

    We are both 17. A year ago we started talking because of a mutual friend but we were barely acquainted. Plus he got a girlfriend shortly after. So about 6months later he was single and i found him very attractive and sweet. So we started talking and we hung out and the connection was very strong. We always talked on and off. He would always say he... show more
    We are both 17. A year ago we started talking because of a mutual friend but we were barely acquainted. Plus he got a girlfriend shortly after. So about 6months later he was single and i found him very attractive and sweet. So we started talking and we hung out and the connection was very strong. We always talked on and off. He would always say he was too busy or his phone was out of commission. Which i believed. But it hurt that it felt like i wasn't his priority and it felt like he just saw me as a friend or something. So a little after one of our offish phases i got into serious trouble and it felt like the world collapsed on me and he wanted to see me. He always makes me feel better. So i snuck out to see him but got caught. I had an anxiety attack and my nose bled all over my face. I knew for sure he wanted nothing to do with me so i blocked him out for a while just to find out he has been wanting to see me again. This whole time. I don't know how to feel he tells everyone we "hit it off" so am i just a pal?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • Im a teenage girl and fell for a 20 yr old?

    Alright so this guy has been on my social media since the dawn of time. he's not some creep, he's just this dude that has been active on my account for awhile. Well, i went to a journey concert with my fam last week and i guess he was there and he got all excited and messaged me saying that he saw me around. I still didn't think anything... show more
    Alright so this guy has been on my social media since the dawn of time. he's not some creep, he's just this dude that has been active on my account for awhile. Well, i went to a journey concert with my fam last week and i guess he was there and he got all excited and messaged me saying that he saw me around. I still didn't think anything of it until i went to another concert the next week and he's there passing out flyers. This guy is honestly beautiful. I grabbed a flyer and it was tense there for a second and he kinda smiled but i had to leave at that moment. So he messaged me that night. He told me he's never seen anyone like me before like I'm this ******* goddess to him. He was telling me he was nervous and shy and felt intimidated by me. And we flirted. And i told him i was 17 and he respects that and he said he I'm worth waiting for and he wants to see me again. This was a scorpions concert and he's totally hair metal and he's a drummer for his own band and he's amazing at that too. His bandmates are more around my age. But then i called him last night and he had slurred speech drunk telling me he wanted to drive over and see me and i was fine with that. But he was black out drunk he couldn't come over for ****. He was saying all this sweet stuff if he saw me and i understood he couldn't and he was drunk. But then he texts me this morning saying "it was probably best i didn't stop by" and i agreed and he just won't talk to me now. Whats even going on?
    5 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • Should i give up on him and move on or stay?

    So last summer i started talking to a boy that goes to school with my best friend. She kind of introduced us online i guess. Well we started talking and i kinda started to like him. I didn't know much about him but he was real sweet and cute and i just sorta fell in love with his brain. Then i found out he got a girlfriend. So i forgot him. I... show more
    So last summer i started talking to a boy that goes to school with my best friend. She kind of introduced us online i guess. Well we started talking and i kinda started to like him. I didn't know much about him but he was real sweet and cute and i just sorta fell in love with his brain. Then i found out he got a girlfriend. So i forgot him. I was nothing but a desperate girl on a lonely summer day. Now here we are almost a year later and we're both so much older and mature. He's developed a band and has become the vocalist touring outside of state at 17, he got taller, he's even sweeter, and he pays attention to me a lot more. We started talking again and he soon knew more about me than my closest friends and i knew a lot about him. Then we hung out at a secret park and watched the sunset go down with him leaned in close to me and thoughts on the universe pouring out of our mouths. he texted me the night after we hung out saying he had an amazing time. And then we didn't talk for a week. Then we started up again and i saw him coincidently at a bakery two days later. He texted me good morning after seeing him. He's really busy and he always reassures me that he is. He's not on social media and he's only ever on his phone to talk to me. So i spilt my heart out to him that i don't know how he feels but i like him and i don't want to bug him. He responded saying "id love to hang out with you again:)" But we still don't talk a lot.
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • Should i give up on this boy?

    so after a year crush on this dude and him finally breaking up with his girlfriend, we started talking again and we hung out and it was like the ideal date. We watched the sunset go down and talk about the universe. He probably knows more about me than most of my closest friends. After the date, he was making super effort to talk to me but after a... show more
    so after a year crush on this dude and him finally breaking up with his girlfriend, we started talking again and we hung out and it was like the ideal date. We watched the sunset go down and talk about the universe. He probably knows more about me than most of my closest friends. After the date, he was making super effort to talk to me but after a few days he kept telling me he was super busy and i believe him because he wasn't on no social media to talk to me. And then his phone goes into commission and he never told me that. So it kinda made me feel like I was making all the effort and he's the type of person that can be away from social media for a while but he followed me on instagram. I confronted over text about me being a burden to him but he doesn't have his phone. SO should i try talking to him on instagram and confront him about being too busy for me or just leave it alone. I feel like i bug him now and i literally haven't done anything wrong. I miss him is all. I fell hard and idk what to do. He makes me so happy and now its like nothing. I don't think he's forgot about us but him not telling me anything upsets me. What should i do
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • Am i not a priority and should i just give up?

    Ima 16 year old girl thats had like 4 boyfriends that each lasted like 4 days.Ive had crushes on boys, but never like this. It all started last summer and from the moment i ladies on him, its like crazy fireworks went off. I tried talking to him but shortly after he got a girlfriend and since hes not the type of person to play girls or break any... show more
    Ima 16 year old girl thats had like 4 boyfriends that each lasted like 4 days.Ive had crushes on boys, but never like this. It all started last summer and from the moment i ladies on him, its like crazy fireworks went off. I tried talking to him but shortly after he got a girlfriend and since hes not the type of person to play girls or break any hearts he stopped talking to me. And that was that. He was gradual about it and i slowly forgot about him. But he was always in the back my mind even when i didn’t realize it. And he popped up back into my life. Out of nowhere. I heard his abandon the radio and i freaked out and we just picked up where we left off. A couple days ago he picked me up and drove me to the park and we talked for 2 hours straight just about the universe and each other and movies and music and we were both so fascinated with each other. He kept complimenting me saying he was having a wonderful time. He even told his close friends at school who happen tone my friends that we were “hitting it off” and he “cant talk to anyone else like how i can talk to her” But he’s always busy. He’s a junior, his band is successful, he has a huge friend group and he’s busy almost all the time. I sometimes feel blown off because some days we don’t even talk. Some days we talk a lot. I don’t even know if he likes me for certain I’m so confused what should i think?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago