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  • Should I (17F, 18 in December) try to pursue something with my crush (14M, 15 in November)?

    Hi Yahoo answers! I am so desperate for advice that I’ve ended up here. I am senior in high school and this guy I like a lot (let’s call him Gary for now) is a freshman. We are both band students who frequently participate in any band possible (jazz, marching, etc) and both play tenor/bari sax, placing us in the same vicinity during most rehearsals. I am his section leader in marching band. I think we get along fairly well, as I give him rides to/from practice at times and have conversations regularly in person. Via text/Snapchat, we only talk a little bit and it mostly involves information about band-related events, but some conversations that stem from those are alright. Here are the issues, though. I am not remotely attractive and, although I have friends within the band, I am a bit of an outlier. Gary is tall, very thin, talented, and very pretty; he’s gotten around from what I have heard. What I really just need to know is, how the hell do I approach this? I am extremely paranoid when it comes to flirting or anything of the sort because I am mortified of coming off as creepy (thanks to previous experiences). Should I try and text him more? Should I try to approach him more often? How to I hold a conversation with a guy? As for the bare minimum, how would I go about establishing the fact I’m attracted to him/would be interested in a fwb type thing without being cryptic? I really have no idea how this stuff works. Any help is appreciated. I hope you have a beautiful day <3

    Singles & Dating11 months ago
  • Should I (17F, 18 in December) try to pursue something with my crush (14M, 15 in November)?

    Hi Yahoo answers! I am so desperate for advice that I’ve ended up here. I am senior in high school and this guy I like a lot (let’s call him Gary for now) is a freshman. We are both band students who frequently participate in any band possible (jazz, marching, etc) and both play tenor/bari sax, placing us in the same vicinity during most rehearsals. I am his section leader in marching band. I think we get along fairly well, as I give him rides to/from practice at times and have conversations regularly in person. Via text/Snapchat, we only talk a little bit and it mostly involves information about band-related events, but some conversations that stem from those are alright. Here are the issues, though. I am not remotely attractive and, although I have friends within the band, I am a bit of an outlier. Gary is tall, very thin, talented, and very pretty; he’s gotten around from what I have heard. What I really just need to know is, how the hell do I approach this? I am extremely paranoid when it comes to flirting or anything of the sort because I am mortified of coming off as creepy (thanks to previous experiences). Should I try and text him more? Should I try to approach him more often? How to I hold a conversation with a guy? As for the bare minimum, how would I go about establishing the fact I’m attracted to him/would be interested in a fwb type thing without being cryptic? I really have no idea how this stuff works. Any help is appreciated. I hope you have a beautiful day <3

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating11 months ago