• What do I do? Toxic work environment?

    I am in an internship with 4 weeks left to go. It’s been so hard. Everyone at work has given me the cold shoulder from the start. I tried making conversations with people and making new friends. It hasn’t happened. Everyone in my team talks to each other and I’m the lone wolf. I’m so depressed it’s tsken a toll on my mental health. I first... show more
    I am in an internship with 4 weeks left to go. It’s been so hard. Everyone at work has given me the cold shoulder from the start. I tried making conversations with people and making new friends. It hasn’t happened. Everyone in my team talks to each other and I’m the lone wolf. I’m so depressed it’s tsken a toll on my mental health. I first considered it might be me but i haven’t done anything bad to anyone. Even being shy, I put myself out there and asked people about Thier life and hobbies, just s normal conversation you’d have with someone. People didn’t like me from the get go. They didn’t even try to get to know me. They invite each other to do things in front of me and it really hasn’t hurt my feelings. I’ve never quit or walked away anything in my life but I’m just starting to get s strong feeling to do so. I just don’t know what to do. I’ve never had something like this happen to me before. Do I tell HR? Do I quit? And look for better opportunity? Is there something wrong with me? Am I being weak? I’m so depressed I feel like crying
    2 answers · Psychology · 1 month ago
  • What do I do about my internship?

    I have an internship that while I am getting good experience it is very hard as people are rude and mean to me. I have done nothing wrong I get my stuff done on time and make any corrections by all deadlines. People ignore me, don’t talk to me, are extremely rude to me if I make a mistake as compared to someone else . The people talk and treat the... show more
    I have an internship that while I am getting good experience it is very hard as people are rude and mean to me. I have done nothing wrong I get my stuff done on time and make any corrections by all deadlines. People ignore me, don’t talk to me, are extremely rude to me if I make a mistake as compared to someone else . The people talk and treat the interns better then they do me. The interns don’t even include me in anything or make any effort to talk to me and I’ve made efforts to be kind and talk to people. I feel something is wrong with me because why is this is the case? When I’m not at work, I can talk to people and they are friendly to me and I feel like I’m treated more normally think I got stuck with a really bad team here because people on other floors make efforts to talk to me too. I have 4. Weeks left and I don’t know what to do. I’m so depressed and hurt and I’ve never quit anything in my life but in this situation is it a good idea?
    5 answers · Friends · 1 month ago
  • Why are people always cold to me? Why can’t I make any friends?

    25 years old with no social life. I spend weekends alone and just moving to a different state doesn’t help. I have only 2 best friends that I talk to and hangout with when I can, but they both live in different states. I have no one else. I feel out of touch with my generation. I try to make friends but I always get a cold shoulder. I will ask... show more
    25 years old with no social life. I spend weekends alone and just moving to a different state doesn’t help. I have only 2 best friends that I talk to and hangout with when I can, but they both live in different states. I have no one else. I feel out of touch with my generation. I try to make friends but I always get a cold shoulder. I will ask people questions about their life and say good morning and good night to them as a starting point for a relationship but people are just mean to me. They will talk to other people around me but give me no attention. I find this generation superficial and stuck up and cocky. I am more of an introvert but that does not mean I’m anti social or hate people. I desire a social life. But it’s like there’s something wrong with me and I can’t get what I want. It doesn’t matter what I do or what new thing I try to do to make friends. It just doesn’t work. What’s your advice? I feel so alone
    2 answers · Friends · 1 month ago
  • When does tax season hours slow down for accountants?

    Is it all the way to April 15th or does it vary from firm to firm? Working 65 a week currently
    Is it all the way to April 15th or does it vary from firm to firm? Working 65 a week currently
    2 answers · Diet & Fitness · 1 month ago
  • What do I do? getting treated cold at my new job?

    I recently got a new job in Pennsylvania as an accounting intern, I was really excited as it was a big move for me and was excited to meet new people. I was in for a surprise as everyone at my job hates me. I tried to make friends but no one talks to me or includes me. I said good morning and good night to people I work around, but they never... show more
    I recently got a new job in Pennsylvania as an accounting intern, I was really excited as it was a big move for me and was excited to meet new people. I was in for a surprise as everyone at my job hates me. I tried to make friends but no one talks to me or includes me. I said good morning and good night to people I work around, but they never said it to me. Eventually I stopped to see if they would and they didnt. When I asked this girl if she dropped something that was by her desk, she gave me a very cold and rude response saying no. I tried asking people about their lives and what they do, just to make converastion and get to know them. One situation two interns saw me and they just kept walking up the stairs and talked to each other, but didnt say a word to me. The supervisors there avoid me as much as they can. Only one is nice to me and takes an interest. The other supervisors treat me different than they do the others. Everyone else seems to not take an interest in me at all. It makes me feel like something is wrong with me. I am doing very well at the job and have been told so, I've made a lot less mistakes than others. I have made small mistakes to which one of my supervisors said "they're not big mistakes to where we need to have a big talk about it." Even being an introvert, I desire friendships, and I try my best to start conversations and ask people questions about themselves, but it does no good. What do I do? Am I just at a bad job?
    2 answers · Friends · 2 months ago
  • What do I do? getting treated cold at work?

    I recently got a new job in Pennsylvania as an accounting intern, I was really excited as it was a big move for me and was excited to meet new people. I was in for a surprise as everyone at my job hates me. I tried to make friends but no one talks to me or includes me. I said good morning and good night to people I work around, but they never said... show more
    I recently got a new job in Pennsylvania as an accounting intern, I was really excited as it was a big move for me and was excited to meet new people. I was in for a surprise as everyone at my job hates me. I tried to make friends but no one talks to me or includes me. I said good morning and good night to people I work around, but they never said it to me. Eventually I stopped to see if they would and they didnt. When I asked this girl if she dropped something that was by her desk, she gave me a very cold and rude response saying no. I tried asking people about their lives and what they do, just to make converastion and get to know them. One situation two interns saw me and they just kept walking up the stairs and talked to each other, but didnt say a word to me,. The supervisors there avoid me as much as they can. Only one is nice to me and takes an interest. The other supervisors treat me different than they do the others. It makes me feel like something is wrong with me. I am doing very well at the job and have been told so, I ve made a lot less mistakes than others. Even being an introvert, I desire friendships, and I try my best to start conversations and ask people questions about themselves, but it does no good. What do I do? Am I just at a bad job?
    2 answers · Friends · 2 months ago
  • What causes some people to act cold to you when you firs meet them?

    I started a new job and the first week met some very nice people, very helpful and talkative. Then the next month, I was reassigned to different teams and two peoplewere extremely cold to me first meeting them. For example, one of the team leaders looked at me like I was unfit of her time. I tried to strike up normal conversation about where they... show more
    I started a new job and the first week met some very nice people, very helpful and talkative. Then the next month, I was reassigned to different teams and two peoplewere extremely cold to me first meeting them. For example, one of the team leaders looked at me like I was unfit of her time. I tried to strike up normal conversation about where they live and what they do and then talked about where I grew up. And made no effort to continue the conversation. Another person I said good morning and good night to every day and got nothing but a short response. Then I decided one day to stop and see if they would say it to me when we left work, they didnt. I always feel like something is wrong with me but could it be something else?
    2 answers · Other - Family & Relationships · 3 months ago
  • Why is there an extra year in MACRS deprectiation?

    I noticed that with whatever year life asset you are depreciating, is always one more year than what it says. So for example a 7 year life is 8 years. I cant remember why that is?
    I noticed that with whatever year life asset you are depreciating, is always one more year than what it says. So for example a 7 year life is 8 years. I cant remember why that is?
    2 answers · Homework Help · 5 months ago
  • Why do unsuccessful people hate successful people?

    Due to the area I live in currently, I have had to settle with let's just say peter pan friends. The boys who never grew up. I am fully aware that this is bad, but I have no choice until I move in a few months. I just have a question and something I have noticed. I have a college degree and recently got a job in the city. I apply myself in life... show more
    Due to the area I live in currently, I have had to settle with let's just say peter pan friends. The boys who never grew up. I am fully aware that this is bad, but I have no choice until I move in a few months. I just have a question and something I have noticed. I have a college degree and recently got a job in the city. I apply myself in life and work hard. Alot of my friends have these dead end jobs and have done absolutely nothing with their life. They are essential the same person as they were ten years ago. They all treat me like crap and dont respect me. They interrupt me when I'm talking, they exclude me in things on social media, they never ask about what I'm doing in life or congratulate me when something good happens, they simply dont respect me. I wanna know what it is and what gives people the right to do that. I plan on cutting off these people soon but I don't understand how you cant show respect to someone and be kind to someone.
    25 answers · Psychology · 5 months ago
  • Does a CPA exam allow you to use anything to calculate annuities/time value of money?

    I just finished reviewing a chapter in my finance class on time value of money. My question is: Do I need to have all the formulas memorized for the CPA or can I simply plug the numbers into a calculator or spreadsheet formula to find the answers?
    I just finished reviewing a chapter in my finance class on time value of money. My question is: Do I need to have all the formulas memorized for the CPA or can I simply plug the numbers into a calculator or spreadsheet formula to find the answers?
    1 answer · Other - Business & Finance · 5 months ago
  • Both phones paid off on us cellular, can I cancel service with no fee?

    I am going to switch to verizon. I had talked with US cellular representative and they said since both phones are paid off early, there is no fee that applies. Can anyone confirm this
    I am going to switch to verizon. I had talked with US cellular representative and they said since both phones are paid off early, there is no fee that applies. Can anyone confirm this
    5 answers · Cell Phones & Plans · 5 months ago
  • What are the implications if the democrats control the house and republicans control the senate?

    Will it mean neither party will get what they want without compromise? Will it mean nothing will change due to either side unwilling to give up on anything? How is it possible for republicans to pick up seats in the senate (if it does happen) but yet lose the house?
    Will it mean neither party will get what they want without compromise? Will it mean nothing will change due to either side unwilling to give up on anything? How is it possible for republicans to pick up seats in the senate (if it does happen) but yet lose the house?
    9 answers · Politics · 6 months ago
  • What should I do about being talked over and interrupted?

    Lately I've been having issues with some friends. It's been going on for some time but lately I'm at the point where I don't know what to do or how to handle it. But it extremely bothers me to where I'm at the point if I don't know if I should cut friendships. Here's the situation: I'll call them friend 1, 2 and 3:... show more
    Lately I've been having issues with some friends. It's been going on for some time but lately I'm at the point where I don't know what to do or how to handle it. But it extremely bothers me to where I'm at the point if I don't know if I should cut friendships. Here's the situation: I'll call them friend 1, 2 and 3: There are three I hang with occasionally. When friend one is around, I always have the tendency to be talked over and interrupted. An example a few nights ago. I literally tried to start a conversation and then friend 1 always raises his voice really loud and cuts me out. And then friend 2 generally starts doing the same thing . Friend 3 rarely does it to me but has a tendency to maintain a conversation with the other two and leave me out. The only time I can get a conversation in is if friend 1 isn't around. When they're all together, I sit there and cant say anything and when I try, I'm talked over by raised voices. I can't tell if it's done on purpose or they dont realize it. But I'm leaning on the former. Friend 1 thinks he's the alpha of the group (and I can guarantee you he's not) he always tries to dominate the conversation and plans of the group. The thing is, I've tried doing the whole "keep talking over them and dont give up until they stop" and it doesnt work at all. And what makes me really mad is I'm an intelligent person.
    2 answers · Friends · 6 months ago
  • Debt collector keeps calling my parents and me on a debt I have paid?

    They are calling about an amount that I paid. I sent them a check for all other payments I owed. I included proof that one amount had already been paid. I have in my bank statement, the check number date and amount they are requesting that was cashed by the company and they are still calling me. What do I do
    They are calling about an amount that I paid. I sent them a check for all other payments I owed. I included proof that one amount had already been paid. I have in my bank statement, the check number date and amount they are requesting that was cashed by the company and they are still calling me. What do I do
    8 answers · Credit · 6 months ago
  • What's wrong with my health?

    I am a 24 yr old male. I take daily B vitamin supplements, Vitamin C, Vitamin D, and Fish oil. It seems like everyday I feel extremely tired. My head feels either light headed or very heavy. I feel dizzy. When im in public I noticed it gets worse. I either feel dizzy and cant focus or my face feels heavy and angry. I dont want to feel this way but... show more
    I am a 24 yr old male. I take daily B vitamin supplements, Vitamin C, Vitamin D, and Fish oil. It seems like everyday I feel extremely tired. My head feels either light headed or very heavy. I feel dizzy. When im in public I noticed it gets worse. I either feel dizzy and cant focus or my face feels heavy and angry. I dont want to feel this way but I feel like theres got to be something wrong.
    18 answers · Other - General Health Care · 7 months ago
  • What are good indications you got the job?

    I had my third and final interview. Here are some things I noticed. -I interviewed with 3 different people in my last interview working in different departments. This was different than my past interviews as I had usually only interviewed with one person. -Got an office tour and was taken out to lunch, I expected to leave right after lunch as... show more
    I had my third and final interview. Here are some things I noticed. -I interviewed with 3 different people in my last interview working in different departments. This was different than my past interviews as I had usually only interviewed with one person. -Got an office tour and was taken out to lunch, I expected to leave right after lunch as this what I normally did but they said they wanted me to speak with the recruiter before I left (this has never happened before) -Recruiter asked me when I could start and what would work for me, went on to say I would be gotten back to very soon (and then said possible even this very week if she could make it happen) -Was walked to door and hand shook before leaving, followed up with a thank you and recruiter said I will be getting back to you shortly and hoped I had a great time meeting with everyone I didn't read much into the office tour and lunch as this has happened in a few other past interviews as well. But I felt like everyone was more friendly with me than past interviews, casual conversation seemed to flow smoothly, talked about things outside of work. The big differences I saw were interviewing with multiple people and then being asked to speak with recruiter before leaving. What do you think?
    3 answers · Other - Careers & Employment · 8 months ago
  • What do you think happened? very confused?

    This girl connected with me on social media saying I looked familiar. I realized we took some classes together before and so we hit it off. She had told me she had recently got out of a 5 year relationship about a month ago. She admitted she had a crush on me back in the day (as did I) We hit it off and talked alot. She said she wanted to go out... show more
    This girl connected with me on social media saying I looked familiar. I realized we took some classes together before and so we hit it off. She had told me she had recently got out of a 5 year relationship about a month ago. She admitted she had a crush on me back in the day (as did I) We hit it off and talked alot. She said she wanted to go out with me and I asked her out. So we met up and went out to dinner and drinks, then a movie. The date went really well. There was no awkward pauses, she held my hand, she rested her head on my shoulder, and we made out. She mentioned 5 times during the date she wanted to hangout again and that she meant it (I didn't bring it up once not to seem clingy). As I dropped her off she grabbed me and made out with me and told me to drive safe. We texted the next day just as we always did. I told her I wanted to see her again and she said she had a great time. Then that night she stopped texting me, I figured she had gone to sleep. Didn't hear from her for 2 days. Sent a follow up text and got nothing until the next day with her apologizing say she has been feeling down. I texted her back a few days later and got nothing. I waited a week and texted her again. Nothing. I am highly confused as to what happened and I have talked to other girls about it and they too said that was very strange. I know for a fact she was interested in me especially with all that happened during the date. What do you think happened? I cant stop thinking about it.
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 9 months ago
  • What do you think happened in this confusing situation?

    This girl connected with me on social media saying I looked familiar. I realized we took some classes together before and so we hit it off. She had told me she had recently got out of a 5 year relationship about a month ago. She admitted she had a crush on me back in the day (as did I) We hit it off and talked alot. She said she wanted to go out... show more
    This girl connected with me on social media saying I looked familiar. I realized we took some classes together before and so we hit it off. She had told me she had recently got out of a 5 year relationship about a month ago. She admitted she had a crush on me back in the day (as did I) We hit it off and talked alot. She said she wanted to go out with me and I asked her out. So we met up and went out to dinner and drinks, then a movie. The date went really well. There was no awkward pauses, she held my hand, she rested her head on my shoulder, and we made out. She mentioned 5 times during the date she wanted to hangout again and that she meant it (I didn't bring it up once not to seem clingy). As I dropped her off she grabbed me and made out with me and told me to drive safe. We texted the next day just as we always did. I told her I wanted to see her again and she said she had a great time. Then that night she stopped texting me, I figured she had gone to sleep. Didn't hear from her for 2 days. Sent a follow up text and got nothing until the next day with her apologizing say she has been feeling down. I texted her back a few days later and got nothing. I waited a week and texted her again. Nothing. I am highly confused as to what happened and I have talked to other girls about it and they too said that was very strange. I know for a fact she was interested in me especially with all that happened during the date. What do you think happened? I cant stop thinking about it.
    1 answer · Other - Family & Relationships · 9 months ago
  • What did I do wrong?

    went on a first date with this girl. we knew each other awhile back from mutual friends and talked a little but never really got to know each other. she hits me up randomly saying you look familiar and we hit it off. we started snaochatting and talking all the time. she just got out of s relationship with her bf. I just got out if s relationship a... show more
    went on a first date with this girl. we knew each other awhile back from mutual friends and talked a little but never really got to know each other. she hits me up randomly saying you look familiar and we hit it off. we started snaochatting and talking all the time. she just got out of s relationship with her bf. I just got out if s relationship a year ago. I asked her out and she said yes and we went on a date. during the date we talked, laughed, there was no awkward pauses. at the movies she out her arm around mine, held my hand, snapped a pic of us holding hands to her friends, and we made out. when I dropped her off she grabbed me and kissed me. she said 5 times during the date she wanted to hang out again. well the day after she starts acting a little distant but we still talk and she still initiates the conversation. then she ignores atext and 2 days go by and I hear nothing. I text her again and nithing. she clearly is ignoring me. I don't understand. what was I did that was wrong? why is she doing this
    9 answers · Singles & Dating · 10 months ago
  • My family ignores me and it really hurts my feelings. What do I do?

    I'm 25 a recent graduate in college for accounting. As of lately my youngest brother and my older brothers have been ignoring me. We are all in a group text and whenever I write something they never respond to it. But when someone else does they respond right away. I recently was together with one of my brothers and my parents and he completely... show more
    I'm 25 a recent graduate in college for accounting. As of lately my youngest brother and my older brothers have been ignoring me. We are all in a group text and whenever I write something they never respond to it. But when someone else does they respond right away. I recently was together with one of my brothers and my parents and he completely ignored me. Just talked to my parents. It really hurts my feelings. The vibe I am getting as to why is i am not further along in my career as they are. Ima struggling finding an accounting internship and all my other brothers are further ahead than me. It makes me feel like such a failure because I try so hard and I haven't given up. But at the same time I don't feel that's a legit reason to not talk to me and shut me out and make me feel like killing myself. I've struggled with depression my life but take meds eat healthy and work out and have learned to deal with it. I just don't know what to do. Do I confront my family about it or do I just accept this is how it is going to be?
    5 answers · Family · 12 months ago