ok, so me n my bf are going thru a rough time, ive only really got one friend at the moment and if i loose him ill just end up sitting inside wallowing in my own self pitty. Thing is that friend confessed his love for me, like majorly, there is no way anything is going to happen. Can we stil be friends or is that too akward3 AnswersFriends8 years ago
The kitten is a girl and the cat i a 10 year old boy, who lot his brother a year ago. When they first met they sniffed each other, then the boy cat started hissing and ran and hid under the cabnit growling and hissing if she came near. He left when we opened the door for him to go outside but he hasnt come back. Weve put the cat flap so the big cat can come in but neither can go out. Will he come back?8 AnswersCats8 years ago
Obviously im going to take it to the vet as soon as I can but what can I do now, in the UK.
The scab seems to have got bigger since ive had the cat and it is starting to peel at the sides, it is a very deep scab so i wouldnt dare try and take it off.
The kitten doesnt seem worried at all and doesnt even seem to mind if i touch it to see how its doing.
Will it eventually heal on its own? It is a very big deep scab fr a little kitten, it looks as though it may have been a bite from one of its litter mates.4 AnswersCats8 years ago
She was 12 weeks old and still hadnt been socialised, she was grumpy when i got her but i thought she would settle in after a few days, this is the third day now.
When ever i go near her she is still hissing at me and she cries all night and most of the time i dont just sit in the room with her, (this is getting kinda boring now as she wont even come near me). The crying is really loud and im worried the neighbours will get annoyed, i cant go in and comfort her because she doesnt like me.
Will this ever stop? Also she doesnt want to play with any of her toys, weve bought her loads including a cat tree, ive never had a cat like this before is this normal?10 AnswersCats8 years ago
He comes home from work and just sits on the sofa... all night untill he goes to bed. and expects his dinner made for him even though hes a complete pain.
He barely ever helps around the house, his only jobs are to take out the bin bag, mow the garden and cut back the hedge that i cant reach, and he doesnt do it! he hasnt mowed the grass for 3 months now and he seems to think his life is soo hard.
On his days off he just sleeps all day, even though he does a shift where he does two weeks on then one week off. He sleeps all the time even on his week off and he doesnt get anything done, he just expects me to do it!
We never go out anymore, but he says he takes me out all the time, to go food shopping once a week, like thats what id like to spend my time doing!!
Weve been together for 4 years and weve known each other for much longer than that but im really falling out of love with him and its starting to get to the point where its not working out.
what can i do to fix this!?4 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships8 years ago
Its a fairly old house, I dont know how old the windows are. It only the front two windows in the bedrooms that have the problem.
Weve put three little dehumidifiers on the main bedroom and two in the other, weve tried all combinations of open or closed windows with different radiator heats, left the door to our bedrooms open or closed even over night.
The curtains are open during the day and over night in the spare room, where the condensation isnt as bad, but in our room we have to close the curtains as we live in a bungalow facing a culdisac.
Were at a complete loss every morning our bedroom window is dripping and if we dont clean it off, which uses about half a roll of kitchen roll, it grows mould! We cant think what else to try, do we need new windows?3 AnswersMaintenance & Repairs8 years ago
Ive been obsessing so i know i could have tricked myself into having a false pregnancy, these are my symptoms
The day after we had sex i felt really tired, and have been tired again since
ive been getting really dizzy
i felt sick when i ate a cookie and apart from that id been eating really healthy but still feel bloated
iv had stomach cramps and i had leg cramps the first few days after
ive been drinking lots of water and going to the toilet a lot more than i usually would
ive also been getting pains just on my right side where my ovary is
does this sound real or could I be having a false pregnancy
I know ill have to wait to know for sure but any ideas would be really good5 AnswersTrying to Conceive8 years ago
Im sure that I am ovulating, I have most of the signs, and we had sex yesterday and two days before that aswell.
Are you guaranteed to get pregnant if you have sex while ovulating?4 AnswersTrying to Conceive8 years ago
Iv got vaginismus and me and my partner hadnt been able to have sex for around a year. I started using dilators and we were able to have sex once but since then its just gone straight back to almost hitting a brick wall.. Im still using the dilator and its much easier to do that now than it was in the first place but im really annoyed that after having sex once its just stopped working again! Has anyone had this problem or know any more about what might be going on here?2 AnswersWomen's Health8 years ago
I have quite bad endometriosis, the new cysts appear as soon as i have the last ones taken out. Ive all ready had one ovary out and had damage caused on my womb and bladder and my other ovary.
Ive decided to try and have a baby before its too late but i treat the condition with birthcontroll (which i would obviously have to stop taking) when i stop the cysts seem to grow really fast im in a LOT of pain and i get really heavy bleeding everyday.
I suppose ill just have to live with the pain and bleeding but what do i do about the cyst? If i just let it grow i could loose my other ovary before i get pregnant or if i did get pregnant and lost the baby my ovary could get damaged by that point and i wouldn't get a chance to try again. even if i did get pregnant would the cyst effect the baby?2 AnswersTrying to Conceive8 years ago
Ive always said that I would adopt my children, but when i was 17 I got endometriosis and have been told that if I wanted to have my own children that i would need to do it in my early 20s.
ive already had one ovary out, and i get cysts growing constantly :/ on the other one, im now 21 so if I leave it much longer its very unlikely id be able to have children of my own.
So now I don't know what to do, although I think I would be better off waiting and then adopting Im worried id really regret not having my own baby before its too late. My boyfriend is on an ok wage i think wed be able to manage..just, and weve been together 4 years. What should I do?8 AnswersAdoption8 years ago
I have the water at 28degrees, ive added rock salt, ive got a bubbler and ive added baking soda as i was told this helps. Its been 3 days now and the packet said it would take 24 hours. They are brand new from the shop. am i missing anything?3 AnswersFish8 years ago
I know that credit card loans and mortgages are taken off of the value of any estate left behind or just written off if there isnt enough worth on the estate. But ive heard that you can inherit nursing home bills and unpaid tax is there any other ways you could end up inheriting debt?7 AnswersPersonal Finance8 years ago
i think getting an inground pool is going to be waay to expensive and i cant afford to run an above ground pool all year round so it seems like an inflatable pool would be better as you can just put them away after the summer.
iv found one that looks like its just about big enough to swim lengths in but it costs over £400
ive seen that a lot of inflatable pools can split quite easily so i wonder wether it is worth that amount of money
i love to swim and would really love a pool of some kind at my house, i do have a gym membership but the pool seems to be full of kids all the time especially in the summer and its pretty hard just to swim lengths so having a pool of my own seemed like a good idea.
im not going to be jumping all over it but i do have two dogs, maybe a small fence around it would help to stop them going to near it.
if i was fairly careful with the pool how long do you think it would last?
and from experience how long has any one been able to keep a large inflatable pool for?2 AnswersMaintenance & Repairs8 years ago
me and my boyfriend had a big fall out today which ended in me packing my bags as ive had enough of his moods. He went off in his car and then came back while i was packing he tried to talk to me a bit but i didnt realy say much back at the time. Then when he left to go to work he said he loved me he was sorry and it was a shame it had come to this. but if he really loved me wouldnt he had tried harder to keep me there?
weve got a holiday booked together in a months time and although i would have to wait for him to make the first move im having second thoughts about leaving this house. this does seem to keep happening though.
should he have made more of an effort this morning if he really did want to stay together? and even if he comes back tonight and realy make a good of things then is that too little to late?8 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
He had made the acount about 6 months into our relationship, when we were not as strong as we are now and also we were young back then (weve now been together nearly 4 years).
It seemed as though he had only been looking at photos since the only emails that had been opened were of that and he had just left the invitations to meet up and stuff like that unopened.
I guess i would have been ok with that but when i asked him about it he went crazy at me. It makes me think he had something more to hide.
It had been over 1 1/2 years since the last email from fling.com had been opened any since then were still unread and im nearly 100% sure nothing has happened since then.
Also the reason i was in his email was to retrieve his old payslips for him so he could get a tax rebate and he knew i was doing it, he coudnt be bothered to go through all the other stuff in there.
So basically, why do you guys think he went completely mad at me? because he was hiding something? or that he was just annoyed i got upset even though he hasnt been on it for so long?13 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
ive been sticking to around 1000 calories a day, ive been swimming about 4 times a week for at least an hour and a half each time, as well as going to the gym at least 3 times a week for an hour.
I started in march (4 months ago) and for the first month i went to the gym every day and also did swimming everyday. Ive lost about a stone but i was hoping for a bit more since i had been doing so much and restricted my food. why is it taking so long to come off!!!?19 AnswersDiet & Fitness8 years ago