I'm currently 4 moths pregnant, with my first child. when I first found out I was pregnant, I told the father immediately, and I told him that he needs to look for a job. here it is four months later, he still has yet to look for a job, and it seems like he is not the least bit interested in atleast trying to find one. when he had my number the only time he would call or text me is whenever he needed something from me, such as to borrow money, which he NEVER gives back to you, or for me to give him gas money, or give him a ride somewhere, While I work a fulltime job saving up my money for the baby, he sits on his mom couch at home all day, looking for me to take care of him and give him whatever he needs. I let him borrow 50 dollars once. he told me as soon as his mom got paid the next day he would call me back first thing in the morning and tell me to come get the money back I lent him.....I even told him I needed that money to help pay for the doctor bill for our child. so it was very important that he paid it back, he said okay. fours months later STILL have not seen the money I lent him. He basically just stole money from his child which was needed to help pay doctor bill. and he doesn't even care. all he cares about is someone taking care of him, I warned him one day on twitter in my messages if he did not straighten up I would have to put him on child support. he got upset and threatened to come to my job, wait in the parking lot, and beat me and try to get me fired.