• How do I make my girlfriend "emotionally satisfied" when I am extremely busy?

    For the next 3 weeks, my schedule is so busy that I think I will only be able to see my girlfriend once, and I have only seen her a few times in the past couple of weeks due to my circumstances. She is uninterested in being intimate and says she's less happy in our relationship because of my busy schedule. I want to make her happy again but I... show more
    For the next 3 weeks, my schedule is so busy that I think I will only be able to see my girlfriend once, and I have only seen her a few times in the past couple of weeks due to my circumstances. She is uninterested in being intimate and says she's less happy in our relationship because of my busy schedule. I want to make her happy again but I don't have time to take her on a trip or spend a whole day with her. Is there anything else I can do for her to meet her emotional needs and to make her happy again?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 4 months ago
  • Girlfriend feeling emotionally detached and "unahppy" in the relationship. What to do?

    I saw this coming as she was becoming less and less affectionate and physically intimate. I have an extremely busy schedule for the past couple of months and for the next 3 weeks as I have my medical school entrance exam (MCAT) coming up. I am not hanging out with any of my friends and am spending most of my time studying at home. These next few... show more
    I saw this coming as she was becoming less and less affectionate and physically intimate. I have an extremely busy schedule for the past couple of months and for the next 3 weeks as I have my medical school entrance exam (MCAT) coming up. I am not hanging out with any of my friends and am spending most of my time studying at home. These next few weeks will determine if I do well on my MCAT and its very important to me. She's generally supportive but lately expressed her unahppiness in the relationship and that she does not want to have sex until she's happy again. I try to be attentive, I text her and call her any time I can, I have taken her out a few times this month to her favorite restaurants but she still says it's not making her feel anything. She feels like this entire summer was wasted for her because we didn't do any nature dates like we did last year when i was more available. She wants to go on road trips, parks, and the kind of dates that I don't have time for in the next 3 weeks. She says that after these 3 weeks, the summer ends and there is not much to look forward to. She does not blame me for having to do my test but she says that she can't just be happy knowing that nothing exciting is happening. She also doesn't have any close friends so she always relies on me for exciting adventures. She doesn't want to leave me, and nor do I. Is there anything i can do to make her happy during these few busy weeks?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 months ago
  • How come girlfriend suddenly has no sex drive?

    Been together for a year. First 7 months all she wanted was sex. She kept sending me nudes without me even asking. She would want to try new things. She would be down to have sex any minute and she would come on to me every time. We would dirty text all the time. It was so fun. She masturbated all the time. For the past 3 months, she has not sent... show more
    Been together for a year. First 7 months all she wanted was sex. She kept sending me nudes without me even asking. She would want to try new things. She would be down to have sex any minute and she would come on to me every time. We would dirty text all the time. It was so fun. She masturbated all the time. For the past 3 months, she has not sent me one dirty text. She doesn't send nudes anymore unless I ask for it, and even then she usually just forgets. She doesn't talk about sex. She doesn't masturbate at all anymore. We haven't had sex in a month and when we did, it was me practically begging and pushing her. She's happy in the relationship. I treat her very well and I always make her feel special. When I tell her why she doesn't wanna have sex as much she just says her sex drive is gone. I don't understand. She is not on birth control. What gives?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 4 months ago
  • Is my girlfriend's behaviour normal or am I just putting up with all of this?

    2 nights ago we had a small argument (we were on FaceTime and every time I would reach for my phone she would get irritated and tell me to study or that I m wasting my time, I told her to stop it & she got super angry) Next morning I text her "good morning baby. I love you" She responds "morning" In the afternoon, I call... show more
    2 nights ago we had a small argument (we were on FaceTime and every time I would reach for my phone she would get irritated and tell me to study or that I m wasting my time, I told her to stop it & she got super angry) Next morning I text her "good morning baby. I love you" She responds "morning" In the afternoon, I call her to alleviate things and make her happy. She tells me she doesn t have minutes and we end the conversation very shortly. She finally calls me at 7pm to talk and goes on a rant about how she hates people and is happier by being cold and upfront to "people". At 9:00 PM she texts me "I love you" at this time my phone was being charged in my sister s room At 9:10 PM (yes, 10 minutes later) she texts me "okay...?? No reply?" At 9:15 I get to my phone and text her "sorry, I was having dinner with family and my phone was not with me, but of course I love you too" She immediately responds "ok." I text her "what are you up to?" She ignores it for the rest of the night This morning: I text her "good morning my beautiful girlfriend. I love you and hope all goes well at work for you today" Her response, "morning" I called her just now and told her that I m picking her up to take her to her favourite restaurant and her whole mood changed. She started saying how much she appreciates me and loves me. IS THIS NORMAL BEHAVUOUR BY A WOMAN? She does this to me all the time until I do something to make her happy. She doesn't really do anything for me.
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 5 months ago
  • Balance IO3 + I{-} + H{+} ~~> I3{-} + H2O?

    I already know the answer. I just don't know how to do it. Please explain to me how I can balance this reaction.
    I already know the answer. I just don't know how to do it. Please explain to me how I can balance this reaction.
    1 answer · Chemistry · 6 months ago
  • I can t break up with my manipulative/emotionally abusive girlfriend. How do I do it?

    She s called me an "ungrateful little *****", "fool", "stupid", "idiot", among many other names. She always threatens to end our relationship if i don t apologize after every argument. I came to visit her after 4 months of long distance and she didn t welcome me back and was super cold with me because... show more
    She s called me an "ungrateful little *****", "fool", "stupid", "idiot", among many other names. She always threatens to end our relationship if i don t apologize after every argument. I came to visit her after 4 months of long distance and she didn t welcome me back and was super cold with me because apparently she had a lot of "school work and stresses". I was so hurt and for the first time I told her I want to end our relationship. She was so apologetic and begged for me back, so I gave it another chance. Now she s comfortable again and treating me the same way. Today, she was giving me attitude because i turned my head away for one second and she felt like I m ignoring her. I apologized and said i was still listening. She continued to be cold with me, and then told me "I m gonna go now". When she says that, she hangs up without saying bye, so I said "okay" and hung up first. Now she s so distraught and she s telling me that she doesn t wanna talk to me ever again until I apologize to her for not saying bye. she s guilt tripping me that she was gonna say bye to me and I hung up. When I know for a fact that she never says bye when she s in a bad mood. Idk what to do. I m so upset and unhappy and it s like she doesn t even care.
    6 answers · Singles & Dating · 6 months ago
  • Is it normal for my girlfriend to consistently talk down to me?

    Been together for 9 months. She's loving and caring usually, but when she gets the tiniest bit upset or annoyed by anything, she talks down to me and tends to raise her voice. Like today in the morning, she asked me if I would be driving my new car every where and I told her that I'd rather not put too many km on it so I'd use my older... show more
    Been together for 9 months. She's loving and caring usually, but when she gets the tiniest bit upset or annoyed by anything, she talks down to me and tends to raise her voice. Like today in the morning, she asked me if I would be driving my new car every where and I told her that I'd rather not put too many km on it so I'd use my older car for longer distances, like road trips. Her response was "are you stupid? Why the **** would you do that".. Then in the evening, we were talking about something very trivial and she goes like "are you an idiot? Don't come to me with that stupidity". She has done this many times before as well. I don't like being talked to this way. I never talk down to her, so why does she always talk to me as if i am an idiot. I treat her so well, and she generally treats me well, but if anything is not her way, she will call me names, raise her voice, yell, and talk down to me with no respect. she tells me she gets moody and annoyed around her period but really? Do all women go off on their man when they are menstrauating, or is she just making an excuse?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 6 months ago
  • Hess' Law Question. Determine Enthalpy of C(s) + 1/2 O2 --> CO?

    PLEASE EXPLAIN. I don't want just the answer. I want to understand it. Q. Determine enthalpy of C(s) + 1/2 O2 --> CO Given the following reactions: C(s) + O2 --> CO2 ΔH = -393.5 KJ/mol CO + 1/2 O2 --> CO2 ΔH = -283 KJ/mol Apparently I have to flip the second reaction. But then the 1/2 O2 would end up on the products... show more
    PLEASE EXPLAIN. I don't want just the answer. I want to understand it. Q. Determine enthalpy of C(s) + 1/2 O2 --> CO Given the following reactions: C(s) + O2 --> CO2 ΔH = -393.5 KJ/mol CO + 1/2 O2 --> CO2 ΔH = -283 KJ/mol Apparently I have to flip the second reaction. But then the 1/2 O2 would end up on the products side so wouldn't that be wrong? I'm so confused
    1 answer · Chemistry · 8 months ago
  • Girlfriend just told me she wasn t planning on getting me a birthday gift. My fault?

    We are in a long distance relationship. Long time ago, I told her that her visiting me on my birthday would be a gift in itself. I meant that in a more complementing way to just tell her how much she means to me. She decided to visit me literally 2 weeks before my birthday because she had a tattoo appointment near my birthday that she is unwilling... show more
    We are in a long distance relationship. Long time ago, I told her that her visiting me on my birthday would be a gift in itself. I meant that in a more complementing way to just tell her how much she means to me. She decided to visit me literally 2 weeks before my birthday because she had a tattoo appointment near my birthday that she is unwilling to reschedule...to which I was a little disappointed but still accepted it. Anyways, we were just on the phone and she was just telling me how she s not getting anything for my birthday and i was just surprised. She was so defensive; she was saying "I dropped 500 dollars for a plane ticket to see you and you still want something?". I visited her twice and dropped 500 dollars each time, but I never thought that was a gift to her. Also, I don t even want her to spend money on my birthday gift, I just wanted it celebrated. Even a letter would suffice. I just didn t know that I would not be looking forward to anything from her for my birthday. She was so defensive and cold. As if her coming to see me is a huge favour. Am I being unreasonable?
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 8 months ago
  • My girlfriend wears a sweater from her ex in front of me but never the sweater I gave her?

    I was facetiming with my girlfriend and she was wearing a sweater that had her ex's university name on it, so I am very certain that it's from him. She's also told me before that she loves wearing guy sweaters. I gave her a sweater of mine and she does not wear it. She said she likes cuddling with it in bed but she doesn't like... show more
    I was facetiming with my girlfriend and she was wearing a sweater that had her ex's university name on it, so I am very certain that it's from him. She's also told me before that she loves wearing guy sweaters. I gave her a sweater of mine and she does not wear it. She said she likes cuddling with it in bed but she doesn't like wearing it.... Anyways i noticed today she was wearing her ex's sweater even though she's never worn my sweater. It could be that she prefers his sweater because its nicer? but it is still weird how she'd wear it in front of me while my sweater is tucked in her closet forever.. I want to make it clear: I understand that wearing past clothes from an ex does not indicate she has feelings for him. I am not insecure about that and couldn't care less what she keeps and what she doesn't keep from ex. What bothers me is the fact that she wore her ex's sweater in front of me while she never wore the one I gave her. The gesture was weird and I just wanted to know if I am justified in the way I feel and if it's worth confronting her about it.
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 10 months ago
  • Should I break up with my girlfriend?

    I ve been with her for 4 months. I love her and she is extremely sweet on her good days. We went on a weekend getaway a few days ago and it was surreal. We just laughed, had sex, and enjoyed each other s company. She's told me I'm "the one" and that she sees a future with me. However, she also has qualities that make her very... show more
    I ve been with her for 4 months. I love her and she is extremely sweet on her good days. We went on a weekend getaway a few days ago and it was surreal. We just laughed, had sex, and enjoyed each other s company. She's told me I'm "the one" and that she sees a future with me. However, she also has qualities that make her very irritating. She is almost always in a bad mood whenever I go out with my friends. She never restricts me and she says she trusts me, but she can t help feeling insecure and anxious that i might cheat on her. She s always in a bad mood after coming from work. She is constantly complaining about everything. Out of 7 days of the week, she s in a terrible mood 3 days of it. And she treats me very differently on those days so I end up feeling unhappy on those days just like her. She s very argumentative, moody, and emotionally unstable. I m an extremely calm person, and she s told me I m the best boyfriend she s ever had because I ve helped her be more calm. But it s simply too much for me. Truth is I d never marry her despite loving her so much. And for that reason, I think that I might be preventing myself from being in a better relationship where it could lead to marriage. (I m almost 23 now). I have no motive to purposefully cheat on her, but I also think that if one day someone better comes along I wouldn t hold back. Does any of this make sense? Should I break up with her now even though we re pretty happy in general?
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 11 months ago
  • Am I a bad person for having unfaithful thoughts towards my girlfriend?

    I ve been with her for 4 months. I love her and she is extremely sweet on her good days. We went on a weekend getaway a few days ago and it was surreal. We just laughed, had sex, and enjoyed each other s company. However, she also has qualities that make her very irritating. She is almost always in a bad mood whenever I go out with my friends. She... show more
    I ve been with her for 4 months. I love her and she is extremely sweet on her good days. We went on a weekend getaway a few days ago and it was surreal. We just laughed, had sex, and enjoyed each other s company. However, she also has qualities that make her very irritating. She is almost always in a bad mood whenever I go out with my friends. She never restricts me and she says she trusts me, but she can t help feeling insecure and anxious that i might cheat on her. She s always in a bad mood after coming from work. She is constantly complaining about everything. Out of 7 days of the week, she s in a terrible mood 3 days of it. And she treats me very differently on those days so I end up feeling unhappy on those days just like her. She s very argumentative, moody, and emotionally unstable. I m an extremely calm person, and she s told me I m the best boyfriend she s ever had because I ve helped her be more calm. But it s simply too much for me. Truth is I d never marry her despite loving her so much. And for that reason, I think that I might be preventing myself from being in a better relationship where it could lead to marriage. (I m almost 23 now). I have no motive to purposefully cheat on her, but I also think that if one day someone better comes along I wouldn t hold back. Does any of this make sense? Should I break up with her now even though we re pretty happy in general?
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 11 months ago
  • Girlfriend wants to get a full back tattoo. I am afraid of being less attracted to her. Should I tell her how I feel?

    Before anyone says "it's her body", please take note that I KNOW that. I am not trying to convince her to do anything. If she decides to get the tattoo, she will get it. She does not need my permission to do anything. Her and I have not had a single argument in our relationship yet because we respect each other's choices and... show more
    Before anyone says "it's her body", please take note that I KNOW that. I am not trying to convince her to do anything. If she decides to get the tattoo, she will get it. She does not need my permission to do anything. Her and I have not had a single argument in our relationship yet because we respect each other's choices and support each other. However, she is now planning to get a large, full back tattoo. As a human, I have feelings. And my feelings towards a tattoo of that magnitude are not good. I am afraid that I will find her less sexually appealing. I cannot change what I am attracted to. I will still be with her as I am Willing to sacrifice my sexual attraction for the great person she is, but it is a lie to say that it won't put a strain on my feelings. . The issue is not that I think I possess her body, it's hers to deal with. However, as a romantic partner I will be less sexually attracted. She is extremely excited about getting this tattoo, and keeps talking every day about it, how she wants me to be there when she gets it. And I lie every day, saying "I can't wait for it" because I don't want to hurt her feelings. I don't know what to do. I don't want to be significantly less attracted to her. Do you believe I should tell her how I personally feel about it? She's a great person, and listens to my feelings and opinions. I am lost at this point.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 1 year ago
  • Girl who was really into me is suddenly cold and sending one word replies for no reason, what to do?

    I hit it off with this girl really well, we liked each other for months! We finally Started dating 2 weeks ago, I moved to another city last week, but we kept in touch and she seemed SUPER interested in me. Literally 3 hours before she became cold towards me she was sending me pictures of herself looking up flights to my city. We talked on the phone... show more
    I hit it off with this girl really well, we liked each other for months! We finally Started dating 2 weeks ago, I moved to another city last week, but we kept in touch and she seemed SUPER interested in me. Literally 3 hours before she became cold towards me she was sending me pictures of herself looking up flights to my city. We talked on the phone for 4 hours yesterday morning. We'd text good morning to each other every morning. SUDDENLY last NIGHT she started responding to my texts quickly but with dead end responses like "okay", "sounds fine". And she never does that. She DID mention that her period started today. Could that be it?? I don't know what to do, I really like her. And I will be going back to my city in a few weeks so this isn't a long distance relationship really. we didn't text each other good morning today for the first time and it feels really odd. Should I message her again? Should I ask her what's wrong? Some people tell me to just stop texting her until she does. But I don't wanna lose her, if she never texts back it would suck:/
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 year ago
  • Girl is suddenly cold and sending one word replies for no reason, what should I do?

    I hit it off with this girl really well, we liked each other for months! We finally Started dating 2 weeks ago, I moved to another city last week, but we kept in touch and she seemed SUPER interested in me. Literally 3 hours before she became cold towards me she was sending me pictures of herself looking up flights to my city. We talked on the phone... show more
    I hit it off with this girl really well, we liked each other for months! We finally Started dating 2 weeks ago, I moved to another city last week, but we kept in touch and she seemed SUPER interested in me. Literally 3 hours before she became cold towards me she was sending me pictures of herself looking up flights to my city. We talked on the phone for 4 hours yesterday morning. We'd text good morning to each other every morning. SUDDENLY last NIGHT she started responding to my texts quickly but with dead end responses like "okay", "sounds fine". And she never does that. She DID mention that her period started today. Could that be it?? I don't know what to do, I really like her. And I will be going back to my city in a few weeks so this isn't a long distance relationship really. we didn't text each other good morning today for the first time and it feels really odd. Should I message her again? Should I ask her what's wrong? Some people tell me to just stop texting her until she does. But I don't wanna lose her, if she never texts back it would suck:/
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 1 year ago
  • Stoichiometry question. How do I do this question, i am lost!!?

    What is the minimum volume of 2.21 mol/L HCl(aq) required to dissolve 16.9 g Zn metal? The atomic weight of Zn is 65.39 g/mol. The unbalanced chemical equation for the reaction is Zn(s) + HCl(aq) --> ZnCl2(aq) + H2(g) we just started stiochiometry and im so confused.
    What is the minimum volume of 2.21 mol/L HCl(aq) required to dissolve 16.9 g Zn metal? The atomic weight of Zn is 65.39 g/mol. The unbalanced chemical equation for the reaction is Zn(s) + HCl(aq) --> ZnCl2(aq) + H2(g) we just started stiochiometry and im so confused.
    1 answer · Chemistry · 2 years ago
  • LIST 4 THINGS that could increase the formation of SO3 in this reaction?

    HOW TO INCREASE THE FORMATION OF SO3 what are 4 different ways to do it? 2SO2(g) + O2 --> 2SO3(g) ΔH = -99Kj/mol <-- PLEASE HELP i have no clue whatsover would increase the formation of so3
    HOW TO INCREASE THE FORMATION OF SO3 what are 4 different ways to do it? 2SO2(g) + O2 --> 2SO3(g) ΔH = -99Kj/mol <-- PLEASE HELP i have no clue whatsover would increase the formation of so3
    1 answer · Chemistry · 2 years ago
  • Find the pOH of 0.050 M HCL?

    can someone explain and do this so i understand it well for my class notes.
    can someone explain and do this so i understand it well for my class notes.
    1 answer · Chemistry · 2 years ago
  • What is the pOH of a solution prepared by adding 0.50 moles of NaOH to prepare 0.50 L of solution?

    What is the pOH of a solution prepared by adding 0.50 moles of NaOH to prepare 0.50 L of solution?
    What is the pOH of a solution prepared by adding 0.50 moles of NaOH to prepare 0.50 L of solution?
    1 answer · Chemistry · 2 years ago
  • Calculate PERCENT DISSOCIATION, easy chem gr 11 question?

    Calculate the percent dissociation of a 3.1 x 10^-4 mol/L solution of the weak acid, HA, if the pH of the solution is 6.10?
    Calculate the percent dissociation of a 3.1 x 10^-4 mol/L solution of the weak acid, HA, if the pH of the solution is 6.10?
    1 answer · Chemistry · 2 years ago