• Can you ever get a domestic violence cases dismissed or completely off your record?

    I wanted to be a cop. I had a good head on my shoulders i was going to school for criminal justice as well and i work. The boyfriend I’m with for 10 months went through hell and so many police calls were reported for DV but never charged. This time we got drunk and we argued and he had visible marks from me and his friends stinched me out. I ended... show more
    I wanted to be a cop. I had a good head on my shoulders i was going to school for criminal justice as well and i work. The boyfriend I’m with for 10 months went through hell and so many police calls were reported for DV but never charged. This time we got drunk and we argued and he had visible marks from me and his friends stinched me out. I ended up getting domestic violence and booked and was charged. He also gave a false statement to the police and how would i tell the judge that! And will he get convicted or get in trouble for that? He wants to help me and wants to drop charges because he was drunk and didn’t know what to do or say. I want it completely off my record. Is it possible? Do i need to hire the best aggressive defense attorney?
    2 answers · Law & Ethics · 4 weeks ago
  • Any tips for women becoming bartenders?

    I got my certificate 3 months ago, and I’m applying at this new job that’s looking for new bartenders and I’ve worked two events already i don’t have experience. When they do hire you, will they train you or shadow you? I’m really nervous and this is something new to me.
    I got my certificate 3 months ago, and I’m applying at this new job that’s looking for new bartenders and I’ve worked two events already i don’t have experience. When they do hire you, will they train you or shadow you? I’m really nervous and this is something new to me.
    2 answers · Beer, Wine & Spirits · 4 weeks ago
  • I have been feeling really distant from my boyfriend and i honestly don’t know how to deal with it??

    He works Monday-Friday from 10am-6pm. He comes home and goes straight to play Xbox for hours until bed time 11pm or midnight then goes to bed. He’s been doing this two weeks in a row and I’ve talk to him about it before and he said that it’s not true and he loves me. Even on days off he spends like few hours with me and then goes to his Xbox. I... show more
    He works Monday-Friday from 10am-6pm. He comes home and goes straight to play Xbox for hours until bed time 11pm or midnight then goes to bed. He’s been doing this two weeks in a row and I’ve talk to him about it before and he said that it’s not true and he loves me. Even on days off he spends like few hours with me and then goes to his Xbox. I don’t want to be selfish and tell him he cant play anymore but i been feeling really down.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 4 weeks ago
  • Am i a mean person?

    I love confronting people whether it’s good or bad. I might have a confident demeanor and be a little intimadating. But does that scare people away or make people uncomfortable? a lot of people say I’m intimidating but I’m honestly a nice person.
    I love confronting people whether it’s good or bad. I might have a confident demeanor and be a little intimadating. But does that scare people away or make people uncomfortable? a lot of people say I’m intimidating but I’m honestly a nice person.
    6 answers · Friends · 2 months ago
  • Is it wrong for me not to invite my boyfriend to go out with me and my girl(friend)?

    It’s her birthday and i want to celebrate with her and our other girlfriends and he’s always wanting to tag along. I was going to have dinner then go to a club to celebrate with her and so on, obviously until the night ends around 2! He’s picking a fight and wants to go with me but i just wanna spend it with HER. Is that selfish or? What can i do?... show more
    It’s her birthday and i want to celebrate with her and our other girlfriends and he’s always wanting to tag along. I was going to have dinner then go to a club to celebrate with her and so on, obviously until the night ends around 2! He’s picking a fight and wants to go with me but i just wanna spend it with HER. Is that selfish or? What can i do? Cause she just wants all girls night and she didn’t invite him.
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • Why is it so hard to trust?

    Me and my boyfriend been together for 8 months and he’s done things (not cheat) behind my back that I don’t like. That has to do with the opposite sex. It’s not that it’s a girl specially but when tables turned, he gets mad at me. He’s made me cry and hurt me over and over and told me wouldn’t do it again, then he tears me down and does it again and... show more
    Me and my boyfriend been together for 8 months and he’s done things (not cheat) behind my back that I don’t like. That has to do with the opposite sex. It’s not that it’s a girl specially but when tables turned, he gets mad at me. He’s made me cry and hurt me over and over and told me wouldn’t do it again, then he tears me down and does it again and in circles. I love him and i give him chances but I’m always scared and afraid to open up again and i have trust issues cause of that. Am i wrong for that? How can i overcome it...
    7 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • Is this a good reason to break up with my boyfriend?

    Honestly we been together for 7 months and got an apartment together so that’s the hard part. I feel like he and i do not share the same value or morals. He doesn’t tell me what’s right or wrong and doesn’t care how i feel until i express it to him. He lies a lot to protect my feelings but lies even more when they’re important and I’ve confronted so... show more
    Honestly we been together for 7 months and got an apartment together so that’s the hard part. I feel like he and i do not share the same value or morals. He doesn’t tell me what’s right or wrong and doesn’t care how i feel until i express it to him. He lies a lot to protect my feelings but lies even more when they’re important and I’ve confronted so many times and he still wants it his way. He doesn’t know how to manage his money and lies about it. There’s a lot of things about him that i don’t like anymore but ... i want to be with him it’s just in the future/long run, I’m not sure if i see him in my future. I see the way he’s raised and how his mother rises her 3 other kids and i feel like maybe as a kid he grew up with no love or his mother not really caring for him. I’m not sure if i am making the right decision either. I just feel like he has no morals.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 3 months ago
  • Why does my boyfriend have a hard time listening to what i have to say?

    It’s not that I’m nagging at him, but when i tell him something so simple like when we cleaned yesterday “don’t drag the bag on the floor and just pick up the bag” because there’s glass inside and will leak. I said it three times and he still dragged it and now the bag ripped and leaked. Then one more example is i told him if he needs to fart, to go... show more
    It’s not that I’m nagging at him, but when i tell him something so simple like when we cleaned yesterday “don’t drag the bag on the floor and just pick up the bag” because there’s glass inside and will leak. I said it three times and he still dragged it and now the bag ripped and leaked. Then one more example is i told him if he needs to fart, to go outside because it SMELLS terrible and it gets me so upset he never listens. I feel like we both don’t get along or HE doesn’t get along with me. Why is it hard to comprehend. What can i do
    Singles & Dating · 4 months ago
  • What does it mean when people say you have a strong personality?

    I feel like i may not look friendly but i really am out going and nice! People say it might be that i have a strong personality and I’m not sure what that really means.
    I feel like i may not look friendly but i really am out going and nice! People say it might be that i have a strong personality and I’m not sure what that really means.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 4 months ago
  • Leasing my apartment to my best friend?

    Is there a way i can get a legal document or a paper stating my friend will pay for it regardless if we are not friends anymore? What would those paper be called and where can i get them? Can i make my own on a piece of paper? My mom is the co signer that’s why I’m worried.
    Is there a way i can get a legal document or a paper stating my friend will pay for it regardless if we are not friends anymore? What would those paper be called and where can i get them? Can i make my own on a piece of paper? My mom is the co signer that’s why I’m worried.
    7 answers · Law & Legal · 5 months ago
  • Does a guy like, ever has his phone around you?

    This is my third week that i been around this guy that I’m interested in and vice versa. He never has his phone around me and never pulls it out. I even tried to break the ice and whip my phone around him and etc but i never see it. Would you think it’s because he doesn’t want girls hitting him up around me, or really just wants my full attention?
    This is my third week that i been around this guy that I’m interested in and vice versa. He never has his phone around me and never pulls it out. I even tried to break the ice and whip my phone around him and etc but i never see it. Would you think it’s because he doesn’t want girls hitting him up around me, or really just wants my full attention?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 10 months ago
  • When you see a police officer somewhere or a group of people from the navy, army, Air Force, do you say thank you for your service?

    Do you say thank you or just ignore it?
    Do you say thank you or just ignore it?
    13 answers · Etiquette · 12 months ago
  • Is there a difference between cop and swat?

    My Halloween outfit says SWAT and people keep saying I’m a cop lol is there a difference? Do I just tell them I’m a swat for Halloween?
    My Halloween outfit says SWAT and people keep saying I’m a cop lol is there a difference? Do I just tell them I’m a swat for Halloween?
    9 answers · Law Enforcement & Police · 12 months ago
  • How much should I tip my tattoo artist?

    Have a small tattoo of a cross but wanted to get it a little bigger than the original.
    Have a small tattoo of a cross but wanted to get it a little bigger than the original.
    2 answers · Tattoos · 12 months ago
  • What issue do you think is present in many of the songs on the DAMN album, by kendrick lamar?

    Everyone is hyped about that album but every song sounds the same to me
    Everyone is hyped about that album but every song sounds the same to me
    3 answers · Rap and Hip-Hop · 1 year ago
  • Whats a good title for my argument essay?

    So i'm arguing about why Americans should not eat fast food because etc etc and basically how its made, and causes health problems. Whats a good title besides "Fast food: Faster death?"
    So i'm arguing about why Americans should not eat fast food because etc etc and basically how its made, and causes health problems. Whats a good title besides "Fast food: Faster death?"
    3 answers · Homework Help · 1 year ago
  • What to get for my friends daughters birthday? She’s turning 2 years old and she told me to get her 3T in clothes.?

    What are some other ideas besides toys? Cute head bands?
    What are some other ideas besides toys? Cute head bands?
    3 answers · Toddler & Preschooler · 1 year ago
  • I m writing a personal narrative paper about my experience with texting and driving and how I crashed. Is that a debatable topic?

    What would be a good thesis statement?
    What would be a good thesis statement?
    2 answers · Homework Help · 1 year ago