• What is your opinion of this guy?

    We work in the same place- he is 3 years younger. (We're late teens/early twenties) I just started. He keeps looking at me a lot, smooths out his hair when he sees me etc. Yesterday he started calling me kid. I pulled up in my car, rolled down the window to say hey as he was standing there and he complimented the music I was listening to. Then... show more
    We work in the same place- he is 3 years younger. (We're late teens/early twenties) I just started. He keeps looking at me a lot, smooths out his hair when he sees me etc. Yesterday he started calling me kid. I pulled up in my car, rolled down the window to say hey as he was standing there and he complimented the music I was listening to. Then he said something like 'here kid' and reached into my car. He seemed impressed. About an hour later he came to try and talk to me but I was busy so he walked off blushing and glancing back at me. Later after he finished his shift he came back in his regular clothes, hovered around the area I was working in for a bit looking at drinks & started looking at me again. I met him again yesterday after a week, he was different- almost afraid of me, jumped out of the way when I came near, purposely turned his head away when near me but stare at me from a distance and blushed when in front of me. I found out today that he broke up with his gf of 2 years- up until the day before I started the job he had been posting the most loved up pics and posts with her. So odd. Opinions?
    Singles & Dating · 3 weeks ago
  • What is your honest opinion of this guy?

    We work in the same place- he is 3 years younger. (We're late teens/early twenties) I just started. He keeps looking at me a lot, smooths out his hair when he sees me etc. Yesterday he started calling me kid. I pulled up in my car, rolled down the window to say hey as he was standing there and he complimented the music I was listening to. Then... show more
    We work in the same place- he is 3 years younger. (We're late teens/early twenties) I just started. He keeps looking at me a lot, smooths out his hair when he sees me etc. Yesterday he started calling me kid. I pulled up in my car, rolled down the window to say hey as he was standing there and he complimented the music I was listening to. Then he said something like 'here kid' and reached into my car. He seemed impressed. About an hour later he came to try and talk to me but I was busy so he walked off blushing and glancing back at me. Later after he finished his shift he came back in his regular clothes, hovered around the area I was working in for a bit looking at drinks & started looking at me again. I met him again yesterday after a week, he was different- almost afraid of me, jumped out of the way when I came near, purposely turned his head away when near me but stare at me from a distance and blushed when in front of me. I found out today that he broke up with his gf of 2 years- up until the day before I started the job he had been posting the most loved up pics and posts with her. So odd. Opinions?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 weeks ago
  • Nobody is answering- please just need an opinion of this guy??

    We work in the same place- he is a little younger. I just started. He keeps looking at me a lot, he smooths out his hair when he sees me, smiles big at me etc. Yesterday he started calling me kid. I pulled up in my car, rolled down the window to say hey as he was standing there and he complimented the music I was listening to. Then he said something... show more
    We work in the same place- he is a little younger. I just started. He keeps looking at me a lot, he smooths out his hair when he sees me, smiles big at me etc. Yesterday he started calling me kid. I pulled up in my car, rolled down the window to say hey as he was standing there and he complimented the music I was listening to. Then he said something like 'here kid' and reached into my car. He seemed impressed. About an hour later he came to try and talk to me but I was busy so he walked off blushing and glancing back at me. Later after he finished his shift he came back in his regular clothes, hovered around the area I was working in for a bit looking at drinks & started looking at me again. Opinions?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 weeks ago
  • What is your honest opinion of this guy?

    I'm 20, he's 18. We work in the same place- I just started. He keeps looking at me a lot, he smooths out his hair when he sees me, smiles big at me etc. Yesterday he started calling me kid. I pulled up in my car, rolled down the window to say hey as he was standing there and he complimented the music I was listening to. Then he said... show more
    I'm 20, he's 18. We work in the same place- I just started. He keeps looking at me a lot, he smooths out his hair when he sees me, smiles big at me etc. Yesterday he started calling me kid. I pulled up in my car, rolled down the window to say hey as he was standing there and he complimented the music I was listening to. Then he said something like 'here kid'. Later after he finished his shift he came back in his regular clothes, hovered around the area I was working in for a bit looking at drinks & started looking at me again. Opinions?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 weeks ago
  • What does it mean when a guy stares at your butt?

    This guy I work with- the first shift I did with him midnight a few days ago I caught him staring at my butt & I could tell that he was impressed (I squat and do treadmill incline a lot lol). Since then he has kept trying to talk to me. He's really polite to me now, treats me kindly & keeps looking at me and looking away when I catch... show more
    This guy I work with- the first shift I did with him midnight a few days ago I caught him staring at my butt & I could tell that he was impressed (I squat and do treadmill incline a lot lol). Since then he has kept trying to talk to me. He's really polite to me now, treats me kindly & keeps looking at me and looking away when I catch him. There was a staff night tonight and he said "I'll see you later". It's odd. He is hot but he acts so shy around me. Opinions?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 month ago
  • What is your opinion of this guy?

    I'm 20, he's 18. We work in the same place- I just started. He keeps looking at me a lot, he smooths out his hair when he sees me, smiles big at me etc. Yesterday he started calling me kid. I pulled up in my car, rolled down the window to say hey as he was standing there and he complimented the music I was listening to. Then he said... show more
    I'm 20, he's 18. We work in the same place- I just started. He keeps looking at me a lot, he smooths out his hair when he sees me, smiles big at me etc. Yesterday he started calling me kid. I pulled up in my car, rolled down the window to say hey as he was standing there and he complimented the music I was listening to. Then he said something like 'here kid'. Later after he finished his shift he came back in his regular clothes, hovered around the area I was working in for a bit looking at drinks & started looking at me again. Kind of weird. Any idea why he called me kid- I'm older & mature?
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 month ago
  • *10 POINTS* Why would a guy call a girl 'kid'?

    I'm 20, he's 18. We work in the same place- I just started. He keeps looking at me a lot, he smooths out his hair when he sees me, smiles big at me etc. Yesterday he started calling me kid. I pulled up in my car, rolled down the window to say hey as he was standing there and he complimented the music I was listening to. Then he said... show more
    I'm 20, he's 18. We work in the same place- I just started. He keeps looking at me a lot, he smooths out his hair when he sees me, smiles big at me etc. Yesterday he started calling me kid. I pulled up in my car, rolled down the window to say hey as he was standing there and he complimented the music I was listening to. Then he said something like 'here kid'. Later after he finished his shift he came back in his regular clothes, hovered around the area I was working in for a bit looking at drinks & started looking at me again. Kind of weird. Any idea why he called me kid- I'm older & mature?
    Singles & Dating · 1 month ago
  • *GUYS OPINION* does this guy sound into me?

    Basically we grew to be close at school- I'm a little bit older than him. He was kind of a cool bad boy always in trouble and I was a smart girl. In our case opposites seemed to attract. But we are both very traditional and old fashioned and bonded over that. I loved his sense of humour, his eyes and his hair and he was obsessed with mine as... show more
    Basically we grew to be close at school- I'm a little bit older than him. He was kind of a cool bad boy always in trouble and I was a smart girl. In our case opposites seemed to attract. But we are both very traditional and old fashioned and bonded over that. I loved his sense of humour, his eyes and his hair and he was obsessed with mine as well. We were just friends. Then I moved school far away and told him. He was so upset and down. He had to leave the classroom. The following day he started a fight with one of the boys and started crying (I know it was over me). My last day we were in the yard, he was playing soccer with the boys. All of a sudden in front of everyone he ran down the field, picked me a beautiful yellow flower and ran back and gave it to me. Then he gave me a big hug. He didn't care about everyone looking on and I was so touched. I told him I would miss him and he gave me a sincere heavy 'I'll miss you too' with sadness in his eyes. Opinions please of him !! ??
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • Why are some girls so attracted to older men?

    I'm 20 and I adore older men in their late twenties and early thirties. I don't even bat an eyelid at guys my own age and find them very immature- I have not properly dated (just had 2 flings) because I have always been so much more attracted to older guys but obviously could not officially date them until out of the teens as everyone would... show more
    I'm 20 and I adore older men in their late twenties and early thirties. I don't even bat an eyelid at guys my own age and find them very immature- I have not properly dated (just had 2 flings) because I have always been so much more attracted to older guys but obviously could not officially date them until out of the teens as everyone would be judging. I have no interest in partying and clubbing and am very old fashioned & traditional. I want to settle down very young and do mature activities. Would guys that age be willing to date girls my age? *I know 2 qs in 1 but even one answer would be great- thanks!*
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • *IMPORTANT QUESTION* Guy gave me flowers & hugged me? Meaning?

    He knew I was leaving. He had been crying about it and kept telling me he would miss me. Then he ran down the field- picked a beautiful flower for me and asked for a hug- Meaning?
    He knew I was leaving. He had been crying about it and kept telling me he would miss me. Then he ran down the field- picked a beautiful flower for me and asked for a hug- Meaning?
    Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • I have trust issues with guys at 20 and I get really jealous- is this normal for my experience (described below) ?

    The guy I last dated was 17 and a half years older than me. He emotionally abused me and manipulated me. He made me feel so insecure like if I had a chipped nail he would tell me that it was despicable and would not hold my hand until I re-painted them. He would also give out if I had not made enough effort with my makeup or with my outfit and give... show more
    The guy I last dated was 17 and a half years older than me. He emotionally abused me and manipulated me. He made me feel so insecure like if I had a chipped nail he would tell me that it was despicable and would not hold my hand until I re-painted them. He would also give out if I had not made enough effort with my makeup or with my outfit and give me the cold shoulder. He also would flirt with lots & lots of blonde girls in front of me (telling me that one was the love of his life) and go on about blondes being his type even though I have naturally the darkest brown (almost black) hair & of course I ended up going blonde to try and get him to love me and destroyed my hair- I was only 18/19, I later learned he had a 10 year long relationship going on and 2 young sons. He was the second guy I loved- the first guy I believe was my soulmate, met him when I was 17 and adored him but he was from a different 'bad' community and he had to leave even though we both genuinely loved each other and it badly broke my heart. I now get so incredibly jealous of any guy I see even looking at another female or even with another female in the same room not to mind the whole social media deal. I also believe that every single man will cheat and I am so disbelieving of any relationship lasting- even couples who seem loved up, I'm always waiting for the guy to cheat. Is this normal?
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 months ago
  • Does it sound like I spoke to a spirit last night?

    Does it sound like I communicated with a spirit last night? *NO NEGATIVE COMMENTS FROM SCEPTICS* *I was told I was 'on drugs' in a previous comment. I do not smoke or drink alcohol not to mind do drugs! I am too young to even do drugs and so will report anybody for slander if I receive comments like that again! My family also saw the white... show more
    Does it sound like I communicated with a spirit last night? *NO NEGATIVE COMMENTS FROM SCEPTICS* *I was told I was 'on drugs' in a previous comment. I do not smoke or drink alcohol not to mind do drugs! I am too young to even do drugs and so will report anybody for slander if I receive comments like that again! My family also saw the white orbs of light so were they on drugs also- my middle-aged parents and young teen siblings?- Ignorant fools!* I was lying in bed unable to sleep, my lightbulb began flickering- it has NEVER done this before & is a pretty new bulb. I tried ignoring it and it stopped for a solid number of minutes. I though of my deceased grandmother. Then I asked "Granny is it you?"- instantly it began to flicker again as if to say yes & it continued to flicker while I spoke to her. My toes went ice cold even though I was snuggled under warm blankets and had not been cold all night. My wrist felt like it was being held. I became afraid & said 'I'm scared please stop' and it STOPPED flickering instantly! I then asked "are you here to warn us of trouble coming?"- no flicker. I then asked "are you here because you missed us?"- flicker flicker flicker! Then she was gone. My toes went back to normal temp & all flickering totally stopped. I was scared last night but woke up with a strong sense of peace this morning. Opinions? *completely truth*
    7 answers · Paranormal Phenomena · 3 months ago
  • Is it weird that my ex is dating girls who could actually be my identical twin?

    We are still friends on Facebook. I notice that all the girls he 'hangs around with'/ dates look absolutely identical to me! Seriously my sister even has noticed. Not even just colourings like my dark hair and tanned skin but even my features! I have a signature upturned little nose and so do these girls- eyes, lips, nose all the very same,... show more
    We are still friends on Facebook. I notice that all the girls he 'hangs around with'/ dates look absolutely identical to me! Seriously my sister even has noticed. Not even just colourings like my dark hair and tanned skin but even my features! I have a signature upturned little nose and so do these girls- eyes, lips, nose all the very same, even body type is the same! Would genuinely pass as my sisters! We didn't split up by choice- just circumstances and we were each other's 1st bf/gf. Is this odd?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 3 months ago
  • Why would a guy pick a flower for a girl?

    We are in the same friends group. I am leaving for a while & he is very upset about it- even cried twice! Anyway on the day I left he was playing soccer with the boys and me and my girlfriends were watching then the ball rolled down the hill and him and a few boys ran after it, he then went to a bed of flowers and picked a beautiful one and then... show more
    We are in the same friends group. I am leaving for a while & he is very upset about it- even cried twice! Anyway on the day I left he was playing soccer with the boys and me and my girlfriends were watching then the ball rolled down the hill and him and a few boys ran after it, he then went to a bed of flowers and picked a beautiful one and then ran back up and handed it to me.
    3 answers · Friends · 3 months ago
  • In your opinion does it sound like I still love my ex?

    We dated 2 years ago- I was 18 & he was my first love. He was perfect & treated me like a princess. He literally picked flowers in a field for me and he would always cry when I would be gone (he was a little younger so was more attached). We aren't together because of circumstances- not because we don't want to be. When we used to... show more
    We dated 2 years ago- I was 18 & he was my first love. He was perfect & treated me like a princess. He literally picked flowers in a field for me and he would always cry when I would be gone (he was a little younger so was more attached). We aren't together because of circumstances- not because we don't want to be. When we used to stare into each others eyes and automatically smile but couldn't say anything with people around as we are from different communities (he is from a very 'uncivilised' family). 6 months after the split I ended up getting a job and met anmuch older man who was the complete opposite of my guy in every single way & was with him for 1 year. But when that ended (he was a user 17 years older than me) all the feelings for my ex came back and I felt the same love and heartbreak. I still think about him all the time, I realise most of the guys I fancy look exactly like him. I also still feel so much warmth & love for him and still believe he was my perfect soulmate as we were so compatible but being together is never going to be an option. Opinions?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 months ago