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  • Why would she do this and what should I do now?

    I’ll try and keep this as short as possible.

    So I went on a volunteer trip abroad during spring break in March this year and met what I thought was an amazing girl. She happened to be from my home state (although we go to different colleges) and only 30 minutes from my hometown so I thought it was perfect that we would be able to see each other in the summer and during other holidays.

    After the trip she began facetiming and calling me a lot. We talked nearly everyday from March up until end of April when finals began. This included her sharing a lot about her personal life and vise versa. We stayed up talking until like 4 am many nights, talking about things we were going to do together and she would tell me how she wanted to see me and blah blah blah. Memorial day weekend is coming up and about 2 weeks ago (maybe a bit less) we discussed how we were gunna hangout and finally see each other. Well apparently, that all changed a week ago, she stopped contacting me as often and when I texted her to confirm our plans, she had just told me that she’s now leaving for the weekend but that there’s still one day when we can hangout. I figured that was fine but then I received another text message saying that she recently started seeing someone. But she still wants to hangout tomorrow like we planned

    I am at a loss, a text message, really thats all I'm worth? I am angry and confused about whether I should just cut all ties or go tomorrow and try to get some closure? Advice please

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • Feel awkward approaching girls alone?

    I'm a college student and on campus I feel more natural striking up a conversation with a girl siting alone. I am the first to tell my boys to go talk to girls and have no problem when I have at least one other person.

    Right now I am on a family vacation in Virginia Beach with no one my age and all the girls I see here that are single either with their families (with brothers/sisters/mom and dad etc.) or in groups of 4 or 5 girls.

    I don't feel very comfortable walking up to a family and just talking to all of them in hopes of getting her attention and it seems even weirder to only to talk her and act like they aren't there because obviously they'll be watching (which will put her in an uncomfortable situation).

    Secondly although I can be pretty confident in my social skills talking to a group of 5 girls alone in hopes that I can get one of them to leave seems pretty far fetched.

    Should I just accept that this is a job that cannot be done alone, should I just wait until I happen to see a girl completely alone while I'm alone, or is their any other advice that could help me out?

    Thanks in advance!!

    P.S. This is not like a resort in the Caribbean where everyone is having fun and doing their own thing, VA beach is all family oriented unless you have a crew your own age.

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating5 years ago
  • Stranded on an Island? Kantian or Utilitarian?

    Imagine a situation where you are stranded you are about to be stranded on a desert island for the rest of your life with one other person. The (somewhat) good news is that this person is a morally committed person.

    Would you rather that this person be a morally committed Kantian, or a morally committed Utilitarian, and why?

    How do you think the person’s moral commitments will affect their attitudes and the ways in which they will behave toward you, and the pros and cons of each possibility.

    What're your thoughts in this case?

    2 AnswersPolls & Surveys6 years ago
  • I don't understand why everything has to be so hard in my life, help please?

    Hey guys so I'm beginning to lose hope in ever understanding why every time I want something to happen everything in the world makes it so that it doesn't happen.

    So ever since I was 15 (20 now) and my family crashed economically I immersed myself in work, school, and my family. I barely had time for friends (but I did have a lot of friends and I'm a very social person), not to mention a girl in my life. I was never able to make a true connection with any girl.

    Now I'm in college far from home with new friends but I feel so alone, I want to lose my virginity to someone I can connect with. The problem is that every time I hit it off with a girl someone or something has to come a ruin it.

    Just to name a few instances

    -hit it off with a girl at my house party and then her fat ***** of a friend starts banging on my door as we're mid hookup

    -hit it off with another girl at a party we hang out a few times and things go great but guess who manages to make her stop talking to me...her ex

    etc. etc. the list doesn't stop

    I believe in working on myself and eventually things will come but I've been self improving and patient for so many years. I am a happy person because I choose to be but I choose not to settle, I work so hard but still the world finds a way to cheat me of my hard work.

    What I want most of all is someone whom I can connect with that actually likes me for me. I've played the waiting game and being a go getter

    Can someone point me in the right direction please...

  • Need help losing body fat ?

    Okay so I'm 5'8 about 155lbs. I am in shape and am physically active nearly everyday. I do cardio (soccer, sprints, etc.) 3-5 times a week and heavy weight lifting 4 days a week. I eat very healthy, I've cut out nearly all simple carbs (breads, sodas, pastas, etc), eat 5-6x a day and drink at least 4 liters of water everyday. I track everything I eat and how much I drink because I am serious about getting a 6 pack. I realized that I eat a deficit of anywhere from 100-500 calories a day depending on how much exercise I do that day.

    I have a flat stomach and can see some abs appearing when I flex but when I sit it looks flabby and if I don't flex when I stand theres nothing. I am pretty muscular because I eat a lot of protein (180g-250g per day) to rebuild my muscles after working out. I never go over 2200 calories a day yet still I have some fat clearly over my abs.

    Can someone please help me or tell me what to do to finally achieve some vascularity and a toned stomach (six pack is the ultimate goal)

    Please and thanks !!

    1 AnswerDiet & Fitness7 years ago
  • What am I doing wrong ? Need help losing body fat?

    Okay so I'm 5'8 about 155lbs. I am in shape and am physically active nearly everyday. I do cardio (soccer, sprints, etc.) 3-5 times a week and heavy weight lifting 4 days a week. I eat very healthy, I've cut out nearly all simple carbs (breads, sodas, pastas, etc), eat 5-6x a day and drink at least 4 liters of water everyday. I track everything I eat and how much I drink because I am serious about getting a 6 pack. I realized that I eat a deficit of anywhere from 100-500 calories a day depending on how much exercise I do that day.

    I have a flat stomach and can see some abs appearing when I flex but when I sit it looks flabby and if I don't flex when I stand theres nothing. I am pretty muscular because I eat a lot of protein (180g-250g per day) to rebuild my muscles after working out. I never go over 2200 calories a day yet still I have some fat clearly over my abs.

    Can someone please help me or tell me what to do to finally achieve some vascularity and a toned stomach.

    Please and thanks !!

    1 AnswerDiet & Fitness7 years ago
  • Why didn't I receive more money?

    okay so I committed to go to Ohio State and now I need to come up with alot of money...

    My EFC is $60 and my cost of attendance is about 41,000

    But I only got 10,000 in grants and 5500 in loans...thats still 25500 that i still don't have

    I feel like I didn't receive enough aid...should I talk to the school about it ? or is this normal ?

  • Help with a school project ?

    Okay so I am doing a school project where I have to teach the class about the European Union & European Community. Now at the end I need to have a class activity that has to do with the information taught.

    So i would love some suggestions...please and thanks !

    1 AnswerHomework Help8 years ago
  • What what you do in this scenario?

    Okay so I've always been curious as to what different guys do to approach girls and how girls would like guys to approach them so...

    Ex) Guy (could be with a friend, doesn't matter) is working, walking in the mall, at a boardwalk/beach etc. sees a group of attractive girls with one in particular that he wants...what does should he do to get her?

    a)If with a friend

    b)If solo

    c)girls how would you want the guy to approach you?

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • I hate being short, will I grow taller?

    Okay so I am 5'7 and I'm 18 I am very masculine in the sense that puberty and all hit me awhile ago but I never had a huge growth spurt. My friends average height is about 5'10 5'11 and I am the only one this short and I hate it. My dad is 5'9 and my mom is 5'3 my grandpa is about 5' 10 and my uncle is 5'11. The sad thing is my sister is catching up to me and thats really pissing me off because she's only 12 and already 5'4 (she grew early).

    I recently started serious weight lifting but never did before because I didn't want to stunt my growth, never had a lot of caffeine, and I eat very healthy mostly good homemade food. Also I am very physically active and in pretty good shape. I could use help with sleep and my mom did tell me that I didn't sleep well as a child, could that be a serious factor?

    Do you think I can gain atleast another inch or so? please and thanks

    5 AnswersMen's Health8 years ago
  • Maryland vs Pittsburgh vs Ohio advice please ?

    Okay so I plan to double degree in business finance and history and idk which school I should choose. I visited all but OSU and loved UMD and PITT very much, I love the big school feeling and all.

    So for PITT I love the steelers and the penguins teams and I love the city. Also I am aware that pittsburgh is a major corporation power house

    For UMD Washington, D.C. very close and I love that city to. Also I know that internships and networking in maryland and DC are very strong. Plus the business school is ranked higher

    For Ohio ofcourse you got the amazing sports and a great Business school (although I would love some more inside info on that) and the two cities, Cleveland and Cincinnati. Not sure about much more.

    Basically I want to become a lawyer in the future but idk if my mind will change. So I need some help choosing between the two schools. Please and thanks :)

  • Need some help with homework please?

    Okay so I need some info as to how the 4 Noble truths could help modern society today. I pretty much know what they are but I just can't see how they can help mankind.

    Please and Thanks

    1 AnswerHomework Help8 years ago
  • Need some help with my dream girl ?

    Okay so my politics class just took a 4 day trip to for model congress and there I met the girl of my dreams. To make a long story short I've never had a girlfriend because the girls I've known to this date have never really interested me and those who did I found out were not who I thought they were.

    This girl is amazing and we have soooo many things in common but due to busy schedules and school rules we honestly could not do much together besides talk when we were in session which truly showed that we were both interested in each other. Basically I wasn't able to even say goodbye because she left early.

    But I chatted her on fb just the other day and we exchanged phone numbers...she had to go after a little and she said asked to talk later...now here's the thing, she lives about 2 hours away from me so luckily that worked out...NYC is kinda midway so we said that we should definitely meet there some time. I want to know how to continue communication because yeah we're friends but I don't wanna be to forward and like text her all the time even though we rarely see each other.

    Should I wait a day and then text her or just do it tonight (got the number yesterday) I'm kinda lost and I don't want to screw things up because she is truly special to me...please and thankyou for all advice :)

    P.s. we are both seniors in high school

    9 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Need URGENT help with common app please?

    Ok so before anyone asks, yes I tried the help center but of course they just sent me an automated response.

    Anyway, I uploaded my essay and in the beginning I have words in Hebrew which contribute to my anecdote. Now when I preview the applications the words in hebrew disappear completely and Idk what to do. I tried to change the font and stuff but nothing works.

    Basically I'm asking if that means that the colleges can't to? and if there is anyway to fix that from happening. Please and thankyou !!

  • Meeting Girls while on a family vacation?

    Okay so I'm going to Virginia beach for a week with my fam (my parents, grandparents, sister, two little cousins, and aunt and uncle)

    Today was the first day and as I was walking the boardwalk I saw a lot of cute girls, usually in pairs or more, or with the family. So I am clueless as to how to approach girls in those situations. I mean I see them looking over at me cuz I know from previous girls I'm a pretty good looking guy (not trying to sound like a douche)

    So I feel as though walking on my own looking for girls is weird and especially when they are with their family.

    Please help me or give me some advice

    All advice is appreciated...thanks :)

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Trying to meet girls on vacation help please?

    Okay so I'm going to Virginia beach for a week with my fam (my parents, grandparents, sister, two little cousins, and aunt and uncle)

    Today was the first day and as I was walking the boardwalk I saw a lot of cute girls, usually in pairs or more, or with the family. So I am clueless as to how to approach girls in those situations. I mean I see them looking over at me cuz I know from previous girls I'm a pretty good looking guy (not trying to sound like a douche)

    So I feel as though walking on my own looking for girls is weird and especially when they are with their family.

    Please help me or give me some advice

    All advice is appreciated...thanks :)

  • How to meet girls on a family vacation? ?

    Okay so I'm going to Virginia beach for a week and my fam (my parents, grandparents, sister, two little cousins, and aunt and uncle)

    Today was the first day and as I was walking the boardwalk I saw a lot of cute girls, usually in pairs or more, or with the family. So I am clueless as to how to approach girls in those situations. I mean I see them looking over at me cuz I know from previous girls I'm a pretty good looking guy (not trying to sound like a douche)

    So I feel as though walking on my own looking for girls is weird and especially when they are with their family.

    Please help me or give me some advice

    All advice is appreciated...thanks :)

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • How much will 2 C's affect my chances?

    Okay so sophmore year these were my grades

    Pre AP U.S. Hist - B

    Geometry - B+

    Honors 3 Spanish - B-

    Honors English - B

    Honors Chemistry - B-

    Phys Ed - A

    Honors Algebra 2 - C-

    Now i am a junior and almost done. I am on track with these grades to finish the year,,,pending finals and 4th marking period

    College English 3 - A-

    Pre Calc - A-

    Phys. Ed - A

    Honors Physics - C

    Honors Accounting - A

    AP US history - B

    Honors Spanish 4 - A

    So I'm afraid that those two C's will affect my chances at a good school my gpa weighted is 3.85 and my SAT score is 1910 (taking it again)

    I also have -I have worked since freshman year so over 5000 hours to help support the fam

    -4 years of soccer (2 years JV captain)

    -3 years of indoor track

    -4 years of club soccer

    -1 year of baseball

    -4 years of FBLA (future business leaders of america..club)

    -4 years of DECA (another club

    -NHS (national honors society) (Officer and Lead Tutor)

    -280 hours of community service (approximate)

    -in the top 25% of my class of about 300 kids

    P.s. I'm applying to these schools....(I am a NJ resident)

    -University of Maryland College Park

    -University of Pittsburgh

    -University of Delaware

    -University of Connecticut

    -NC State

    -University of Massachusetts (Amherst)

    -University of Vermont

    -TCNJ

    -Rutgers (safety)

  • What do you think of my poem?

    Okay so this is for school....we had to write about giving you heart away and whether or not it is beneficial.

    We HAD to rhyme it so sorry for the corny rhymes I tried my best. If there are any suggestions to make changes I am open to all opinions. Please and thanks!

    Giving your heart away is a risky deal

    Because all you know is how you feel.

    One focuses solely on the present because the future seems so far

    But then when a heart breaks the damage inflicted is much more than a scar

    Love is a risky business for it’s true that it may fall

    However, refusing to give your heart away, is not to know love at all

    This is not to encourage or discourage but rather a fair warning

    That it is as easy for one to say farewell as it is to say good morning

    As risky as it may be

    Love does not only exist in a fantasy

    There are many who put their heart on the line

    And their lives are much better than “just fine”

    Before entering a relationship there are a few questions one should ask

    Is this me or am I wearing a mask?

    Can I put one’s feelings before my own?

    The relationship will be brief if the answers those questions are unknown

    Clearly there are many other questions one must answer

    And they will be difficult because if not, then happiness would spread like cancer

    These are questions that all must embrace

    Unfortunately that does not seem to be the case

    Although it is true that giving your heart away may result in pain

    The chance of happiness should not die in vein

    The chance of happiness is an opportunity which must be taken

    Even if the feelings are mistaken

    I will leave you with a final bit of advice

    Everything in life has a price

    Whether it be a broken heart or not

    You must know that love is something which cannot be bought

    7 AnswersPoetry9 years ago