Ok, where should I start? I signed up to a dating site almost 6 months ago, just for the hell of it, nothing serious because I'm 19 and not really desperate for a boyfriend. I've got bombarded with a bunch of guys on that site living in different parts of the country. Mind you, I live in TX now and will be moving back to my hometown (NYC) in a month. One of those guys lived in Bowie, MD and he's 29, and will be 30 in September and has a kid who will be 3 in September as well. We talked some at the time and as time progressed, he would talk to me every now and then, not all the time. There were even long periods when we wouldn't talk, like for 2 months, I guess. But just recently, for about 2 weeks, we've been talking everyday, which is alot for us. He told me that he took other women on dates from that dating site, but it ended up not working out. He said he just wants to focus on me now. He says he wants me to be his lady and wants a relationship. When I move back to NYC, he's expecting to take me out on a date, but I would have to take amtrack to get to MD. I just want know if 200 miles is too far for a long term relationship? Because I'm confused and am trying to think for myself, but this guys just say the right things. And if I should break it off with him, I'm afraid to confront him about it since I'm passive-aggressive and hate confrontation and hurting one's feelings. Can it eventually work out or not?