Firstly, my boyfriend and I are currently in a long-distance situation.
Yesterday I told my boyfriend (through Skype) I will be going out to buy some stuff for my new apartment, the most important thing I must buy was the refrigerator, and also laundry basket and stuff, he was so sweet and was all fine, he told me to call him when I get home.
My brother and I lived together, because our parents were separated since 8 years ago and none of our parents want to take the responsibility to look after us. My brother is currently 18 and I'm 22. I moved away from my irresponsible dad since 2 years ago, who doesn't care about anything except himself, and knows nothing about his children except giving me money. And my brother moved out and live with me since last year. Anyway, since my brother and I both doesn't have a driver license, we walked.
At 11:00 I went out with my brother to buy some stuff for my new apartment, first my brother and I went to this factory outlet near our house to buy a new rice cooker, after that we went home and drop it off, then off to a nearby shopping mall to get a new refrigerator, but then I realize I forgot to measure the height for the area where the fridge will be placed, so I thought maybe we should buy the other stuff first and we can get the fridge done later. I texted my boyfriend "Getting something for lunch <3 forgot to measure height of the fridge area >.<" but he did not reply at all. We went to buy some household stuff before we had lunch, then drop everything home, we measure the height of the fridge then went straight back to the mall and purchased a fridge, and looked around in the mall because its on Xmas Sales. Just before we decided to go home, we also went to the supermarket and get something for dinner. On my way home, I texted my boyfriend again "Are you there?" but no response.
It was about 4:45pm when I got home, his Skype status was Offline, I started calling international calls to his house but no one answered. (It's always like that no one in his house ever picked up the damn phone). Until now which is the next day (24+ hours) and yet still no one answer, not a word from him either! I'm so annoyed with this kind of relationship with him, I'm definitely not rich enough to afford handling his untrusting and insane thoughts anymore.
He is 3 years older than me, currently unemployed, and financially relying on his family. About every 2 - 3 months I have to send him money so he can pay his bills and stuff. Up to now I've sent him over 10,000 USD and I never really whine about anything. I've always ensure I've given him enough support to look for a job so he can become financially stable, I so look forward starting a life with him. Yet he is such a leery person, he thinks about ridiculous things such as I'm a spy and being with him is my duty to monitor people's life. He is so sick that he thinks my brother is my NOT my brother and he also thinks I cheat on him all the time with my brother. Nothing ever make sense to him and I can't take it anymore!!! I have tons of things to look after my brother who is planning to go to university and needs help with his studies a lot (because he is not a bright kid), I have to handle my own school work, I have no more social life because of my boyfriend (I can't even hang out with girl friends because he thinks they are all lesbians), I just lost my part-time job because of my boyfriend (and they pay quite good too like almost $24 per hour). My life is becoming so screwed because of him I can't even handle my own emotion sometimes because of how he treat me.
I really need help, please suggest what shall I do!!