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  • I think I have a horrible best friend, but i need another opinion. Is her behavior understandable?

    my friend is a fun person, however she is very judgemental. She always caves into peer pressure, for instance, if something is popular she has to have it, just because everyone else does. However she has usually been a very good friend to me. She invites me places and we hang out and have a good time, and because i'm poor, she spends her money on me. She has baught me a lot of stuff over the past three years.

    But whenever I start to get interested in a guy, she begins to vehemently hate that guy. She forbids me to text them while she's around, and says I'm being ignorant by texting. But whenever I'm texting one of our female friends, or a guy friend that we both hate (wierd relations with guys friends lol) she's perfectly fine.

    She hates when I hang out with them. She hated my last boyfriend, for no reason. She didn't know him.

    Now I have a new boyfriend. Keep in mind, before I met him, my friend and I hung out once or twice a week on average, and i see her everyday in school. I go out of my way to visit her classes and what not and occasionally get into trouble for being late to my own classes.

    Since the day I met my boyfriend, we've hung out every single day. He are very close partners. I still see my friend once a week, every week, IF she wants to. She keeps asking me "So... where have you been all week?" even though we hung out that week, as usual. She wouldn't give a **** any other time.

    And She also called me and said she does't want "our friendship to die." and that we have to hang out soon, and more often.

    Of course, I put up the effort to invite myself over her house at least once a week and we hang out at the mall every friday, because we have friends that work there. And she still says we aren't hanging out enough. Actually, this is the most we've hung out for a long time. And in my last relationship I hung out with her every other day. That three-four times a week for several months! And she still implies that I ignore her.

    She has never dated anyone. 1st becasue no one lives up to her impossible standards (she was raised in a very judgemental enviroment) and 2nd because she's too shy to go after a man that she wants. And she gets soo jealous whenever I start to date someone. She degrades my boyfriends, saying they have pimples, pudge, funny looking hair, ect.

    I took my friend on vacation to Florida with me, and at that point, I was just getting close to my boyfriend. He was having problems at home to (he comes from a violent home) and I was texting him almost constantly, but I still paid 90% of my attention on my friend. And at nights, when everyone was winding down from vacation fun, my boyfriend called me and it gave me a chance to relax and talk to him.

    Being stressed from my friend and family telling me how ignorant and rude I was being and how I was ruinging the entire vacation for everyone, all because I was texting, I was relieved to hear my boyfriend's voice and it relaxed me a lot. My friend got so pissedoff at me for calling him on our vacation.

    Now i can understand that she may be jealous, but is it me, or is she going to extremes to make sure I don't spend time with him?

    7 AnswersFriends1 decade ago
  • I need a good shampoo and conditioner for dry hair that smells good?

    my hair is very dry and i need to make it more like silk. its like, frizzy, fuzzy looking. each individual hairs seem to be spread apart rather than silkily together.

    8 AnswersHair1 decade ago
  • have you ever heard a song and thought it was beautiful, even if it was somthing like punkrock?

    "It must have been so bad, caz livin with me musta damn near killed you" *sigh

    "I used to be love drunk

    But now I’m hungover

    I’ll love you forever

    Forever is over"

    "I'm here without you baby

    But you're still on my lonely mind

    I think about you baby

    And I dream about you all the time

    I'm here without you baby

    But you're still with me in my dreams

    And tonight it's only you and me, yeah"

    "That I love you

    I have loved you all along

    And I miss you

    Been far away for far too long

    I keep dreaming you'll be with me

    and you'll never go

    Stop breathing if

    I don't see you anymore "

    "you can sit beside me when the world falls down"

    "When my time comes

    Forget the wrong that I've done

    Help me leave behind some

    Reasons to be missed

    And don't resent me

    And when you're feeling empty

    Keep me in your memory"

    i could come up with a bazillion more beautiful song lyrics, but havent you ever listened to a song and thought, thats beautiful, or, awww!

    7 AnswersLyrics1 decade ago
  • I love these song lyrics?

    I used to be love drunk

    But now I'm hungover

    Love is forever

    But now i'm sober

    The song is Love Drunk by Boys Like Girls. Its and ok song but i love the lyrics

    4 AnswersLyrics1 decade ago
  • What is so romantic about kissing in the rain?

    being soaked is.. romantic??? Someone please explain this to me

    14 AnswersPolls & Surveys1 decade ago
  • Are you anything like your mom/dad?

    I am practically my mom's mini me! We are too alike

    7 AnswersFamily1 decade ago
  • Does he like me..................?

    We text every day, but not too much. Just one long conversation or sometimes a few small conversations every day. We hang out sometimes like once a week or so. Does he like me?

    7 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • Has anyone from Jersey ever noticed that?

    Has anyone from jersey ever noticed that we don't just live in Jersey... we either live in North Jersey or South Jersey.

    2 AnswersOther - United States1 decade ago
  • I really need some help deciding weather to break up or stay with my bf. please help~!?

    Reasons to break up:

    He talks to his ex too much

    calls her

    takes her places

    and buys her stuff

    He used to call me every day at 11 o clock and we'd stay up all night talking until 3am. He doesn't call anymore

    He used to say the sweetest things like "You should feel loved. I'd do anything to keep it that way" "your all i think about before i go to sleep at night" But he doesnt say that stuff any more. All he says is "i love you" and thats it.

    He used to be so impatient waiting for me to see him next. Now he doesn't invite me over so much or really care if i do or don't come.

    All we do is watch tv or make out.

    Reasons to stay:

    It would break my own heart to leave him, and possibly his, and i'm afraid to hurt him because i still care so much.

    He once told me that if I died, there'd be nothing on this earth left to keep him happy and he'd probably fall into a deep depression and kill himself.

    Should I drift along a somewhat passionless relationship where he still likes his ex.

    or

    Break both of our hearts and destroy whatever passion we have left.

    If we break up, I don't think I could even look at him without crying. But if we don't, I will constantly feel like he doesn't like me as much as he used too, and worry that he'll leave me for his ex.

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • Any good books you can recommend?

    I want something that is written in the format for adults, but with the creativity of a kid.... The best example I can think of for this is Eragon. Creative and Well Written. I've read Twilight and it was ok but not written right... I've read Angels and Demons and it was very well written and fast moving, but not... imaginary enough.

    I like books with an exciting plot line, usually fantasy. Like an adult read with the imagination of a childhood fantasy.

    9 AnswersBooks & Authors1 decade ago
  • Anyone who has read the book Angels and Demons?

    What did you think of it? I thought it was a great book, but the movie sucked. The took out characters and changed the ending! Good Book.

    What is the age group that reads those books?

    I'm only 15.

    7 AnswersBooks & Authors1 decade ago
  • I want to become numb?

    I don't want to feel anything. I just want to drift along. Often, things hurt me and put me under a lot of stress, and I don't want them to ruin my days anymore. I was numb yesterday, but then something happened where I had fun and it made me feel again. Yes, I felt happy for that short period of time, but as soon as it ended, the pain came back.

    How can I make my self not care or feel anythinng anymore?

    1 AnswerPsychology1 decade ago
  • Why do people lie if they like someone?

    Like, if someone asks if you like someone else, why do people lie and say they don't? Things would work out better if they just said "yes, do you want to go out with me?"

    Nothing else bad could come of it. unless that person is afraid of rejection, but not everyone is. And it won't always be a "no"

    I usually don't even wait until people ask me who i like. As soon as I like someone, I ask them out. Its that easy. Its how I got my current boyfriend. Is it that hard to shrug it off, like "ok they dont like me back, whatever" and eventually you get over it....

    But idk, I usually just ask a guy out before people even begin to get the feeling I like him. Then they r like "you like him, don't you" and I'd be like "we r going out, stupid" mwahahahahaha

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • could I make a good writer? answers based on a paragraph I wrote?

    I want to become a scientist, but I'm thinking of having writing as my fallback.

    A deafening crash of thunder rolled across the skies. Invisible creatures clawed at the ground, tossing dirt and small pebbles into current of air, howling and moaning with breathing fury. As pellets of water spiraled toward the ground, the wind began circling. Water was blown back up into the murky cover of its cloud, and thrown back down at the Earth in its new solid form. Ice pounded the roofs and windows, alerting pedestrians of its following monster. Groaning with anger, the unseen monster touched the ground and became pigmented with dirt and debris flowing into it. Children cried out to their parents, homes were abandoned for underground shelter, animals ran into bushes and trees. Somewhere in the yelling of the frightened people and the screaming of the twisting monster, a siren went off.

    What do you think?

    BTW I'm only 15 years old. It took me about five minutes to write this, I wrote it quickly just to ask this question so excuse if there's no real... plot or anything.

    3 AnswersOther - Arts & Humanities1 decade ago
  • What do you think of my writing skills?

    I want to become a scientist, but I'm thinking of having writing as my fallback.

    A deafening crash of thunder rolled across the skies. Invisible creatures clawed at the ground, tossing dirt and small pebbles into current of air, howling and moaning with breathing fury. As pellets of water spiraled toward the ground, the wind began circling. Water was blown back up into the murky cover of its cloud, and thrown back down at the Earth in its new solid form. Ice pounded the roofs and windows, alerting pedestrians of its following monster. Groaning with anger, the unseen monster touched the ground and became pigmented with dirt and debris flowing into it. Children cried out to their parents, homes were abandoned for underground shelter, animals ran into bushes and trees. Somewhere in the yelling of the frightened people and the screaming of the twisting monster, a siren went off.

    What do you think?

    BTW I'm only 15 years old.

    2 AnswersWords & Wordplay1 decade ago
  • I had a really good dream that I loved! intemperate this dream?

    I had spent the day at my boyfriends just cuddling.

    then I had a dream that we were in my house, in my bed, cuddling naked. We don't ever come to my house and always wear clothes. But my God, it was an awesome dream! :)

    2 AnswersDream Interpretation1 decade ago
  • I have a fear of water. does anyone else feel like this?

    I live about an hour away from the beach and I hate it. I hate going to the beach because i'm afraid of tital wave even though we don't really get them. I hate submarines, they are the worst. Being under water, surrounded by it, and i cant leave the submarine because we r under the water. thousands of pounds of stuff that will crush me, that i can't breath in. I hate bridges, i hate going over bridges, i just plain don't like going near the ocean. I get somewhat uneasy in lakes too, but not nearly as bad as the ocean. The only ships i trust are old 1700s style wooden huge ships with the white sails and everything. I fear whirl poos sooo much, and tital waves even more. I refuse to go on cruses. \

    anyone else feel this way?

    3 AnswersPsychology1 decade ago
  • How can I get through this, my depressed boyfriend?

    My boyfriend has a history of depression and a whole **** load of things like that. He knows he will get depressed when school starts up again (for reasons I won't go into) but when he gets depressed, he doesn't care about anything. Last time he got depressed, I thought he didn't like me and I was going to break up with him but then he said he still cared about me and that he was depressed. He has to see a psychiatrist and ****, but anyway.

    If he stops caring about everything, he doesn't call so much, or invite me over, or text me as much. Wich then makes me think he doesn't like me anymore. It gets so bad that he sometimes has panic attacks.

    What can I do?

    OMG and the last time he got depressed, I got this feeling of impending doom and I wasn't even with him. I was with another friend and sudden felt ill. So I texted him and asked if he was ok.... then it started.... the not caring and depression.

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • How do you feel about dating the jealous type?

    I'm the jealous type and I'm afraid to tell my boyfriend.

    its killing me inside. He talks about his x and today we went on a date and we were at his house when she called. he talked to her for a while and when it was apparent that he wasn't about to hang up soon, i left.

    I'm in a really bad mood now and depressed. I get depressed over this kind of stuff a lot. I'm afraid to tell my boyfriend when or why this happens to me.

    How would you feel about dating the jealous type?

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • If you were 15 years old again, what would you do?

    any regrets, things you wish you did?

    26 AnswersPolls & Surveys1 decade ago