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  • I don't want to live anymore?

    Everything just seems so pointless and I feel so useless. It's been like this for years and I don't know how to get through it.

    9 AnswersMental Health8 years ago
  • Teenage mother of four?

    I'm a teenage mother of 4. I am 19, and with a wonderful guy. I never planned being a teenage mother, but it happened and I wouldn't change a thing. I am still studying at home and my boyfriend works full time, we are both a bit different to 'normal' teenagers, we have the money to support the kids and we have our own house, two cars, pay our own bills etc. We have a 4 year old, 1 year old and 4 month old twins. What is your opinion of me now that you have read that?

    I'm asking because I am getting bullied and harassed quite badly about having kids. I just feel helpless, and sometimes the people doing this even throw insults at my kids. Can I do anything to make it stop?

    6 AnswersPregnancy8 years ago
  • Teenager wanting to move out of home?

    My friend is 17 and really wants to move out and live on her own, because of issues with her family. She only has a casual job, which isn't enough money to pay rent, pay bills, buy food etc. Is there any way she can move out on her own? She lives in Victoria, Australia.

    5 AnswersFamily8 years ago
  • Very angry four year old?

    Hello, my son just turned four and I am a little worried as he becomes very angry quite often. He has structure, routine, encouragement and love. He is a good child all the time until he becomes angry. Apart from that he is a sweet, kind and caring little boy. He has 3 younger siblings, (1 year old a 4 month old twins), and two older siblings (4 year old twins), But I spend a lot of time with him and so does his dad. We have one on one time together most days. His anger worries me because it hasn't gotten better, only worse. I understand that it may seem like a fight for attention, but to gain control of the situation we have spent extra time with him (my husband even cut back his work hours). It still hasn't improved. I can't get answers anywhere and just feel stuck.

    5 AnswersToddler & Preschooler8 years ago
  • 1 year old and time-outs?

    My daughter turns 1 in less than a month, she is walking and saying lots of words, her latest is 'no'. She has started testing the boundaries and because she is so young I am wondering if time-outs are a suitable way to teach her that her behaviour is bad. My son is almost four and only started testing boundaries at 3 years old, and time-outs were the obvious answer but with a 1 year old it seems like maybe I should do something else? I don't know, what's your opinion? Thankyou :)

    5 AnswersToddler & Preschooler8 years ago
  • 4th and 1st birthday party ideas?

    My little boy is turning four soon and my little girl is turning one! I really want to make both birthdays special for them. My son loves Spiderman and my daughter loves Dora. I have twins that are almost 3 months old and I have my hands full with them, so I need something to keep a group of four year olds occupied enough that I can just sit and supervise! Any suggestions are appreciated, thank you xxx

    6 AnswersEntertaining8 years ago
  • My mom doesn't set boundaries?

    My mom doesn't set boundaries for my 13 year old brother. He basically does what he wants with no consequence. Every time he is acting out she says "I'll talk to him"- which never works. He needs a consequence and when I try to tell her she just shuts me down or gets mad. I love my mom but I also feel a lot of anger towards her.

    2 AnswersTeen & Preteen8 years ago
  • 14 year old sleeping around?

    My 14 year old sister has started sleeping around. I am scared that she is going to regret all of this, which she probably will. As her older sister I just want to protect her, I've tried talking to her about it and she has even told me she won't do it anymore, but then she does! it's getting frustrating and I don't want to control her life but I don't want her doing this, and getting a reputation as a '****'. Is there any other way I can get my point across to her?

    6 AnswersTeen & Preteen8 years ago
  • How can I overcome the urge to self harm?

    I haven't self harmed for months, but suddenly I have a massive urge to do so. Nothing has triggered it, so I don't know why I'm feeling this. I really don't want to but I am scared I will, please help me to stop the urge.

    3 AnswersMental Health8 years ago
  • 4 year old playing up?

    I have 4 year old twins, boy and girl. A 3 year old boy. 9 Month old girl and 3 week old twins- another boy and girl! I am quite strict on my kids, and never have had any behaviour problems with any of them until now. The last 2 months my 4 year old son has been acting out, not eating his dinner, tantrums before bed (which I do not give into) but it hasn't stopped. I've done a few things so far, including the naughty corner, taking his favourite toy for two days, missing out on getting ice-cream on Friday nights and ignoring the tantrums. Suggestions would be great but do not suggest smacking my child because I refuse to! thanks :)

    4 AnswersToddler & Preschooler8 years ago
  • Why do I hate being touched?

    I hate being touched. In any way. The other day a friend went to touch my necklace and I jumped. Today my mum kind of tickled me and I started to cry. I sometimes hug my friends, but not often. They all hug each other, etc but I just leave myself out of it all. I don't know why I am like this, please help.

    3 AnswersMental Health8 years ago
  • My friend keeps asking for cyber sex?

    We are both girls and she keeps asking but I don't want to. I keep saying no and she just won't stop asking! pleas help!

    1 AnswerFriends8 years ago
  • 9 day old baby, unwell?

    My 9 day old baby girl seems unwell, she is pale and a little warm, should I take her to the hospital or will she be fine?

    10 AnswersNewborn & Baby8 years ago
  • How can I cope better with life?

    I have had a tough childhood and have a lot of painful memories- I understand that most people do. I have a lot to live for, but life is a struggle. I'm 18, almost 19 and I have 4 kids. A 3 year old, 1 year old and newborn twins. Because of my age I have been badly bullied. I had to leave school because I couldn't handle the torment I got. I want to be the best mother I can possibly be, and I'm trying so hard. My boyfriend works full time, we have a house and my 3 year old is going to kinder 3 times a week. But the depression side of things is really difficult, some days I don't want to get up out of bed but I know I have to, to be there for my little ones. How can I deal with this better to give them the best childhood possible?

    2 AnswersMental Health8 years ago
  • My 17 year old sister is sexually active?

    I don't mind, but the thing I am upset about it she was with a boy for 3 days and she had sex with him. We're only a year apart and I don't want to see her turn into someone she isn't. I've always been protective of her because she is younger than me, but maybe I'm just over thinking. It seems slutty to me that she would do that, but I don't want to confront her because it's not my life. How should I deal with this?

    6 AnswersAdolescent8 years ago
  • Does anyone know where I can find this childhood toy?

    When I was a child, my mother got be a doll that was about a metre in length, it was stuffed, had a flat face and rounded feet. The name it had was 'Penelope'- I can't find one and I would really love to get one for my little girl! Please help xoxo

    2 AnswersToys8 years ago
  • Why do I get anxiety when friends stay overnight?

    For years I have never liked staying over at people's houses, or even people staying at my house over night. I didn't go on school camps either. I just always feel like I an restless and uncomfortable. It's not separation anxiety because it's the same when my friends stay over. When all my friends have sleep overs I don't go or I make excuses. I don't know why and I wish it would go away, please help?

    1 AnswerFriends9 years ago
  • My son messed up my android, how can I fix this?

    Last night my son messed with my android and now whenever I dial a number it doesn't give me the option of what I want to dial through and now it dials through skype when I don't want it to, how do I change this?

    3 AnswersCell Phones & Plans9 years ago
  • My mum always leaves me out?

    Don't get me wrong- I love my mum. But I just don't like the way she is. She treats my little brother who is 13, a lot better than she treats me. He is lazy, fussy and difficult, but I do things around the house, cook, clean and just generally help out. But I feel like she doesn't appreciate it, she puts my brother first and when I've tried to talk about it to her she says I'm being spoilt. I just feel alone and a burden.

    3 AnswersFamily9 years ago
  • Is this child abuse, do I report this?

    I have a friend, and her house is always messy and dirty, there is cats that wee inside and dogs with flea's that are constantly inside. There is 4 kids, the youngest is 6, then 9, 10 and 12. The kids are all naughty, and have no dicipline. I was around at the house once and she was swearing at the 9 year old all these words a 9 year old shouldn't even be hearing, such as the c word. Etc. The 9 year old cut himself and started saying it's all his brothers fault. It's hectic, they have no routine and stay up until all hours off the night. 3 of the 4 have 'adhd', but I do believe they are just not diciplined and are now out of control because they behave for their father who is very strict, but he only see's them every third weekend. It's an unhygenic house and they're ignored a lot. I don't know if it's something I should report or not?

    9 AnswersOther - Pregnancy & Parenting9 years ago