This is a weird situation so bear with me.
I have been seeing this guy recently. We where friends prior to getting together romantically, and we both have had feelings for one another for several months prior to getting together. I really like him. He is very sweet to me, is affectionate, generous ect... when I see him.
He works a job that isn't the greatest, and the people who schedule him give him terrible hours (work until 10 at night, back to work by 8 am. It is admittedly hard for him) and has to physically be at work for around 50 hours a week. He often has paperwork and stuff that he has to bring home with him too. This job isn't an "important" job or a well paying job either, so I understand that it is emotionally draining for him. We also live in NYC, but in different boroughs. While I certainly understand that these factors all contribute to making our relationship difficult, I hardly ever see him lately. I haven't seen him for almost a week and a half. I put a lot of effort into trying to make it easier for us to get together. I offer to go over to his place after work, and I am really the one trying to arrange times and places for us to get together. I don't know what to think. Sure, he calls me pretty often, but it's honestly not enough. This relationship isn't fulfilling my needs for physical companionship and affection. I am seriously considering breaking up with him, as he considers monogamy a non negotiable, and he isn't filling my needs.