• Should I break up with my man?

    This is a weird situation so bear with me. I have been seeing this guy recently. We where friends prior to getting together romantically, and we both have had feelings for one another for several months prior to getting together. I really like him. He is very sweet to me, is affectionate, generous ect... when I see him. He works a job that... show more
    This is a weird situation so bear with me. I have been seeing this guy recently. We where friends prior to getting together romantically, and we both have had feelings for one another for several months prior to getting together. I really like him. He is very sweet to me, is affectionate, generous ect... when I see him. He works a job that isn't the greatest, and the people who schedule him give him terrible hours (work until 10 at night, back to work by 8 am. It is admittedly hard for him) and has to physically be at work for around 50 hours a week. He often has paperwork and stuff that he has to bring home with him too. This job isn't an "important" job or a well paying job either, so I understand that it is emotionally draining for him. We also live in NYC, but in different boroughs. While I certainly understand that these factors all contribute to making our relationship difficult, I hardly ever see him lately. I haven't seen him for almost a week and a half. I put a lot of effort into trying to make it easier for us to get together. I offer to go over to his place after work, and I am really the one trying to arrange times and places for us to get together. I don't know what to think. Sure, he calls me pretty often, but it's honestly not enough. This relationship isn't fulfilling my needs for physical companionship and affection. I am seriously considering breaking up with him, as he considers monogamy a non negotiable, and he isn't filling my needs.
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 years ago
  • Hair dye coming out with heat?

    I just changed my hair color from bright red to silver/gray. I bleached out the dye(it was a mix of permanent dyes done in salons and from boxes as well as semi permanent dyes like manic panic, punky ect) to a pale color, toned the color it turned (pale red-white) with blue and green semi permanent dyes and then toned my whole head with wella color... show more
    I just changed my hair color from bright red to silver/gray. I bleached out the dye(it was a mix of permanent dyes done in salons and from boxes as well as semi permanent dyes like manic panic, punky ect) to a pale color, toned the color it turned (pale red-white) with blue and green semi permanent dyes and then toned my whole head with wella color charm dye. Despite my hair being pretty damaged and dry, it looked really good. I ran into problems when I went to straiten my bangs the next day. ( I know u shouldn't use heat, but whatever my bangs where looking stupid) it seemed that the heat was stripping the color from my hair. Where I had applied heat had weirdly turned a pale orange! I had washed out the color charm (#49 with 20 vol developer) after about 10 minutes, so I thought maybe the dye didn't penetrate the hair shaft. The next day, I re-toned my hair with color charm (#14 this time with 20 vol developer) and again, looked great. Heat stripped the color AGAIN. What is going on?!
    1 answer · Hair · 4 years ago
  • Nice "dressy" sweatpants?

    I know this is the most ludicrous question ever asked, but I am looking for a pair of sweatpants that don't necessarily look like sweatpants. I was hoping for some in black with a wide waistband that are harem style and cinch in around the ankles with a band. Something I can "disguise" as not being sweat pants. Hopefully you know what... show more
    I know this is the most ludicrous question ever asked, but I am looking for a pair of sweatpants that don't necessarily look like sweatpants. I was hoping for some in black with a wide waistband that are harem style and cinch in around the ankles with a band. Something I can "disguise" as not being sweat pants. Hopefully you know what I'm talking about thanks in advance!
    1 answer · Fashion & Accessories · 8 years ago
  • Stabbing pains in lower abdomen?

    about once every 3 months, I'll get stabbing pains in my lower abdomen. It feels like it is coming from the sides, but it's hard to tell. it feels like a knife being thrusted into my side, and it will sop for a few seconds and start again. What could cause this? It doesn't feel tight or throbbing or anything.
    about once every 3 months, I'll get stabbing pains in my lower abdomen. It feels like it is coming from the sides, but it's hard to tell. it feels like a knife being thrusted into my side, and it will sop for a few seconds and start again. What could cause this? It doesn't feel tight or throbbing or anything.
    4 answers · Women's Health · 8 years ago
  • What is a really awesome zombie movie?

    I really am in the mood for one... I like 28 days later, I've seen the dawn of the dead remake, and I really liked that, and I really like The walking dead. I'm looking for something similar to those, not really a kitschy zombie film. thanks in advance!
    I really am in the mood for one... I like 28 days later, I've seen the dawn of the dead remake, and I really liked that, and I really like The walking dead. I'm looking for something similar to those, not really a kitschy zombie film. thanks in advance!
    16 answers · Movies · 8 years ago
  • How do I restitch a zipper?

    a zipper on my shoe has the zipper part pulling away rom the fabric part of the zipper. How would I re-stitch the track of the zipper to the rest of it? Thanks in advance
    a zipper on my shoe has the zipper part pulling away rom the fabric part of the zipper. How would I re-stitch the track of the zipper to the rest of it? Thanks in advance
    3 answers · Do It Yourself (DIY) · 8 years ago
  • What is a good , affordable digital camera?

    I have a vivatar digital camera and I HATE IT. I paid $120 for it, and I'm going to try and replace it. I want a camera for around $50 if possible. I would like one that is from a decent company if possible I don't need anything crazy. I just want one with decent quality for pictures. I would prefer one with a video function, but... show more
    I have a vivatar digital camera and I HATE IT. I paid $120 for it, and I'm going to try and replace it. I want a camera for around $50 if possible. I would like one that is from a decent company if possible I don't need anything crazy. I just want one with decent quality for pictures. I would prefer one with a video function, but it's not necessary. Thank you!
    3 answers · Cameras · 8 years ago
  • What is a really nice, not too heavy perfume for every day?

    I don't care how much it is. I would want a big bottle of it though. I really like perfumes like Burberry Brit, Sinner by Kat Von D, Gap Close ect. What would be a good, fairly "natural" perfume I could get? I want something that will not be too overpowering, but I like to wear perfume every day, so it has to be fairly nice.
    I don't care how much it is. I would want a big bottle of it though. I really like perfumes like Burberry Brit, Sinner by Kat Von D, Gap Close ect. What would be a good, fairly "natural" perfume I could get? I want something that will not be too overpowering, but I like to wear perfume every day, so it has to be fairly nice.
    4 answers · Other - Beauty & Style · 8 years ago
  • What is a good under-eye concealer?

    I have really bad bags under my eyes. I've used a few concealers, such as Clinique all about eyes concealor, and various face concealors to try and cover it up. I've tried yellow concealer sticks and topped them with regular concealers, but it ends up being too yellow if I put on enough to correct the darkness. I'd prefer a concealer... show more
    I have really bad bags under my eyes. I've used a few concealers, such as Clinique all about eyes concealor, and various face concealors to try and cover it up. I've tried yellow concealer sticks and topped them with regular concealers, but it ends up being too yellow if I put on enough to correct the darkness. I'd prefer a concealer I'd not need to set, because I ALWAYS need it, and I don't like taking a long time in the morning. Price isn't a concern. thanks in advance. :)
    3 answers · Makeup · 8 years ago
  • What causes Peely fingernails?

    I used to have GREAT nails. They where really strong and never peeled. All the sudden, my nails got really bad. Admittedly, I HAVE been using acetone nailpolish remover, but I'm not sure if that could be it... also my diet doesn't have as many fruits and vegetables in it as it usually does. What's going on?
    I used to have GREAT nails. They where really strong and never peeled. All the sudden, my nails got really bad. Admittedly, I HAVE been using acetone nailpolish remover, but I'm not sure if that could be it... also my diet doesn't have as many fruits and vegetables in it as it usually does. What's going on?
    1 answer · Women's Health · 8 years ago
  • Where can I find an ID case like this?

    I want an id case for school next year like this one http://www.christianbook.com/quilted-id-... but I hate the whole quilted thing. I would like one that is a little less 7th grade schoolgirl-ish. I really want one that will have easy access to my money / id, and with a key loop on it. (my dorm room has keys.) Thanks a lot. :)
    I want an id case for school next year like this one http://www.christianbook.com/quilted-id-... but I hate the whole quilted thing. I would like one that is a little less 7th grade schoolgirl-ish. I really want one that will have easy access to my money / id, and with a key loop on it. (my dorm room has keys.) Thanks a lot. :)
    1 answer · Fashion & Accessories · 8 years ago
  • What does it mean if someone makes up an entire person?

    My sister's friend may or may not have created an "imaginary friend' if you will. This girl she created had over 400 friends on Facebook, and hundreds of facebook pictures, all of which where taken from another girl. My sister's friend claimed to have been friends with this imaginary girl since kindergarden, said they went on... show more
    My sister's friend may or may not have created an "imaginary friend' if you will. This girl she created had over 400 friends on Facebook, and hundreds of facebook pictures, all of which where taken from another girl. My sister's friend claimed to have been friends with this imaginary girl since kindergarden, said they went on vacations together, ect. What does this mean psychologically? I'm worried for my sister. Thanks in advance.
    8 answers · Mental Health · 8 years ago
  • Where is a good place to get twin XL bedding that is cute and unique?

    My school next year has twin XL beds, and to my dismay, I have had a horrible time finding bedding to fit the beds. Twin size sheets don't fit. =/ I need fitted and flat sheets with the pillow cases and a comforter (or a duvet cover. I have a twin XL comforter.) Any help would be appreciated. I've already looked at target and other sites... show more
    My school next year has twin XL beds, and to my dismay, I have had a horrible time finding bedding to fit the beds. Twin size sheets don't fit. =/ I need fitted and flat sheets with the pillow cases and a comforter (or a duvet cover. I have a twin XL comforter.) Any help would be appreciated. I've already looked at target and other sites that one would find on searching the internet, and everything looks the same. I like UO bedding a lot and a lot of the bedding at target I would totally get except it won't fit on my bed! thanks in advance!!!
    2 answers · Decorating & Remodeling · 8 years ago
  • Where can I find these MARC by MARC Jacobs eyeglass frames?

    I saw these frames in a magazine and I love them. They are in the picture on the right. WH\here can I find them? I've only looked online so far, i'm not even sure if they are available. http://www.marcjacobs.com/#/en-us/worldo... Thanks for any help!!!
    I saw these frames in a magazine and I love them. They are in the picture on the right. WH\here can I find them? I've only looked online so far, i'm not even sure if they are available. http://www.marcjacobs.com/#/en-us/worldo... Thanks for any help!!!
    3 answers · Fashion & Accessories · 8 years ago
  • What is a really good thickening and volumizing mascara?

    I have used MAC PlushLash, maybelline Colossal and rimmel and loreal voluminous. (I like loreal an rimmel, but it flakes!) I like these, but I would like something more dramatic... I want a formula that makes your lashes look really thick,but doesn't flake
    I have used MAC PlushLash, maybelline Colossal and rimmel and loreal voluminous. (I like loreal an rimmel, but it flakes!) I like these, but I would like something more dramatic... I want a formula that makes your lashes look really thick,but doesn't flake
    19 answers · Makeup · 9 years ago
  • Why are some women crazy about breast-feeding their children?

    I understand that is is better for both the mother and the baby. I'm even willing to admit tha if I had kids, I'd probably do it as well. What I don't understand are the people who get mad at women who feed their children baby formula. My mom used baby formula because she worked, and she didn't want it to be too difficult for my au... show more
    I understand that is is better for both the mother and the baby. I'm even willing to admit tha if I had kids, I'd probably do it as well. What I don't understand are the people who get mad at women who feed their children baby formula. My mom used baby formula because she worked, and she didn't want it to be too difficult for my au pear / babysitter to care for me. Also, baby formula keeps babies full longer,so you aren't constantly breastfeeding the kid. I'm just wondering why some people go crazy about it... my mom got some of that. Even my neighbor who did both got it too. o__o
    13 answers · Newborn & Baby · 9 years ago
  • What happens to cats that don't use their litter boxes when they go to the pound?

    My kitty who never really used her litter box despite our constantly changing her litter and putting her on medication had to to go the pound today. :( Does anyone have an idea what will happen to her? Thanks...
    My kitty who never really used her litter box despite our constantly changing her litter and putting her on medication had to to go the pound today. :( Does anyone have an idea what will happen to her? Thanks...
    8 answers · Cats · 9 years ago
  • Where can I buy traditional Indian Kajal?

    I'm very interested in it... I would prefer to buy it in a store and not online because of the health hazards of tainted kajal. I live in the United States. Is there anywhere I can get some? I don't think the indian markets around me sell it, but I haven't checked. Thanks a lot. :)
    I'm very interested in it... I would prefer to buy it in a store and not online because of the health hazards of tainted kajal. I live in the United States. Is there anywhere I can get some? I don't think the indian markets around me sell it, but I haven't checked. Thanks a lot. :)
    3 answers · Makeup · 9 years ago
  • What type of glue should I use to adhere sketch paper to canvas?

    This seems a little weird, but I am trying to adhere sketchbook paper to a canvas. I work in a collage- type style, and I want it to stick to the canvas without having any parts peeling. I'm hesitant to use rubber cement because of the pilling, and school glue because of the bubbling. I don't want to use glue sticks because they won't... show more
    This seems a little weird, but I am trying to adhere sketchbook paper to a canvas. I work in a collage- type style, and I want it to stick to the canvas without having any parts peeling. I'm hesitant to use rubber cement because of the pilling, and school glue because of the bubbling. I don't want to use glue sticks because they won't adhere well enough and I hate spray mount. Any other suggestions? Thanks in advance. :)
    6 answers · Drawing & Illustration · 9 years ago
  • Am I clenching or grinding my jaw / teeth in my sleep?

    Last night, I had a dream where my jaw would lock tightly closed and wide open and I was unable to control it. I was also very distressed in my dream, and often have nightmares about tooth loss or ones when my jaw locks as described. I woke up today without jaw pain, but I ended up having to pop my jaw to make it as loose as it usually is. I... show more
    Last night, I had a dream where my jaw would lock tightly closed and wide open and I was unable to control it. I was also very distressed in my dream, and often have nightmares about tooth loss or ones when my jaw locks as described. I woke up today without jaw pain, but I ended up having to pop my jaw to make it as loose as it usually is. I don't know if this is due to my suspicions, but my teeth feel very slightly sore if I clench them today. Should I invest in a mouth guard or is it all in my head? Is anyone familiar with this occurrence? Thanks for your help. :)
    4 answers · Dental · 9 years ago