• Why aren’t aunts/uncles considered immediate family?

    My uncle just died (my moms older brother) and his funeral is tomorrow. I’m off and I’m allowed 2 bereavement days off but I won’t get any compensation pay for it. I’ll admit not that close to this uncle since he lives in a different state. But I am close to a few aunts and uncles, enough where I see them a few times a year. My job will only pay me... show more
    My uncle just died (my moms older brother) and his funeral is tomorrow. I’m off and I’m allowed 2 bereavement days off but I won’t get any compensation pay for it. I’ll admit not that close to this uncle since he lives in a different state. But I am close to a few aunts and uncles, enough where I see them a few times a year. My job will only pay me if my one of my parents or siblings died if I had a wife or kids and they died. I don’t even think my grandparents are included even though I don’t have any living grandparents. But some people are close to their grandparents and should get paid time off for the death. I mean family is family, who are they to say who I’m close to? Do you think it’s wrong??
    5 answers · Other - Careers & Employment · 2 weeks ago
  • Do you think children should talk to their parents more or keep things to themselves?

    I’m not a child or anything, I’m 20. But I told a coworker (she’s an older woman in her50’s) a problem I was having and she asked what do my parents think. I told her that I don’t really tell them much about my life. I love them but I just don’t talk to them about my problems. And she said that’s the problem with kids. They don’t tell their parents... show more
    I’m not a child or anything, I’m 20. But I told a coworker (she’s an older woman in her50’s) a problem I was having and she asked what do my parents think. I told her that I don’t really tell them much about my life. I love them but I just don’t talk to them about my problems. And she said that’s the problem with kids. They don’t tell their parents anything and keep everything to themselves. I kind of felt she was right but at the same time I don’t really like asking my parents for advice.
    7 answers · Parenting · 3 weeks ago
  • Do you think poverty is a choice?

    I had an argument with a coworker about this. He said all people do at our job is complain about their life and issues and that they choose their life. I disagree. I think it’s more to it than people just choosing to work a minimum wage job. I work a minimum wage job myself but I’m lucky since I still live with my folks and I don’t have to worry... show more
    I had an argument with a coworker about this. He said all people do at our job is complain about their life and issues and that they choose their life. I disagree. I think it’s more to it than people just choosing to work a minimum wage job. I work a minimum wage job myself but I’m lucky since I still live with my folks and I don’t have to worry about big bills and I have no kids. But some people are single and have kids or and need help from government assistance. If I had those issues then I probably would complain about my life too, I mean do complain sometimes and My life isn’t that bad compared to some people I know who are struggling and are alone. But I just feel like it depends mostly on how and where you are raised. I know some people grew up poor and became rich but most of them are famous entertainers, athletes or got lucky and won a lottery. the average poor person isn’t going to end up wealthy without support and a stable home and family.
    14 answers · Sociology · 4 weeks ago
  • Is this lady a horrible parent or did she just have bad children?

    There is a woman that I work with that has 4 sons they are 25, 23,20 and the youngest is only 6. Her oldest three are all i jail. I guess they are drug dealers or something but she’s been missing g work and going to court for her sons. She’s just exhausted and now she’s worried about her 6 year old because he’s with her ex boyfriend and he’s a drug... show more
    There is a woman that I work with that has 4 sons they are 25, 23,20 and the youngest is only 6. Her oldest three are all i jail. I guess they are drug dealers or something but she’s been missing g work and going to court for her sons. She’s just exhausted and now she’s worried about her 6 year old because he’s with her ex boyfriend and he’s a drug dealer. I feel sorry for this little boy but I do t know him so idk what I can do. I have 4 older brothers myself and I just couldn’t imagine all of them being in jail while having to live with a drug dealer mine this boy had too. I guess I’m lucky to have the family I have even if I didn’t always appts it’s them. But is this woman a terrible mother, I mean she doesn’t seem bad. Seems like she loves her sons.
    3 answers · Psychology · 4 weeks ago
  • Am I not a good a brother for being upset?

    I’m 20 with older brothers so yeah I’ve definitely had some good and bad moments with my family. But my brother he’s 24 is moving out in the beginning of November. I don’t know. When I was younger Ive always hated this brother the most. But ever since I’ve got out of high school, I’ve gotten along with him better. He has helped me a lot as far as... show more
    I’m 20 with older brothers so yeah I’ve definitely had some good and bad moments with my family. But my brother he’s 24 is moving out in the beginning of November. I don’t know. When I was younger Ive always hated this brother the most. But ever since I’ve got out of high school, I’ve gotten along with him better. He has helped me a lot as far as giving me a ride to work while my other brother picked me up so I wouldn’t have to uber. I appreciate him a lot but now I’ve been avoiding him. I know he’s an adult but I’ll miss him. I’ve been acting as if I’m not bothered. Im upset because Now it’s just gonna be my parents and my other two brothers here. My brother that’s 21 just got a car a month ago and is Helping me get to work now so it’s not about a ride. I guess I just feel like I won’t see him anymore. Like my oldest brother has been out of the picture since he was he was 19 and I don’t see him unless it’s a holiday. I do want to move out myself too one day so Am I being selfish?
    4 answers · Family · 4 weeks ago
  • Why do some ppl think just because your young, you can’t be stressed?

    I’m 20 and I asked someone for a cigarette. Honestly I don’t smoke too much, maybe like once Every few weeks. but when I’m stressed I do ask for a cigarette. An older guy that I work with said that I’m too young to be stressed and life isn’t that bad. I feel like you dont my life and the issues I have. Yes I might be young but I have issues like... show more
    I’m 20 and I asked someone for a cigarette. Honestly I don’t smoke too much, maybe like once Every few weeks. but when I’m stressed I do ask for a cigarette. An older guy that I work with said that I’m too young to be stressed and life isn’t that bad. I feel like you dont my life and the issues I have. Yes I might be young but I have issues like everyone else.
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 month ago
  • Why do some people come out in the public looking a mess?

    I don’t mean to sound like a judgemental jerk and I know no one is perfect but I just don’t understand why some people don’t have enough decency to at least look presentable. There is this lady that comes to work every night looking a utter mess. She wears this wig, and it is just ****** to the side. It doesn’t look like she tries to brush it or... show more
    I don’t mean to sound like a judgemental jerk and I know no one is perfect but I just don’t understand why some people don’t have enough decency to at least look presentable. There is this lady that comes to work every night looking a utter mess. She wears this wig, and it is just ****** to the side. It doesn’t look like she tries to brush it or anything. It just looks bad. And even think I saw crust on her eyes before. I’m sorry but I think hygiene is important to. Then she had the nerve to come in with her real hair looking like she just woke up with some pajamas on. I mean she has no pride. Wouldn’t you be embarrassed to look like this everything?
    4 answers · Other - Beauty & Style · 1 month ago
  • Why do people think it’s dumb to have a baby living off minimum wage?

    I just asked a question about wanting to get a female pregnant and I don’t have a great job or a lot of money but does that really matter? how am I screwing up the child mufe and the baby mother life because if this. I mean I do have a family, I know they’ll help and if not then who know maybe I’ll land a better job in the future. I mean ppl live so... show more
    I just asked a question about wanting to get a female pregnant and I don’t have a great job or a lot of money but does that really matter? how am I screwing up the child mufe and the baby mother life because if this. I mean I do have a family, I know they’ll help and if not then who know maybe I’ll land a better job in the future. I mean ppl live so change? Or maybe the bs y mother’s family will help her take care of the baby or something. I just been having the urge to get a girl pregnant lately. Idk why I was never like this before, but I don’t thjnk it’s a horrible thing.
    10 answers · Family · 1 month ago
  • Why do I want to get a girl pregnant now?

    I’m 20. I haven’t gotten a girl pregnant yet. I know I don’t really have a great job or a lot of money but I just want to find a good looking female and have sex and get her pregnant. Is that cool?
    I’m 20. I haven’t gotten a girl pregnant yet. I know I don’t really have a great job or a lot of money but I just want to find a good looking female and have sex and get her pregnant. Is that cool?
    3 answers · Pregnancy · 1 month ago
  • Don’t you hate when ppl ask you “what you’re up to”?

    Like nothing. I’m not up to snything. If you want to know something then you can pay my phone bill or something.
    Like nothing. I’m not up to snything. If you want to know something then you can pay my phone bill or something.
    10 answers · Polls & Surveys · 1 month ago
  • Is working for Amazon really that hard?

    I’m 20 and I work for Walmart. I used to be on vernight shift but now I work 1-10pm as a stocker and unloader now . I hate unloading a truck but stocking isn’t bad. I didn’t like overnight stocking because of the time and I don’t this shift only because sometimes they make me go to the back and help unload boxes off a truck and pull heavy pallets.... show more
    I’m 20 and I work for Walmart. I used to be on vernight shift but now I work 1-10pm as a stocker and unloader now . I hate unloading a truck but stocking isn’t bad. I didn’t like overnight stocking because of the time and I don’t this shift only because sometimes they make me go to the back and help unload boxes off a truck and pull heavy pallets. I was thinking of being a cashier but I’m overall tired of Walmart. Thinking of amazon since they start off with 16-18 bucks an hour. But I heard it’s hard labor and 3x harder than Walmart I’ll have to work 12 hour shifts and mandatory overtime. I also heard that they are very strict with their breaks and if you are even a minute late from a break that they will fire you. I don’t got time for that.and l already know I won’t make it because I regularly take an extra 5 to 10 minutes on breaks already. So yeah, Is it that bad? Is it that hard and strict? don’t mind working but I don’t want to feel stressed about being a minute late from a break.
    4 answers · Corporations · 2 months ago
  • If you’re single do feel anyone truly loves/ care about yoy?

    Be honest or do just feel pretty much feel alone?
    Be honest or do just feel pretty much feel alone?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 2 months ago
  • What to do when people make fun of Other for the things they have?

    There are people I know that will talk crap about you and call you broke or something because of the phone you have or the clothes you have. Like this one girl still has a iPhone 5 and some other said “wow, I know U tired of that old phone at least get a 7” and In my head I’m thinking leave her alone, I mean I have an iPhone 8+ but even I don’t have... show more
    There are people I know that will talk crap about you and call you broke or something because of the phone you have or the clothes you have. Like this one girl still has a iPhone 5 and some other said “wow, I know U tired of that old phone at least get a 7” and In my head I’m thinking leave her alone, I mean I have an iPhone 8+ but even I don’t have newest model coming out. As long she’s okay with it then who cares? Also I’ve seen someone literally record this dude because he had on cheap shoes and put it on Snapchat. I feel like maybe he didn’t want to wear $100-200 pair of shoes to work. Why are people so materialistic? it’s sad
    2 answers · Polls & Surveys · 2 months ago
  • Why don't people listen when you're nice to them?

    I try my hardest to be a nice and respectful guy. I had an issue with my schedule at work. Back in july, I had to tell my manager that I'm not available on sunday and Monday. She gave me a hard time saying my hours will be getting cut. They cut my hours for 2 weeks but now I'm getting a full 40 with Monday and sunday off. For a month. now... show more
    I try my hardest to be a nice and respectful guy. I had an issue with my schedule at work. Back in july, I had to tell my manager that I'm not available on sunday and Monday. She gave me a hard time saying my hours will be getting cut. They cut my hours for 2 weeks but now I'm getting a full 40 with Monday and sunday off. For a month. now all of a sudden I was put on the schedule for sunday. This happened to another coworker and she told our manager that she refuse to work on a sunday or a Monday and she is not coming in on that day because that's against her availability. she tole her okay and fixed her schedule. Then I came to manager, polite and respefecful and told her to look at my schedule please because I'm scheduled on a sunday. She gets angry and tries to brush me off and said my schedule is fine. About an hour later, i came back to her and I was angry at this point. I told look, I've been working here for a year now and I'm not about to keep going through crap. I'm not going to keep working a random schedule when new hires are coming in getting weekends off with 40 hours. I had to let her know that they need to stop playing with me or I'm gone. She tried arguing a bit but fixed it. I just don't understand why does it take for me to continue to ask someone to do their job and be a bit rude for them to listen?
    7 answers · Other - Careers & Employment · 3 months ago
  • Idk what to do? I hate having a job?

    I honestly hate my job. It’s a low paying dumb job that overworks you but I feel even if I made a good salary that I’d hate going to work. I know most people dont like working but I truly despise it. I guess this why I leave early so much because I cannot stand an 8 hour shift. I don’t think I’d hate it as much if I had more of a say of when I can... show more
    I honestly hate my job. It’s a low paying dumb job that overworks you but I feel even if I made a good salary that I’d hate going to work. I know most people dont like working but I truly despise it. I guess this why I leave early so much because I cannot stand an 8 hour shift. I don’t think I’d hate it as much if I had more of a say of when I can work and what I want to do. I fcking hate having a boss/manager because I always argue and never get along with them. I’m 20 and College is also not for me. I tried to go when I was 18 and I didn’t do too bad for a hs drop out but I ended up dropping out after 2 months. I just couldn’t take it more. I don’t know I can do. I just want to make money my own way. I was thinking about YouTubing but I have no idea what content to post to get subscribers.
    11 answers · Other - Careers & Employment · 3 months ago
  • Job cut my hours for putting in specific off days?

    I swear I hate this job so much. They tell us to fill out our days we when we are available. I was tired of having a random schedule so I told them Sunday and Monday Im unavailable but I can work Saturday thru Tuesday at any time. So my btch of a manager cuts my hours and now I’m only working 2 days a week. I asked her why am I only working 2 days... show more
    I swear I hate this job so much. They tell us to fill out our days we when we are available. I was tired of having a random schedule so I told them Sunday and Monday Im unavailable but I can work Saturday thru Tuesday at any time. So my btch of a manager cuts my hours and now I’m only working 2 days a week. I asked her why am I only working 2 days and she says that since I’m not available at any time on the weekend that they have to cut my hours. BS. How does it make sense to give me less hours because I’m not available on a Sunday? I know ppl that have Saturday and Sunday off and get 40 hours. It’s just favoritism. Should I just quit and try to get unemployment until I find something. I might as well with the hours they giving me and this job pisses me off at every turn anyway.
    9 answers · Other - Careers & Employment · 4 months ago
  • Am I weird for a young male or could I even be gay or something?

    I say this because I’m 20. I’m definitely truly attracted to girls but I don’t think about sex 24/7 like a lot guys I know. Guys look at women talk about who they would fck. But I look at girl and think who is the next for me, it’s not really all about sex. Am I wieird?
    I say this because I’m 20. I’m definitely truly attracted to girls but I don’t think about sex 24/7 like a lot guys I know. Guys look at women talk about who they would fck. But I look at girl and think who is the next for me, it’s not really all about sex. Am I wieird?
    5 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 months ago
  • How to play the lottery and win?

    Fck this job. I want to win a lottery
    Fck this job. I want to win a lottery
    7 answers · Gambling · 4 months ago
  • How old were you when you had your 1st car?

    I’m 20 and don’t even have a license yet...
    I’m 20 and don’t even have a license yet...
    22 answers · Polls & Surveys · 4 months ago