I work with youth and I've met amazing kiddos both girls and guys. I scratch my head that the most stellar girls (older teens --- cute, above average athletes, above average intelligence, musically talented, and above average KINDNESS) report being dateless. I've seen some of these girls be a little vulnerable...not stupid throw their future away kind of vulnerable...just sad that they haven't been asked out vulnerable. It leaves them feeling ugly when they really are not.
Girls of lesser looks and abilities are dating like crazy.
I know I've actually answered a gazillion of these kinds of questions (and answered well) and I do believe the boys to be mostly intimidated. But here's another question...
Do boys mind being asked out?
And if so...what is the best way that I could encourage these girls to approach it.
Should they ask directly?
I don't mean for someone to be their boyfriend...I mean to go on a date.
Do guys mind being asked out on a first date??? If you are guys (16-19) What kind of group dates would you like to be asked on...or would you prefer one on one (wholesome ideas. please.) dates.