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  • Am I over reacting to this?

    So I'm getting breakfast this morning and my wifes friend asks me hey so we are all going out tonight to the casino and is it alright if your wife comes with us? I just stopped talking to her and went straight to my wife. I told her that is the worst possible way for me to be asked or told your going to do somthing is by someone else. I was like your going to go out tonight and leave your son with me? She then said why do you always have to put me through a guilt trip about these things? I said why can't it ever be somewhere I can go too? She then told me it was ladies night and that she can drink for free.... This made me angry I said So your going out and getting drunk and leaving your son with me thats great.... She told me to just leave so I did and now I'm very flustered and pissed off about this. Overreacting or not? What should I do?

    24 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • Borderline personality disorder relationships?

    I was just recently diagnosed with Borderline personality disorder, my wife was diagnosed about 2 months ago. What are some things I can do to to make my relationship better? What are some things my wife and I may need to do or work on?

    8 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • What are some things that can affect a child's gender?

    I'm just wondering if anyone has ever heard of things that have better chances of conceiving a certain gender. Anyone who might have heard somethings post even if its possibly strange. Thanks

    3 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships1 decade ago
  • How to set consequence in spore?

    I've been trying to do this for some time now and cannot get it to work. I type setConsequenceTrait then what to become a different specialty? like space scientist?

    1 AnswerVideo & Online Games1 decade ago
  • House training a 2 month old boxer.?

    Just got a boxer puppy what are some good ways to house train and teach obedience to these happy little guys?

    4 AnswersDogs1 decade ago
  • Whats Borderline Personality Disorder like?

    I feel so cheated sometimes things are definitely not easy you know. Well my wife was originally supposed to be diagnosed with bipolar disorder. She was then found to have borderline personality disorder instead. What do I do? How is my life going to be because of this disorder? How can I help her and myself?

    4 AnswersMental Health1 decade ago
  • Would you stay with your spouse?

    I already know what my answer is but I just want to know how people feel about this. Answers from anyone and everyone welcome.

    Say you spouse and you just got married 3 months ago. Now your spouse is diagnosed with Bipolar disorder, and it explains alot about why they have been so moody lately. Then while talking about the disorder they tell you they married you in a manic episode... but don't regret the marriage but love you very much. Technically they law says if they married in unstable mental conditions that the marriage can be anuld. What would you do?

    19 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • How do I deal with my wifes newly diagnosed disorder?

    My wife was just recently diagnosed with Bipolar disorder, also known as manic depression. We are taking it one day at a time and just trying to keep communicating. She told me last night about what she used to do in her manic episodes and that she goes in weeks or even months of binge drinking, partying, and promiscuous relations with men. I'm ok with this I married her for a reason and that reason is my undying love for her. I just am afraid for her and our relationship if she was to do this again. I mean what if she goes and does something she wouldn't do normally that would hurt me very much? Or someone decides they want to take advantage of her in here manic state and hurt her?

    I don't know what to do or say I want to be there for her and I want to know how to react to this and handle the whole thing...

    Please help and Thank you.

    16 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • How much arguing is too much?

    My wife and I have been married for two and a half months and just like 2 weeks ago its seems like every other day we argue alot. So anyone with experience whats too much as far as that goes?

    15 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • How do I deal with the stress?

    OK so I am dealing with alot of things lately... Where to begin, my wife is ill we have good doctors some of the best, but they cannot diagnose her its an enigma as to whats wrong but she cannot walk very goot anymore and I am doing most everything around the house on her very bad days. We have some huge bills and are broke almost all the time, I have a good job but I practically kill myself working 11 hours a day all week because of being in the military. We have been fighting more and more lately and I don't know how to stop this. I just want to give her everything she needs and help her in any way possible but it seems so hard sometimes when built up stress and frustration gets out. We have a son who is coming back from his grandparents house in Oct. and that is adding to the stress because more bills and having to worry about him. I'm starting to feel overwhelmed what should I do?

    4 AnswersFamily1 decade ago
  • Would you let your wife go?

    I had a question about this already but My wife and I are newly weds. She is going to someone elses bachelorett party. In New Orleans. I told her I dont agree with the idea and that New Orleans is a bad place with only temptation and danger.

    We fight for about 2 hours and then drop it I told her she could go. Ok so my wife has a problem as of right now and is on medication, the kind that if mixed with alchohal can kill or have very serious side effects. She told me she isn't drinking but all her friends (except one) do is get drunk I don't know if this one is going or not. I want to know if I should change my decision and tell her not to go or let her go and possibly have a terrible outcome?

    32 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • How do I rebuild my trust for my wife?

    I have a very hard time trusting people. I know I should trust my wife... Ok so she asked me last night after I came home with a expensive gift for her if she could go to a bachelorett party with her friends from work. The party is in New Orleans and she is staying the night. I told her I don't like the idea but I'm not gonna stop here from going. we fight for about 3 hours over the whole thing then it gets resolved I told her I don't care she can go and that if I want to learn to trust her then I will have to deal with this. I don't know what to do but is this a decent start to fixing my problem?

    19 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago