• Refuse to do NoFap unless someone tells me this is part of the process. How the hell am I supposed to go through each day like this?

    Ok. So, I am relieved as after day 6 I relapsed. Usually happens in the morning, however because of no fap, so desperately wanting it, I got to day 5 , relapsed, started right back on again, got to day 6 this time. BUT. My concerning issues are my energy levels. I feel MUCH DEEPER into depression than I ever will feel when I'm not fapping, or... show more
    Ok. So, I am relieved as after day 6 I relapsed. Usually happens in the morning, however because of no fap, so desperately wanting it, I got to day 5 , relapsed, started right back on again, got to day 6 this time. BUT. My concerning issues are my energy levels. I feel MUCH DEEPER into depression than I ever will feel when I'm not fapping, or at least afterwards I feel supercharged with energy except right afterwards obviously but usually more just in my brain rather than physically. When I am doing nofap, I have no desire to eat anything. A THING. It feels like I will be sick if I try and eat, and also I have no energy to do anything, not a drop of motivation I cannot find it. I feel so much like putty and it kills me everytime like I'm in this hole of just doing whatever. How am I supposed to make my next decisions in life being 19 and take up a serious job and work my *** off on a course and in the gym while doing no fap? How long until my energy levels will restore? And how can I not be able to eat. I don't understand how to ope through it. It's complete tortue. Now I feel back the way it should be after relapsing. Help???
    1 answer · Mental Health · 10 months ago
  • Does anyone have a vague ides of the Maths GCSE Paper 2 Edexcel Linear papre on the 8th june topics that will come up?

    Today's one after about question 10 had me a little worried, I counted 90 marks for what i wrote I couldn't answer the last question on the fractions of boys to girls and adults and I really need help to smash the second paper to make sure I get higher than 150 marks to get anywhere near a C I paid £90 to do this **** 5 times
    Today's one after about question 10 had me a little worried, I counted 90 marks for what i wrote I couldn't answer the last question on the fractions of boys to girls and adults and I really need help to smash the second paper to make sure I get higher than 150 marks to get anywhere near a C I paid £90 to do this **** 5 times
    1 answer · Primary & Secondary Education · 11 months ago
  • Can porn cause depression?

    Every time I stop watching it for two days or so, and I usually watch it everyday while constantly trying to give it up, I feel so much lighter bubblier clear minded and my anxiety gets diminished while relatively feeling positive, but even when I can be negative at times I still feel good. From my experience (being personally ruthless with it)... show more
    Every time I stop watching it for two days or so, and I usually watch it everyday while constantly trying to give it up, I feel so much lighter bubblier clear minded and my anxiety gets diminished while relatively feeling positive, but even when I can be negative at times I still feel good. From my experience (being personally ruthless with it) being positive will not work if it does not connect to the heart of what you want and / feel. If you tell yourself something positive you know it can feel like reading from a book like you're not connecting to those positive thoughts and it can be come really difficult. I feel like porn really keeps me in this constant cycle of loneliness with no progression in my life being 18 years old. Achieving only a few GCSE's and not really getting any further on than that while everyone else is out there partying going to uni and enjoying their lives, I'm constantly setting out to do everything all on my own it kills me. People also constantly say, look, you're 17, it's perfectly natural to be curious about pornography and it's cool to whip one out from time to time. But how can you say that to someone who discovered it (like me) from the age of 10/11? Exactly. That is literally 8 years of it. If not more, can it be the reason for my depression? Can it aggravate loneliness and what cures being lonely and feeling lonely (I know they are seperate and from time to time I experience both on a weekly basis always isolating myself).
    1 answer · Psychology · 12 months ago
  • How do I beat morning depression? Tips?

    My depression can be aggravated during the day if I a) consider myself to have it b)automatically use the triggers or sad settings to literally promote it and if I am bored. But from literally, as I type, I am going to focus on every little thing I am doing from now on until I am OUT OF IT. People constantly say, it will stay with you forever you... show more
    My depression can be aggravated during the day if I a) consider myself to have it b)automatically use the triggers or sad settings to literally promote it and if I am bored. But from literally, as I type, I am going to focus on every little thing I am doing from now on until I am OUT OF IT. People constantly say, it will stay with you forever you just have to work with it, it will always be there, you will always have to control it, but how is that the right mindset to get out of it OR EVEN be able to control it? The main core issues I am having at the minute is not having anyone to be around on a consistent weekly basis, (always isolated) I get anxiety with problems from work and stuff that doesn't exist, and I CAN'T get out of bed I TRIED everything but I just wake up and fall flat on the bed again because it's too comfortable. I'm 18 years old and I'm an average achiever and I constantly subconsciously feel that I have to keep trying 100 times harder than everyone else to make progress with anything. I am going to try postive affirmation videos for it and go from there, and the focus and carrying on persuing my passions as I have dropped out of college (uk) and I'm only keeping the things in my life I knew I once enjoyed. Any advice?? Thank you
    1 answer · Mental Health · 12 months ago
  • 14 months in my iphone 5s 24 month contract and my warrenty is up but stuck in restore mode for water damage? (i think)?

    So my iphone recently had droplets of rain water escape into the circuits I'm assuming. (I'm fuming right now) two weeks ago and recently got in touch with the carphone warehouse and I mentioned I got my contract on 29/11/14 and it is now 15/02/16 so I'm not sure if my contract is up but I know for a fact that my warrenty is. Basically I... show more
    So my iphone recently had droplets of rain water escape into the circuits I'm assuming. (I'm fuming right now) two weeks ago and recently got in touch with the carphone warehouse and I mentioned I got my contract on 29/11/14 and it is now 15/02/16 so I'm not sure if my contract is up but I know for a fact that my warrenty is. Basically I get a -1 error in itunes trying to restore it as it wouldn't boot past the apple logo and just fade to black. Now I'm without means of contact and music social media etc. I am still paying £26.50 p/m and on the phone I think they expected me to just fork over £260 ******* pounds?!?!?!?! What am I meant to do here? Are there laws? Can I be covered? I think I may be covered by home insurance as my parents mentioned this but I am not sure :?? I can give you my model number if you like but I don't know what to say or where to start if I just waltz into carphone warehouse with a damaged iphone :S
    2 answers · Mobile Phones & Plans · 2 years ago
  • Ok, so I know this will be 100 percent my responsibility, but I m 17 and if I signed up for a contract online if I m under 18 would it work?

    So say if I SAID I was 18 would I get caught? would it be as bad as saying you re 18 on youtube for example or could there be worse consequences? I m not 18 for another 5 months at least and I m sick of my parents getting pissed at my bills that are actually wrong and I just don t have time to go in and talk to them in the carphone warehouse. I will... show more
    So say if I SAID I was 18 would I get caught? would it be as bad as saying you re 18 on youtube for example or could there be worse consequences? I m not 18 for another 5 months at least and I m sick of my parents getting pissed at my bills that are actually wrong and I just don t have time to go in and talk to them in the carphone warehouse. I will do but if this would work surely I can cancel my current contract as I want to get the 6s and I have the 5 but I want it to be under my name if I just said I m 18? Please don t talk me out of it I just want to know if it would work and if there are consequences for this, as I don t see how it would matter if I turn 18 in less than 6 months even if I did get caught.. Thanks !
    2 answers · Law & Ethics · 2 years ago
  • Can you feel when someone else likes/loves you?

    I'm only 18 soon so I'm still 17. There's this teacher at my college who's at least 25 though I doubt older than 30. I feel CRAZY in the stomach for her when I'm not at college . The thing is, I don't even feel that attracted to her. Just because I KNOW she likes me. You know when you just so know someone likes you? Just what... show more
    I'm only 18 soon so I'm still 17. There's this teacher at my college who's at least 25 though I doubt older than 30. I feel CRAZY in the stomach for her when I'm not at college . The thing is, I don't even feel that attracted to her. Just because I KNOW she likes me. You know when you just so know someone likes you? Just what they give off and the way they act around you. For example, the first time she was in her class (ict corridor so everyone is at a computer) a few of us were waiting outside on our break and she noticed me and kept glancing at me multiple times for 3-4 seconds and staring. Also one time when we crossed paths heading downstairs as soon as I looked at her without realising she looked immediately down. So immediate I didn't even realise she was. At first. Then yeah everytime I wasn't around we, I get abnormal butterflies because usually they last in my stomach 4-5 seconds like at least every few minutes in my experience but these last 1-2 HOURS at a time and I'm just wandering if I'm just feeling what she's feeling for me? Because recently it's as if she's avoiding looking at me. Like when we were waiting outside (she's right next door) she looked the other way her entire body was actually to walk into we classroom. Why would she try to avoid me and is this possible? Thanks.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • How to make my bedroom acoustic?

    I want an expensive drum kit to pursue it and I've been drumming since I was 9 and now 17. However in my opinion you do not get the same emotion, feel and general enjoyment out of an electric drum kit as you do an acoustic kit. Because of this I'm upgrading my old electric kit which was high quality at the time and plan on getting an... show more
    I want an expensive drum kit to pursue it and I've been drumming since I was 9 and now 17. However in my opinion you do not get the same emotion, feel and general enjoyment out of an electric drum kit as you do an acoustic kit. Because of this I'm upgrading my old electric kit which was high quality at the time and plan on getting an acoustic dw as I'm working. The whole reason we initially got an electric kit was due to neighbours and how are house is situated as a terraced house in the UK. My issue is will soundproof paneling for £20-£50 covering specific areas of the wall effectively reduce sound for the neighbours? Also we have our own situation with them as they are constantly moving in and out and making their own noise from time to time so what's my best option here? I just don't want to risk buying the kit and then find out soundproofing wouldn't work..Thank you!!
    2 answers · Other - Music · 2 years ago
  • How to ask a girl out in person when I'm shy and rarely talk to girls?

    Lol it's ironic because I've ended up being 1 of 2 boys in a class full of girls and that guy got excluded and it ended up being just me with a class full of girls.. Boy I wander what goes on in some of their heads... Real Bitchy lol awesome experience though can be a laugh at times but I'd still get Nervous saying more than a few... show more
    Lol it's ironic because I've ended up being 1 of 2 boys in a class full of girls and that guy got excluded and it ended up being just me with a class full of girls.. Boy I wander what goes on in some of their heads... Real Bitchy lol awesome experience though can be a laugh at times but I'd still get Nervous saying more than a few words? I want to ask this girl out who I'm pretty damn sure now likes me. I've left the school just last term in July she goes to but she was in a completely different year to begin with so I saw her just as much in hallways etc. anyway?? So basically if I'm gonna ask her out in person it's gonna be pretty impossible without at least asking online to meet up to talk to her and ask her at least? But wouldn't this make her really nervous herself and bottle out as well as me? I hate being nervous and I don't know how to control it. Thanks
    5 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • Where do I go to claim a tax refund and will I get it back straight away? I'm 17 in in full time education working in retail..?

    Ok so I've been taxed a lot of money. Last month it was over £70 and this month it was well over £200 because I should be paid £856.60 per month and it only showed as £641.41 available at the start of the month. I have no idea who to call and what to say but I have my tax code reference numbers etc etc on my first pay slip. Someone help out?... show more
    Ok so I've been taxed a lot of money. Last month it was over £70 and this month it was well over £200 because I should be paid £856.60 per month and it only showed as £641.41 available at the start of the month. I have no idea who to call and what to say but I have my tax code reference numbers etc etc on my first pay slip. Someone help out? I've been procrastinating it even though I need that money back and my main question is will I get it straight away? Why do I have to wait like another year because it's them who fucked up and if we were to mess up like that we could face possible prosecution? Cheers.
    4 answers · United Kingdom · 2 years ago
  • Laws on light? I have a flashing beam of light from the opposite street blaring right into my room and onto my wall at night???? HELP 10 PTS?

    Recently for about a month or so not too sure, some ignorant dumbass has installed some light security sensor or something that flashes directly onto my bedroom wall and beams through the curtains at night and flashes every half hour or so. I know who it is because I can see the translucent lamp in the distance and it's directly pointing in my... show more
    Recently for about a month or so not too sure, some ignorant dumbass has installed some light security sensor or something that flashes directly onto my bedroom wall and beams through the curtains at night and flashes every half hour or so. I know who it is because I can see the translucent lamp in the distance and it's directly pointing in my window. There's a huge tree in between our gardens blocking it from my brothers window up above and down below so he's fine. So whoever this prick is either his dumb or ignorant to install it directly in front of my window from a fair distance away. The brightness is also completely unnecessary. After Christmas I plan to go round there with a piece of my mind but is there a better / quicker way of going about this even if it is reporting it to the council?? (UK) Thanks
    9 answers · Law & Ethics · 2 years ago
  • Computer boots but displays no signal on monitor CONSTANTLY 10 POINTS PLEASE HELP!!?

    Ok so I've looked around online and I'm having issues with my computer. It's situated under my desk and occasionally whenever I touch the power cable by accident with my foot just moving it around subconsciously (my foot only) the monitor displays no signal. So I'm like ok I'll turn it off and turn it back on, do a reset etc and... show more
    Ok so I've looked around online and I'm having issues with my computer. It's situated under my desk and occasionally whenever I touch the power cable by accident with my foot just moving it around subconsciously (my foot only) the monitor displays no signal. So I'm like ok I'll turn it off and turn it back on, do a reset etc and it usually re boots fine after a bit of fiddling around with the leads and restarting and re setting etc. the issue I am currently having is this time when it happened for some stupid reason I decided to remove the power cord. I can't remember if I removed it while it was on or off but I do know that the switch to turn the ac on was on regardless. Therefore my computer not booting at all after a series of re sets and cable checking. So I took off my case and did everything I could; removing the ram and putting it back in, checking for dirt dust etc cleaning it being very careful. IT STILL WONT BOOT (show anything on the monitor) The computer boots and makes noises lights up etc but it won't display anything.
    2 answers · Desktops · 2 years ago
  • When a girl looks at you then looks at you down, and back up at you, looks up at you with a tiny smile and cosntantly looks away when I see?

    Ok so there s this girl at rehearsals who I ve never met before as a load of people are meeting up for the real thing soon. We were a waiting as the first time I noticed her she was just chatting with the other people there younger ones and adults and some of us had to stand. Anyway so occasionally I would look elsewhere and I could feel her looking... show more
    Ok so there s this girl at rehearsals who I ve never met before as a load of people are meeting up for the real thing soon. We were a waiting as the first time I noticed her she was just chatting with the other people there younger ones and adults and some of us had to stand. Anyway so occasionally I would look elsewhere and I could feel her looking at me in this weird way. She would look at me with like this really sexy expression on her face and then look away right after I look and she knows I look. She did this 3 or 4 times when we were rehearsing and she started to say my name when I was about to leave to go somewhere at the end talking to someone related to this thing we re all doing. The main thing is though, she held a stare on me when I first looked at her again; I know I can t help it sometimes and she didn t smile but nor did she frown or look irritated or anything and I looked away uncomfortably I always do this when girls hold a stare does this mean anything? She turns 15 soon and I just turned 17 could this be a thing to try? Any advice? Thank you!!
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • A list of signs a girl likes you 17-20 yrs old at retail work? (my job) 10 points for long list!!!?

    Ok so online they always have these specific answers to whether a girl likes you in an office type situation and they're very specific signs towards them but I can't see anywhere about working in a shop or whatever because I could completely be getting the wrong end of the stick and I just want to know if there are signs a girl likes you... show more
    Ok so online they always have these specific answers to whether a girl likes you in an office type situation and they're very specific signs towards them but I can't see anywhere about working in a shop or whatever because I could completely be getting the wrong end of the stick and I just want to know if there are signs a girl likes you while on your feet in retail or on the tills as I do good 7-9 hour shifts 4 times a week so I have plenty of time to pick them up without looking desperate which I'm not I just need to make sure I've not got completely the wrong idea. Thanks!! :D
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • Does this girl like me?

    She brushes my upper arm/shoulder area in the corridors and once where it was literally me and her walking in opposite directions and she swiped my shoulder with her bag. One time I was letting her walk past as I had to walk across over her path after collecting something and as she got closer and I looked up in her eyes to let her go she looked... show more
    She brushes my upper arm/shoulder area in the corridors and once where it was literally me and her walking in opposite directions and she swiped my shoulder with her bag. One time I was letting her walk past as I had to walk across over her path after collecting something and as she got closer and I looked up in her eyes to let her go she looked down at the ground and started playing with her hair like twirling it almost and moving her eyes across the floor before walking after knowing I was letting her walk on. She never looks at me when I'm looking at her and I never know for sure when she's been looking, and one time I was walking to class with my mates and out of the corner of my eye and I was sure she looked at me for like 2 secs and then pushed her hair up and looked up diagonally kind of exposing her neck. I really like her she's about a year younger than me and I want to ask her out ??
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • How interested is this girl really ???

    The first sign (put me in a good mood the rest of the day lol) she was walking past me from a distance to the side and in opposite directions, she had her head tilted upward/back very very slightly and stared at me right in the eyes, it kinda freaked me out and I turned around instinctively to make sure it was no one else and she was still looking... show more
    The first sign (put me in a good mood the rest of the day lol) she was walking past me from a distance to the side and in opposite directions, she had her head tilted upward/back very very slightly and stared at me right in the eyes, it kinda freaked me out and I turned around instinctively to make sure it was no one else and she was still looking lol. The second time she saw me again walking past she pushed her hair over her shoulder once or twice and looked up diagonally while she did it I ignored her after as I was scared again and saw this in the corner of my eye as I guess again she thought I wasn't looking. The other things she does is brush past me in the corridor. One time I wasn't sure if she just noticed me but she walked toward me with her arms on her friend alot and brushes my shoulder after looking very quickly or out of her eye/just noticing me. She NEVER looks me in the eye as one time I did she looked completely down at the floor when I was letting her go and then she played with her hair. I think she's really nervous around me? Anyway this is where I'm not sure and why I hate girls in general. (I know sorry if you're a girl). I tried to initiate a fake conversation through messenger as I could tell she would probably not like me talking to her up close lol I basically sent her an accidental on purpose text that read "You off college today? Oops sorry wrong person" I'm not actually at her school anymore, but she didn't reply??? I know she likes me though! THX
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • What does it mean when a girl looks down and twirls her hair when she sees you?

    Ok so I was letting this girl past and as I was crossing over, she was all laughing with her mate as I was walking to get something and as I was coming back she suddenly stopped laughing and smiling and looked down and started to play with her hair as she was trying to let me go first? she looked up diagonally and her eyes kinda moved across the... show more
    Ok so I was letting this girl past and as I was crossing over, she was all laughing with her mate as I was walking to get something and as I was coming back she suddenly stopped laughing and smiling and looked down and started to play with her hair as she was trying to let me go first? she looked up diagonally and her eyes kinda moved across the floor? Her expression completely changed when she saw me and I have no idea why :S I wasn't going but I was with body language insisting and she moved quickly
    7 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago