• Troubled by something boyfriend told me?

    My boyfriend told me this week that he can't handle being around physically or mentally disabled people, old people, disfigured or short people. I was very disturbed by this. I love "all" people. I felt he was being very uncompassionate and now I'm questioning our relationship. Am I being fair to him to feel this way?
    My boyfriend told me this week that he can't handle being around physically or mentally disabled people, old people, disfigured or short people. I was very disturbed by this. I love "all" people. I felt he was being very uncompassionate and now I'm questioning our relationship. Am I being fair to him to feel this way?
    5 answers · Friends · 8 years ago
  • My boyfriend and I just got back together and when my daughter in law came over tonight she said he gave her ?

    Surprised look. He said he noticed she had a pooch and I was bothered that it was a physical thing he noticed instead of just maybe being uncomfortable with the situation of the uncomfortableness of our being back together. Am I just being insecure? It bothers me that she noticed something strange about his reaction to her
    Surprised look. He said he noticed she had a pooch and I was bothered that it was a physical thing he noticed instead of just maybe being uncomfortable with the situation of the uncomfortableness of our being back together. Am I just being insecure? It bothers me that she noticed something strange about his reaction to her
    4 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 8 years ago
  • Does my boyfriend lack morals?

    I've been dating someone for about 1 year and a half. He tells me stories of his past that are a bit scary to me. The other night when he was at my home I complimented him on a shirt he was wearing and he immediately acted defensive. It was just a compliment. Nothing more. Then he went on to say that his"Sancha" bought it for him.... show more
    I've been dating someone for about 1 year and a half. He tells me stories of his past that are a bit scary to me. The other night when he was at my home I complimented him on a shirt he was wearing and he immediately acted defensive. It was just a compliment. Nothing more. Then he went on to say that his"Sancha" bought it for him. I didn't know what that was. But he explained that its a woman who is married and has someone on the side. I said, wow, you've been with someone like that? He said, his past live-in girlfriend was married, just separated from her husband, not divorced. He just seemed so flippit about it all and I couldn't believe all of this came out of a compliment I gave him on a shirt???? Any advice? Am I crazy, or is this man someone or lacks moral character.
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 9 years ago
  • My boyfriend looks at younger women?

    I have been dating a man for a year and a half. I'm 46 and he's 50. When at social functions or out in public, I notice him looking at younger women (in their 20's). It wouldn't bother me so much, but the fact that they are so much younger, and that he doesn't just look once, but continually, has me concerned. It makes me... show more
    I have been dating a man for a year and a half. I'm 46 and he's 50. When at social functions or out in public, I notice him looking at younger women (in their 20's). It wouldn't bother me so much, but the fact that they are so much younger, and that he doesn't just look once, but continually, has me concerned. It makes me feel really uneasy. Should I be concerned about this?
    5 answers · Singles & Dating · 9 years ago
  • Does my ex still care for me?

    I ended a relationship with a man 6 months ago. There has been no contact between us and it did not end well. He sent a horrible text message which ultimately ended the relationship. I really cared for this person, but he was an alcoholic and I knew there was no future in it. I received a Christmas card from him and it stirred up feelings I... show more
    I ended a relationship with a man 6 months ago. There has been no contact between us and it did not end well. He sent a horrible text message which ultimately ended the relationship. I really cared for this person, but he was an alcoholic and I knew there was no future in it. I received a Christmas card from him and it stirred up feelings I thought were gone. I just really wish he hadn't sent it, and don't understand why he would knowing that it's over between us. Should I just assume that it was a nice gesture, or is he still hanging on? Makes me wonder.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 10 years ago
  • My boyfriend won't go away?

    I dated this guy for a year and really cared about him but he had a problem with alcohol and would drunk text if he was upset. He sent a horrible text message, which ended the relationship. Now, four months later, he stops and talks to my brother and asks him how I am doing. How could he have the guts to do that knowing the text he sent? Why... show more
    I dated this guy for a year and really cared about him but he had a problem with alcohol and would drunk text if he was upset. He sent a horrible text message, which ended the relationship. Now, four months later, he stops and talks to my brother and asks him how I am doing. How could he have the guts to do that knowing the text he sent? Why would he do this? What do I do? Would appreciate any advice I can get
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 1 decade ago
  • Fence Line?

    My neighbor and I share a fence. It's on both of our properties. It needs to be replaced. I've asked them if they would be willing to help replace it. They keep ignoring me. What should I do? Just replace it or are they obligated to help pay for it?
    My neighbor and I share a fence. It's on both of our properties. It needs to be replaced. I've asked them if they would be willing to help replace it. They keep ignoring me. What should I do? Just replace it or are they obligated to help pay for it?
    2 answers · Law & Ethics · 1 decade ago
  • Boyrfriend asked my daughter to help him find birthday present for me.?

    My boyfriend of 9 months asked my daughter to help him find a birthday present for me. They went to 6 different stores to find this gift. I guess I'm a little nervous wondering if it's an engagement ring. We've been talking about marriage. I know it's supposed to be a surprise, but I want to be prepared. Any ideas?
    My boyfriend of 9 months asked my daughter to help him find a birthday present for me. They went to 6 different stores to find this gift. I guess I'm a little nervous wondering if it's an engagement ring. We've been talking about marriage. I know it's supposed to be a surprise, but I want to be prepared. Any ideas?
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 decade ago
  • Is my relationship with my boss too close?

    I've worked for my boss for 13 years. We have a great working relationship and friendship, and his wife and I get along really well. But, recently he told me that she's been feeling insecure. It seems to be affecting him and how he is treating me at work. A couple of other things have transpired and I'm suspecting that I may be the... show more
    I've worked for my boss for 13 years. We have a great working relationship and friendship, and his wife and I get along really well. But, recently he told me that she's been feeling insecure. It seems to be affecting him and how he is treating me at work. A couple of other things have transpired and I'm suspecting that I may be the problem, but I'm not sure. I'm worried about losing my job. Any advice?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 decade ago
  • My boyfriend spent several days and a week at Christmas with a woman 20 years younger than him....?

    The second date we went on, I saw some pics (supposedly he didn't know were included in some other pics he was showing me) of a younger woman he had met out of town. He said they were just "hanging out". I don't know if I believe it and it kind of bothers me that she's so much younger than him. He also spent Christmas with... show more
    The second date we went on, I saw some pics (supposedly he didn't know were included in some other pics he was showing me) of a younger woman he had met out of town. He said they were just "hanging out". I don't know if I believe it and it kind of bothers me that she's so much younger than him. He also spent Christmas with her somewhere else. Am I just too naive. I'm his age? We've been dating for several weeks. Could this be a problem down the road? Would appreciate any advice anyone has to offer.
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 decade ago
  • Is the man I'm dating still in love with his ex?

    I've been dating this man for 5 weeks. I do understand that we haven't been dating that long, but he's never taken me out to dinner. (He has mentioned that he doesn't really have alot of money). It's not that I expect to be "wined and dined", but dinner once in a while would be nice. We go for bike rides, he has... show more
    I've been dating this man for 5 weeks. I do understand that we haven't been dating that long, but he's never taken me out to dinner. (He has mentioned that he doesn't really have alot of money). It's not that I expect to be "wined and dined", but dinner once in a while would be nice. We go for bike rides, he has dinner at my house, and we've had lunch a couple of times at restaurants. He did spend thanksgiving with his ex and their children at a home they still own together (even though he did stop by my house for a brief visit) He's been divorced for about 6 years. In his emails he tells me he misses me and can't wait to see me, but when we do see each other, he always hugs me and has not kissed me at all, not even on the cheek. I'm very confused. I'm wondering if it's possible that this man is still in love with his ex-wife or could there be some other reason for the mixed signals. Any advice would be helpful.
    5 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 decade ago