Ok, Yahoo crew. I need serious, honest help. It's a long story, so I'll try to make it brief. I was 17, he was 16, and we were freaking crazy about eachother. It was insane. Definitely my "first love". So, one day after our 8 month, I find out he kissed some chick at a party and I immediately broke up with him bc that's the one...
Ok, Yahoo crew. I need serious, honest help. It's a long story, so I'll try to make it brief. I was 17, he was 16, and we were freaking crazy about eachother. It was insane. Definitely my "first love". So, one day after our 8 month, I find out he kissed some chick at a party and I immediately broke up with him bc that's the one thing I said I would never stand for. First of all, I'd had a lot of other crap going on in my life at that point including panic issues and depression.. (home life issues). He was a narcissistic ******. Then again, he was 17 when that went down. So. -.-
ANYWAY, I was crushed & broken beyond my wildest imaginitive abilities. I was a stupid teenager. I had just turned 18 and somehow thought we'd "last". LOL! We had so many quirky things in common that I don't think I'll ever find again. But that's life. Since the breakup, he's become a totally different person... He cut his hair, got "hipster glasses" (good God...rofl.....), and started hanging out with younger people. Talking to him is weird because it somehow seems like his IQ has dropped. I don't even know this kid anymore....?
So, here I am about to graduate in a week. A few nights ago I came home to EIGHT Facebook messages from him. EIGHT FREAKING MESSAGES. He proceeds to tell me how much he'll miss me and a list of 10 things he adores about me....after not speaking for 6 months..... My immediate gut response was "What does he want from me?". Because, you see, after going through 6 months of idiotic teen angst and emotional basket-weaving (lol!), I simply no longer give a flying rat's @ss. I can finally see how terribly he treated me, how he treats his friends & fam, and how unmotivated he is. But here he is pouring his heart out and I don't know what parts are bullsh!t and what's true!
Now for the heart of the issue: As much as I find him to be of poor character & judgment, I will always find him attractive somehow and enjoy his personality. I wish we could be friends, but, I just don't know if it's a good idea... I find myself entertaining throughts of things working out, and I don't think that's healthy. I don't want to cut him out, but now he wants to "Facebook message" me throughout college. (He's a Junior in high school. Soon to be Senior.) So... Any advice out there? Do you befriend the ex-boy"fiend"??