• Is it time to give up?

    im 22 and have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and a month... I feel that our relationship is more like a friendship! Our sex lives have dwindled, there is no passion and when I've mentioned what he could do to help spice things up or what we could both do he agrees but then nothing actually happens... we live together just us two and feel... show more
    im 22 and have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and a month... I feel that our relationship is more like a friendship! Our sex lives have dwindled, there is no passion and when I've mentioned what he could do to help spice things up or what we could both do he agrees but then nothing actually happens... we live together just us two and feel really unappreciated/ taken for granted, i do all the cooking and cleaning even when I have loads of uni work to do. I have to ask him to do chores, he wont do them off his own back and it takes him days to clean the house when I ask him to... I also feel that its an effort for him 2 b romantic, he always says he loves me but that looses all meaning when he never shows it... this valentines day i was expecting to get nothing because we said we weren't doing presents but he did get me a necklace and earrings which is really sweet of him but you know its bad when i was wishing he hadn't got me anything just so i had something to have ago at him for... Last of all when we go to bed we just role on to our sides, no hugs or kisses good night... I am terrified of ending up like my mum and dad, they sleep in separate bedrooms and are basically only together because i have a little brother and sister... Any suggestions on what I should do? I must note that this isn't the first time I've felt like this its just a very difficult situation because we live together... he is also my first boyfriend so I am nervous about being on my own and having to go into the 'dating world'...
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • How do i relight the passion within my relationship?

    Im 21 and been with my boyfriend for 4 years and I feel like the passion between us has dwindled... any ideas on how to gain it back?
    Im 21 and been with my boyfriend for 4 years and I feel like the passion between us has dwindled... any ideas on how to gain it back?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • Do books provide an unreal expectations for our sex lifes?

    I'm reading the trilogy 50 shades of grey and I was wondering if anyone else's sex lives are like this? exciting, fun, adventurous? I don't know what I'm doing wrong but mine isn't anything like that, mine is so called "vanilla". It doesn't help that my boyfriend isn't adventurous but I don't know what to do... show more
    I'm reading the trilogy 50 shades of grey and I was wondering if anyone else's sex lives are like this? exciting, fun, adventurous? I don't know what I'm doing wrong but mine isn't anything like that, mine is so called "vanilla". It doesn't help that my boyfriend isn't adventurous but I don't know what to do anymore! I'm 21 and I feel like giving up. I put effort into buying sexy outfits and thinking of different things to do such as sex games etc and he thinks of nothing and doesn't seemed bothered about role play etc... help?
    1 answer · Books & Authors · 3 years ago
  • How do you afford to do a masters?

    Hey i've just received a 2:1 in criminology and sociology and I'm thinking about doing a masters in criminology and criminal justice or MRes (social research). I am too late to apply for any funding from my university and I've looked into graduate loans from banks but the repayments are quite high and I have to start repaying straight... show more
    Hey i've just received a 2:1 in criminology and sociology and I'm thinking about doing a masters in criminology and criminal justice or MRes (social research). I am too late to apply for any funding from my university and I've looked into graduate loans from banks but the repayments are quite high and I have to start repaying straight away. I've also looked into other form of grants from charities but I don't seem to be eligible. I'm just wondering how people have managed to afford it? I am not very well of and I don't think a part-time job will cover my tuition fees and rent and bills etc... Can anyone help?
    2 answers · Higher Education (University +) · 3 years ago
  • Are we still liable to pay damages on a rented house?

    We lived in a house from july 2010-2011 and only now (8months later) the landlord has come back to us telling us that we owe £60 each for damages. We didn't pay a deposit on the house. I was wondering if we were still liable to pay these damages even though it has been so long since we have lived there? They have photos of the damages but the... show more
    We lived in a house from july 2010-2011 and only now (8months later) the landlord has come back to us telling us that we owe £60 each for damages. We didn't pay a deposit on the house. I was wondering if we were still liable to pay these damages even though it has been so long since we have lived there? They have photos of the damages but the majority of them are just general wear and tear which the landlord is ment to cover.
    5 answers · Renting & Real Estate · 3 years ago
  • How can we spice up our sex lifes?

    I am in a 3 n half year relationship with my boyfriend and were both 21 and i have to say that our sex live isn't the best. I think a lot of it has to do with me as i'm not very comfortable with myself, for example i'm not keen on having sex with the lights on and even more if he goes down on me wen the lights r on. I'm also in... show more
    I am in a 3 n half year relationship with my boyfriend and were both 21 and i have to say that our sex live isn't the best. I think a lot of it has to do with me as i'm not very comfortable with myself, for example i'm not keen on having sex with the lights on and even more if he goes down on me wen the lights r on. I'm also in the last year of my degree so i'm very stressed, so i don't tend to want sex that much anyway. We also never have time to ourselves, our flat m8s r always in and wen we go home our family is always in. I'm not comfortable with having sex knowing that people can here us. What can we/I do to make this better?
    5 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 years ago
  • My eyes are deteriorating quite quickly, should i be worried?

    Two years ago i was told that i was told that i needed glasses for driving and lecturers because I was short sighted (cant see far distances). 2 years later my eyes had deteriorated again and in July I was told that I was short sighted in one eye and long sighted in the other. Now its November so in 4 months my eye seem to have deteriorated even... show more
    Two years ago i was told that i was told that i needed glasses for driving and lecturers because I was short sighted (cant see far distances). 2 years later my eyes had deteriorated again and in July I was told that I was short sighted in one eye and long sighted in the other. Now its November so in 4 months my eye seem to have deteriorated even more. I can't see things really close up and I can see things far away, so there's a middle distance that I can actually see things. Its making it incredibly difficult to walk around outside as most things are fuzzy and I cant see peoples faces. Is this normal for my eyes to deteriorate this quickly or is there something wrong. My boyfriend reckons I could have some sort of disease... a bit dramatic?
    7 answers · Optical · 4 years ago
  • Is Tunisa a nice place to go on holiday?

    Im planning on visiting Tunisa in September and was wonderinfg whether it was a nice place to go? Is it somewhere where you can relax but there is also stuff to do? What is there to see? Is it safe? What is the currency? If you can think of anything else id need to know please inform me.
    Im planning on visiting Tunisa in September and was wonderinfg whether it was a nice place to go? Is it somewhere where you can relax but there is also stuff to do? What is there to see? Is it safe? What is the currency? If you can think of anything else id need to know please inform me.
    2 answers · Tunisia · 4 years ago
  • Eww i have yellow toe nails, what do i do?

    My big toe nails have been yellow for a while now... I thought it was just because I always wear nail varnish, but i havnt worn it 4 2 weeks now and they're still yellow. is it an infection?
    My big toe nails have been yellow for a while now... I thought it was just because I always wear nail varnish, but i havnt worn it 4 2 weeks now and they're still yellow. is it an infection?
    5 answers · Skin Conditions · 4 years ago
  • I need help i have serious boyfriend troubles!?

    Ok so ive been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and my feelings have changed for him. I feel like were just friends now rather than boyfriend and girlfriend. I think another problem is that i have never been properly single and im at university so i feel like im missing out. Another HUGE problem is that we live together with 4 other people.... show more
    Ok so ive been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and my feelings have changed for him. I feel like were just friends now rather than boyfriend and girlfriend. I think another problem is that i have never been properly single and im at university so i feel like im missing out. Another HUGE problem is that we live together with 4 other people. Over the summer it will just be me and him in the house because weve both got a job. I dont know what I want to do because some days i do feel like we should be together. But i am considering splitting up with him, however i dont know whether i should do it before the summer holidays because if i did we'd probably fall back into the same pattern of being in a relationship and get back together, because we'll only have each other for company. I have spoken to him 2/3 times about the fact that i feel like im missing out on being single and having fun but it always works out in us staying together. Can anyone help? Has anyone been in a similar situation? If so what did you do?
    6 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 years ago
  • Help i want to get a fake tan and i don't know what to do?!?

    Ok so im planning on getting a spray on tan soon (from a tanning shop, not one i do myself) and i need some help. 1. what do i need to do before i have the tan? 2. how long does the tan last for? I'm planning on getting the tan on 18th/19th may will it still be looking good by 28th? 3. what do i do after ive had the tan? Any more... show more
    Ok so im planning on getting a spray on tan soon (from a tanning shop, not one i do myself) and i need some help. 1. what do i need to do before i have the tan? 2. how long does the tan last for? I'm planning on getting the tan on 18th/19th may will it still be looking good by 28th? 3. what do i do after ive had the tan? Any more information you can think of will be very helpful :)
    2 answers · Other - Skin & Body · 4 years ago
  • Need help on the risk debate!?

    Ok so does anyone know what the risk debate is surrounding dangerous offenders?
    Ok so does anyone know what the risk debate is surrounding dangerous offenders?
    1 answer · Homework Help · 4 years ago
  • Style advise on a maxi dress please?

    right I'm going to a student ball thats not extremely formal and then clubbing after so i was thinking of wearing a maxi dress, however I'm not sure what shoes to wear (stilettos/wedges etc). Any advice? I obviously don't want to wear flat sandals, not a good idea in a club lol
    right I'm going to a student ball thats not extremely formal and then clubbing after so i was thinking of wearing a maxi dress, however I'm not sure what shoes to wear (stilettos/wedges etc). Any advice? I obviously don't want to wear flat sandals, not a good idea in a club lol
    1 answer · Fashion & Accessories · 4 years ago
  • Do young people show us how society is evolving?

    Do you agree with this? How do young people show how society is progressing?
    Do you agree with this? How do young people show how society is progressing?
    1 answer · Sociology · 4 years ago
  • What is the criminal justice act 2003?

    Could anyone please explain this act to me simply? does it relate to prisons and punishment at all?
    Could anyone please explain this act to me simply? does it relate to prisons and punishment at all?
    2 answers · Law & Ethics · 4 years ago
  • I've lost my libido what should i do?

    I'm 20 and I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years, but at the moment i'm just not interested in sex. Is there anything i can do to bring it back?
    I'm 20 and I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years, but at the moment i'm just not interested in sex. Is there anything i can do to bring it back?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 years ago
  • What did feminists think of slavery?

    I need some help... I need to know what feminists thought about the black slavery in America. I can't find anything.
    I need some help... I need to know what feminists thought about the black slavery in America. I can't find anything.
    5 answers · History · 4 years ago
  • What are the key arguments in bell hooks book 'Ain't I a woman?' ?

    Im doing an essay on that book and i've found a few key arguments but i was wondering what other people thought. Basically just incase i missed an important argument out. Please help :)
    Im doing an essay on that book and i've found a few key arguments but i was wondering what other people thought. Basically just incase i missed an important argument out. Please help :)
    1 answer · Books & Authors · 4 years ago
  • How can i improve on top?

    so me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 3 years but i still feel like i'm crap in bed, especially when it involves me being on top, i don't seem to be able to get the rhythm. It makes me feel uneasy and i'm less likely to do it as i feel that i don't satisfy him or myself... Does anyone have any tips to help me improve?
    so me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 3 years but i still feel like i'm crap in bed, especially when it involves me being on top, i don't seem to be able to get the rhythm. It makes me feel uneasy and i'm less likely to do it as i feel that i don't satisfy him or myself... Does anyone have any tips to help me improve?
    2 answers · Other - Family & Relationships · 4 years ago
  • What do old people like to do?

    Im currently starting as a volunteer for independent age and i need some ideas for events for old people. My ideas so far are: • Bingo • Dinner • Cinema- old/ film night • Domino tournament • Theatre • Classical music • Beach can u think of anything else?
    Im currently starting as a volunteer for independent age and i need some ideas for events for old people. My ideas so far are: • Bingo • Dinner • Cinema- old/ film night • Domino tournament • Theatre • Classical music • Beach can u think of anything else?
    10 answers · Other - Cultures & Groups · 4 years ago