What if your husband was no longer reliable in achieving an erection, not due to your desirability, but medically related. He is loving in every other way, with hugs and words and deeds and physical closeness. How does this affect your thinking? Can you accept it? Is sexual penetration important to your happiness, or can you live without it comfortably as long as it's expressed in ample amounts in other ways. I suspect this would be devestating to some women. I wonder though if there are others that can be unbothered by it, or place it at a level of lesser importance in an otherwise happy marriage. Thank you in advance.