A gay female friend of mine has asked me if I would be a donor for her and her partner so they can have a child. She said there is nobody she would rather have as father to her baby & couldnt with someone anonymous.
I have no kids yet and would like to one day, but with someone I love and as part of a family.
She said I would have no financial responsibility & I could see him/her whenever I want, and even wants them to have my surname because she doesnt like her own.
Im flattered that she would ask me to do this, but its a life changing thing. She hasnt slept with a guy for 18 years, but would with me to have her baby.
I dont think I should do it, but Im 34 now. I know thats not old, but time is still ticking & what if I dont meet that right person for me and dont ever have kids. Will I regret saying no in the future?