• New marriage and totally miserable does anyone have suggestions?

    This may be long as I will try to be brief.I am pretty much at my last resort with my marriage. This is my second marriage (hasnt even been a year yet) and we have a 5 month old baby and I have 3 children from a prior marriage. The issue is this: when we first met and up until the day we got married my husband openly seemed to love me, he was... show more
    This may be long as I will try to be brief.I am pretty much at my last resort with my marriage. This is my second marriage (hasnt even been a year yet) and we have a 5 month old baby and I have 3 children from a prior marriage. The issue is this: when we first met and up until the day we got married my husband openly seemed to love me, he was attentive, displayed love, affectionate, considerate, sexual, communicated and always put me first. WELL, since the day we were wed the sex completly stopped, we use to have sex up to 12 times a day and at least 4 days a week. However, since we were married it has been maybe once a month. All of the qualities that were there beforehand are absent and resentment and arguing becuase of the his drastic changes since we got married. He works a lot and puts work before the family, we rarely talk anymore,he does not care about the status of our relationship, he is the one who stopped making love and showing love andit hurts. i want it to work.
    8 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 1 decade ago