I dont mean emotionally or anything,
I mean physically, if you're still a little "tight" downthere after foreplay - though I think that was the thing anyway the first night.. my boyfriend does foreplay, just it happened so fast I'm sure I was turned on, just he didnt mess around long enough for me to be AS open as I otherwise mighta been-
but ligit, So im not "untouched" but we pretty much messed around once
-there were two other nights, but the first night was after the very first night^ and the second we were outside and it was cold so that was just nothing, too quick.
im really JUST asking, if there is some chance that taking in ALL of him when it sometimes hurts could cause long term "damage" if we arent gradual about it.
Because past times he was nice, and he coullld fit it all the way somehow one the first night (hes 8 inches, so I was surprised he could) but it seems he can comfortably (for me) fit only halfway in pretty much, so
If I just ignore the pain (cuz it hurt yet feels good somehow sometimes anywayss)
if he "stretches me out" too fast by going in allll the way alot in basically the second time having sex, will I be like... super stretched out and loose forever you think?
Or could some other problem arise down the line or something?
(By the way, I am not some little 12 year old or anything for the record x)