Hi everyone, sorry if this is a bit long but will try and outline as much as i can about our situation by being as brief as i can!!
My Hubby and i have been married for 6yrs, 2 children together couldnt ask for anything else. 2yrs ago we moved to an area closer to school and somewhere of a quieter location. We were fully aware that my husband's ex girlfriend lived a few doors up the road from us with her parents. We discussed whether it would be wise moving down the road from her as we had a lot of bother with her (approx 9yrs ago now) when we first got together. We thought that we should get on with the future as we had now got married and had children together (US, not her) and that she would accept it and move on.
At first we thought ok, she and her family will go past and look in our house because we have just moved in and decorating etc...So although it annoyed us we ignored it. She has different 'men friend's' that she went out with..Every single man she has went out with she has took great pleasure in walking passed and looking in our window...Fair enough.... get on with it! Then she got her friends to come and turn their cars around in the bottom of our cul-de-sac where we live and gets them, male and female, to GAWP in our house making no bones about looking in either, when shes with these people, but when shes alone, she dare'nt look in? Now we have tried many approaches as we have had it many occasions now, we have waved, stood and starred back, and of course when i was in a bad mood gave her the middle finger!...None of these seems to bother her...She has since got a new car school and her and this man come down, turn his car around and looking in our house everyday. Now i could go passed her mum and dads house and do the same, but this isnt fair on them as they havent done anything wrong, and to be honest im not that bloody childish, but its starting to really grate on us how she gets all these different people to look in our house. I have even drawn my blinds and then thought, no, why should i do this?? Now i know you might think why dont we talk to her, we tried this approach many yrs ago when she started stalking me ( i got her prosecuted for giving me slient phone calls and emails at work/home) so we were advised not to aprroach her, and to be honest shes so twisted i duno what she would tell people probably that something had happened, that hadnt. She even tried to attack my husband when he said to for her to leave us alone she took a swing at him....so you see, she is defo not approach-able!
I dont know what to do about this anymore? I feel like i would be going OTT asking the police to say something, but im getting paranoid about it....please can someone tell me what they would do in my situation, other then move!!!!! Thanks sorry so long as well btw!