I left my husband two weeks ago after 4 years of mental, emotional, verbal and financial abuse. I told him I was done and not to call me, email me or text me. I thought if he ever really loved me he would at least try to contact me, despite what I said. Instead he withdrew most of his money out (thinking I would try to steal it), changed the locks, returned the wills to the lawyer, contacted a lawyer, and will not send me my paycheck. Does this prove what I thought for the last year that he really didn't love me and didn't trust me? I think so - just looking for opinions, both male and female. If you're going to give me a mean or flip answer, don't bother replying.