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  • Is not having their cellphone a good reason to not ask a girl on a date?

    There is this guy that i am into and am 90% sure he is equally into me. I really want to hang out or go on a date with him and was getting impatient. Monday of last week we hung out with two friends after work for about 2 hours before leaving and we madee plans to play basketball that wednesday. Come wednesday i find out from his friend that he said he had to leave early and that he was sorry, but he never texted or called and never responded when i texted him... i was so confused b/c i was so sure he was into me. The next day he did apologize as soon as he saw me and all was cool except now i had doubts.

    On friday i brought up how we should hang out or go do something together outside of work where we can only talk for a few minutes and are always interrupted. He seemed all for it, but said he had to wait till he got his phone back which his mom took that monday (that explained alot)

    is that a good reason for why he hasnt asked me on a date yet or was it just an excuse

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Why does he not apologize anymore?

    It isn't too bothersome to me, but i was just wondering why this guy that is into me and myself into him use to apologize if he fell asleep texting me or would text me in the morning, but all of a sudden he went on this trip for a week he stopped that whole thing...

    I am literally just wondering why he would do that and im sure that he is into me just as much if not more than i am into him.

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Do guys talk to the other guys about the girl they like?

    This guy and i both seem pretty into each other and its pretty obvious he likes me and all. We work together and i began to notice things like his friend pointing out that i was nearby when they were a distance ahead of me and the guy i like instantly turning to talk to me or things like his friend suddenly being nice to me but also always so quick to give space when me and my guy begin talking. I was wondering if he and guys as a whole talk to their friends about the girl the like and what they might say about them b/c as a girl we talk ALOT about the guy we like... and well im just wondering

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Do guys talk to the other guys about the girl they like?

    This guy and i both seem pretty into each other and its pretty obvious he likes me and all. We work together and i began to notice things like his friend pointing out that i was nearby when they were a distance ahead of me and the guy i like instantly turning to talk to me or things like his friend suddenly being nice to me but also always so quick to give space when me and my guy begin talking. I was wondering if he and guys as a whole talk to their friends about the girl the like and what they might say about them b/c as a girl we talk ALOT about the guy we like... and well im just wondering

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Should i follow the "dont text the guy" rule?

    Theres this guy who from day one that we began talking there was an obvious connection. We work together and last week I didnt work, during which we texted literally pretty much everyday and all day (even though he was working and is not supposed to have his cellphone out at all). It was to the point that we would text till one of us fell asleep and the following morning he would say sorry about that and a good morning text. The more we talked the more I became interested and it was obviously mutual...

    On Sunday he left for a trip with his youth group (which that day we texted all day till I ended since i wanted to sleep and had to go back to work tomorrow) he has this week off and I work this week :/. So he is on this trip, and yet i cant believe i actually miss talking to him but more seeing him hugging him. I was worried before about whether or not i should text him first/while he was on his trip but with great timing i didnt have to worry about it because he texted me before i got a chance. We sent a couple text but i responded to one of his texts and never got back to me. Im sure he just is busy and stuff or something else but...

    Would it be bad to text him again like the 2 times in a row thing even though there has been time between?

    Does it mean anything bad if he never responded?

    Lastly would it make me appear needy at all?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Should i follow the "dont text the guy" rule?

    Theres this guy who from day one that we began talking there was an obvious connection. We work together and last week I didnt work, during which we texted literally pretty much everyday and all day (even though he was working and is not supposed to have his cellphone out at all). It was to the point that we would text till one of us fell asleep and the following morning he would say sorry about that and a good morning text. The more we talked the more I became interested and it was obviously mutual...

    On Sunday he left for a trip with his youth group (which that day we texted all day till I ended since i wanted to sleep and had to go back to work tomorrow) he has this week off and I work this week :/. So he is on this trip, and yet i cant believe i actually miss talking to him but more seeing him hugging him. It is so tempting to text him tomorrow, but I also have a feeling i should follow the "let him text you" rule and be patient.

    Would it be bad to text him while he is on his trip?

    Does it mean anything bad if he doesnt text me at all while on this trip?

    Lastly would it make me appear needy at all?

    8 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Should i follow the "dont text the guy" rule?

    Theres this guy who from day one that we began talking there was an obvious connection. We work together and last week I didnt work, during which we texted literally pretty much everyday and all day (even though he was working and is not supposed to have his cellphone out at all). It was to the point that we would text till one of us fell asleep and the following morning he would say sorry about that and a good morning text. The more we talked the more I became interested and it was obviously mutual...

    On Sunday he left for a trip with his youth group (which that day we texted all day till I ended since i wanted to sleep and had to go back to work tomorrow) he has this week off and I work this week :/. So he is on this trip, and yet i cant believe i actually miss talking to him but more seeing him hugging him. It is so tempting to text him tomorrow, but I also have a feeling i should follow the "let him text you" rule and be patient.

    Would it be bad to text him while he is on his trip?

    Does it mean anything bad if he doesnt text me at all while on this trip?

    8 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Possible Rebound... How should I Respond?

    I became interested in this guy at the end of the school year who was seemed very interested in me, but even though he asked my number he never texteed/called... and soon i see he has a girlfriend and it made sense. I wasnt hurt or anything or even upset. He definately was into me but i could understand/ respect his lack of contact if he was getting into a relationship. Also his girl friend was a girl many know as a user of nice guys when she is off with her on and off boyfriend so i knew it wouldnt last long and was hoping she just wouldnt ruin another sweet and nice guy. So... I was over it and had an "oh well" attitude.that is the background...

    3 weeks or so later (yesterday) facebook says they broke up and he follows it with this status "Well, my life more or less fell apart today, but at least I get to pick up the pieces and make something better of it."... i cant lie i kinda was a little happy but hoped she didnt hurt him too bad. Then today i get a text saying "Hey its [blank blank], I dont think i ever texted you after getting your number again haha" ( the again is because he messed my number up the first time and had asked me for it again)

    1. Am i his rebound?

    2. Should i go for it being that i still am interested

    3. How should i respond? ( a little sarcastic or sweet and act like i didnt notice?)

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • When a guy gives you his full attention?

    Theres this guy and it seems that no matter how small or big the conversation he seems to be seriously interested in whatever i have to say. Hell often ask how my day was and even if i can only give a quick answer he just gives this look that is as if he actually really cares.

    Do guys do this when they are just trying to be nice or is this a sign that hes interested?

    7 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Guys: which compliment is most flattering/touching?

    I want to compliment a guy im crushing on but want him to be touched or truly flatttered which would be most flattering for you?

    - you have a great/charming smile (or just an i love your smile)

    -you seem to be a really nice/charming/caring/sweet guy... i like that

    -youre really great with the kids, its really cute to watch (we work with children)

    or any other great suggestions would be loved

    and the slashed words are just different ways i would maybe say it

    which would make you smile or feel the most touched by from a girl

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Guys: which compliment is most flattering/touching?

    I want to compliment a guy im crushing on but want him to be touched or truly flatttered which would be most flattering for you?

    - you have a great/charming smile (or just an i love your smile)

    -you seem to be a really nice/charming/caring/sweet guy... i like that

    -youre really great with the kids, its really cute to watch (we work with children)

    or any other great suggestions would be loved

    and the slashed words are just different ways i would maybe say it

    which would make you smile or feel the most touched by from a girl

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • nice guy or interested?

    A guy i work with is soooo sweet and one of the nicest guys i have ever met.He is 20 and will be a junior in college and im 17 and will be a senior in high school. Ive only known him for a week or so and he's attractive but has a breathtaking smile that is often thrown my way. The time that we work together I am the head person in charge and he is pretty much my second in command (even though they are mostly all a bit older than me). He is always so quick to volunteer to do the things i ask, will take things off of my hands, or when things get crazy say something to comfort me. He always acknowledges me along with his gorgeous smile and will ask me questions particularly about myself when in groups or such. He also does little things such as bringing me my bag when i almost left it behind or whenever i say hi he always responds with the brightest and most sincere looking smile and a response equally bright. He also asked me about my future and what i want to be with sincere interest something that always takes me aback and he even wanted to walk with me

    up to the building when I first arrived even though their were several others also there waiting.

    We work with children and he definately appears to be a naturally sweet and nice guy but theres something in that smile and the way he looks at me when he does... i may just be really attracted to him or there may be some interest there on his part. And many people describe him as a nice and sweet guybut...

    DO you think there may be some interest there or is he just a nice guy?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • nice guy or interested?

    A guy i work with is soooo sweet and one of the nicest guys i have ever met. Ive only known him for a week or so and he's attractive but has a breathtaking smile that is often thrown my way. The time that we work together I am the head person in charge and he is pretty much my second in command (even though they are mostly all a bit older than me). He is always so quick to volunteer to do the things i ask, will take things off of my hands, or when things get crazy say something to comfort me. He always acknowledges me along with his gorgeous smile and will ask me questions particularly about myself when in groups or such. He also does little things such as bringing me my bag when i almost left it behind or whenever i say hi he always responds with the brightest and most sincere looking smile and a response equally bright. He also asked me about my future and what i want to be with sincere interest something that always takes me aback and he even wanted to walk with me

    up to the building when I first arrived even though their were several others also there waiting.

    We work with children and he definately appears to be a naturally sweet and nice guy but theres something in that smile and the way he looks at me when he does... i may just be really attracted to him or there may be some interest there on his part. And many people describe him as a nice and sweet guybut...

    DO you think there may be some interest there or is he just a nice guy?

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • nice guy or interested?

    A guy i work with is soooo sweet and one of the nicest guys i have ever met. Ive only known him for a week or so and he's attractive but has a breathtaking smile that is often thrown my way. The time that we work together I am the head person in charge and he is pretty much my second in command (even though they are mostly all a bit older than me). He is always so quick to volunteer to do the things i ask, will take things off of my hands, or when things get crazy say something to comfort me. He always acknowledges me along with his gorgeous smile and will ask me questions particularly about myself when in groups or such. He also does little things such as bringing me my bag when i almost left it behind or whenever i say hi he always responds with the brightest and most sincere looking smile and a response equally bright.

    We work with children and he definately appears to be a naturally sweet and nice guy but theres something in that smile and the way he looks at me when he does... i may just be really attracted to him or there may be some interest there on his part. And many people describe him as a nice and sweet guybut...

    DO you think there may be some interest there or is he just a nice guy?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • reasons a guy wouldnt call?

    There is this guy who seems extremely sweet yet quiet and slightly awkward in an adorable way. He was in my AP Calculus class all year but i only noticed him near the end (a funny story within itself) Afterwards i began to notice him and became interested and did little things like flirtaciously look at him or smile or little talk b/c i always seemed to have some friend or another pulling me away

    I didn't think he noticed or was interested till one day in the hall he says hey and tells me "i like your smile the best" he was referring to when i did an interview thing for a club about things guys like best about girls and he had answered her smile. I was taken aback and suprised and following it he awkwardly asked for my number in an awkward but adorable way...

    he never called...

    after what i thought was his last day at school i thought to add him on facebook and he accepted immediately and later sent a message saying he thinks he got my # wrong so i gave him the right one and we talked a little more (he even apologized for asking for my # in such an abrupt way)

    I happened to see him the next day on his last day of highschool( he graduated) and we walked together to the parking lot joking and talking till we hugged and he told me hed text me...

    he never did and its been maybe 5 days

    Should i be worried that he hasnt even texted me yet... is there a reason a guy would ask for a girls number but not text/call her?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Reasons why a guy wouldnt call?

    There is this guy who seems extremely sweet yet quiet and slightly awkward in an adorable way. He was in my AP Calculus class all year but i only noticed him near the end (a funny story within itself) Afterwards i began to notice him and became interested and did little things like flirtaciously look at him or smile or little talk b/c i always seemed to have some friend or another pulling me away

    I didn't think he noticed or was interested till one day in the hall he says hey and tells me "i like your smile the best" he was referring to when i did an interview thing for a club about things guys like best about girls and he had answered her smile. I was taken aback and suprised and following it he awkwardly asked for my number in an awkward but adorable way...

    he never called...

    after what i thought was his last day at school i thought to add him on facebook and he accepted immediately and later sent a message saying he thinks he got my # wrong so i gave him the right one and we talked a little more (he even apologized for asking for my # in such an abrupt way)

    I happened to see him the next day on his last day of highschool( he graduated) and we walked together to the parking lot joking and talking till we hugged and he told me hed text me...

    he never did and its been maybe 5 days

    Should i be worried that he hasnt even texted me yet... is there a reason a guy would ask for a girls number but not text/call her?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Reasons why a guy wouldnt call?

    There is this guy who seems extremely sweet yet quiet and slightly awkward in an adorable way. He was in my AP Calculus class all year but i only noticed him near the end (a funny story within itself) Afterwards i began to notice him and became interested and did little things like flirtaciously look at him or smile or little talk b/c i always seemed to have some friend or another pulling me away

    I didn't think he noticed or was interested till one day in the hall he says hey and tells me "i like your smile the best" he was referring to when i did an interview thing for a club about things guys like best about girls and he had answered her smile. I was taken aback and suprised and following it he awkwardly asked for my number in an awkward but adorable way...

    he never called...

    after what i thought was his last day at school i thought to add him on facebook and he accepted immediately and later sent a message saying he thinks he got my # wrong so i gave him the right one and we talked a little more (he even apologized for asking for my # in such an abrupt way)

    I happened to see him the next day on his last day of highschool( he graduated) and we walked together to the parking lot joking and talking till we hugged and he told me hed text me...

    he never did and its been maybe 5 days

    Should i be worried that he hasnt even texted me yet... is there a reason a guy would ask for a girls number but not text/call her?

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • He hasn't called but asked?

    There is this guy who seems extremely sweet yet quiet and slightly awkward in an adorable way. He was in my AP Calculus class all year but i only noticed him near the end (a funny story within itself) Afterwards i began to notice him and became interested and did little things like flirtaciously look at him or smile or little talk b/c i always seemed to have some friend or another pulling me away

    I didn't think he noticed or was interested till one day in the hall he says hey and tells me "i like your smile the best" he was referring to when i did an interview thing for a club about things guys like best about girls and he had answered her smile. I was taken aback and suprised and following it he awkwardly asked for my number in an awkward but adorable way...

    he never called...

    after what i thought was his last day at school i thought to add him on facebook and he accepted immediately and later sent a message saying he thinks he got my # wrong so i gave him the right one and we talked a little more (he even apologized for asking for my # in such an abrupt way)

    I happened to see him the next day on his last day of highschool( he graduated) and we walked together to the parking lot joking and talking till we hugged and he told me hed text me...

    he never did and its been maybe 5 days

    Should i be worried that he hasnt even texted me yet... is there a reason a guy would ask for a girls number but not text/call her?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Is it worth dating in highschool?

    So i have never had a serious relationship, but then again i am always annoyed by the fact that it seems guy after guy asre just looking for a "fling" and if i date someone i would want a relationship. Guys in highschool seem to all be either completely unserious or just looking for sex and if you dont plan on giving it up (like me im a virgin and plan on staying that way) i feel like they will either cheat on you or play you.... i may be being negaative right now... or maybe realistic but do you guys think its even worth dating in highschool or even in college if im looking for a more serious relationship (im a junior by the way). Whats your opinions/experiances?

    10 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Would this be a date?

    I suggested to my crush we hang out, and he said yeah and asked me where would i want to go so i jokingly listed off a bunch of things that ranged from the park to sky diving. He said being that his leg isnt too flexible right now (he ripped a tendon) that the movies sounded cool and what would i want to see....

    I had to cancel but i was wondering if this would have been a date?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago