I just wanted to actually inform you about what is going on with Haley. I know she hasn't told you everything, but there are some things that you really should know. Firstly, I want you to know that I really do truly love Haley. I know you've seen her cry and she's probably told you that I've hurt her and I'm sorry for that, I never meant to. But I also don't regret any of it. When I first met Haley she was cutting herself almost daily and she was surrounding herself with all of these things that were hurting her. She had friends that would put her on her last nerve and then when I said anything constructive to help her she would just lose it. You've done an incredible job with Haley and I thank you for allowing me to take her hand for the time that we were together. And the times you saw her cry were at times like when she was cursing or being inappropriate in public and I would tell her, or when I didn't give her a choice about taking honors classes, or when I told her how beautiful she was, but she needed to scrape the exploded parrot off of her face and show the world her natural beauty. I didn't set out to change her, I just tried to remove all of the bad things influencing her and help her become the best woman she can be. And when she tried drinking and smoking pot I told her to stop it, I never left her because I really do love her. I still love her and I miss her incredibly. And I know you are going to show her this and she'll probably never talk to me again, but this is important and something needs to change. I've been pushing Haley since I first met her and I am proud of all of things that are resulting from it. She would have never believed she'd have straight A's in all honors classes a year and a half ago. Also I want you to know that I only did the things I've done with Haley because I really care about her. I'm not saying we were always perfect, we had mini spats like every couple does, but there's something special to say about love when happiness is laying down and helping her with her math homework. All I care about is her safety and happiness. And even though I love her and I want her with me, this trumps that.
You should know that this other guy is no good for Haley. The second she broke up with me and was crying he stepped in and kissed her and now she's trying to subconsciously pick up with him where she left off with me. I've told her this and she agrees and yet she is continuing it. She had sex with him on their very first date. He is taking advantage of her and I don't know what to do, but tell you and hope that maybe you won't let her spend the night there anymore. It's not good for Haley at all. They don't even have any supervision when they are together and it allows him to pick her up and take advantage of her while still doing god only knows when they are apart. She is so vulnerable right now and this is just the ultimate worst thing that could possibly happen. She's been having a lot of trouble, she even cheated on me while we were together and I just forgave her and tried to understand why. And she's been cheating on him with me since this began. Haley is the most perfect person I've ever met, and I can't let someone step in and hurt her when I can see it happening and coming. She's confused right now, just like she was when she hurt herself, or chose bad friends, or smoked pot, or drank alcohol. The only difference is this time she left me out of the blue because I told her I wanted her to be safe and the air force wasn't a good line of work for her. I just can't get over how random and stupid that was and how she said that was her last straw. I'm not asking you to rip them apart, I'm asking you to please don't allow her to go there for the night only to get taken advantage of. No matter what you say or do, if she is there she will get taken advantage of. He's flattering her and telling her he loves her before they even saw each other alone. She doesn't even know what she's doing and I'm the only one that knows all of this and I want to help her. I asked her last weekend if there was anything that you don't let her do.. And she couldn't think of a single thing. This can't keep happening.
Haley is the first person I've ever dated, and I'm really poor at showing people how I feel. Before Haley I had never really cared for anyone in my entire life. I've never been able to make friends easily or tell people how I feel. My family just rejects emotions, like my parents have been together for all 15 years of my life and I've only seen them hug twice and I've never even seen them kiss. If there's one thing that Haley has taught me it is how to show someone I love them, and I've never broken a promise. I promised Haley I would always keep her safe, no matter what should ever happen. And I'