• Fafsa Renewal or start a new one?

    So my question is that for my fafsa should i renew my application or should I start a whole new application considering I made more money last year than the year before that.
    So my question is that for my fafsa should i renew my application or should I start a whole new application considering I made more money last year than the year before that.
    1 answer · Financial Aid · 4 years ago
  • Why can't I push myself to become a better me?

    For some reason I just cannot for the life of me push myself to become a better me. What I mean is like focusing more on school, learning more skills, becoming much more fit, eating a little more healthier reading different things so I can become better at conversation and overall knowledge of the world. I'm not inept or anything it's just... show more
    For some reason I just cannot for the life of me push myself to become a better me. What I mean is like focusing more on school, learning more skills, becoming much more fit, eating a little more healthier reading different things so I can become better at conversation and overall knowledge of the world. I'm not inept or anything it's just that I feel like I have no drive to even push myself or to even work for anything. I watch videos to try and get myself hyped up and it works for like 2minutes literally then i just don't care and don't do anything. Hell I can't even push myself to wash my dishes or even clean my house. Is there something psychologically wrong with me or something? I admit that it's my fault for not pushing myself but it's like I just cannot for the life of me get motivated in anything! I can't even get a girlfriend, I can't even motivate myself to even go out with friends. I just feel like a wandering entity. I really want to improve myself and my life but maybe I'm afraid of failure or something else I don't know.
    6 answers · Philosophy · 4 years ago
  • How can I improve my life?

    For a long time now I have been depressed and alone, I have friends but I don't really go out. Being in social situations makes me uncomfortable because I have nothing to say because I don't go out. I understand that changes have to come from my own will but I just can't, I'm 20 years old I'm broke and I work so much and so hard... show more
    For a long time now I have been depressed and alone, I have friends but I don't really go out. Being in social situations makes me uncomfortable because I have nothing to say because I don't go out. I understand that changes have to come from my own will but I just can't, I'm 20 years old I'm broke and I work so much and so hard for these bills with no help at all. I have no money to even buy clothes and no money to go out. When co workers invite me for a drink or to just chill I just freak out inside. Normally I'm cheerful, fun and hilarious to be around but I'm afraid that when I get invited I'll be quiet and a grump and nobody likes that. I don't know what to do I'm scared of spending money and I'm afraid of being in social situations, I'm even afraid of looking for a new better job because this retail ish just isn't cutting it and I'm getting less and less hours. I have no motivation, no drive no will. I can't even get a girlfriend and I'm not even an unattractive person and have actually been complimented on my style and looks. And I know this may all seem self centered but I just want to stop waking up every morning hoping I'll die on my way to work or that the junk food I'll eat will kill me because walking around with a smile on my face everyday pretending I'm happy is just killing me slowly. I just want some help, some guidance I feel so stagnated I have no friends in school considering my school is so bad and literally nobody stays around to hang out they all just commute back home. I'm not even a bad person I do my best to be kind to others and I know for a fact I'm kind and loyal person I just don't understand how I ended up like this. None of my co workers can even believe I have never had a girlfriend. I feel like my life is in shambles and I have no way to vent to besides playing video games all day long please help :(
    5 answers · Psychology · 4 years ago
  • Did I cause problems for my dad and myself?

    I did my taxes and filed as independent and my dad filed his and claimed me. Thing is he doesnt live with me or my sister but he claimed us. I'm 20 and my sister is 19. He said that since i filed indpendent that that is going to cause problems because I'm going to college on his taxes and so is my sister even though she got a full ride. I... show more
    I did my taxes and filed as independent and my dad filed his and claimed me. Thing is he doesnt live with me or my sister but he claimed us. I'm 20 and my sister is 19. He said that since i filed indpendent that that is going to cause problems because I'm going to college on his taxes and so is my sister even though she got a full ride. I have financial aid, would I actually have to pay back all 3 years of the aid because I filed as independent? (I did my W-2 2012) Help I'm actually kinda freaking out here Additional Details I recieved a grant FAFSA and TAP
    4 answers · United States · 5 years ago
  • Did I cause problems for my dad and myself?

    I did my taxes and filed as independent and my dad filed his and claimed me. Thing is he doesnt live with me or my sister but he claimed us. I'm 20 and my sister is 19. He said that since i filed indpendent that that is going to cause problems because I'm going to college on his taxes and so is my sister even though she got a full ride. I... show more
    I did my taxes and filed as independent and my dad filed his and claimed me. Thing is he doesnt live with me or my sister but he claimed us. I'm 20 and my sister is 19. He said that since i filed indpendent that that is going to cause problems because I'm going to college on his taxes and so is my sister even though she got a full ride. I have financial aid, would I actually have to pay back all 3 years of the aid because I filed as independent? (I did my W-2 2012) Help I'm actually kinda freaking out here
    4 answers · United States · 5 years ago
  • Is it possible to be so depressed that when bad things happen it's almost like you just don't care?

    I know theres people out there that have it worse than me but I'm just sick of life i would also like to know if there are any painless ways to commit suicide as well I'm sick of living and I have nothing and no one to live for. I've been wanting to die for 6 years I'm 20 now and no matter how many times I try to be positive it... show more
    I know theres people out there that have it worse than me but I'm just sick of life i would also like to know if there are any painless ways to commit suicide as well I'm sick of living and I have nothing and no one to live for. I've been wanting to die for 6 years I'm 20 now and no matter how many times I try to be positive it doesn't work so pleas don't tell me life gets better cause it doesn't it just gets worse.
    4 answers · Other - Family & Relationships · 5 years ago
  • Does school determine how successful you will be in life?

    It feels that everything I do I just fail miserably in it I have never been good at anything in my life I'm a junior in college going into a psych major because I don't know what I want or what my passion is. I've spoken with 4 counselors and all of them have caused me to pick something that i think I like but ultimately find... show more
    It feels that everything I do I just fail miserably in it I have never been good at anything in my life I'm a junior in college going into a psych major because I don't know what I want or what my passion is. I've spoken with 4 counselors and all of them have caused me to pick something that i think I like but ultimately find uninteresting. I have a statistics final tomorrow that I know I will fail and I have failed every test in that class. It's like everything that involves math I cannot comprehend it's just so DIFFICULT!!!! Anything that involves math I tend to just give up and pick up a controller instead and forget about it. It makes my head spin and confuses me. I wake up every morning dreading my life because I can just feel myself falling closer to failure and I want to kill myself everytime I go to school and work and I don't want to work in a retail store my whole life I want a good job which I can support myself. And no matter how hard I try it's never enough. I have no idea what to do after college I'm scared and depressed about it I don't know what I'm supposed to do next. I just really want to die so I don't have to deal with any of this I don't have anybody to help me I'm all alone.
    1 answer · Psychology · 5 years ago
  • Would this tv be good for xbox 360?

    I'm thinking of buying this tv its cheap and i mostly just game and watch netflix or hulu on my tv I don't know much about televisions and I don't have a lot of money. As long as I can game and watch hulu and netflix I'm ok with that I don't need the superior #1 picture quality. If it's clear and if I can actually read the... show more
    I'm thinking of buying this tv its cheap and i mostly just game and watch netflix or hulu on my tv I don't know much about televisions and I don't have a lot of money. As long as I can game and watch hulu and netflix I'm ok with that I don't need the superior #1 picture quality. If it's clear and if I can actually read the words from the subtitles in the game and if it doesn't mess up I'll be happy. http://www.bestbuy.com/site/Insignia%26%... http://www.bestbuy.com/site/Toshiba+-+32...
    4 answers · Xbox · 5 years ago
  • Why does everyone think I'm lazy or a slacker?

    I don't get it, I work in retail and I work my @$$ off and i sweat bullets and I cut my hours off dramatically because I saw what it did to me and my grades last semester. I also overheard one guy say "what's the point of him working just 4hrs just go home it's a waste of time" I try to not let it bother me but it just reaches... show more
    I don't get it, I work in retail and I work my @$$ off and i sweat bullets and I cut my hours off dramatically because I saw what it did to me and my grades last semester. I also overheard one guy say "what's the point of him working just 4hrs just go home it's a waste of time" I try to not let it bother me but it just reaches that point, and I have low self esteem but I don't show it so it never seems like it because I'm always joking around or smiling. And the thing is, if I work 9hrs my boss tends to put me in the shoe area so if I'm fixing up the shoes because it's always a mess my co workers say I'm lazy and say, "oh look he's doing nothing." The funny thing is my boss said I make the shoes look great so he asked me if I can come fix them on mondays and do nothing but that, but in the end I'm doing everyone's jobs considering i never even scheduled myself on mondays, i did it out of goodwill. And also when I don't work on it people complain that the shoes are a mess and that I should work on it. It feels impossible because everyone is telling me to do this and that and it's like they hate it that I work like 4 hrs and a 6 max. I gave myself that schedule with the intention of not even getting too many hours so i could focus on school but people still say I'm lazy. :( I even lost my $300 ipod going to work on sunday just because i agreed to help out regardless of the fact I got home at 2am and only had 1 hr of sleep and had to go back to work right after. I also work in a busy store and it gets stressful in the afternoons.
    3 answers · Other - Society & Culture · 5 years ago
  • What's wrong with me? Am I a loser?

    I'm 19 years old never had a girlfriend, I'm also a junior in college I don't know what to major in and I wake up everyday wanting and hoping that I'll die but I don't. I go to school full time and then I work part time right after. I don't party or have many friends and I don't hang out much. I have a social mask that I... show more
    I'm 19 years old never had a girlfriend, I'm also a junior in college I don't know what to major in and I wake up everyday wanting and hoping that I'll die but I don't. I go to school full time and then I work part time right after. I don't party or have many friends and I don't hang out much. I have a social mask that I wear and people assume I'm always happy, but I'm not. I live by myself and I have a sister but she dorms at her university and my college has been a terrible experience the people are unsociable and horrible including the staff and nobody interacts with each other. And if they do the first question ALWAYS is, "Do you like this school are you going to transfer?" I don't pay for rent my dad does but I pay for the rest of the bills and fend for myself. Ever since my mom died 2 years ago I've slowly become lost. Basically I ask this to know your honest opinion because I see my sister and see that she has all these people around her and I see her looking at me pretty much sad and quiet. I have listened to her talk and I've consoled her during our mother's death and pushed her through it and have always been there and all the advice I give her she's listened to and it's helped her yet I can't even help myself. Everything I do I ALWAYS mess up no matter what I always try until I can't but I hate to disappoint and I feel like I have disappointed my sister by becoming who I am now. I don't get angry but I do get frustrated not with others but at myself I feel like I am depressed but I don't know if I have other mental problems and it scares me. Sometimes I just want to die. Would you be embarrassed to have a brother like me? Sorry for the long post.
    4 answers · Psychology · 5 years ago
  • What does this dream mean?

    I had a weird dream last night and I woke up from it and I was like what the hell...? So what happened was that I came home idk from where and I saw that my room was messy and I was like w/e I'll fix it later I started playing some video games and then I see a snake and I'm like whoa wtf! I continue playing video games and then I fall... show more
    I had a weird dream last night and I woke up from it and I was like what the hell...? So what happened was that I came home idk from where and I saw that my room was messy and I was like w/e I'll fix it later I started playing some video games and then I see a snake and I'm like whoa wtf! I continue playing video games and then I fall asleep. I wake up a little later and I see a vast amount of snakes every where in my room and these aren't just snakes these are cobras and then one of them spits acid at me and I protect myself with some shroud or sheet. After that I rushed in grabbed it and chopped it's head off. I walk back in the room and still see more cobras and snakes and I look back and I see some family and friends behind me they all look at me and I just walk out. I also saw my dead mother among them. I have no idea what this dream means besides that I probably gotta clean my room a bit lol. But I'm just curious as to what are people's thoughts might be referring to this dream.
    2 answers · Dream Interpretation · 5 years ago
  • Is it possible to be a born loser?

    So pretty much, everything I do I fail at. Never had a girlfriend don't know what I want to major in or where my life is going. I've also been working a retail job for a year and I still suck at it. My general manager even said I horrible and everything I do. I'm a terrible conversationalist and pretty much lost the confidence that... show more
    So pretty much, everything I do I fail at. Never had a girlfriend don't know what I want to major in or where my life is going. I've also been working a retail job for a year and I still suck at it. My general manager even said I horrible and everything I do. I'm a terrible conversationalist and pretty much lost the confidence that I've had. I dress nice and I'm also attractive not hot just average I guess, I'm actually pretty funny and get along well with people, I don't get angry but I get frustrated but it's usually because of myself and what I mess up. I also tend to smile like all the time but recently it's just been gone I go to work and it just doesn't feel the same and I feel my shy self just taking over again and I don't really talk much to people there. I also don't have many friends because I'm afraid of it being boring because of me. I also try to be positive and just be glad that I go to college but I get frustrated, scared and depressed because I'm going to be a junior and I don't really know what I want to do. But the thing is it frustrates me that people always tell me to ask my little sister for help and be like her considering she goes to Columbia University and I go to a terrible 4 year school. And my school is one of the worst in CUNY. Everything I do and everything that I have done has been all a failure I'm terrible at everything and I try and stay positive but sometimes I just feel like breaking down and just giving up, I don't know why I even try. I wanted to major in video game design but my school doesn't offer it and I also wanted to do acting but I wouldn't really say I'd qualify for i considering I'm like 5'8 and just giving up everything for acting just scares me and I'm just not sure if it's a risk I'd like to take. I just want to know if there are people out there that are in the same situation as me and how they deal with it or some people that can just give me advice. I feel like I'm at my breaking point, acting positive and smiling just isn't working out for me anymore.
    5 answers · Psychology · 5 years ago
  • Why do I work so slow at my job?

    Today I was supposed to fix like maybe 7 or 8 shelves i fixed about half and I wasn't supposed to come in today but my manager saw that i did an amazing job on another shelf and wanted me to come in the next to do the other shelf. So basically today I was working on the shelf but I was moving so slow and all my other co workers were like damn... show more
    Today I was supposed to fix like maybe 7 or 8 shelves i fixed about half and I wasn't supposed to come in today but my manager saw that i did an amazing job on another shelf and wanted me to come in the next to do the other shelf. So basically today I was working on the shelf but I was moving so slow and all my other co workers were like damn you still there? I think I'm lazy but when it comes to my job I'm not. While I was doing the shelves I started to panic because everything was so messed up and I had to undo what I did and redo it several times. But in general I work so slow at everything sometimes my managers joke around with me and say let's go c'mon faster speed it up! Thing is I don't want to mess anything up so I want to get it right. And I look at everyone else do their job and they do totally fine and don't really get yelled at. I also suck at following directions and I have bad listening. Is there something wrong with me? Also I work in a clothing store in a high shopper area, so they do expect a lot lol.
    1 answer · Other - Careers & Employment · 6 years ago
  • Why do I work so slow at my job?

    Today I was supposed to fix like maybe 7 or 8 shelves i fixed about half and I wasn't supposed to come in today but my manager saw that i did an amazing job on another shelf and wanted me to come in the next to do the other shelf. So basically today I was working on the shelf but I was moving so slow and all my other co workers were like damn... show more
    Today I was supposed to fix like maybe 7 or 8 shelves i fixed about half and I wasn't supposed to come in today but my manager saw that i did an amazing job on another shelf and wanted me to come in the next to do the other shelf. So basically today I was working on the shelf but I was moving so slow and all my other co workers were like damn you still there? I think I'm lazy but when it comes to my job I'm not. While I was doing the shelves I started to panic because everything was so messed up and I had to undo what I did and redo it several times. But in general I work so slow at everything sometimes my managers joke around with me and say let's go c'mon faster speed it up! Thing is I don't want to mess anything up so I want to get it right. And I look at everyone else do their job and they do totally fine and don't really get yelled at. I also suck at following directions and I have bad listening. Is there something wrong with me? Also I work in a clothing store in a high shopper area, so they do expect a lot lol.
    1 answer · Other - Careers & Employment · 6 years ago
  • Should I quit my job?

    I got transferred to a new store because the old one i used to work at closed down. So I pretty much got here to the new one and I have got to know my co workers and they seem pretty cool but the thought of quitting my job has been running through my head. I'm 19 years old and I pay my electricity bill and internet which usually comes to $100+ I... show more
    I got transferred to a new store because the old one i used to work at closed down. So I pretty much got here to the new one and I have got to know my co workers and they seem pretty cool but the thought of quitting my job has been running through my head. I'm 19 years old and I pay my electricity bill and internet which usually comes to $100+ I get financial aid from school but what I am worried about is my classes. Currently I hate all my classes and I'm doing pretty bad I have failed 3 of my midterms not sure about the other one but I'm pretty sure I failed that one too. My job gives me ridiculous hours and sometimes I barely get any sleep and end up falling asleep in my math class to which I know sleep during my 2 hr break. I find myself too tired to study and sometimes end up sleeping. I know that getting a retail job isn't hard but I just feel bad that I kinda just got there and now I want to leave. Today I work and tomorrow I have an optional test for one of my midterms that I failed so I can get +30 points on my midterm if I do good. But I don't have time to study for it because I'm going to finish work pretty late and will most likely pull an all nighter. My friend told me "If something crosses your mind, you should probably do it it." Which I guess is sort of like when you see a girl and you think she's a dude, she's probably a dude. Anyways what would you guys do? Should I quit to focus on my schoolwork?
    2 answers · Other - Education · 6 years ago
  • Is it possible to monkey flip somebody from a clinch?

    Let's say somebody has you in a clinch position is it possible to monkey flip them. For example they have you clinched so you drop your weight put your feet on their chest and flip them backwards, would this work? I'm just curious lol.
    Let's say somebody has you in a clinch position is it possible to monkey flip them. For example they have you clinched so you drop your weight put your feet on their chest and flip them backwards, would this work? I'm just curious lol.
    1 answer · Martial Arts · 6 years ago
  • Does the itouch need itunes to download music?

    Can you download music straight from your itouch without using itunes or any a laptop/computer just download hundreds if not thousands or millions of songs from your itouch?
    Can you download music straight from your itouch without using itunes or any a laptop/computer just download hundreds if not thousands or millions of songs from your itouch?
    2 answers · Music & Music Players · 6 years ago
  • Is it possible to be a police officer with a business degree?

    I live in New York and I think I want to be a cop, I've been struggling with what career I want and I think that this career is for me as it is adventurous you can work alone or with others and it varies to office job to field work. To me it doesn't matter that this job is dangerous but I'm starting to feel that it suits me and I feel... show more
    I live in New York and I think I want to be a cop, I've been struggling with what career I want and I think that this career is for me as it is adventurous you can work alone or with others and it varies to office job to field work. To me it doesn't matter that this job is dangerous but I'm starting to feel that it suits me and I feel like I want to cause a change even a small one. Besides, I've always wanted to be a modern day hero lol =p Police officers have a large effect on the lives of others and I want to provide that and hopefully some people will remember me for something good. Thanks
    4 answers · Law Enforcement & Police · 6 years ago
  • Is Advertising a good career path to take?

    I live in New York and I'm wondering if Advertising is a good career path to take how is the pay is it a stable job during this economy? I've researched a bit on this so I'm just asking to find out more. What will I need to be a good advertiser also I can't draw I know it plays a part in advertising so yeah also whats a normal day... show more
    I live in New York and I'm wondering if Advertising is a good career path to take how is the pay is it a stable job during this economy? I've researched a bit on this so I'm just asking to find out more. What will I need to be a good advertiser also I can't draw I know it plays a part in advertising so yeah also whats a normal day for an advertiser. Thanks!
    3 answers · Marketing & Sales · 6 years ago