My ex and I broke up when my son was 9 months old, he continued to see our son regularly but would disappear for a few months any time we had a row (usually when i asked him for money as he does not contribute anything, only the £2.50 a week the child support agency forcibly take from his jobseekers allowance!!). Anyway he has been seeing him regularly now for a year but is not a great dad ie. never takes him anywhere, buys him anything, does anything fun with him in fact my son often tells me his dad has fallen asleep on the sofa and left him to it. Anyway my boyfriend moved in with us 3 months ago and he is brilliant with my son, he plays with him all the time, takes him out, shows him love gives im cuddles all the time and is basically everything that his dad should have been. Since he moved in though my son doesnt want to see his dad. We have in no way tried to encourage it or for my bf to take his dads place but i think my son now sees what his dad should be doing with him. now everytime his dad coems to pick him up (every toher saturday) my son gets more and more upset, saying he doesnt like him and doesnt want to see him anymore, when he eventually goes with him he is screaming and crying. last week my ex brought him back after 10 minutes and just left him , no goodbye or nothing. now i dont know what to do, my ex has not called since and if he turns up next week i dont know what i should do, if my son was older id let him make up his own mind about seeing him but he is only 3. any suggestions? my friend said i should make him come t our house to see him so my son can get used to him but he is used to him he has seen him regularly with no problems it seems hes just decided he doesnt like him!